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been with many partners in my life and was single for over 25 years I adore women too .

I want group sex with 5 men

Q.   I know this might sound crazy, but I have a long-running fantasy to have group sex with 5 men - I guess what you would call a gang bang. I would like it to be 5 men I don't know too well but who have been "pre-screened", maybe by a swingers group ...

A.   27 October 2009: had an ex do six but she worked up to it and had been swinging since she was14 she didn't allow anal either but anything else was fine good luck... (read in full...)

What to expect with a threesome?

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts, I'm planning on a having a threesome with two men this weekend. I'm really nervous and I don't know what to expect. What should I expect when I have this kind of threesome?...

A.   22 October 2009: relax it can be great and I think it can become addicting it's alive style... (read in full...)

My cousin wants to have sex again! What should I do?

Q.   I whent to see my cousain yesterday me and her realy like each other and we've had sex before safe sex ofcouse but she won'ts us to have it again and I don't no what to say should I or should I not plzz help me ...

A.   20 October 2009: be safe use protection she will make you a experienced lover ... (read in full...)

How can I show her I don't mind sharing her with my brother?

Q.   Hi friends, There is some thing happened in our life. Mine and my wife's. My brother came and stayed with us for 3 months. He was 19 and my wife was 22. She once told me that he is playing around and in a tricky way, as if happens accidentally ...

A.   20 September 2009: you have no problem sharing her take it to the next level since your so open and have a situation where you can give the attention of two men .enjoy... (read in full...)

Is wanting to have sex all the time normal?

Q.   Ok so im 16 going to be 17 in the spring and i have developed an obsession with sex.ive had about 4 partners.i want to have sex all the time i feel like im addicted,im guessing its just my hormons but it still dosent seem normal.but the thing is, ...

A.   16 September 2009: your a busy girl with four partners at your age yes your normal ifit doesn't hurt why not do it your young have fun... (read in full...)

How do you give a blowjob and a handjob?

Q.   ok so i want to give my boyfriend head but im really nervous like what if i bite him by accident and what if he dont like it and also i want to give him a hand job nut i have no ideal will someone please tell me how to give a bj and hj ?? please...

A.   14 September 2009: lots of good advise already the question will be to swallow or not. Practce will help... (read in full...)

I am 13 and I want to have sex with my boyfriend

Q.   im 13 years old and im dating a boy who says he wants me marrie me :) and we have only been going out for 3 months. and we both love each other very much and we have been doing sex practices. not real sex but with our clothes on and it feels so good ...

A.   7 September 2009: your going to have sex soon do get protection... (read in full...)

Should I have sex with him or just keep it at oral?

Q.   im thinking about having sex with this guy who is older than me. he is like 26 and im almost 16. we have been planning on getting together soon. should i really go for it or jus keep our relationship at oral?...

A.   6 September 2009: wait till your 16 and go for it if he doesn't loose interest. Be safe... (read in full...)

This will be the first time I have sex, and I'm worried he'll compare me to other girls!

Q.   ok before i ask this i want to make it clear tht i dont want ppl to tell me not to do this coz i already made up my mind, id just realy appreciate the advice :) basically me and my best guy friend have agreed to have sex, hes had sex befre but i ...

A.   31 August 2009: go for it at least you're friends he'll know what to do to it fun ... (read in full...)

My 14 y/o daughter wants to have sex with her b/f

Q.   My 14 year old daughter has just told me she wants to have a sexual relationship with her 15year old boyfriend. What should i do?...

A.   26 August 2009: get her on the pill and five her a safe environent to have sex she will anyway... (read in full...)

How far should a boyfriend be allowed to go with the other woman in a threesome?

Q.   If you are bisexual and want a threesome with another woman, how far would you let boyfriend (long-term boyfriend) go with her?...

A.   23 August 2009: your going all the way with I guess he should be allowed to do the same... (read in full...)

Why do people want to have threesomes, and how do they work?

Q.   Are people ment to like threesomes? os if you and your boyfriend had a threesome with another girl wouldn't his girlfriend get really jealous watching her boyfriend with another girl having sex with her right next to her? Second question is, is t...

A.   19 August 2009: they definitly addictive but can work out I think it's easier for a girl to have a couple of men , a guy would have hard time pleasing two girls... (read in full...)

She's 13 and she wants me to have sex with her!!!

Q.   Hi I'm 16 and my girlfriend has just turned 13 but she wants sex! What should I do? Is it ok to have sex with someone that age cos she has kept asking me almost every night for about 3 weeks....

A.   14 August 2009: your close in age 3 yrs may or may not be a legal issue doesn't say if she's a virgin if so she's knows whhen she's ready... (read in full...)

I finally acted out my fantasy and now I feel sick and disgusted

Q.   To cut this as brief as possible,i had always had a fantasy of being gangbanged. I decided to do it with 6 guys. Unfortunately,i feel ill with disgust,the reality is i was lying there and they were just taking turns. I feel violated,it wasnt what i ...

A.   9 August 2009: I agree start out slow maybe two three and so on . I had a gf who enjoyed gangbanging but she worked up to it over years , so go slow next time it could be wildlyy fun ... (read in full...)

Suggestions for 'freaky' things to do with my BF

Q.   this sounds kinda gross but my boyfriend and I wanna start getting "freaky." like I swallow and he loves it and he wants me to like snowball him. like spit the cum into his mouth and make out with him. do you guys know any other like freaky ...

A.   5 August 2009: freeze vegetables fruit anything you like eat insret in your pussey and let them melt it's wild have him work you up first it mind blowing for the girl... (read in full...)

Suggestions for 'freaky' things to do with my BF

Q.   this sounds kinda gross but my boyfriend and I wanna start getting "freaky." like I swallow and he loves it and he wants me to like snowball him. like spit the cum into his mouth and make out with him. do you guys know any other like freaky ...

A.   4 August 2009: try a threesome girls or guys see if he's bi it's ok for girls to be bi!... (read in full...)

Need a few tips on how to give a good hand-job?

Q.   Okay so today I was with my bf and we were hangin out with his friends and stuff and when they all left we were getting into it and iwe couldn't hav sex cause monthly shit ya know? And so he wanted a hj and I just had my hand on his tummy and he ...

A.   18 July 2009: Your kind of young but since will do it anyway wrong or right thumb on top fingers on the bottom of the shaft and pull gently but with a fun grip but not too hard. You know this will lead to more than you may be ready. For... (read in full...)

B/f agreed to threesome but what do I do now?

Q.   My boy friend and I have been going out for over a year. About two months ago we broke up for over a month. Now that my boy friend and I are back together for a few weeks, we have agreed to be more open and tell each other how we feel about thing...

A.   15 July 2009: threesomes become a lifestyle and don't stop at the wedding . Healthy sex with friends sometimes works just fine it's has to be mutual... (read in full...)

I have a thing for my cousin's daughter

Q.   I have a thing for my cousin's daughter. We are both single and we are far from children. She is very bright and interesting, and there is a physical appeal. We spoke recently at a party and she actually told my mother in a telephone conversation ...

A.   10 July 2009: shes your second cousin it's common in some countrys to date them ... (read in full...)

To Swallow or not to swallow....

Q.   My girlfriend and i r 15 and we've been together for around a year, we're each others soulmates and are truely in love. while having oral sex, should she swallow if i ejaculates in her mouth or not? ...

A.   3 July 2009: swallow at least once then make up your mind... (read in full...)

I've had 4 sexual partners, is that a lot for a woman my age?

Q.   I'm 23 and have had 4 sexual partners. Is that a lot for a woman my age? My last ex told me during our break up that guys will think I'm really slutty now that I've been with 4 different men, but he might've been trying to make me feel bad. ...

A.   3 July 2009: Not slot at all. Some women in my past that were your age had over 30 as long as your STD free don't worry Have fun ... (read in full...)

Seeing a married man and he wants us to have sex in his wife's bed!

Q.   I'm 18 and seeing a married man of 40, and its just mainly sex but i wish he would leave his wife for me, we usually have sex in his car and he suggested how hot and thrilling it would be to have sex in his and his wife's bed? The only thing...

A.   2 July 2009: I presonnally like married women the sex is always willing and wild . The age difference might not work . It's probally just sex for him and if your ok with that be secret about the whole thing... (read in full...)

Is it normal to be attracted to your boyfriend's friend?

Q.   i have a boyfriend of 6 months whom i love and he loves me back , thing is lately i have found myself a bit attracted to a friend of mine , that friend i have known for 3 months only and we have hell alot in common and i understand him when we talk ...

A.   28 June 2009: it's the next avalible male theory messagebme if you want the whole theory.... (read in full...)

How many is too many sexual partners?

Q.   How Many is Too Many?? I am just curious, I had the post earlier about peoples opinions/views on casual sex? That got me to thinking, how many would you think is too many for past number of sexual partners?? I mean I know there are average...

A.   27 June 2009: me 27 I'm much older then the poster. ... (read in full...)

How many is too many sexual partners?

Q.   How Many is Too Many?? I am just curious, I had the post earlier about peoples opinions/views on casual sex? That got me to thinking, how many would you think is too many for past number of sexual partners?? I mean I know there are average...

A.   27 June 2009: Never too many as long as it's safe... (read in full...)

How can I forget about my wife's past?

Q.   My wife has had vaginal intercourse (about 48 times with three guys, 6+12+30), anal intercourse (one time each with two guys), and/or oral sex (about twenty five times from four guys) with six men other than me. She has given manual and/or oral sex ...

A.   23 June 2009: I had a past girlfriend who was a swinger from 14-20yrs of age and could not tell you how many partner she had or their names she said was sexually active since she was 12 but involved in oral ever vsincev she could remember . One thing is she ... (read in full...)

A poll regarding virginity

Q.   I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...

A.   6 June 2009: girls seem to. Lose it sooner I was 17... (read in full...)

Wondering how people's 'first times' were?

Q.   Okay so I've been awfully curious about how different first times having sex has gone. This isn't like an advice needed thing. I would just like to hear how male and female first times went. Did you regret it after? What made you feel like you were ...

A.   6 June 2009: I was 17 and girlfriend was 14 it was ackwsrd first rme after tag sex wasgreat and very often . Had an affair with her 15 years later and it lasted 7.Years she was married and had 2 kids during that time sex was great but a lot of preganancy ... (read in full...)

He woke me up, put his penis in my mouth and told me to SUCK!!!

Q.   I love my boyfriend very much, but my friends think he's no good for me. He always tells me how sexy I am and how he thinks Im amazing in bed. I don't see how this is 'using me' as my friends think. The only thing that disturbs me, is that ...

A.   23 May 2009: group we is not for everybody but the key is a very secure relatioship must exist first and if there is one they can be great!!!!! Must have rules on how own the relationship is whether you can have sex when your partner not around it can work well ... (read in full...)

What does cum taste like?

Q.   hey guys, I was wondering what 'cum' really tastes like? I have heard on here and friends that it tastes real bad and can anyone relate what it tastes like to a certain food or something? so then at least when the time comes I will be ready, so wha...

A.   14 May 2009: my gf has had no problems swallowing. they sometimes crave it. can't be that bad... (read in full...)

What are some hot things to say while having sex?

Q.   What are some hot things to say when your having sex that will get him really turned on?...

A.   7 May 2009: fantise about what turns you on and be verbal even if it's out of character... (read in full...)

I only like much older men, guys my age just don't do it for me. Has anyone else felt this way?

Q.   Recently, I have realised that I only like much older men than me, I have dated guys my age but it just doesn't do it for me. I'm not talking a couple of years older either, I mean men in their 30s and 40s. Now I have never had a relationship with ...

A.   5 May 2009: been there with huge age diff some work but the sex was great for both... (read in full...)

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