Should I be worried about the blood that came with defloration?
Q. hi i recently had sex for the 2nd time with a guy i'm seeing but after i found blood all over the place , it turns out i'd split !?! now i'd understand (but still be mortified) if it was at the bottom of my vagina or something but it was just a rip ...
A. 19 April 2008: I had the exact same thing happen to me jut before christmas, and it is nothing worry about honestly, just keep it clean and keep an eye on it and it will heal quite quickly. The skin here can be thinner and if having fast/ rough sex can be torn. ... (read in full...)
I've had a very thin yellowish discharge afres ex, could it be an infection?
Q. I had sex for the first time a week ago and ever since i've had a very thin yellowish discharge that smells bad. Do you think i have an infection? Or could it be something else? it only started after having sex....
A. 14 April 2008: it could be an infection if you had sex without a condom. you should go to your doctor and get them to check it out... (read in full...)
14 and a virgin, I feel lonely and inadequate because all my friends have already had sex!
Q. I'm 14 and from Hampshire, England. all my friends have had sex. i feel lonley because i'm still a virgin. they arn't saying i MUST pop the cherry but i don't fit in anymore eg. i'm not invited to party. i've always been a bit awkward around p...
A. 12 April 2008: i wouldnt let this feeling of not having had sex yet upset you, i know easier said than done but you are the sensible one come when you get older a guy wont want a girl that has slept around and that, and chances are you friends havent done it ... (read in full...)
Do all men experience a pre-ejaculation liquid?
Q. Does EVERY guy have pre-cum?...
A. 12 April 2008: My ex had a noticeable amount of pre cum when giving him head i noticed, but my current boyfriend doesnt have any, not to notice anyway, i think every guy is different, but even if a guy doesnt appear to get pre cum the pull out method of ... (read in full...)
Is it harmful to swallow a man's discharge?
Q. can we swalow man's discharge. does it harm?...
A. 12 April 2008: There is absolutely nothing wrong with swallowing it, it tastes different to each guy, it depends on their diet mainly, if they eat alot of fruit and veg it can be quite sweet however if they eat junk food and not very healthy it can be salty and a ... (read in full...)
Pregnant with his baby and he's cheated on me! He's only with me for the baby. Should I move on? Or forgive?
Q. Ok So Im 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend has cheated on me. I feel so hurt and angry. He has told me that he has relly strong feelings for the other woman. And He is only staying with me for the baby. All I do is cry and I dont eat. He calls me a ...
A. 11 April 2008: u have to leavehim if he treats you in this way. he is a horrible person. he doesnt love you if he has cheated and got strong feelings for this other woman. you should show him you can and will do it by yourself. he doesnt deserve you. you do need ... (read in full...)
My ex has been telling people we had sex, which is not true. How to react to the rumours?
Q. my ex boyfriend has been telling people we had sex. its not true. what should i do? [Moderator's note. Respondents may treat your situation as common defamation until you can provide us with complementary details. Feel free to write en détail plea...
A. 9 April 2008: i would just say, - did we? well i didnt even notice it was if we did, must have been small... (read in full...)
Information on law related careers, please.
Q. Hi I've got a question for anyone who is studing Law or has any knowledge of law related careers. Is there any lessons in school I can try hard in? What GCSE grades do I need to get to be able to study law? Do I really need a maths GCSE to be able ...
A. 9 April 2008: i dont think maths is a huge requirement to study law but it probably helps to have a C or above in this subject. I cant really relate as maths was my best subject. i went on to study law at college for a level and it was amazing it was so ... (read in full...)
If you overstraighten your hair does it eventually lose its natural waviness? Assuring its healthiness throughout the process?
Q. Hey I've just got a simple hair question.I like my hair straight but I don't want to lose the natural waviness it has. So my question is, if you overstraigten it (or over the years as you keep straigtening it) does it lose its natural waviness? And ...
A. 9 April 2008: in my experience i have been straightening my hair for years now and its still as curly now as the day i started so i dont think it will lose its natural wavy by over straightening. i personally use aussie 3 minute miracle cure conditioner, it ... (read in full...)
Should I ask if we could get a double room or not?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles, I need your advice again please. It is not really a problem but a question as to how you would feel in this situation. OK so my boyfriend (18) and i (20) are planning to go on holiday this summer. I have no idea where as he sa...
A. 9 April 2008: i'm glad it has all worked out for you, dont be afraid to ask each other these things. now your both happy with the decision :)... (read in full...)
Should I ask if we could get a double room or not?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles, I need your advice again please. It is not really a problem but a question as to how you would feel in this situation. OK so my boyfriend (18) and i (20) are planning to go on holiday this summer. I have no idea where as he sa...
A. 8 April 2008: if hes a normal man he will already be booking a double room, unless you have hinted that you would rather have separate rooms? if you are unsure just ask when he has booked it, im sure they will change it if he has booked seperate rooms but i doubt ... (read in full...)
I suspect my ex goes out with my friend to make me jealous! Do I tell my friend how I feel?
Q. me and my boyfriend ended our relationship this morning we agreed to stay friends but i dont want another friend whilst we were going out i knew he had an eye on one of my friends and have just seen them together holding hands and kissing, i dont...
A. 7 April 2008: i dont think telling your friend would help your friendship, she will just think you are jealous and being spitful, just leave them too it show him that you not bothered an if he is with her to make you jealous he will soon realise its not working ... (read in full...)
I know what I did is bad. but am I wrong for thinking this is something she should be able to get over?
Q. i have been dating a woman for 1.5 years. in the beginning of our relationship i was not the perfect guy (sometimes running around with friends seemed more important.) we got past all that shortly after she made me aware that she would not tolerate ...
A. 6 April 2008: yes she is right ti be hurt and upset because of your lie. but i think you shouldnt give up what you done is not like cheating and she hsould be able to get over it but she may not trust u as much at first trust takes time. have you sat and told her ... (read in full...)
I've got a thing about oap's underwear! Can you help?
Q. i'm an 80 year old male and i have a bad problem about knickers worn by oaps. i find myself breaking into nursing and going through the old biddies laundry. i need help its getting out of control as i've now been placed for work in an old peoples ...
A. 1 April 2008: my grandad is 8-0 this year and he hasnt got the fogiest how to use our up to date phone let alone a computer... (read in full...)
I've got a thing about oap's underwear! Can you help?
Q. i'm an 80 year old male and i have a bad problem about knickers worn by oaps. i find myself breaking into nursing and going through the old biddies laundry. i need help its getting out of control as i've now been placed for work in an old peoples ...
A. 1 April 2008: you wouldnt still be working at 80, why are you trying to cover your age up? you do have a problem though. although it is april fools day, so i guess this is what this is... (read in full...)
I have a personal hygiene problem, can you help please?
Q. Asides washing what's another good way of getting rid of smegma (on a penis's head) Not to mention, how do you notice you still have smegma on your penis's? Is it always obvious to see or can it sometimes disguise itself as the penis head's ski...
A. 31 March 2008: i think washing is the only way, washing regularly that is. i guess it can get caught up in th foreskin, so you just need to wash it throughly... (read in full...)
Is it bad to still be a virgin at 13?
Q. I'm a 13yr old girl and I'm still a virgin.Is this bad?I'm worried about me because my friends are already having sex with boys at 13 and 14....
A. 28 March 2008: no it is not a bad thing at all its a very good thing, you should be a virgin till you are comfortable with it, most ppl are virgins till they are 16 - 18 no matter wot they say, some ppl like to lie think it makes them look good but it is a good ... (read in full...)
I think I have to dump her...what's the best way to do it?
Q. Hello. Ive been seeing my girlfriend for nearly two years and I think I have to dump her. Things that shes done in the past that I just cant get out of my head and I have seriously tried to so i think the only way out is to break up. She r...
A. 28 March 2008: these thoughts of the past you cant get out your head are they before you were together or while you were together?... (read in full...)
Why am I getting emotional all the time
Q. ive always been an emotional person but recently its becoming alot worse and i dont understand why. i keep crying for what seems like no reason. take tonight for example. ive got the house to myself because my housemates have gone away and i keep ...
A. 27 March 2008: are you sure your not pregnant?... (read in full...)
Should I stop sleeping with him until he tells me I'm his girlfriend? Is he not confirming this a normal men's thing?
Q. I have been dating this guy for four months now. I want to know if we are going steady because he has never come out and said that I was his girlfriend. His friends wife asured me that there was no one else he was dating. They have been friends for ...
A. 27 March 2008: guys dont work the same as girls, guys seem to have an inbetween period of not bf and gf but not friends girls seem to see it as one or the other. i think you need to talk to him just say you really like him and want to be his gf, dont threaten no ... (read in full...)
Am I just stupid? Does he even love me?
Q. I've only been married a month and a half and I have learned my husband tried calling his ex girlfriend the other day (anonymously). I know this because I looked at his calls on his cell phone. Let me go back a bit to explain why I did this... ...
A. 27 March 2008: personally i dont know why you even forgave him. he showed sure lack of respect cheating on you and its not on, you deserve better than him. i dont think he can love you, you dont hurt someone you love like that... (read in full...)
What are the Tell-Tale signs of your girlfriend cheating on you?
Q. We've all seen those online-articles, magazine articles, about how to tell if you're dating a "playa" or if your man is cheating on you. But I've never seen the inverse of that. How can you tell if your girl's cheating on you? Let's be honest,...
A. 27 March 2008: i guess a girl would maybe lose interest in sex.be more distant be less bothered about things like seeing the guy small things prob hard to notice if you arent looking
and i guess once you start looking you start to convince yourself its true too.... (read in full...)
How can I convince my wife to be a "slave" to another man?
Q. I am a married man and have always wanted my wife to have fum with other men. She see's it as cheating and is not sure. I have told her I would love her to tell me the things seh gets up to with other men whilst we have sex. I also like the id...
A. 27 March 2008: what is wrong with you?
why do you want your wife to cheat on you?
whay are you together you obviously dont satisfy each other?
... (read in full...)
Implantation bleeding or my period...which is it?
Q. Hey all...My period is due in about a week and I was just wondering if what I'm experiencing could be implantation bleeding. I just noticed it yesterday and it was a pretty big spot on my underwear. Since then I have probably filled one tampon and ...
A. 27 March 2008: so you carried on taking your pill so you missed your period? if you do this some ppls bodies just take no notice n have a period anyway so maybe thats what has happened here... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me not to get too DEEP into him, what does this mean?
Q. My boyfriend of 6mnths tld me a few days ago not 2 get 2 deep into him as hee does not want to see me all depressed and stuff if things do not go well. I askd if he was serious about da relationship n he sed he was but how does dat work? I ...
A. 27 March 2008: it sounds like he is just worried that you will get too into him and if things dont work out u will take it really badly, sounds like he has had a bad breakup in the past, possibly a girl threatning to kill herself if shes not with him etc, thats ... (read in full...)
Does having sex too soon sabotage a potential relationship?
Q. Is sleeping with guys 'too soon' sabotaging potential for a relationship? I've always thought of sex very casually, and don't have problems sleeping with guys after a few dates. Often times I'm the one that makes the first move. I enjoy sex, but...
A. 27 March 2008: i ont think if youhave sex on the first or second date you are sabotaging the relationship as such, but if you are looking for a future with a guy i think you need to make them wait to gain respect from them, so they dont think your easy ... (read in full...)
What kind of food can I have that want increase my weight?
Q. I tend to get very emotional when i think about my looks. yet sometimes i think i am pretty. all of my friends and family and some guys tell me i am "beautiful, hott, sexy, pretty, gorgeous" but they are just words. i hate not knowing the truth... ...
A. 24 March 2008: firstly you can eat whatever you want just in proportion, like mcdonalds once a month or something like that. but i really think you are worrying too much about what other ppl think people will love you for you so do what feels most comfortable to ... (read in full...)
How do I make my boyfriend move in with me?
Q. my boyfriend and i fight all the time but i am so in love with him. we plan on getting married and moving in together. he wants to move in in january but i want to move in at the end of summer how do i get him to change his mind to move in with me ...
A. 24 March 2008: y r you rushing this? if you love as much as you say you do you will want to sspend the rest of your lives together so whats wrong with waiting an extra 6 months. maybe you should sort out your issues before you move in together n get married if you ... (read in full...)
She wants to take it slowly so what's the next step for me?
Q. Here's the full story: I met a girl at a party a few weeks back, we spent practically the whole night talking, but my timing was wrong when i asked for a kiss and it didnt happen. We then spent a long time talking a week later at another party an...
A. 24 March 2008: it does sound like she has ben mucked about to act this way, but if i was you i wud leave the ball in her court let her suggest meetng up, just text her and get to know her for now ... (read in full...)
Tattoo taboo -how do I keep it clean?
Q. i got this sick tattoo any ways to keep it real clean so it doesnt get infected???...
A. 24 March 2008: when you get it done they should cover it with a dressing which you should leave on for bout 24 to 72 hours i believe, they will also have tubes of cream which you can buy to put on it i recommend getting one of these. its not difficult to keep ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend sending me off to another woman?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years and most things are good but since she got a new computer game I've felt ignored. After a case of mistaken identity on another site I got chatting to a woman and we've got on really well. Nothing ov...
A. 22 March 2008: this may just be a funny way of her showing she really trusts you. or it could be a test, she says your allowed to go but she doesnt really want you too. have you spoke to her about how you feel? i think you need to, she wont know if you dont tel ... (read in full...)
The Truth about Pubic Hair?
Q. Hi, I am a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend has been wanting to finger me but I am afraid to because I am afraid he will think pubes are gross. I tried shaving them but I had trouble doing a good job and after like a day it was just stubbly and ...
A. 22 March 2008: each man is different, some like pubes some like a few some like none, you have to do what you feel comfortable with and be confident bout it we are all different be proud of what you have... (read in full...)
I haven't seen him for 3 weeks, is he losing interest?
Q. I like a boy in my year we are both 17, i have been talking to him like a good friend for the past month and have grown to like him and think he is fancyable, i think he thinks the same as me now, he always comes over to talk to me at every given ...
A. 22 March 2008: tell him how you feel before the holidays i thik he likes you to from what you have said and you cud meet up in the holidays then. if you dont tell him before hand you may regret it, if he finds someone else in the holidays and thinks why not, coz ... (read in full...)
How do I break up with her if she's done nothing wrong?
Q. Right then... I feel that my girlfriend of 15 months and I don't suit each other any more and should split up. She, as far as I am aware, doesn't believe there's anything wrong and she used to self-harm so I'm worried she'll blame herself. We're a...
A. 21 March 2008: this happens alot in relationships people do grow apart and need to move on. you need to be honest with her, it might be hard for her to take at first but it will be best in the long run. if you dont tell her and you end up cheating on her do you ... (read in full...)
What is a charity shag?
Q. Whats a charity shag? My boyfriend says he doubts anything will ever compare to his charity shag. He won't elaborate he just says its a rare case of female kindness. Guys out there can you help?...
A. 21 March 2008: a girl just felt sorry for him so she had sex with him.
she must have been good if nothing compares to her though, i dont know if you should be concerned that he openly admits that nothing compares to it, he cant have much respect for your feel... (read in full...)
Is being comfortable with little or no passion enough in a relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I of one year broke up shortly after new year. We've had 3 months apart with no contact, and in the past couple of weeks have got back in contact. We missed each other, and have had time to reflect upon the mistakes we both mad...
A. 20 March 2008: be spontaneous both of you... (read in full...)
Is being comfortable with little or no passion enough in a relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I of one year broke up shortly after new year. We've had 3 months apart with no contact, and in the past couple of weeks have got back in contact. We missed each other, and have had time to reflect upon the mistakes we both mad...
A. 20 March 2008: if you love each other and things are as good as you say they are, you owe it to yourself to give it a go if its what you want.
passion doesnt just happen for everyone, but you can make it happen, just go round there one day in a mini skirt no unde... (read in full...)
What is the expiry date on a lie?
Q. What the expiry date on a lie. When we were teenagers my girlfriend never turned up for a date. I went on to marry this girl and later find out she went out on a date with your best friend instead. Does the lie invalidate everything inbetween? like ...
A. 20 March 2008: its it the past and leave it there shes with you now for a reason, shes married you and wants to spend the rest of her life with you.talk to her about but i'm sure she will just reassure you your the one she wants. are you prepared to throw away ... (read in full...)
He can't hold an erection and I take it personally. Now things are weird. What happened?
Q. I have been dating someone new and have slept together about 4 times now. This last time he couldn't hold an erection. I know men feel insecure about this and he hasn't struck me as the insecure type but he kept commenting after that he hopes I ...
A. 20 March 2008: dont rush things the more relaxed and easy you take things the better chance he has of being relaxed and being successful, you must not take this personally, he is obviously worried about this issue. just talk to him and reassure him.
if you stil... (read in full...)
I'm eighteen and my breasts are really small! What can I do?
Q. i am an 18 year old female, with small breasts, im still wearing a 32 a. It is really embarasing when i c other women or girls even younger than me with bigger breast than i. I really need help will my breasts ever grow? i am even self consious when ...
A. 20 March 2008: unfortunately this is not something we can control, every woman is different. in general breasts grow in proportion to your size, the more petite you are the smaller they will be, this isnt always the case, but if you were a size 6 or 8 you would ... (read in full...)
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