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Such a dilemma! We agreed to keep the baby and now he's changed his mind.
Q. Im forced into having another abortion...Let me explain About 2 years ago i met this guy when i was 17 and fell in love with him. He was my first love and pretty much first everything even though Ive had boyfriends befre I didnt trust them the w...
A. 18 December 2007: Just decided to check up on this post. Its AMAZING that people are still saying "get on birth control" or "dont have sex." Come on people, she already followed up on that issue!
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I just want to comment about women being an e... (read in full...)
Such a dilemma! We agreed to keep the baby and now he's changed his mind.
Q. Im forced into having another abortion...Let me explain About 2 years ago i met this guy when i was 17 and fell in love with him. He was my first love and pretty much first everything even though Ive had boyfriends befre I didnt trust them the w...
A. 15 November 2007: What has this guy done wrong? First of all, he waivered on a subject that is VERY personal and should NOT be taken lightly. After two pregnancies, you think that it was okay for him to believe that it wouldnt happen again? If in fact he was that ... (read in full...)
Such a dilemma! We agreed to keep the baby and now he's changed his mind.
Q. Im forced into having another abortion...Let me explain About 2 years ago i met this guy when i was 17 and fell in love with him. He was my first love and pretty much first everything even though Ive had boyfriends befre I didnt trust them the w...
A. 14 November 2007: Yes I agree with rockelle about your boyfriend's responsibility in this. If he is man enough to lay down with you, after you have already been pregnant twice, then he should be ready to do whatever he has to do and support your decision no matter ... (read in full...)
I told him I'm not in the mood for the first time , he has not taken it well, how can I reassure him?
Q. Hi, I have been having a little more than a few problems of late and to cut a long story short, Last night for the first time ever in my 2 yr relationship I said to my b/f that I was not feeling very sexual as I was so tired and had not slept in...
A. 14 November 2007: Two years together and this is the first time it has come up? You need to talk to him and explain to him how you felt that night. Tell him that you were just tired and you are very much attracted to him. He cant possibly expect that you will have ... (read in full...)
Such a dilemma! We agreed to keep the baby and now he's changed his mind.
Q. Im forced into having another abortion...Let me explain About 2 years ago i met this guy when i was 17 and fell in love with him. He was my first love and pretty much first everything even though Ive had boyfriends befre I didnt trust them the w...
A. 14 November 2007: You need to decide whats best for you. Don't let him pressure you into an abortion because that is something you can never take back. If I were you, I would keep the baby. I would rather struggke being a single mom than deal with the pain of getting ... (read in full...)
He can't satisfy me and I don't know what to tell him.
Q. Hi, I just want to get some opinions on this issue. If you are in a relationship/marriage but find it lacking as much affection as you would want (but not as far as your partner is concerned,) do you think it's okay to look elsewhere for a bit extra ...
A. 13 November 2007: I dont suggest that someone should turn away from the relationship/marriage and seek entertainment elsewhere. I think the best way to deal with it is to talk to your significant other, tell them how you feel. If that doesnt work, then you would have ... (read in full...)
Why do I never orgasm when I'm with him?
Q. I'm seeing this guy at the moment? When we have sex I never orgasm, he does. Last time we were togerther he tried really hard and we tried a few different positions but still nothing. I really need some help and advice as I am really inexperie...
A. 13 November 2007: Many women can not have an orgasm through sexual intercourse alone. A lot of women orgasm by clitoral stimulation or through oral sex. Also, dont put too much pressure on yourself which can also cause you to not achieve an orgasm.... (read in full...)
Should I consider breast implants?
Q. i am 17 years old and i have very very small breast. i think I'm a double AA or something. the thing is i'm not the skinniest person, so it look really weird when i am naked. i am thinking about getting breast implants. but honestly, i am paranoid. ...
A. 12 November 2007: I'd say work on your confidence issues first. How you feel about your inner self is more important than your appearances. I don't think you should worry about what a guy might think of you, when it comes to your size. If someone truely loves you for ... (read in full...)
My bf can't get over my lie of 1 yr ago. I'm so depressed, how do I gain back his trust?
Q. i`ve been with my boyfriend for two years and about a year ago i lied to him and he cant forgive or even forget!! so things aren`t going so well we fight a lot and im so tired from all whats happening..i tried really hard to fix things up but its ...
A. 12 November 2007: There are plenty of ways of earning his trust back. Is he willing to work things out? Its hard to tell you how to get him to trust you without really understanding what you lied about. As far as I can tell, you can earn his trust back IF HE is ... (read in full...)
I just don't think I want it. Why?
Q. Hi Guys, I'm 20 years old, I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly 5years bout 2months ago... My problem is sex.... I just dont think I want it... I would never go near my boyfriend in bed he would always have to come over to me first, I would never ...
A. 10 November 2007: Sex is more than just the physical act. I'm not sure why you broke up with the other guy of 5 years, but if you weren't happy with him then thats probably why you didnt want to have sex with him or touch him. I had an abusive boyfriend in the past ... (read in full...)
I want to make plans for our future as a family but he won't talk about it. How should I deal with this?
Q. It may sound crazy but I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over 3 months and I know I want to be committed to him. It literally took us 3 days to fall in love. I've been engaged twice and been in other long-term relationships, but I knew ...
A. 10 November 2007: I agree with most of what everyone has said here. At 3 months, you can't really know someone. And it is a bit early to be making plans. On the other hand, I do feel it is important to know what someone wants in the relationship. I am currently with ... (read in full...)
Does it get easier over time?
Q. Guys are always talking about how huge their penises are and it makes me worried that intercourse will really hurt. Should I be worried and does it just get easier to take a large penis over time?...
A. 10 November 2007: Men and their penises! Are you a virgin or just worrying about a particular person? Most men are average and talking about their penis size only makes them feel more manly. As far as what you can handle? It depends on your physiology and the guy you ... (read in full...)
What do women really want from their boyfriends when they are feeling down or really upset?
Q. Okay can some of you out there give me some tips on how to comfort your girlfriend/wife/female friends when they are upset and going through a tough time. It's just it doesn't come naturally to me and I feel really awkward around upset people and ...
A. 9 November 2007: I think it depends on the situation and who/what is making them upset or down. A lot of times, women just want someone to listen to what is going on and not really give any advice. Sometimes women really want to be left alone and other times they ... (read in full...)
I met a new guy whom I like more than a friend but I'm still hanging on to my ex in a way. Should I take this new chance?
Q. I broke up with my ex 9 months ago, he moved in with another girl shortly after me, I have stayed on my own,but he still keeps texting me, and i meet up with him every few weeks, he says he loves me, and hes gonna leave her, but hasnt never followed ...
A. 9 November 2007: I agree with the other two posts. Its better to start a new then hold onto something that is really just a waste of your time.... (read in full...)
Why didn't they hit on me when I was single?
Q. Hello, things seem to be every confusing and betrayed... Lately I have Cute guys after me and i thought about it, how come they didnt hit on me when i was single? ...
A. 8 November 2007: You are lucky! Take it as a compliment, a little ego boost isn't so bad:) As for why now? Maybe they want what they can't have? Sometimes you notice people when they suddenly become unavailable.... (read in full...)
Why do married men look at porn? A man's perspective, please.
Q. Why do married men look at porn? I have an agreement with my husband (of 9 years)that strip clubs, magazines, movies and surfing the net is fine...but i found a subscription to a web site that featured one girl. I found this to be pushing it. ...
A. 8 November 2007: I haven't heard of that particular one, but I do know there are all sorts of mating strategies found throughout nature. There is some sort of duck that has two male partners: one for a sperm donor and one for rearing the offspring. And there are ... (read in full...)
Why do married men look at porn? A man's perspective, please.
Q. Why do married men look at porn? I have an agreement with my husband (of 9 years)that strip clubs, magazines, movies and surfing the net is fine...but i found a subscription to a web site that featured one girl. I found this to be pushing it. ...
A. 7 November 2007: Right on Irish49. Thats what makes us different from animals! I wouldn't go as far as to state that evolutionary theory is bullshit though. The problem is when people try to apply it to humans. If anyone has ever taken one minute to think about why ... (read in full...)
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