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Why would he go through all that trouble just to ignore me at the last minute when he became serious with this girl?

Q.   Okay, so here's my situation. My first boyfriend of 5 years who is now my ex has a girlfriend. Him and I have known each other for 12 years. Our relationship has been an on and off thing because he always told me the same thing (I want to explore my ...

A.   9 August 2013: So, he wrote to me for some reason saying he has moved on and hope that I will do the same and that he decided he's going to settle with his current gf and is opening up to her and that he's going to cut all communication with me and that he finally ... (read in full...)

Perfect one minute, drifting the next, what should I do?

Q.   So I have been depressed and heart broken for the past two weeks and a half now. I was engaged to be married and he recently broke up with me saying that he gave up on me a long time ago because I wasn't as affectionate to him as I use to be. The ...

A.   23 October 2011: So it's been 3 1/2 months since the breakup and we have not spoken or seen each other at all. I have text him to get the rest of my things but am not sure why he refuses to talk to me and at times he completely ignores me. It's like if he wants to ... (read in full...)

Fiance doesn't understand that I want to live a health life!

Q.   So my fiance don't care much about health, diet, eating habits, etc while i do and am trying and would love to eat and be as healthy as i can be not just for myself but for my future family and my career. I currently hold a bachelor's in Alternative ...

A.   7 September 2010: Talkinghelps you are wrong. He liked my lentil burger and as i stated before, he ate 4 of them thank you. You wouldn't know if you'd like them if you don't try :-). ... (read in full...)

Fiance doesn't understand that I want to live a health life!

Q.   So my fiance don't care much about health, diet, eating habits, etc while i do and am trying and would love to eat and be as healthy as i can be not just for myself but for my future family and my career. I currently hold a bachelor's in Alternative ...

A.   4 September 2010: Thank You Cerberus, he doesn't cook cause he doesn't know how. He'll make anything easy like scrambled eggs (He doesn't know how to make hard boiled eggs lol), Toast, and anything already already made in which you just have to heat up and go. I've ... (read in full...)

Fiance doesn't understand that I want to live a health life!

Q.   So my fiance don't care much about health, diet, eating habits, etc while i do and am trying and would love to eat and be as healthy as i can be not just for myself but for my future family and my career. I currently hold a bachelor's in Alternative ...

A.   4 September 2010: I see everyone's point of view on this subject but it's not like i had in mind to stick to this diet forever. I honestly can't do that because there are other foods that i enjoy and like in which i grew up with and is a part of my culture. I can't ... (read in full...)

Getting married next month after six years, but no sex

Q.   My fiance and I have been together for 6 and a half years. The past two years we have been engaged and are getting married next month. We just moved in together about 3 months ago, and it's not at all what I had hoped for. We tend to work opposites, ...

A.   3 September 2010: Sounds similar to one of the questions i posted not so long ago. What does he do on his spare time? Does he play video games? Or does he try to spend at least 1 hr of his time with you? Do you guys communicate with each other the same as before? ... (read in full...)

Is he not taking our wedding plans seriously?

Q.   We got engaged on March and decided the date of our wedding to be March 19, 2011. I heard it's best to start planning 1 yr ahead and so that's what i started to do with my mother's help. However, he always seemed to get upset about it saying I am ...

A.   31 August 2010: Thanks for your answers guys. I guess my family (mother) makes me depressed and stressed out cause like I said, it's 6 months away and she's always saying we need more time to plan it and he's not taking it seriously and that it's never gonna ... (read in full...)

Why is he saying he doesn't deserve me?

Q.   I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years and recently he has been sayin that he doesn't deserve me. He keeps saying that I should break up with him and everything. I don't know if he doesn't love anymore or he wants to find some one new....

A.   31 August 2010: I've been there with my ex whom i was with almost 5yrs. He always use to tell me the same thing and as it turned out, he always wanted to leave me after he'd say that because he was getting to know another girl. I always got hurt and hence, put up ... (read in full...)

If he cums in my mouth I feel sick the next day.

Q.   me and boyfriend sometimes have oral sex. when he cums in my mouth the next day my body always hurts or my stomache hurts. why is that? ...

A.   15 August 2010: It might be a psychological problem. Maybe something happened to you when you were young and don't even know it or remember. Past traumas can have a major affect and impact in one's current life and future. Depending on how intense that trauma was. ... (read in full...)

Really embarrassed about the after affects of anal sex... is it normal?

Q.   Hi, I am a gay male, and I recently started having anal sex (receiving), and it feels great! He is very gentle, since he knows I'm inexperienced and, well, tight! But I noticed a bit of feces on the condom a couple times. Another time, I was on ...

A.   15 August 2010: Hi Inexperienced Gay Boy, have never had anal sex in my entire life before. However, I do feel for you and can understand the embarrassment you must be going through every time this happens once you are done with your sex partner. This I've hea... (read in full...)

Why do I pee when having sex

Q.   Iv'e been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both 17. Last month it was our first time to have sex. I'm on the pill and we used protection. The first time we did it, it felt like I really needed a pee. We had sex again last night this was our ...

A.   15 August 2010: Sounds to me like he is hitting your g-spot. If you feel like you got to go pee and you feel like a little bit of fluid comes out, then it's your g-spot. If you stop him before that fluid comes out and you go to the bathroom only to find that you ... (read in full...)

My current bf called his ex "My Whore" Is this something to be alarmed about?

Q.   Okay, so maybe I'm over reacting and being stupid idk. Perhaps even worrying too much but... I decided to ask for other people's opinion. I've been in a 5 to 6 months relationship with my bf/fiance whom when i met had broke up with his ex gf/ex ...

A.   26 May 2010: He says he is over her and that he loves me. That's what kind of confuses me. He hates talking about his ex and past relationship with her and he hates hearing her name. Even as a joke. Sometimes i don't understand why if he is over her already and ... (read in full...)

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