Do married men ever leave their wives for the younger girls they are cheating with?
Q. Do married men ever leave their wives for the younger girls they are sleeping with? in what circumstances. why? ...
A. 20 July 2008: Yeah they do. My partner left me and my three kids for the mistress and they are still together now. She offered him alot in the bedroom, things I wouldnt do such as threesomes. I am finally glad to be rid of him though. He's the loser not me I ... (read in full...)
My husband's old ex-girlfriend is everywhere, I feel neglected by friends and family, am I over reacting, please help??
Q. My husband and I have been together for 10 years. We have 2 small children and despite a few bumps we are happy. My husbands first love was a girl at school whom he was with for 3 years. He finished with her because she cheated on him alot and ...
A. 9 July 2008: Have you tried becoming her friend? Maybe this is the answer. You seem to have some demons that you need to face. You say 'I don't have a problem with her being his ex but more so that she seems to have more status within my circle of friends than I ... (read in full...)
I'd like to save my marrige - but it feels like it's only me trying.
Q. I'm confused! My husband cheated on me numerous of times (5) I got herpes from him, separated for nine months almost got divorced and dicided to give our kids one more chance to have mom and dad together. And now after being 5 years back together I ...
A. 3 July 2008: Id say to leave the relationship. This is no good and is unfair to you as well as the children. The children are always the main importance and I can understand why you would want to stay with him for there sake but is it worth it?
Somet... (read in full...)
Can a muslim where a scarf to cover her hair?
Q. Hi,im really passionate about being a hairdresser and beautician but i was wondering if your a muslim and you want to wear a scarf to cover your hair,can you?thanks....
A. 17 June 2008: I am confused about your questions. Earlier you posted how you could be aa good muslim wife. You are not giving much history to your questions and I am not aure we are the people to ask. If you go to a mosque you should ask there or asked fellow ... (read in full...)
Is having sex with prostitutes a bad idea when you're a beginner like I am?
Q. is having sex with prostitutes a bad idea when your a beginner like me? ive only ever had sex with prostitutes because i cant get girls any other way. they have no interest in clubs, pubs or any where else, there always horrible to me and call me ...
A. 17 June 2008: yes!... (read in full...)
Any tips on being a good Muslim wife?
Q. hi, does anyone know any tips on how to be a good muslim wife? thanks....
A. 17 June 2008: Firstly make sure you are muslim! then everything else will fall into place.... (read in full...)
It's the first time I have seen (via the Net) how my ex is developing as a mother and I'm devastated that we are not together. How will I cope when the baby is born?
Q. i have been to counciling now for 3 weeks and it seems to be helping but today i feel devastated. I have hardly any contact with my ex who is expecting in november at all now. The only contact is seeing her post new pics on her facebook. It was her ...
A. 16 June 2008: Wow! Sorry to here that hun! There are always two sides to every story and the arguements must have been pretty heavy for her to make that choice. However, all couples argue and that is a big step for her to decide to go it alone.
I reckon t... (read in full...)
It's the first time I have seen (via the Net) how my ex is developing as a mother and I'm devastated that we are not together. How will I cope when the baby is born?
Q. i have been to counciling now for 3 weeks and it seems to be helping but today i feel devastated. I have hardly any contact with my ex who is expecting in november at all now. The only contact is seeing her post new pics on her facebook. It was her ...
A. 15 June 2008: Why did you break up? who broke up with who?... (read in full...)
I cheated on him but don't feel guilty, am I crazy?
Q. First of all, I am a good girl. The girl most likely to succeed, least likely to ever do anything wrong. I have often been picked on by others for being so straight laced. The other night, however, I cheated on my boyfriend. I would say that I...
A. 3 June 2008: You just sound very self centered to me and it is as if you dont trully know yourself or what you really want. If you was not afraid of leaving him then you would have left him already. You are obviously afraid of something or are insecure. The ... (read in full...)
Inflamed lip on vagina, what could this be?
Q. Anyone please help, I've noticed that I have an immflammed right flap on my vagina. I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend because I'm on the pill but he is clean I think. What could this be? Please help I'm really worried.!! Thanks....
A. 31 May 2008: Sounds like thrush. Is it itchy? if yes? use canesten (quite expensive to buy but marvellous). If it doesnt go away in a day or two then go to the doctor because if it is an std it is better to catch it early.
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How to get over a partner where you have children together ?
Q. Hi Im just wondering if anyone has any tips on how to get over a partner where you have children together and so have to see them at handover times and have to listen to news and stories about him and be enthusiatic to the children. My ex has gone ...
A. 8 May 2008: I wondered the same thing and I am still getting over the heartache of my partner leaving me for someone else although we were childhood sweethearts. There are many ways to do this but it is a very slow process. How old are the children? and how ... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair but seems to show little remorse!
Q. My husband had an affair but seems to show little remorse. He says according to Darwins theory he is just an alpha male and i should be glad to be with him, and he will continue to sleep with as many women as he can. I do love him but i find his ...
A. 8 May 2008: He is in his comfort zone. He feels as though he has got you where he wants you. He knows you will except his behaviour so he disrespects you. You need to get a backbone and leave him alone. He has grown up as a christian so knows that adultery is ... (read in full...)
Who do you think passed on the infection? I feel so alone, trapped, scared and stupid...
Q. I now have an STD. I feel soooo unlucky. Since my ex left me for the other women i tried to move on from him. I met someone at a bbq and 6 months later we slept together. The condom came off inside me (I dont think it fit him correctly). He also ...
A. 1 May 2008: Thankyou everyone for your advice. I got my test results back today and as suspected I have got herpes simplex BUT luckily it is type 1 (the milder form). The health advisor said that it is more likely that I got it from the guy with the cold sore ... (read in full...)
I'm ready for sex after having our baby, but he says he wants to wait for a while. He says he can't look at me the same way!
Q. Hi I had my first baby (10th april) she was a girl and is stunning, perfect the birth was pretty easy and im fine now. My boyfriend was at the birth and very suportive i live with him. And im really horny and want to have sex with him. But he cant ...
A. 29 April 2008: arrrrr I am so sorry to here that you are going through this.
First of all id like to say comngratulation on the birty of your new baby. Good on you for getting back to normlity as quickly as possible. He sounds like he is being a little imma... (read in full...)
Does penis size play into women's fantasies?
Q. Ok, another penis size question, I know, but bear with me ! Ok I guess my question is: does the idea or sight of a substantially larger than average penis, turn most women on? Is a big one arousing? More esthetically pleasing. More likely to promp...
A. 17 April 2008: A large penis is initially a turn on but is no the be all and end all.
My ex didnt have the largest penis. But he was really good with what he had. As we had a good sex life it didnt take much for him to keep it up. I had only been with him for ... (read in full...)
He left me and our 3 children twice, for someone else, but now says he wants us back. AGAIN. What should I do?
Q. Hi I had three children with my partner of 9 years. He left me during my second pregnancy but I gave him a second chance and we got back together. He then left me when I was 7 months pregnant with our 3rd child after having an affair with a (r...
A. 8 April 2008: Hi all. I was new whehn I first posted the question and I never really offered a update to you all. Thankyou for all your advice. I never did give him that second chance. Life has been a big drama since then. There has been alot of tears from us ... (read in full...)
I need closure to this relationship!
Q. I have recently trying to get into conntact with my ex-boyfriend. We dated a great 4 years and then sperated. We didn't remain friends b/c the way it ended was horrible. It has been four more years since then and I am thinking about him all the ...
A. 1 April 2008: Dont do anything more!
The more you interrupt his present life the less likely he will be to respond. You asked him a question and have been giving an answer. As painful as it seems you need to except that answer and do not try to force him to c... (read in full...)
My ex and I are about to go to court over his access to our son.
Q. My ex and I are about to go to court over his access to our son. He has previously had weekday and weekend contact including stay overs but our relationship has deteriorated to such an extent that I don't want to see him anymore. This is obviou...
A. 31 March 2008: I would use a contact centre as a very last option. it sound like you guys have just broken up all over again or just finalised things. T... (read in full...)
Is there more going on with his work colleague than meets the eye?
Q. Recently, I have snooped through my husband's cellphone (since I have been suspicious of his odd behaviour which leads us to fighting) and noticed a few text messages that he kept in his trash box but forgot to delete from his female co-worker. One ...
A. 31 March 2008: I totally agree agree with the Namatjira and I too understand why you and rowing and why your husband would feel as though there was a lack of trust there. You sound ass though you feel threatened by this other women but your question does not show ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my ex.
Q. I have this gorgeous boyfriend who loves me and adores me and would do anything for me the only problem is I'm still in love with my ex (who now got back with his ex) I don't want to hurt my boyfriend because he is such a sweet guy... but for the ...
A. 31 March 2008: How long had he been broken up from his ex?
It just sounds like if he is back with his ex he must have never gotten over her in the first place before starting with you and you may have been his rebound. Which is not fair in the and shouldnt... (read in full...)
When is it time to quit trying and just end a relationship completely?
Q. How do you know when to just quit trying with something that feels like it should work, but doesn't? I dated a guy for three years, and he was, without question, the love of my life. In all my life, I would never get bored of him, and we had ...
A. 26 March 2008: He needs to understand that for this relationship to work he has to have know contact with the girl who 'represents, to you, the deepest betrayal of your life'. He says that things are different this time and that he wants to be with you, well then ... (read in full...)
I'm married but found my "Soulmate"! Should I leave my wife?
Q. I am married for 15 years with 2 children. I reconnected with the woman I have loved my entire life by accident and we began an affair. It has lasted for over a year and we are soulmates and madly in love. We want to be together forever. She is ...
A. 23 March 2008: Never leave a relationship for someone else. Just because you love your soulmate, and think that you are soulmates that doesnt mean that you are soulmates. Ask yourself how you felt about your wife at the beginning of the relationship. Did you think ... (read in full...)
After being with him for 3 YEARS and pregnant I have just found out he is MARRIED with 3 CHILDREN!!!!!
Q. I have been seeing this man for 3 years and we have just got engaged. I am also 5 months pregnant. We live together and he stays away during the week for work. I have just found out he is married with three children. What the heck can I do now. I w...
A. 16 March 2008: OMG! hun I totally feel for you. You are in a tough situation right now and I cant believe that you are going through this. What kind of man would do this?
You have found out some devastating news and no wonder you are all over the place. You need... (read in full...)
He is interested in me physically but not in any other way, what do you think?
Q. I'm having a bit of a crisis of conscience. There's a guy who I've known for a good few years who I've recently developed a bit of a thing for. He has on numerous occasions let me know that he would be interested in me physically but not necessarily ...
A. 16 March 2008: He is being honest with you by letting you know that he only wants you for sex. It is up to you if you can deal with that and not get emotionally attached. By the sounds of things though and the fact that you have posted on here I would say 'dont go ... (read in full...)
How much longer do I wait? I don't want to nag, but I don't want to let it go either.
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend for 6 mos now. He has soul custody of 3 kids. They sometimes go and see their mom, but she is not very frequent. I love them all dearly, and we get along quite well, but there just isn't enough time for he and I ...
A. 13 March 2008: He has a HUGE commitment right now and once a week is a little ambitious. You are with a man who is a full time father to three young children you have to except what you have or move on. How about once a month or even try once a fortnight. Is there ... (read in full...)
I really loved the way my girlfriend looked when we first met but I don't find her attractive any more.
Q. We've been going out for about 1 1/2 yrs and we live together. We did just have a baby about 4 mos ago. I do love her and the baby and i don't want to jeopordize our relationship but i can't get into her physically because i'm just not attracted to ...
A. 13 March 2008: Come on....how selfish! Give it some time mate!
Shes has just had your baby. This is real life it aint the same as what you read in the papers with them celebrities model etc. 4 months and youv'e lost attraction for her! give her time.
You sho... (read in full...)
Now that he is married and we met again after my travels and the abortion he did not know about, what should we do?
Q. I have just started up a relationship with a married man. And it's killing me inside because I feel so sorry for his wife who I know does not deserve what we are doing to her. The problem is. Myself and this man have a very long history togeth...
A. 13 March 2008: You had left and it has been two years. Within that time he has fallen for a girl and married her. I doubt he just married her for the convinience and I am sure that there was more to this.
I commend you for not sleeping with him whilst he is in... (read in full...)
Are these signs he wants me to leave (moving away my things)?
Q. i've been really stressed out over this the past few days and today just made it worse-pls help me!! been with my bf for 3 years. we are both 29 but I have 3 girls from a previous marriage. he's never had a live-in gf and i'm his longest relation...
A. 13 March 2008: It sound likes he wants a break from you maybe temporarily but maybe permanately. Try not to read into it to much as yet!. You need to do a total U turn with the way you would normal handle situations. Dont do the usual things of questioning him as ... (read in full...)
Is this guy serious about wanting to marry and have children?
Q. dear cupid,I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years this month and we get on well when we dont argue. he is 8 years older than me but the age difference doesnt affect us generally as I have other friends and a brother his age. ...
A. 4 March 2008:
That girls sound like me ask oldersister. only that I had three kids by him and was together much longer than that...
wow its funny the way you think when you are younger and the way you think when you are older. I would never have imagined th... (read in full...)
Is this guy serious about wanting to marry and have children?
Q. dear cupid,I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years this month and we get on well when we dont argue. he is 8 years older than me but the age difference doesnt affect us generally as I have other friends and a brother his age. ...
A. 3 March 2008: He could well be serious but never takes his word as final. Dont think about having babies with him unless he really marries you and shows that form of commitment to you first. What im saying is dont just think of it as 'baby first and then marriage ... (read in full...)
How can I nip this in the bud about his ex, or am I wasting my time?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years, we met 3 years before we started dating,(when he just became single) and got more closer leading up to the start of our relationship. However as a friend, he used to talk about his ex, and how he cried ...
A. 29 February 2008: 'I'm not a jealous type, since i believe in myself. but what bothers me is that, he will never forget their relationship, and remember it for the rest of his life and the whole time he is with me. i feel like im only with him since he couldnt work ... (read in full...)
I've moved on but my ex wont leave me alone. How do I convince him without hurting him?
Q. Hi..i need help...i left my husband 5 months ago, i am now in a new relationship with another man, who happens to be a work college of my ex husband,i was with my husband for 7 yrs and have 2 children with him. My ex is saying that the man am with ...
A. 27 February 2008: Did you ever really love your husband? Why did you break up? and Why date his work collegue. He must know more about his work collegue than you and it sounds like he may be trying to protect you. You were together for 7 years and you want him to ... (read in full...)
Should I call my ex boyfriend's current girlfriend and let her know that he has been playing both of us?
Q. Wondering if i should call my cheating ex boyfriend's current girl and let her know that he has been playing both of us. I am the only one that knows about it. She is only 22 and he is turning 34 this year. So she is young and I would be lying if I ...
A. 26 February 2008: A similar thing happened to me with my ex. However, it was her who contacted me and I confirmed that her suspicions were true. It did feel partly sweet at the time but partly bad as I didnt want to come across as being the mad ex girlfriend. A mo... (read in full...)
Why is he leaving me behind? Please help!!!
Q. My ex broke up with me about five months back now, he said he wasn't happy anymore, he didn't feel the same because he didn't see a future with us. Whenever I texted him regarding us, he just completely ignored me. When I asked for a second chance ...
A. 23 February 2008: There is a push and pull situation going on here. you are pushing him to love you again and he is pulling away. stop this immediately and you will know if there is anything there there (trust me). When you stop calling him and after say 3 months he ... (read in full...)
Why did he stay in touch with his ex when she caused us so many problems?
Q. This has been bothering me for quite some time and I need some help with what to do. Back at the end of July I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex over his cell phone, and basically hiding this from me. He ended talking to her on h...
A. 22 February 2008: You will probably never get the answer that you are looking for but I say follow your gut instinct. I don’t know you or him but the way it sounds it seems that something may have happened. He may not have slept with her but he may have got ... (read in full...)
He said he wanted to be friends but then he told me to leave him alone!?!
Q. Hi! My ex bf insisted on being friends. I agreed but when I called last night he was rather mean and told me to let him live peacefully. I wasn't angry, not sad. Disappointed in myself for letting him treat me this way again. Where does he get off ...
A. 22 February 2008: I agree he must have felt guilty at first amd used you to make him self feel better.
You are correct to asking yourself where he gets off saying stuff like that when he is the one who cheated and treated you so shabbily.
Dont waste any more t... (read in full...)
I didn't go out and party "a lot" so my gf left me. Any way I can show her I can be "fun" too?
Q. My girlfriend just broke up with me recently, and she gave no clear reason. Our relationship was fine we were completely fine, but i think it's cause i'm "lame." I admit I don't go out and party "a lot" but I have friends and we go out once and a ...
A. 21 February 2008: Dont try to change yourself in hope that she will realise what mistakes she has made. Stay the same person but jut better yourself. What I mean is if you didnt used to party dont start to over do it with parties (unless you really WANT to). She will ... (read in full...)
Should I risk my marriage for the girl at work??
Q. I'm a married man but there I'm tempted to cheat on my wife with a gorgeous brunette in my office. Shes cute, funny and has a gorgeous bum. The only problem she has a serious boyfriend and I'm married. She flirts with me and I flirt back, we h...
A. 20 February 2008:
Hey there.
There is this guy I know in the same age bracket as you.
He had been with his wife for 9 years and she was pregnant with there third child. Her hair had started to fall out due to a hard pregnancy and stress of thinking he was c... (read in full...)
Any ideas what to get someone (who has everthing) for her 21st birthday?
Q. Hi, any ideas what to get someone (who has everthing) for her 21st birthday... or i was thinking of something i could add into her party night, but I dunno what... alllllllllllllllllll opinions welcome x...
A. 20 February 2008: Firstly what is she in to? is their a party theme?
How much can YOU afford. Have you got everything too or are you a regular guy?
A girl I know who has everything was given
An african parrot! Two white doves/ A dove house for the garden.
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My girlfriend can be a real bitch sometimes!
Q. I really love my girlfriend of the past year and a half and we have even talked of marriage. The problem is that whenever she gets a little bit frustrated and stressed about something (her job, waiting in a long line, etc...) she takes it out on me ...
A. 20 February 2008: I doubt she she will change her ways. Unless she is shocked into changing. What I mean by ths is if she losing something that she trully cares about and trully understands that it was her actions that caused it then she may change otherwise she will ... (read in full...)
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