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... Send star9 a private message | | | star9's profile:I'm from Wales. My friend has just had a row of problems with her boyfriend and I have helped her through it every step of the way. I have given her advice that she has used and it helped a lot. I would love to help more people with relationship problems or maybe even other problems. If you need advice, please don't hesitate to ask :) x |
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Do I stick with this job just so it looks good on my CV?
Q. I have been at my current job for just over 7 months now, and at first things were good as far as work goes, the people seemed really nice and the job was quite interesting. I am a fleet sales administrator for a mercedes dealership so there wa...
A. 28 March 2008: I think that you should quit this job as it is obviously getting you down and being in a negative environment is not good. Don't worry about your CV, if future employers say anything about it then just tell them how they treated you. I'm sure ... (read in full...)
Suffering far from home with a bf who hates me, what can I do??
Q. Since the beginning of our 3yr relationship, my bf and I have had troubles. I found out through investigation, that he was still involved with his ex, and by the time the info came to me, I was pregnant. I gave him a second chance, but he treated ...
A. 27 February 2008: This guy sounds like he's being horrible to you! I know it must be hard when you have to consider the child but don't you think that the child would be better off without a father like this? Plus, you have a life to live aswell. You said "he seems ... (read in full...)
Could it be he's feeling too much pressure from everyone else?
Q. Hi, I wrote in before about a guy I liked who I thought liked me too. I still think he likes me, and he and I have had some talks about how he treats me when he is drunk and he made huge efforts to change when I told him and I was really proud of...
A. 26 February 2008: I think that you need to talk to him, life is too short to just wonder. Yes, some guys may feel that a girl is being too pushy but I know a lot of people who got together by the girl asking the guy out. I think that you shoulg just go for it! :) it ... (read in full...)
Do I chose my family or the love of my life?
Q. i am a hindu girl.i am in love with a christian boy.my family is against this affair.they want me to marry a hindu .but i cant.we love each other so much.he is very sincere and loving.but then i dont want to hurt my parents.what will i do.i want my ...
A. 30 January 2008: I believe that if you're in love with someone then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Your family should think of what you want not what they want. Point that out to them. Hopefully, if they see how happy he makes you feel then they'll give ... (read in full...)
Fallen for a girl I work with.
Q. I have totally fallen in love with a girl that I work with. She is everything that I could ever want and is the person I have been hoping to meet all of my life. Of that there is absolutely no doubt in my mind. I know this because we sit opposite ...
A. 8 December 2007: Well.. there are a lot of bad points there. are you sure you want to risk everything? and does this girl have the same feelings for you? she might, but she might not. maybe you should talk to her, see what her view on the whole situation is. and do ... (read in full...)
How do I stop thinking about my ex's cheating?
Q. My ex boyfriend cheated on me with different girls all through our two and half years together. We broke up nearly three months ago, but I still can't seem to stop thinking about his cheating- and I desperately want to! Can anyone help me stop ...
A. 8 December 2007: That must've been horrible for you so I wouldn't expect for you to forget about it. Maybe you should call your friends and have a girly night. friends are there to cheer us up! hope this helps! good luck! x... (read in full...)
I had a crush on my teacher and we are still in contact now that I am at Uni
Q. I had a crush on a teacher for 5 years at secondary school. Am now at university and we are still in contact, texting and emailing. What should i do? People used to joke about us and they still ask me how she is and things. I think i love her, she ...
A. 29 November 2007: I don't think you missed your chance. Just text her asking if she wants to meet up sometime. maybe go for a coffee or something. i hope this helps :) x... (read in full...)
I'm confused. How do I know if he likes me or not?
Q. I'm starting to fall for a guy who've ive met twice though mutual friends (one of whom is cheating on her boyfriend with my ex - thats another thing in itself). I think this guy is charming. I really would like to get more time with him and even get ...
A. 13 November 2007: Well I think that there's a good chance he's interested in you if he was looking at you and teasing you and stuff. Have you got his number? Maybe you could text him and ask him if he wants to go out sometime. And maybe he didn't ask a lot about you ... (read in full...)
Does the colour of my vagina need looking at?
Q. I do not know when I noticed, but my vagina is a dark brownish color, when it's normal color should be white.. or pink because I am asian, my natural skin color is light. Should I be concerned? Should I have it checked?...
A. 13 November 2007: I agree with Sandman, every woman's vagina looks different. but if you are still worried there's no harm in asking your doctor about it. hope this helps :) x... (read in full...)
Is this age gap important?
Q. is it ok to have a relationship,when the boy is 17years old and the girl is 21years old?age gap?...
A. 13 November 2007: I don't think age matters really. I mean, if the couple love eachother I don't see why a number should come into it at all. :) x... (read in full...)
Should I dump him even though he is my first love?
Q. I had a long distacne relationship whilst my boyfriend was at uni but he two timed me 3 times. I forgave twice. We split up after the 3rd time for a year and got back together after he finished uni. I recently heard that he took a girl back to ...
A. 1 November 2007: this guy obviously doesnt respect you if he's cheated on you 3 times. yes, he's your first love so he's special but you're young and there'll be plenty more. i hope you find someone! good luck! :) x... (read in full...)
They're all calling me fat but I know I'm not. How can I get this through to them?
Q. My mother is constantly calling me fat, and her and her friends have a nickname for me 'fatso'. Im 140lbs and 5'7'', and her constant putting down of my weight and bodyshape is really annoying me. When she was my age she had a very kate moss ...
A. 1 November 2007: Oh my gosh! when i was reading this i couldn't believe it! they cannot go on treating you like this! you need to talk to your mother and even the other people who do it if necessary. tell her that you are getting very stressed by the way she is ... (read in full...)
I love my long distance boyfriend, but I've also liked another guy, and I feel like I'm breaking my boyfriends trust. What should I do?
Q. Hi. im a teenager. I have this mind buggling question. It's about my boyfriend and I. we've been going out for about 4 years but he's studying in another country because his family had to relocate.it's about a year now. we really love each other, we ...
A. 31 October 2007: well you say that you love your boyfriend so it looks like your heart has already made its decision but you're young and you can always try different things. you could meet up with the new guy and see if there's any feelings there and if you think ... (read in full...)
Braces will make me feel worse about my appearance. I feel ugly, what can I do?
Q. I am a 15 and i regard myself as ugly, i have only ever had one proper boyfriend and i am about to get braces. I know i shouldnt be talking like this but i do have really low self esteem. No one has ever told me i am pretty or beautiful and lets ...
A. 31 October 2007: i agree with DontHaveAClue, just think about how nice your teeth are going to look afterwards! :) and if you're worried about what the boys are going to think then there's nothing to worry about! i have braces but i kiss this guy i like a lot and he ... (read in full...)
Had him, Left him, Had him, Left him, Want him, Lost him.
Q. Alright. About a year ago, I met this REALLY nice, cute and tall (yah... It's hard for me to find all 3 in 1 package, considering im 6 feet tall) boy. He liked me... ALOT. It was weird for me, because I'm a distant person, and need time to get to ...
A. 31 October 2007: well, i think you need to talk to him. tell him that you're very grateful for what he's done for you and that you're sorry for what you've done and that you'd really like to try again. tell him that you didn't really feel anything for him the first ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, and I want to get a boyfriend.
Q. Hi, I was just visiting sites randomly when I can across this one. I'm 16, and I want to get a boyfriend. How do I do it? I mean, I want certain things from them + for them to be, for example I want to be attracted to them, and I want them to want ...
A. 21 October 2007: hmmmm. this is a hard one. im kind of in the same situation as you. it feels like no boys find me attractive but i asked my male friends and they said that i am. think abuot what you want, think positive about it and im sure it will come along. go ... (read in full...)
How do I know how he feels?
Q. This boy and i have been friends for two or three months now. we met one night when we were drunk and we started making out but i did not sleep with him...he kept coming around so i eventually did. we hang out all the time (constantly) and he spends ...
A. 21 October 2007: i would confront him about this. you cant go on wondering, otherwise it will drive you mad. ask him what he thinks of the relationship. when you say you dont hav the connection, do you feel it? if you do then ask him if he does. i hope everything ... (read in full...)
What do I do when all I want is to run back to the one who made me miserable? We're still in love...
Q. I broke up with my fiance about two weeks ago because he was emotionally abusive. The problem is, we are still in love with each other, and I can't get him out of my head! I know it takes time, but a part of me just wants to pick up my phone and ...
A. 20 October 2007: you said he was emotionally abusive. there is no way you should go back! people say that emotional abuse is nothing compared to physical but i believe it can hurt people just as much as physical abuse can, i should know. you need to think positive, ... (read in full...)
What should I do at the cinema?
Q. right ive managed to ask this girl out to the cinema but im not shure what film to see or what to do? should put my arm round her or not? plz plz help! is there any films sutable that some one could recomend? and does any one have any hints for impr...
A. 20 October 2007: well, if you see a scary movie, a girl will either pretend to be scared or actually be scared and will show you this by shuffling in her seat, glancing at you a lot, or looking away from the screen. if she does any of these, put your arms around ... (read in full...)
How can I reduce teenage spots?
Q. Hi, Just a quick question... Is there a way of reducing teenage spots? i don't have acne but still i'm very paranoid by my skin! Thanks xx...
A. 20 October 2007: if you use make up, make sure you take it off every night before you go to bed by using make up removal wipes or just simple baby wipes. there are a bunch of products that can halp to reduce spots, L'oreal worked for me. good luck :)... (read in full...)
My boyfriends friends don't like me
Q. my bf's mates are not the nicest of people, they're immature and dont have any faith in mine and my bf's relationship at all and its the fact that they express that towards me thats annoying. When i tell them to stop, they say im reading to much int...
A. 20 October 2007: try having another word with your boyfriend. tell him how much this is getting to you. his friends just sound jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend, maybe they want a relationship with someone and seeing you two is annoying for them or ... (read in full...)
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