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My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!
Q. I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...
A. 8 June 2008: Check your sources-did you read this in the introduction?
This material is offered for comfort and solace to people who've had bad (or merely weird) experiences with narcissists. If you're looking for ammunition to attack someone, please look els... (read in full...)
My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!
Q. I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...
A. 6 June 2008: I agree with Ask oldersister. This is exactly what I have been taught in my courses in psychology! This is what brought me off the deep end in the first place-throwing NPD and Hypomania around which are very serious, not to be taken lightly.
I hop... (read in full...)
My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!
Q. I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...
A. 6 June 2008: I see that you are very concerned about her and have thought long and hard what to do.
I apologize if I went off the deep end but I have very strong opinions about people tossing around names of disorders.
Anyways, it seems like there is no... (read in full...)
My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!
Q. I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...
A. 6 June 2008: Well, if someone came to you with this, wouldn't you be upset? I can understand her reaction as most people would react this way. I think you were wrong in your approach. Instead of handing her a checklist of things, you could have said the ... (read in full...)
My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!
Q. I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...
A. 6 June 2008: Here is a short exercise to show everyone (who has time) how scary diagnosing people can be:
Here are symptoms for ADHD. And just try to think hard enough (and I mean really think about it) how many of the people you know, including yourself... (read in full...)
My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!
Q. I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...
A. 6 June 2008: I have a suggestion. Are you in college? Why dont you contact the psychology department and talk to them. I am sure they have licensed psychologists who would be willing to explain this to you. ... (read in full...)
My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!
Q. I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...
A. 6 June 2008: No, Rey. You can not look up "symptoms" in the DSM and diagnose someone as if it were a rash!
Thats just crazy. I am not saying that you are wrong to think something is wrong with her or she is abusing alcohol/drugs. What I am saying is that you... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Why he lied, please read:
NikitaDisraeli, Emivia, StudentOfLife, WizardOfWaz,
troubledtoomuch..... and many others.
Ask him why he lied but I think many people hit the nail on the head. ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: I think you have had many answers on whether or not he loves you. Yes, he said he would stop but he didn't. He should know how much this bothers you but he is still looking. Love is not black and white, there are many many shades of grey. It ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Okay I have DD breasts, brown hair, blue eyes. You know what my boyfriend is into right now???
Asians! Japanese, Chinese, Tai chics!
I am american, I dont have exotic features like these women but am not offended!
Its more fantasy, TRU... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: From what I can understand, and I am not a guy so I could be wrong....
Having sex with you would require effort where looking at some porn, you just sit there and stare. Not all guys jack off to it. Some just like to browse around.... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Well, hey, I have to say...at least you tried!
But I dont think you are going to get off on looking at naked men. Think of it this way. If he looks at your naked body, he probably gets an instant erection. Or least many men do. But you need a l... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Whether or not you are going to accept this is up to you.
However, I do think that you have every right to not want it in your face. If it were me, I would have deleted it too. It's not worth my time to make sure the sexy file is download... (read in full...)
My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!
Q. I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...
A. 5 June 2008: Absolutely not. Hypomania and NPD are completely different! For one Hypomania is an episode of the MOOD disorder, bipolar. NPD is just that-a personality disorder. When there is a diagnosis of either Biplolar or NPD, there has to be years of ... (read in full...)
I blocked him on facebook but I'm still worried about my safety! Should I notify the police?
Q. alright so there's this boy who was really socially awkward so I tried to talk to him every now and then to help him out of it. Then he asks me out through facebook so I say that I'm not interested but he hunts me down and tells me in person, I tell ...
A. 5 June 2008: Definately tell your parents! I would not go to the police right away but possibly if he shows up at your house or whike you are out somewhere, you should consider getting a protection order against him. That way, if he comes near you, he could be ... (read in full...)
My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!
Q. I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...
A. 5 June 2008: I agree PeterPan. Sometimes its better to cut people off completely when you are involved with someone that has problems in which you can not help them. ... (read in full...)
My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!
Q. I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...
A. 5 June 2008: First of all, you are NOT a psychologist! So please, do not get the DSM-IV-TR and start diagnosing people yourself. Sorry, but that is meant as a guideline for psychologists who have extensive training. Last thing, when I say guideline, it is purely ... (read in full...)
Can we overcome this? He has issues with my past and my self confidence is low...
Q. Ok, I'm having a lot of doubts here. Me and my bf have been having problems. We've been together for almost two years, and we're mostly happy. But for ayear or so, there have been issues. It's about my past. I always had this "feeling" that h...
A. 5 June 2008: I think that since this is your past, you own it and no one should judge you.
The main issue is that you need to work on your self confidence. Whether or not you two can work it out depends on a number of things. He needs to accept that you have... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: I agree, once again with DiovanLestat. Heidi has mentioned a lot more about her relationship and her insecurities and her constant questioning if he will leave her. She even mentioned where this all comes from which some people here thought it was ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: I agree, look over DiovanLestat's post. And I believe that love is a feeling and a "choice we make." It's just some of us "choose" to overlook very small things to see the greater picture. We all do it naturally while we are infatuated, why not make ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: Troubledtoomuch: Thank you for answering that!
I personally have told my boyfriend that I have a few rules if he looks at porn: no kids and no torture/rape. That can cause serious damage to the viewer. Well, enough to scare me! So, yes even if ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: Please do not compare yourself to the ones he is looking at. It has nothing to do with you!
You could be the most gorgeous, big boobed princess and he would probably look at porn! ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: Oh, and what do you mean by teens? Under the age of 18? ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: Oh, and what do you mean by teens? Under the age of 18? ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: Rhythmandblues2-the issue of abandonment has nothing to do with her issue of porn but it has EVERYTHING to do with their arguments-so she says.
Yes, this is up to you. If you feel deeply that this is not right and is against your core beliefs,... (read in full...)
Why can't I have a normal boyfriend?
Q. why cant i get a normal boyfriend? im 18 and i have never had a steady relationship. my longest relationship was 3 weeks and the guy didnt even spend that much time with me, i think he just wanted a girlfriend just to SAY he had a girlfriend. i ...
A. 4 June 2008: Yes, there are definately guys that will like you for who you are!
As far as what you are doing wrong, I wouldn't think about it that way. You need to get to know someone really well so that you will have time to see if YOU really like that per... (read in full...)
I want to strengthen my PC muscle
Q. ok so i wanna strengthen my PC muscle, I've tried everything to find it and have no idea what i'm looking for I've stopped the flow when i urinate but can't feel anything and i've even put my finger up my bum and tried it that way Problem...
A. 4 June 2008: Yes, you sqeeze the muscle, hold it, then release. You arent going to "find" the muscle, it is more of feeling the muscle. You can do this with out being erect as well.
Try doing the same thing as if you were to stop urination but when you are ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: Like I said before, trust is a risk you have to take if you want this relationship to work. Yes, sometimes we all need a little encouragement but you know you also have to work on this. I would ask him to try to be patient with you as you are ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: Like I told you in my message. It has nothing to do with how hot you are! ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: Haha. StudentofLife has a similar explanation my boyfriend gave me. He said he isnt thinking-its like duh?... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: Have you asked yourself, "why do I fear him leaving me?"
Has someone that meant a great deal to you, abandoned you?
Trust is a risk. You have to take a risk in trusting someone. Even if your heart is broken, you have to be willing to take ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: Not necessarily!
I am guessing that your boyfriend is around the same age, correct? And maybe this is the first time he has been confronted with this issue. My boyfriend did not lie to me about the porn but I think it's b/c he has been through ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: I wish I wasn't so emotional as well!
The thing I have been working on over the past year or two is controlling my emotions. If I dont cry then I sob. My boyfriend can tell if something is wrong because it is written all over my face!
But I b... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: Yes, I think being lied to hurts more than the actual deed. If you were to bring it up again, dont sob or cry. Just tell him that you were hurt that he lied to you about it. And that you would appreciate him being honest from now on!
For your sak... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: I completely understand!
I have a great realtionship with my boyfriend as well and if anyone in our relationship is going to turn down sex, it would be him! I am the one always wanting it although I have learned to be patient and when he is willi... (read in full...)
I really need help!! Guy A has been working on his issues, and I really like Guy B too!
Q. I have a problematic situation. I spent a year with guy A, fell in love and had so many fun times together, built a future together and get along like a house on fire. The draw back - his temper is huge when he has been drinking especially!! i h...
A. 4 June 2008: Well, you can not be with Guy A while he is "working" on himself. He really needs to be alone on this one. I don't understand why you want to string Guy A along while you are with Guy B. And poor Guy B who is really trying to support you and ... (read in full...)
What does he mean he needs space when I'm leaving in 3 weeks?!
Q. I've been with my bf for 15 months now. I'm not so sure about how he feels now. He was very loving and always took care of me. I love him as well but I have severe mood swings and a very short temper. I would say the cruelest things...but I never ...
A. 4 June 2008: It sounds like he really does love you and cares about you but does not want to be abused anymore. Maybe he wants his space from you to think about if he really wants to break things off from you or try to work on the relationship. If you dont want ... (read in full...)
My wife and my mother fight each other. How can I solve this problem?
Q. I live in India. The problem is every time my wife and my mother fight each other for silly reasons. I cannot support any one of them. I am the only son to my mother and my father is no more. According to our custom I cannot put my mother anywhere ...
A. 4 June 2008: You could tell them that they need to set boundaries. What are they fighting about? What may be silly to you might not be silly to them...... (read in full...)
Am I gay or Bisexual?
Q. I was at a party and got real drunk. I was barely able to walk, and my friend helped me into the bathroom to pee. He undid my pants, pulled out my penis and held it for me to urinate. I started to get an erection, and after I was done peeing, he ...
A. 3 June 2008: There is a very good possibility that you could be gay or bisexual or just really curious. It's one thing that you got excited when he touched you but you also got excited when you touched him which seems unlikely if you didn't at least have some ... (read in full...)
I have a real problem with trying to talk to him about things...
Q. My boyfriend and i always argue and the other night we had a blazing row, i said i didnt want to argue again and we've agreed to take some steps to try and prevent arguments.. anyway its made me think he doesnt love me like he used to (or he loves ...
A. 3 June 2008: You both could agree that when you are mad at each other, you both go in seperate rooms for a while. Both of you need to relax and calm down.
It is always a good idea to talk about things that upset you when you are NOT upset at the time. Th... (read in full...)
Please tell me, should I stay with him for the kids or should I leave him, run away from his threats and abuses?
Q. Hi I dont know y he treats me like hell. He says that he loves me but I can never beliv him because in my opinion a man will never have sex with another woman while being married to a woman he loved so much( as he says so).He had sex with differen...
A. 2 June 2008: LEAVE!
It is never good to stay with someone for the kids, especially in an abusive relationship. Do you have somewhere to go that is safe?
If you do, figure out what times of day he is gone. While he is gone, pack a few things for you a... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with one of my best friends and it scares me to ask her out, what should I do?
Q. Hi, im 16 and i really like this girl (16 also, a bit younger) and weve been friends for two years now and shes one of my best friends and i really want to ask her out but im scared of the answer, and my other friends tell me i should keep things ...
A. 2 June 2008: This kind of sitaution could either turn out really good or not so good. The plus side is that she is your friend, so you already know her pretty well and have a lot in common with her. If you both like each other, that is always a good sign that ... (read in full...)
I've been seeing a married man but now when he wants to move in with me I get cold feet, what do you think I should do?
Q. i have been seeing a married man for eight years and now he tells me he wants to leave home and move in with me. problem is i dont want him to i know if he cheated on his wife with me for years i cant expect anything but the worse from him but at ...
A. 2 June 2008: Hurting his feelings? I doubt you should be so concerned with his feelings at the moment. Its cold, I know, but you know that he is a cheater, after all, you are the "other woman" and he could do the same to you.
Although it has been fun, you... (read in full...)
I am worried about my wife's threats towards my friend (she thinks we have an affair), should I tell my friend or wait and see what happens?
Q. My marriage has had its ups and downs for years, mainly,I admit,my fault,but we carried on. I have been with my wife(age 57)for 20 years,I am 61,we have one adult child. I met a woman of similar age,through work about a year ago, we built up a ve...
A. 2 June 2008: It seems like you care more about your "friend" than your own wife! This is obviosuly an affair, clearly an emotional one at that!
Your wife obviously is angered by this and probably deeply hurt. She probably wanted you to admit to it rather t... (read in full...)
Sexless in New Jersey....
Q. Dear Cupid I've never had sex and this is what one woman said to me, "I'll have sex with any other penis on the planet, except yours". And that's the attitude of every woman I've met. Your (mine) penis is not going in my vagina, ever. So all the...
A. 2 June 2008: Thank you for following up!
Women really don't want to beat up and treated like crap-those are the women that are just used to that kind of treatment. And when a nice guy comes along, they dont know how to react!
I would say that you are pro... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work without the physical spark?
Q. I have been through a marriage break up about 1.5yrs ago,I have met somebody else we get on great but sometimes I really do not want the physical side of things..can a relationship work without a spark..? We have been together 6mths....
A. 2 June 2008: I think a relationship could work without a "spark" if both people do not care about the "spark" and are perfectly happy having more of a companion than a physical connection. But, if one person desires the physical and the other doesn't, then you ... (read in full...)
Can anybody PLEASE tell me what is wrong with my PRIVATES?
Q. There's something wrong with my vagina. The lips are swollon and tender and my discharge is extremly think and pasty and there's unnatural ammounts of it. It's also white.. Not the slightest bit transparent. There is no smell. It's been like thi...
A. 2 June 2008: Are you sure this is not just a yeast infection? I believe thrush is similar but usually develops in the mouth, not the vagina although it could be spread to the vagina. Have you tried over the counter medications for yeast infections? You can buy ... (read in full...)
Every time we have an argument he makes it seem only he is right...
Q. i would like some advice. i have been with my partner since i was 16 - am now 19. the thing is every time we have an argument he turns it around on him!! i have just got some bad news from the doctor - nothing too major but i called him at work and ...
A. 2 June 2008: It sounds like you two have a problem with power. Someone has to be right and someone has to be wrong and he ALWAYS wants to be right! In any relationship, you dont always have to agree with each other but also have to respect each other's opi... (read in full...)
My husband is changed on 180 degrees, acting cold and odd towards me lately. As I mentioned this to him he said I'm making things up!?
Q. Looking for advice to become a stronger and wiser person. Here's my prob: I do believe that my husband of 1yr is cheating on me. Like any other couple, we have the ups and downs but things seem more of a down right now. He's been act...
A. 2 June 2008: What leads you to believe he is cheating? Of course the #1 sign is that behavior changes but is there anything else? I do not feel that you should be picked on and put into this rollercoaster of emotions. For someone to say you are are too fat,... (read in full...)
Is it okay for first cousins (both male) to have sex with each other?
Q. is it ok for 1st cousins (both male) to have sex with each other...
A. 2 June 2008: If this were two people of the opposite sex, the possibility of having a baby would definately be an argument.
Since there is no chance of becoming pregnant, the other argument still stands true. I would think that having a relationship within f... (read in full...)
My girlfriend does not like to talk about things when I'm concerned about something!
Q. I need some help here, I feel like my girlfriend doesn't like to talk, everytime I try to talk with her about something I'm concerned about, she always says "Why do we always gotta talk?" Can someone please help me!!...
A. 2 June 2008: Well, I would ask her, why don't you like to talk? I will say, that some people just aren't talkers but it seems that in a relationship, sharing your thoughts, feelings, concerns with your partner is part of having a companion. A relationship can... (read in full...)
Sexless in New Jersey....
Q. Dear Cupid I've never had sex and this is what one woman said to me, "I'll have sex with any other penis on the planet, except yours". And that's the attitude of every woman I've met. Your (mine) penis is not going in my vagina, ever. So all the...
A. 2 June 2008: I have to wonder too, what else is going on here? How are you approaching these women? How do these conversations come up? It doesnt take beauty to get laid here....its more about tactic. Do you try getting to know someone first or do you come o... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 7 months lied to me about his age . . .
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months now. We have been completely in love. It is passionate and intimate and we have talked about long term and how we are what the other hoped to find. He has been divorced for 3 years, was married for ...
A. 2 June 2008: Aside from the relationship conflicts, I will answer your particular question about lying about his age.
If he lied from the beginning about his age, I am sure that he couldnt find the right moment to tell you the truth and so is surfaces 7 months... (read in full...)
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