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It wasn't until someone else wanted him that I realised I want him, too!

Q.   Dear agony aunt, I went out with a boy for a year and a half, then we broke up - on good terms, mind you. Then people started shit stirring and basically I got people on to him. But recently I've realised I still like him a lot. But the problem ...

A.   3 May 2005: Hey, You're so confused and your story sounds extremely familiar - I wonder where from! I've been there basically not so long ago, so don't worry. Now I won't talk about shit so let's get straight to the point: go for it, that's all I can say!!... (read in full...)

My sexy mom...

Q.   hi, I am 18 years old boy. I have a sexy mom. I want sex with her. Tell me what should I do....

A.   3 May 2005: hey, Everyone at some point has feelings for someone in their family, if they are close. You are obviously confused and you're getting mixed up with family love and relationship love! My advice would be DON'T EVER THINK ABOUT THE FACT YOU LOVE HER... (read in full...)

What did his "maybe" mean? Is he asking me out?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Today at school,I was standing at my friend's locker,and the guy I like came up to us and told me that he needed to talk to me. He asked me if I still liked him. After I said yes, he told me that he had been "taking it into thought"...

A.   1 April 2005: Hi Sara, Yes, he is asking you out. I was there in your shoes, exactly in your shoes. A guy I like came up to me once and said "maybe". After a while he told me that because I didn't go out with him straightaway he got bored and that he didn't w... (read in full...)

I have a huge crush on my best friend's sister... and she's keen too!

Q.   Hi, I have a huge crush on my best friend's sister, and I found out that she has a crush on me too; should we tell him now, or wait awhile and let it slowly slip out...thanks...

A.   31 March 2005: Hi, You should tell him how you feel for his sister. If he really is your mate he won't mind. It might be a shock at first but when it settles in he will understand. Good luck! Not that you'll need it. It'll be fine!... (read in full...)

My passion with lorry driver lover... But does he really live with sister or is it wife!?

Q.   In august 2004 I replyed to an advert in my local paper and starting to text a lorry driver, im 28 and he is 33 and we are both pisces and before you know it we ended up meeting and I went with him during the night delivering goods all over the ...

A.   31 March 2005: Hi, If you carry on at the rate you're going, you will become more than friends. Just ask him what he looks for in a girl then try to match up to it. Although you shouldn't have to change yourself just to please a man. If he says that he is looking ... (read in full...)

I keep dreaming of my very first boyfriend...and wanting to get back in touch.

Q.   Dear Cupid, I can't get a former boyfriend off my mind. It’s a very weird situation considering the fact that we were only children when we met. He was my "boyfriend" for three years. I say it that way because our relationship was very innocent, w...

A.   31 March 2005: hi, take the advice from someone who was EXACTLY in your shoes, EXACTLY! When i was younger i fell in love SERIOUSLY when i was just eleven going on twelve. The boy i loved had this effect on me that was indescribable which is how you feel.... (read in full...)

I have braces and the boy I like is a brace-hater....

Q.   I have just recently had braces put in. I like this boy but he likes girls who are fit and who do not have braces. What should I do? ...

A.   31 March 2005: hi, You shouldn't do anything. A boy should like you for who you are not what you are, it's so obvious that no one knows about it. You shouldn't have to change yourself to impress someone. If this boy wants you to change he doesn't deserve you at a... (read in full...)

I'm happy being gay, but shocked to find I'm attracted to a woman!

Q.   I'm a gay guy who has always known my sexuality and came out when I was 18 and I've always had closer friendships with females. But recently I have found myself falling for a lady who is one of my best friends at my work place. We go out for drinks ...

A.   31 March 2005: hi, This is my advice to you. If you know this woman as a mate you will probably be attracted to her personality rather than her. This woman may only be attracting you because she's kind and caring and your obviously not getting that out of a re... (read in full...)

When I looked into her eyes, I was in heaven. But because I'm a girl too, she thinks of me as a mate...

Q.   Hey I'mm only 13 and I'm a girl but I'm madly in love with the same sex. I fell in love with her since we started year 8 and she was going out with this boy. She always talked to me about how romantic they are to each other and she would go all soft ...

A.   31 March 2005: hi, you sound like a lovely girl........who is a bit confused. You obviously feel strongly about this girl and you should follow your heart and decide whether you want to tell her if she is truly your mate she will understand how you feel. It sou... (read in full...)

I've been single for two years and no one seems to want to ask me out!

Q.   Hi, I'm 20 years old and have been single for nearly two years. Lately it's been geting me down. People say they fancy me but never ask me out or for my number. I'm not standoffish but I'm not easy either. Is it just most men my age just wan...

A.   31 March 2005: hi, you should go out to somewhere civilised and where sensible people will hang out which isn't in pubs or clubs or anywhere that is a place where all you do is booze go somewhere fun and where you think the kind of guy you want would hang out. Go... (read in full...)

The girl who's interested in me is younger than me. What do I do?

Q.   Dear Cupid Hi, I am a 16 year old boy who lives in the UK and this girl I know who is 14 wants to go out with me. I don't know what to do, as I think people may think this is strange. Plz can you help me? cheers ...

A.   31 March 2005: hi Just follow your heart and think about all the relationships you know. The girl is usually 2 or 3 years younger so this isn't strange. It doesn't matter what your friends think just tell them how you feel about this girl. Imagine the girl's f... (read in full...)

I've never asked a guy out before, but this one is gorgeous. Should I?

Q.   I have worked in a shop for the past 6 months. The most gorgeous guy I have ever met comes in and whenever we can (which isnt very often!) we will chat about everything and anything. Every time I look at him he is looking at me with a big smile, b...

A.   31 March 2005: Hi, take it from me I've been there as well. I just got into a conversation with my guy and then just gave him a compliment like, he is funny. Then say that you'd like to meet up with him again as friends. When you go out he will realise how much he ... (read in full...)

Another girl is extra-friendly with my boyfriend. He says he's not interested, so what's she doing?

Q.   I'm totally in love with my boyfriend of 10 months and he feels the same towards me. We're moving in together in 2 weeks and we couldn't be happier. There's just one thing that has annoyed me lately and that's his female friend. Well I say friend ...

A.   30 March 2005: Okay listen up. I have the best advice possible: your boyfriend obviously doesn't care about this girl but you do. You need to talk to your boyfriend seriously about it and you need to trust him. If you can't trust your boyfriend then there's ... (read in full...)

My b/f and I want to move in together, but I'm only 16 and I don't know how to tell my mum.

Q.   Hi, Im currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and we are thinking about moving in together. The problem is, is that I work in southport and he is getting a flat in Liverpool so I can transfer. But the bigger problem is that I'm only 16 and m...

A.   30 March 2005: If you know your mum won't approve just explain how much you love your b/f then your mum will take it into account and she may even understand how you feel and why you want to live together. Eventually your mum will approve and it may even be ... (read in full...)

Three guys are too many choices...

Q.   Hiya I have a dilemma...There are 3 guys I fancy and who fancy me back, but I do not know who to chose to go out with. Guy 1 is younger than me, which I have a serious problem with, but he treats me with respect. Guy 2 is very affectionate but...

A.   30 March 2005: Take it from someone who was in the exact same shoes a couple of weeks ago. I had 3 guys in the same age range as yours who fancied me and I fancied them. I just followed my heart and imagined who I would be most happiest with, who I could trust an... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and flirting with a married man

Q.   Dear Agony Helper, I am 14 years old and i work for my parents as they own a chinese takeaway. There is also a guy who works for my parents and he does the delivery. He is married and has 4 kids, he's in his 40s....

A.   30 March 2005: Hi Confused, It's obvious that you feel strongly for this man but he may not feel the same about you. He knows what he is doing is seriously wrong and he is trying to confuse you. This man could be anyone with his goals aiming high to hurt ... (read in full...)

How do I find out if this guy is interested in me?

Q.   My name is Rose, and I am deeply attracted to a guy that I work with. His name is Joe, and I feel that he is attracted towards me as I get the impression that he is always fussing over me, and I think it was him that sent me a Valentines card back ...

A.   30 March 2005: I think you should go for it and say that you like him. It doesn't mean too much and it doesn't mean too little. You should tell him a few things that you like about him. You should explain how you feel towards him. It doesn't matter about how the ... (read in full...)

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