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After strip club experience I can't think of being with women now

Q.   I got a question, whats so great about sex all my freinds talk about sex all the time that and how to get more money im so tired of hearing it they make it seem like its the best thing in the world basicaly they make it sound liek water or air. ...

A.   15 August 2009: Why don't you try not going to strip clubs and not watching porn and see if your attitude towards women changes? It almost sounds like your feeding negative images of women into your head so that you have an excuse to be turned off by them.... (read in full...)

My husband was seen with a male dominator, how do I resolve this? I don't want to give up on my marriage!

Q.   My husband told me he had to go to an important work party, and I believed him. He put on one of his nicest business suits. I got a phone call that same night from a friend of mine who was at a fancy dress party, who said she'd seen my husband ...

A.   14 August 2009: Could you at least opt for a trial separation? Time enough for him to admit his fetish to you and allow him to decide if it's something he's willing to give up or if it's something you're willing to live with. Believe me, it's a lot less painful and ... (read in full...)

I am considering losing my virginity to a prostitute. What do you think?

Q.   Should I sleep with a prostitute? Well I’m new to this site and thought it might be able to help me with my problem: you see I’m 23 and still a virgin. The thing is, I don’t mind that so much because I’ve always valued my virginity and se...

A.   14 August 2009: First of all when you have high standards finding the right person can seem impossible. Most people have low standards which is why they find so many people willing to sleep with them. Keep your standards and your morals and when the right person ... (read in full...)

Just how insulting to men with erection troubles can women be?

Q.   I lost my erection about a month ago and my wife is just on my back all the time about it. Why can't she just leave me alone while I work this out? She's got a damn' vibrator, is it too much to ask that she backs off? And for that matter, why do ...

A.   14 August 2009: I think it's insensitive for your wife to harass you over your ED. However, just as a man feels responsible when his female partner doesn't orgasm your wife may feel responsible for your ED (like all of a sudden you're not attracted to her ... (read in full...)

I've been told I am a little feminine, do women find this attractive?

Q.   Hey, does girls find a guy who behave little like a woman attractive? Well its just that some of my girl friends usually drop a joking statement that i behave like a lady. But not the way i walk cos i walk like guy. But they say its the way i laugh,...

A.   14 August 2009: I appreciate a guy who's a little feminine if it's in certain areas. Like my bf likes to cook, shop, decorate, talk, etc. And he actually does walk a little feminine now that I think about it. I'm not crazy over that, haha. But in response to ... (read in full...)

Naked photos of women on my boyfriends phone and lack of sex are making me think he is just not that into me!

Q.   about 6 months ago I found a naked photo of my boyfriends ex wife in his phone. We had been together about 6 years at this stage. He told me it was an old photo from years ago but his phone was only new - so either it was a new photo or he had ...

A.   14 August 2009: My personal opinion is that any behavior that is out of the ordinary is suspicious and shouldn't be ignored. It's hard to accept things we don't want to believe and no one wants to be labeled the "psycho-girlfriend" but I think there's something ... (read in full...)

Negative sexual experiences affecting current relationship

Q.   I won't go into details, but a few years ago I had some really bad sexual experiences. I've been with my current boyfriend for a little over 5 months now and things are fantastic between us. We also have amazing sex, and a lot of it. Recently, ...

A.   14 August 2009: I can't relate to your situation at all but I do relate to the pain and anger. I don't know if counseling is an option for you but you definitely need someone with experience in what you're going through to help you get through this. It is very ... (read in full...)

I'm In a terribly sad place in my marriage, and want to leave, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do

Q.   I am in a terribly sad place and am looking for any advice from people who may have been through something similar. I was married in 1991 when I was 24 to a woman that is a few years older. Since then we have had 2 wonderful kids and lived a ...

A.   14 August 2009: I didn't take time to read the other responses, so, forgive me if I repeat anyone. I was in a similar situation, I was the more submissive one and my husband was the controlling one. He wasn't physically abusive but I was totally controlled by his ... (read in full...)

I've found out my wife is a slut

Q.   Hello everyone. I'm 20 years old and my wife is 33 as of August 2, 2009. I just found out Saturday night August 8, 2009, that, well what I believe is a slut. She told over her 32 years of living she has had, 14 sexual partners. Some were one night ...

A.   12 August 2009: I have a lot of thoughts on this question but I'll focus on one. Your wife is 33, right? IF she had her first sexual experience when she was 20, which is doubtful, then she's had an average of 1 sexual partner per year. That's not my definition ... (read in full...)

Why is she ignoring me???

Q.   Hey so i just got a phone finally yay i got a few weeks ago! Anyways so i have this best freind who always texts she texts 24/7 and she always has her phone on and with her so when i got my phone i texted her the first day and we talked an talked ...

A.   12 August 2009: I'm a lot older than you, so my first response is to recommend that you ignore her and don't worry about the fact that she's kind of being a jerk. But one approach is to just ask her if you did anything to upset her. If she says "no" then try ... (read in full...)

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