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Still in love with my ex, but he's married to someone else now!

Q.   Hi! I am a middle aged woman who happens to be in love with my former lover (we split up 5 years ago). Here is my love story summarized: To me (I guess also to him), our relationship was fullfiling in many ways, leading us to believe in a promi...

A.   16 September 2007: ummm. just where did you plan for this to go? he broke up with you for a reason. maybe he really forgot what it was. now he's married and already confused. should he divorce her and go w/ you. should you guys just shack up? what a mess from whi... (read in full...)

I had a brief affair with a married man, he's avoiding me now... how do I get him back?

Q.   i am a 29 year old career woman, have known this guy for a few months, through work, ( i work in HQ level and he works in district level, and our department recently has been doing collaboration with him, which he is the developer and i am the ...

A.   16 September 2007: Once you're over your heartache, you will find someone new. And I hope this guy doesn't come running back. (He may have lost interest anyways after sex, as my understanding is that's how married men work.) He's an insecure "notch" man -- one who ... (read in full...)

What do you think about affairs?

Q.   What do you guys think about affairs? Esp when someone has one when only in the first few years of their relationship. Does this mean generally they are unhappy, missing something? And if so once the affair has started and even stopped, will that...

A.   16 September 2007: They're all messy. If you have to have one, get out now (of the marriage). Fly straight. Go single. Do what it takes.... (read in full...)

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