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Do most infidelities go undiscovered?

Q.   Hi there. Some of you may find my question strange but here goes. What I would like to know is do the majority of infidelities go undiscovered? I am studying psychology and I am really interested in this subject and I am in no way asking this ...

A.   31 May 2011: I think an important factor is were you live and what people do you mingle with. For instance, if you live in a small town or small city, it is common that many people know each other somehow. Social networks get very mixed up in such places. ... (read in full...)

We're attracted, she wants a relationship, and I only want sex

Q.   I met a chinese girl in my seminar group at university.We are both attracted to each other.The only problem is that I think she wants a serious realtionship whereas I would like sex.I don't see a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship because we differ ...

A.   18 January 2011: So some months ago I was exactly in your same position. I liked this girl a lot, but in reality I was just interested in dating and having a sexual experience. Our backgrounds and personalities seemed different and I couldn't see a future for a ... (read in full...)

Am I abnormal or just introverted?

Q.   I have friends, and a boyfriend. I'm only 15. Yet whenever I'm with people, I just don't enjoy it. I don't make an effort to talk to people, they talk to me but I just don't get why I don't like talking to them. Am I abnormal or just introverted? ...

A.   18 January 2011: Ok, so if you're asking for professional tips or help, I don't think I have any. There are some exercises like NLP and stuff that say help you change your mentality. My personal opinion is that all of that is just crap. If you're not liking y... (read in full...)

Am I abnormal or just introverted?

Q.   I have friends, and a boyfriend. I'm only 15. Yet whenever I'm with people, I just don't enjoy it. I don't make an effort to talk to people, they talk to me but I just don't get why I don't like talking to them. Am I abnormal or just introverted? ...

A.   31 December 2010: The answer is simple: Talk to people. I wonder how did you get a boyfriend if you don't talk to anyone? I don't know if you are just spoiled and think everyone has to approach you or if it is that you are just too shy. Anyway, you're very y... (read in full...)

My boyfriend HATES affection.Should I seriously reconsider this relationship?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years....he hates affection. I on the other hand am very, very affectionate. We are both in our early 30's and there have been talks about getting married in the future but I'm not sure that I can marry ...

A.   31 December 2010: He says that you have to assume/deduct/infer he loves you!!! That's just a bunch of crap. If he can't tell you straight forward he loves you and look into your eyes, then you're just waisting your time. Dump his ass.... (read in full...)

Men: If your woman is satisfying you, why do you need porn?

Q.   Ok first off, I’m not married, but I keep having this fear of my future husband watching porn. I understand that most men watch porn but why? If your woman is satisfying you why do you need it? Many men say they need variety, but is that fair? Women ...

A.   31 December 2010: Once again... I think you're thinking too much about this. It's simple, no science behind all this, no tricks, no mysterious reason. It's just GOOD. You're over thinking this. Besides, you are comparing two totally different things. You wan... (read in full...)

Am I just another "Mr. Nice guy, unfit for girls".

Q.   Dear everyone, Wishing you all a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! This is going to be a bit long, I apologize. Please forgive me if it tests your patience. At the end of typing this I realized I was simply venting out, so probably you ...

A.   30 December 2010: I see I'm not the only one who feels lonely from time to time. It sucks, I know, so I decided to focus on my career and live life and let every day bring new experiences. What I'm thinking, and this is my personal opinion, is that turning ... (read in full...)

What do I do with her?

Q.   I honestly was wondering,how do i stop being so blind to the world and start enjoying it? I will be honest, I have tired once now to tell her how i felt during a situation, she just didn't respond, she just gave a blank look and walked away. We ...

A.   30 December 2010: It's tough to let go of a person you care about so much. I know it's a cliché and the usual crap people tell but it's true: time kinda patches things up. Just chill for a bit and slowly try to let go. I've noticed your age and you're young... (read in full...)

Do men still think sexually about their exs?

Q.   Trying to get over break up. I know that I do not want him back, yet I feel I am obsessed with wanting to know what he is up to etc. Facebook is EVIL! Anyway, I have changed my privacy settings so he can't see my updates etc, looks like he did ...

A.   30 December 2010: I'm really not an expert on relationship but from an honest guy point of view, the simplest of answers is YES. A lot of us guys, tend to think sexually about women we dated. Let's be honest here, is not a guy thing... it's a human thing and wome... (read in full...)

My boyfriend deleted his porn collection. Is he serious about it or just pretending?

Q.   My boyfriend deleted his porn collection from his P.C. I never asked him to. Earlier on we was watching a program, with asian girls on it. I called him a hypocrite for defending them, when he calls so many types people. So in our arguementhe deleted ...

A.   30 December 2010: You argued because of porn?? That's just absurd. It's just simply adult entertainment. If you really say you don't mind... maybe you could watch something together? If you're not into that... well you could always watch erotica or somethin... (read in full...)

Men: If your woman is satisfying you, why do you need porn?

Q.   Ok first off, I’m not married, but I keep having this fear of my future husband watching porn. I understand that most men watch porn but why? If your woman is satisfying you why do you need it? Many men say they need variety, but is that fair? Women ...

A.   30 December 2010: I see no problem as a man watching porn. From my point of view is just as simple as classifying it as adult entertainment. Ask any guy, its fun, its pleasurable, its just GOOD. I mean, there is no danger to watch porn. Masturbating is natural and ... (read in full...)

I don't think I could be just her friend as I like her too much.

Q.   One, before anything else... i suck at dating... Two, sorry for writing too much... but its because of #1 I've met a girl last December and we've been dating since January. It seems to me she was of the caring and loving kind. So as we started t...

A.   11 March 2010: and oh.. yeah.. she just blocked me on MSN... how bout that friendship??!!!... (read in full...)

I don't think I could be just her friend as I like her too much.

Q.   One, before anything else... i suck at dating... Two, sorry for writing too much... but its because of #1 I've met a girl last December and we've been dating since January. It seems to me she was of the caring and loving kind. So as we started t...

A.   11 March 2010: @strongfp: its kinda curious we ended up in similar situations, and that's perfect feedback for me. In fact, she is quite a bit younger than me, too. I have to say I felt very bad about this still today, but I'm starting to "feel" the logic of... (read in full...)

I don't think I could be just her friend as I like her too much.

Q.   One, before anything else... i suck at dating... Two, sorry for writing too much... but its because of #1 I've met a girl last December and we've been dating since January. It seems to me she was of the caring and loving kind. So as we started t...

A.   11 March 2010: @janniepeg: you're totally right.. the mystery is gone. But I get the feeling that maybe she did it to see if I come back??? and if I do it would be on her conditions??? By taking charge you mean I should get with her again? I feel I already w... (read in full...)

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