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Hi there. I am 26 and currently finishing school and in a relationship. I stumbled upon this site looking for answers to questions I have had in the past. Ever since, I have found it to be a great place for people to ask questions and get feedback. I am an open minded, honest person with a little knowledge that guides me.

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I am worried how my being overweight will affect my relationships in the future. What can I do to increase my chances?

Q.   I have posted questions previously about how I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future. Quick reminder - I am nineteen years old, six foot dark hair blue eyes. My close female friends say I'm sweet and kind and lov...

A.   16 September 2008: I think you have great answers to your questions already. I would like to add that you probably think that your weight has more to do with finding someone than it actually does. The most attractive thing about a man has more to do with confiden... (read in full...)

He has a history of cheating and many opportunities to cheat at work, should I trust him?

Q.   hey aunties and uncles... i need some advice on something that is bothering me... so here goes recently ive got together with this guy after a long winded journey due to his ex still being in the picture, never the less we've been together for abo...

A.   16 September 2008: I would have to agree with natasia. No matter who it is, you have to take a "leap of faith" as any relationship is a risk. Since he cheated on someone to be with you, you know there is a possibility that the same could happen to you. This is ... (read in full...)

What exactly does "love" mean to you?

Q.   heya, A friend of me asked me this, and i want to get some of your opinions on it... but can you tell me...? What exactly is love? I know... kinnda a big question... but i want to see what other people think it is :) And i dont really want the d...

A.   16 September 2008: Love comes in many forms and you could look at it from many angles. There is unconditional love and conditional. Passionate, committed, consummate. Love can be described as a feeling or an action. It all depends on the person and what is importan... (read in full...)

Was he just in it for the sex? Help!

Q.   Ok, so ive been out on a few dates with this guy i met about a year ago.. we've kept in contact since then..emails, texts etc. and bumped into each other on nights out every couple of weeks, we've ended up sleeping in the same bed 3 times after ...

A.   16 September 2008: Just my opinion here, so here it goes. It doesnt sound like this guy really has intentions of having a relationship with you. It's always good to be clear on these things before sleeping with someone, as many have learned the hard way. Wheth... (read in full...)

I don't know where to start seeking help about my bf's problems. Please read and advise?

Q.   I'm writing to ask for some advice, I don't know if this is the right place to go but I don't know where to start. It's to do with my boyfriend, Jack. I'll give a summary of why we're looking for help. Jack grew up in a pretty unstable upb...

A.   16 September 2008: As difficult as this may be, you really have to think of yourself first. You can not be his savior. It sounds to me as if he has nowhere to turn and there is no one to support him, you need to think about how this is affecting you and how your life ... (read in full...)

I'm confused and hurt about a girl my bf flirted with...he says it was a flirt gone wrong...what do I think??

Q.   my fiance the flirt last year my fiance had a thing going on with this girl at work... for a while things where horrible and he treated me like crap... anyway it was 3 months down the line b4 i found out or let say had an eye opener... didn't...

A.   22 August 2008: It may take a long time before the hurt fades, it all depends on the situation. When do you think you could REALLY trust him again? When he gains your trust back completely, you will probably be able to move on from there. If it were me, that hur... (read in full...)

Is it unloyal to DRINK at my friend's party despite my boyfriend objecting to it?

Q.   I live with my boyfriend and he doesnt want me to drink when i go to my bestfriend's place tomorrow. But to tell ya all the truth i dont care im going to any way as i hardly get a chance for fun and at the end of the day ill be back with him at home ...

A.   22 August 2008: No one should be telling you what you can and can not do unless perhaps you have had severe drinking problems in the past. Perhaps if you have been known to be reckless and in danger yourself and others while drinking, he might be concerned. ... (read in full...)

My dad won't let me see my sister. How can I convince him to.

Q.   im 16. i have problems with my dad. my sister has moved out from home with her boyfriend, she's 19. my dad dont like her boyfriend, so he dosn't want me near him. my dad wont let me out of my house to see my sister. i want to see my sister...

A.   17 July 2008: Tell your dad that you respect his wishes and that you understand that he doesnt want you to be around the boyfriend. But, let him know that you wish to see your sister and ask if it would be possible to see her in a public place like going ou... (read in full...)

My boyfriend stares at other women... should I be worried?

Q.   My fiance and I are preparing to get married next year. We live together and are very much in love. The thing that bothers me is that whenever we are driving places together... he stares so much at other women. He stares into cars, women walking ...

A.   17 July 2008: You have to make this call. Either you join in on the fun at looking at other people or you do not accept him looking at other women while in your presence. I always think of this as a respect issue. Glancing at other women may not be an issue bu... (read in full...)

My Virgin Bride was not a Virgin. How do I cope?

Q.   Hi, like many other guys I have a problem with my wifes past. I met her 25 years ago, she was 17 and I was 19. we hit it off right from the start and fell in love. we now have 2 kids aged 10 and 12. Every thing was fine until I asked her...

A.   17 July 2008: So she had sex a total of 7 times before you? She pretty much was a virgin! You have been with this woman for 25 years? You are going to have to get over this as you know that she is completely devoted to you. I know that you may have had this... (read in full...)

My mum says my relationship won't last. Why is she so against it?

Q.   yeah i know its only 11 months, not THAT long really but i love him! right, ill explain... i met this guy a year ago on sunday and we got talkin and stuff, he ended up asking me out on the 3rd august, which was the best day of my life! but my mum ...

A.   17 July 2008: Have you tried telling her how this makes you feel? DId you tell her that she is very important to you and that you need her? Tell her these things and let her know that you love her. I can understand where your mom is coming from. Maybe this guy... (read in full...)

I just split up with my first love after 7 years. Any thoughts or advice will be very much appreciated

Q.   I have just split up from my boyfriend of 7 years, he was my first love. We have broken up in the past but realised we couldnt live without each other and got back together. (we split for 3 months, he came back and i had kind of moved on but he ...

A.   17 July 2008: Being with him for 7 years, of course you are going to feel some loss. You were used to him being by your side, especially living with him. I think men experience this feeling of loss/emptiness, but they dont deal with it in the same way. May... (read in full...)

I uploaded sexy videos of my girlfriend's to the Internet, where do I stand legally now?

Q.   my girlfriend made some sexy vids for me and sent them 2 my email while i was working away , months later we split after i found out she was cheating and in the heat of the moment uploaded them to internet . she found out and has said she is going ...

A.   16 July 2008: It may have been one thing if you just had possession of the videos but now you have gone a step further by uploading them to the internet. If I were you, I would take them down immediately and apologize. You dont want to be sued for damages that ... (read in full...)

My changing personality, and lying, sabotaged my relationship, with the man I want to marry, will he ever trust me again?

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 years... we practically grew up together. We met when we were in highschool. We've been through tough times and happy times, through out the 10 years we have our ups and downs. But we always make it through. ...

A.   9 July 2008: I think it might be a good idea to take some time away from this guy. You need to think about why you did those things in the first place. Do you really want to explore other possibilities?? I think this is normal, especially since you have bee... (read in full...)

My husband's old ex-girlfriend is everywhere, I feel neglected by friends and family, am I over reacting, please help??

Q.   My husband and I have been together for 10 years. We have 2 small children and despite a few bumps we are happy. My husbands first love was a girl at school whom he was with for 3 years. He finished with her because she cheated on him alot and ...

A.   9 July 2008: Try not to buy into the "popularity contest" with your friends and family. As long as they are respecting you, then there is no reason to get upset. I can understand why you might be upset when you are not invited to a big event when she is, and if ... (read in full...)

I would like some rational opinions on our 16yr age gap?

Q.   I am a 27 year-old female. I just started dating a man who is 43. A little more background about the relationship: He has never been married, and has no children. He has a master's degree, good income, and people always think he is in his earl...

A.   8 July 2008: AS long as you two get along great and really "work" together, I dont think the age gap is a problem. 16 years is quiete an age gap but if you both are really happy together, then it doesnt matter. Sure there are differences but things can alwa... (read in full...)

I'm really self conscious about my black facial hair, what can I do about it?

Q.   I'm 15 and I have quite abit of facial hair, and it is pretty obvious from up close because my hair is black, I jus recently got a boyfriend and I never get close enough incase he sees it, I'm really self-conscious about this, what can i do?...

A.   8 July 2008: I think the best solution is WAX. It doesnt usually cost that much at salons or nail places. Look it up in your phone book and get prices! Good Luck!... (read in full...)

I should be happy, but I am trying to sabotage my relationship, somebody help me?

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He is absolutly WONDERFUL!! Hed do anything for me and i love him soo damn much. But i have a situation.. Last Christmas an EX-friend of his told me that hed cheated on me with a particular girl....

A.   3 July 2008: We all come with a past, or at least a lot of us do. How would you feel if your boyfriend obsessed over your past boyfriends? That wouldnt make you feel comfortable and happy, now would it? Focus on this: He is with YOU now. He is not with them... (read in full...)

How do I ask my husband to do stuff for me without sounding too much like a nag?

Q.   Hi everyone. I would just like to know something about my husband that I dont understand. He is really a great guy. Easy going and not too full of nonsense. But what baffles me, is that when I ask him to do something, there is a procrastination. Thou...

A.   3 July 2008: Female Anon: Your dad must be one of those rarities! In this society, however, it is up to women to do 80% of the household chores. This isnt about love at all. This is about how women are expected to be the domestic workers going back to ce... (read in full...)

How do I ask my husband to do stuff for me without sounding too much like a nag?

Q.   Hi everyone. I would just like to know something about my husband that I dont understand. He is really a great guy. Easy going and not too full of nonsense. But what baffles me, is that when I ask him to do something, there is a procrastination. Thou...

A.   3 July 2008: Welcome to MY world! You sound just like me, seriously. I have a great boyfriend who works his butt off everyday going to work. Comes home and doesnt want to do anything! I ask him to do simple things and it never gets done. I will admit, there ar... (read in full...)

I am seriously scared that he is going to tip me over the edge, and I have two children to think about..

Q.   Posted this last night but i think i had put it across wrong, so didn't get answers on the main bit of the question i was looking for. Please help me be stronger! I dumped someone in jan, stupidly i got manipulated into lending him a few thousand...

A.   3 July 2008: How you handle the money situation is up to you. Some people take you for everything you have and there is no way of getting it back.. Sometimes its better to let it go and just remember- DO NOT lend money unless you are okay with giving it away, ... (read in full...)

Do you think I'm too obsessed with him? He admitted I call him annoyingly often. How can I change that?

Q.   Hi there! I've just got this thing that when i love someone i tend to call them toooooo much, my boyfriend just admited to me yesterday that it annoys him, me calling him like that. we've been together for 3 months now and i just feel like hearing ...

A.   3 July 2008: Only call him when you have something important to say or if you two plan on getting together. Let him be the one calling you though (if you find you are always calling him). Keep busy! Go out with friends, talk to family, cut the grass, clean th... (read in full...)

A friend and I were discussing how long it can take a committed relationship to start

Q.   In my experience (I've had 5 serious girlfriends and I'm 29 yrs old), if a guy approaches a girl, asks her out, she agrees and they start seeing each other, within 1-2 months either a committed relationship starts or they decide to be friends. How ...

A.   25 June 2008: I dont think there is a time limit of when a committed relationship can begin, it of course depends on the people you are talking about! You can be in a committed relationship from Day 1 or you can date a while, a few months or whatever then dec... (read in full...)

I'm embarassed by my lack of experience. What should I tell him?

Q.   Hi I would like to ask a question, I am 28 years old and whilst I have had boyfriends I have never been in a 'serious'relationship or had sex. I have always been waiting for that one special person - I have just started dating a guy who has had a ...

A.   25 June 2008: You dont have to disclose anything about your past if you do not want to. That is entirely up to you and personally, I believe things should be kept to yourself. I think the best thing you can do is be yourself. It doesnt really matter what kin... (read in full...)

My wedding wasn't how I wanted it, and I can't stop thinking about it!

Q.   Dear Readers, I just got married and I feel very depressed that my wedding turned out to be very different than i excpected. I had a contract with a famous designer in Kuwait and she totally screwed up, its my fault i didnt check with the design....

A.   25 June 2008: I think you are way too focused on the "perfect wedding" but the truth is, there is no such a thing in the real world. Things dont alaways go as planned and thats just how life is! Try to forget about everything that went wrong and instead think ... (read in full...)

Would girls date a guy that looks way younger than his age?

Q.   I'm almost 24, and I've never been in a relationship, nor have I ever been approached by women. Part of this is because I've never tried flirting with girls due to my inability to keep conversations going, but I believe the big reason is because I ...

A.   25 June 2008: Its not as much about looks, its more about how you carry yourself. If you are confident and "sure of yourself" then I dont think you will have a problem finding dates! It's okay to be shy but you need to try to step out of your comfort zone som... (read in full...)

Should I let what people think of me including what my family thinks of me get in the way of having sex?? I'm 14

Q.   Hello im 14 and me and my bf want to have sex but its a long distance relationship so we wanna have fone sex till we can actually meet up and have sex. I'm worried that my parents will be disappointed in me for loosing my virginity at 14 ive ...

A.   25 June 2008: Your parents are your best allies, believe me. You should really think about what could happen if you decide to have sex (STDS, pregnancy). And also think about your boyfriend and this long distance relationship. Do you really want to have sex... (read in full...)

I hate feeling like this because I feel like I'm a bitter prude...so please help me.

Q.   I hate teen sex comedies. I actually hate the way sex is presented in most western media. And I want to get over this, I want to be ok with it, I wanna enjoy it if it's possible. For example, all this "American Pie" things... where regular ug...

A.   25 June 2008: You are not a "bitter prude" and in fact are very much in touch with reality! About the porn, its the same thing, I have to say. There is a lot out there that objectifies women and falsifies sex. This is where the "rape myth" comes from and also... (read in full...)

What makes a perfect dad?

Q.   Hi me and my wife are having a child in October. Can anyone tell me what a dads role is? What makes a perfect dad? ...

A.   18 June 2008: A Dad's role? Thats kind of a complex question. It depends on you and your wife. What kind of role do you have now? If it were my husband, I would want him to share responsibilities in raising and taking care of the child. Someone who plays wi... (read in full...)

I think I was raped by the man I'm in love with... at 18.

Q.   Hey everyone, I feel kinda scared and wierd asking this question but I'm so confused and I need help. Today after I got home from picking up my boyfriend from work, we ate breakfast and he was watching the highlights from the celtics vs lakers ...

A.   18 June 2008: Sounds like rape to me. Its called "date rape." You said "I told him to stop" but he thought you were joking? Stop means stop, no means no. ... (read in full...)

How to tell the difference between a player and someone with genuine feelings?

Q.   How do you tell a difference between a player and someone with real genuine feelings. Any signs to watch out for? I was kinda seeing this guy for about a couple of months and he treated me well, but then i found out how he was only using me fo...

A.   18 June 2008: Knowing whether or not someone is genuine is hard to predict but getting to know someone first, helps. Spend some time getting to know someone before dating, meet his family and closest friends. Look at what kind of family/friends he has. Are... (read in full...)

I'm scared my boyfriend will hurt me if I tell him I cheated on him!

Q.   I'm scared by bf will hurt me if I tell him I cheated on him. He knows something's wrong as he's pretty perceptive to my emotions and he keeps asking me what's wrong, I feel so guilty I have to tell him I slept with a guy from work. But he can get ...

A.   18 June 2008: If you are truely scared of this man, then DONT tell him ANYTHING. If he is threatening you when you try to break up with him then you need to just LEAVE. Do you live with him? If you do, you have to plan how to leave him. First, figure ou... (read in full...)

I'm online cheating - what should I do?

Q.   hey all i have a really big problem and the longer i leave it the worse its going to get. i started dating my current bf bout a yr ago, we soon fell in love and started a serious relationship i had been hurt in the past so i was warey but he mad...

A.   17 June 2008: You have a choice to make! Plain and simple. Either you break up with your boyfriend before you meet "j" or you stop talking to "j" completely. It is unclear why you even started an online relationship in the first place when you have a real ... (read in full...)

My parents don't want me to see him, he has a one year old son!

Q.   I am in love with this guy who has a 1yr old son and my parents are totally against it because the baby's mom is very dramatic. My parents are forbidding me to see this guy because they think they only doing what's right for me. Really, what should ...

A.   17 June 2008: If you are at least 18, then this decision is up to you, your parents can not leaglly stop it. Aside from that, you need to consider how this relationship will work for you. Ask yourself some questions: Does he have a relationship wit... (read in full...)

Do you get in the middle? Boyfriend's parents are cruel to him...

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 years- we get along very well and each of us has gotten "family approval," haha. One thing has been bugging me though- they treat him so poorly. He's the middle child- has a brother 5 years ...

A.   10 June 2008: I would not say anything to the parents. Its probably best to stay out of it but you can encourage him to stand up for himself. Definately encourage your boyfriend to leave the house! He does not need to put up with being mistreated, even... (read in full...)

What is your opinion on a non-sexual relationship between a 14 and a 17 year old?

Q.   As a general question - what are people's opinions on a relationship between two teenagers with a three year age gap (not sexual)? e.g a 14 year old and a 17 year old? ...

A.   10 June 2008: As a female, I can understand why you would want to date someone older than you as you feel boys your age are immature. At the same time, there are differences between a 14 and 17 year old, in general. There is a lot of development between ... (read in full...)

How do I walk out with my dignity intact? I am not a slut!!!

Q.   I broke up with my bf last night. He kept bothering me about my past. In my past I made out with two strangers (older than me) when I was drunk. I also had a friend with benefits. I remained a virgin though. So I got fed up and broke up with him ...

A.   10 June 2008: You cant control what other people think of you and frankly, you shouldnt worry about it. You know you are not a "slut" (ugh, I hate the word) and thats all that matters! I wouldnt try to convince him of who you are or who you are not, his opin... (read in full...)

My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?

Q.   well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...

A.   9 June 2008: It doesn't matter what a woman chooses to do, there will be mental stress. However, when deciding what to do, you must understand the consequences of each. People just dont talk about those that have kids that dont want kids. What about their st... (read in full...)

Should I tell him about the abuse or not??? Please help!

Q.   me and my bf have been going out for 9 months were both 17 and boths virgins! but when i was like 7 or 8 i was sexually abused like i was never made have sex just made do other things with this guy who was 20ish i never ever told anybody and im over ...

A.   9 June 2008: I dont think it is a matter of being damaged goods or something is wrong with you. When it comes to relationships, telling someone about your secrets depends on how much you can trust someone. In my opinion, being with someone for 9 months i... (read in full...)

My parents will never accept my boyfriend, its a cultural thing, how can I solve this?

Q.   i dont know where to begin. i know im tired and exhausted and on the verge of a nervous breakdown. my parents are from india. very traditional. my boyfriend is american which to them is bad and he has a child from a previous marrige which is the ...

A.   9 June 2008: Unless your father has had heart problems already, I doubt the stress will cause a heart attack.... (read in full...)

My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!

Q.   I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...

A.   8 June 2008: Check your sources-did you read this in the introduction? This material is offered for comfort and solace to people who've had bad (or merely weird) experiences with narcissists. If you're looking for ammunition to attack someone, please look els... (read in full...)

My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!

Q.   I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...

A.   6 June 2008: I agree with Ask oldersister. This is exactly what I have been taught in my courses in psychology! This is what brought me off the deep end in the first place-throwing NPD and Hypomania around which are very serious, not to be taken lightly. I hop... (read in full...)

My parents will never accept my boyfriend, its a cultural thing, how can I solve this?

Q.   i dont know where to begin. i know im tired and exhausted and on the verge of a nervous breakdown. my parents are from india. very traditional. my boyfriend is american which to them is bad and he has a child from a previous marrige which is the ...

A.   6 June 2008: This must be very, very difficult. I can't imagine how you feel. Do they have a problem if you two are just dating? Or they just worried that you are getting serious and that marriage could be a possibility? If they are okay with dating, then I w... (read in full...)

My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!

Q.   I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...

A.   6 June 2008: I see that you are very concerned about her and have thought long and hard what to do. I apologize if I went off the deep end but I have very strong opinions about people tossing around names of disorders. Anyways, it seems like there is no... (read in full...)

My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?

Q.   well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...

A.   6 June 2008: The problem here is, if she wants to keep the baby and you force an abortion as some suggest, she will resent her decision for the rest of her life. I know she is only 15 and she needs guidance on this matter but maybe you can tell her about he... (read in full...)

My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!

Q.   I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...

A.   6 June 2008: Well, if someone came to you with this, wouldn't you be upset? I can understand her reaction as most people would react this way. I think you were wrong in your approach. Instead of handing her a checklist of things, you could have said the ... (read in full...)

My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!

Q.   I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...

A.   6 June 2008: Here is a short exercise to show everyone (who has time) how scary diagnosing people can be: Here are symptoms for ADHD. And just try to think hard enough (and I mean really think about it) how many of the people you know, including yourself... (read in full...)

My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!

Q.   I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...

A.   6 June 2008: I have a suggestion. Are you in college? Why dont you contact the psychology department and talk to them. I am sure they have licensed psychologists who would be willing to explain this to you. ... (read in full...)

My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!

Q.   I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...

A.   6 June 2008: No, Rey. You can not look up "symptoms" in the DSM and diagnose someone as if it were a rash! Thats just crazy. I am not saying that you are wrong to think something is wrong with her or she is abusing alcohol/drugs. What I am saying is that you... (read in full...)

My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!

Q.   I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...

A.   5 June 2008: Absolutely not. Hypomania and NPD are completely different! For one Hypomania is an episode of the MOOD disorder, bipolar. NPD is just that-a personality disorder. When there is a diagnosis of either Biplolar or NPD, there has to be years of ... (read in full...)

My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!

Q.   I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...

A.   5 June 2008: I agree PeterPan. Sometimes its better to cut people off completely when you are involved with someone that has problems in which you can not help them. ... (read in full...)

My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!

Q.   I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...

A.   5 June 2008: First of all, you are NOT a psychologist! So please, do not get the DSM-IV-TR and start diagnosing people yourself. Sorry, but that is meant as a guideline for psychologists who have extensive training. Last thing, when I say guideline, it is purely ... (read in full...)

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