I told him I would leave if I caught him doing drugs. Its happened again but I don't want to confront him
Q. When I first met this guy, I knew he did hardcore drugs, but he just up and gave it up for me. We've been together almost 7 years now, and yesterday was the 3rd time he accidentally left a syringe laying around in his stuff, I was not going through ...
A. 11 July 2020: To be candid you are better of not confronting him, now you have seen the drugs and I can bet you know he hasn’t left the drug because of you, like you claimed, instead you choose to believe and wish the dream would last for a life time but sadly ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to tell him how I was feeling?
Q. A couple of weeks ago, I woke up in the middle of the night and noticed my bf was masturbating in bed beside me whilst looking at his phone. As soon as he noticed I was awake, he swiftly closed the phone and took his hand away and acted like nothing ...
A. 3 July 2020: The part you are trying to find yourself in the blame is what I don’t understand. Things more worst than this small issue will arise in future and I am sure you won’t feel bad for pointing things out to him. Only God knows what you told him that is ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 a virgin, he's 43 married and wants to have sex with me
Q. Hi, Im 17 and Ive recently come into contact with a 43 year old man who wants to have sex with me. He's married and Im a virgin. I want to have sex with him but Im worried it's illegal and I'm worried about what people might say if I tell them I l...
A. 3 July 2020: Wait with this decision for about three years by then you should be 20. Then if you still feel like having the sex then go ahead.
Before then let me give you a hint to the future, by years later you will remember this decision you’re about to... (read in full...)
My ex is a jealous, negative-minded selfish idiot in the relationship area, should I take him back?
Q. I have a tricky situation that will probably receive mixed reactions based on whether you're a dog-lover or not. Basically - I broke up with my partner a few months back. We fought at first but eventually learnt to be civil. We don't have any k...
A. 11 November 2019: Your description is your answer already, you don't want such qualities I guess, or maybe you like such qualities and you're not admitting (apologies)
Stop using an innocent puppy as a plot why you're still in contact with your ex. In my opinion,... (read in full...)
A man I have a crush on is involved with someone else
Q. First Question: To all reading this I will keep this as short as possible. I work for a supermarket chain. There is a guy who is aged 37 in work and I am aged 28. We have been friends for just a year and I developed strong feelings for him but neve...
A. 10 November 2019: Except you didn't play your card right, if your green lights were ok and he didn't see it or he ignored it, then he isn't interested in you and he owes you NO apologies for you stopping the friendship of a thing.
It was a good thing both of you a... (read in full...)
How do I handle rejection?
Q. i have often realised there are times i can think about someone a lot and I don't think this is a bad thing but in a way I want to stop myself or reduce the times I think about someone . I do feel I can become infatuated with someone, sometimes in a ...
A. 10 November 2019: Rejection means the person is saying I don't wanna "waste your time", so you should appreciate it. Stop expecting things from people, too much expectation brings dissapointment and STOP focusing and thinking too much why you were rejected, rejection ... (read in full...)
Am I in the friend-zone? What should I do to avoid becoming her friend and further into a relationship?
Q. I'm a 37 year old male, met this girl who is 31 on a dating app. We're both of Chinese background. She's had two relationships prior to our match; both long term. We hit it off pretty well over texts, subsequently I asked her out for dinner. She ...
A. 9 November 2019: Hahahhahahahaha
Sorry for laughing
"If you want a girl, be ready to loose her"
If you feel like you wanted to kiss a girl then try go for it and see what happens, if you're rejected, make a light apology and give her the space. This space is fo... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but am lusting after her mom
Q. I love my girlfriend but I can't stop lusting after her Mum. Is there something wrong with me? We've been together for 2 years and are both 24. Her Mum is 41. I don't know what it is but over the past few months or so I've started finding her Mum ...
A. 9 November 2019: It's time to break the girlfriend and boyfriend relationship and set out on a new path.
You fantasies may not be welcomed by the mother and the daughter. so just pack and leave the family alone. ... (read in full...)
My husband's use of porn has really hurt me
Q. I am 49 year old woman, my husband is 53. He had his prostrate removed 3 years ago and we have still manage to have sex with the aid of a pump. he as looked at porn for years and I told him I think he wants the women on the screen he said he does ...
A. 9 November 2019: what a sad thing to experience in a relationship.
You can control your husband actions, since you've spoken to him and he refused, then you can only let go of him and find someone to appreciate you for who you are.
If not then live with it all... (read in full...)
I'm upset that he stopped during sex and blamed my noise. Am I overreacting?
Q. My boyfriend and I haven't had sex for a couple of months so yesterday I tried to get things started. While we were in the middle of doing it he kept putting his hand over my mouth, I thought it was like some sort of dominance thing because he...
A. 21 August 2019: All I can say is there is more to his reaction than the eye can see. That excuse of being loud was just too lame. ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl but I don't know where to go from here
Q. I dont know what to do here! please help, sorry ahead of time this is kind of long. I work at a book store that this girl is a customer of. ( we have a strict rule about not asking out customers, reasonable rule, i have no arguments about ...
A. 20 August 2019: Op, you really have a bad image about yourself, from what you wrote.
what does it mean by you are not dateable?
I think you have have to work on your personality, many girls find guys more attractive if they are spontaneous, original and... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend just going through a phase? Trying to impress a friend?
Q. Im in this relationship for like about 2 years now and things have changed somuch recently. At first my BF was super nice to me and all was working out. We used to go out sometimes to places and have fun and he was like always very kind and sweet. ...
A. 13 August 2019: Oh sorry about your new experience with your so-called sweet boyfriend. There is a saying, when a fence looks like it is high then there is every possibilities that it is truely high. Truth is your boyfriend has been hiding the rough part of himself ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl but I don't know where to go from here
Q. I dont know what to do here! please help, sorry ahead of time this is kind of long. I work at a book store that this girl is a customer of. ( we have a strict rule about not asking out customers, reasonable rule, i have no arguments about ...
A. 13 August 2019: The fact you've started giving her things for free and doing some works and logo for free sound kinda overblown off, you could cut cost or do a magnificent job for her, that will just be ok.
Your attitude will only end you up in the friend z... (read in full...)
How can I make my boyfriend realize how awful he's been to me?
Q. My boyfriend has been horrible to me lately and I'm really upset that he doesn't feel bad for treating me the way he has. Last week he asked me to book a last minute holiday, I don't know why he couldn't do it himself but just text me his card...
A. 16 July 2019: I am sorry to say this but when people act like they don't care, it is safer to believe them than to assume it is something else. I don't intend you need a soothsayer or a writing on the wall to see that you're threading on a path with many ... (read in full...)
Is he just looking for fun online?
Q. I have recently become friendly with a guy who is my plumber. Yes he flirts and admitted that he likes the bigger bust. He has sent me a photo when he was drunk of his body with permisson and we have chatted from time to time and he has said that ...
A. 2 May 2019: I think the plumber is looking for a fwb(friend with benefits). So it is up to you. ... (read in full...)
Do they really have these outrageous bills in Nigeria?
Q. I have wrote here before. I had some good advice. It was about my Nigerian husband. I mentioned his mood swings , and I’m unable to ask any questions without his temper flaring up. Ai also mentioned his spending ways and his expections that ...
A. 2 May 2019: I am a Nigerian, and from what you have written I am quite shocked he is asking such amount for those bills ( I assume it is in dollars) . I don't know how large he lives but I am sad to say, I think you're being scammed here. it's time you smell ... (read in full...)
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