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Will this get in the way when I have sex?

Q.   Hello. when i am on an errection and go to pull back the forskin, i can only pull it back a little bit, only enough to see the top of the penis, i am nervoius that this will get in the way when i have sex?...

A.   3 November 2010: dude a lot of women like that.... (read in full...)

Penis enlargement medications?

Q.   I know there are many adverts on the internet for penis enlargement schemes and medications but I would be grateful to know if any of the readers has tried any of these and found it effective and true to its advertisement? thanks. ...

A.   3 November 2010: No they won’t work dude. The penis when fully erect is determined by the sizes of you vein and nothing else. If you have small vein than its small and it will always be like that. Get over it.... (read in full...)

Should I take him back or just let go?

Q.   First off, I love him and he loves me. It's totally a proven fact. So here's what happend. I'm 19. He's alot older then me, and we broke up the first time because he did not have a job and I was paying rent and all the expenses. I freaked out. He ...

A.   3 November 2010: First I like to say I can feel you’re hurt and I see you went very wrong here. “I love him and he loves me.” Always let people speak for themselves. Trust is what you two were really lacking here: “people started badgering me” “Everyone was tell... (read in full...)

Can a gift get an ex back?

Q.   Do men really care if you put a lot of thought into a gift for them or not? i bought my then boyfriend a vintage concert t-shirt to replace the one he got destroyed and had to give it to him after we broke up cause i don't need it... He was ...

A.   1 November 2010: I would say No... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend keep looking at porn???

Q.   I've caught my boyfriend for the second time looking at porn and masturbating over it. I hate the thought of my boyfriend looking at other naked girls on the internet and wanking off to them. Iv been seeing him for just over 2 years and its ...

A.   1 November 2010: I believe if someone totally respect you and your relationship getting rid of porn shouldn't be a problem. I don't think jerky doesn't take your feeling into consideration. It'll get worst and when he gets bored with you he be fucking himself ... (read in full...)

He's smoking again and I consider this like cheating!

Q.   My boyfriend and I are both 20 (almost 21) and have been together for a little over four months now. He was a smoker for two years before he started dating me and he told me he would quit once we started dating; that was the ultimatum I set for him ...

A.   1 November 2010: I smoke a pack of day. You hold his foot to the fire and don't budge. ... (read in full...)

He says he really likes me but doesn't want a girlfriend.

Q.   I have been seeing this guy for a few months now (I have not been sleeping with him) ... He comes down basicully every night after work and college and we watch some t.v and chat. We do sleep in the same bed, although we are not having sex. He seems ...

A.   31 October 2010: I think he's upfront as well. I think if he just wanted sex he would have gotten it by now, I really don't see the poster saying no to him. I think he feeling pressure bye those ultimatums that he even had to confront the dating issue. You can come ... (read in full...)

How much baggage is too much baggage?

Q.   How much baggage is too much, should it matter anyway? Am I to swallow my pride and move on. How do I stop thinking of the negative ? Ive been with my girlfriend for just over a year now. Prior to that I was in a long term relationship straig...

A.   31 October 2010: I always ask up front just to make sure I know the person. You asked to late and it shouldn't make a different now. You been with her for over a year, so why now dig into her past. I think you should let this go and move on. You should know her now. ... (read in full...)

Should I go back to the love of my life?

Q.   the love of my life has come back after a few years,not sure what to do because during this time i got back with a previous ex i was with before the love of my life.i dont want to go behind anyones back,but why do these things happened?someone told ...

A.   31 October 2010: The grass is not always greener. He's the love of your life, but he doesn't see it as you do. Why would two people that love each other drift apart. This could be a good friend and shouldn't go any further than that. We'll its your choice, but don't ... (read in full...)

Threesomes... good or bad idea???

Q.   What do you think.... threesomes, good or bad idea?? in general! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and our sex life is just fine, we still have just as much sex now as when we first started out but if im being honest, I would ...

A.   31 October 2010: When you meet your new guy make sure you say NO to any other extra partners. ... (read in full...)

Am I a lesbian? I'm in love with my bestfriend, but no other girls.

Q.   I've just turned 17. Me and this girl have been best friends for about 5 years. No exaggeration, she's absolutley gorgeous, she's a model, she's so funny and really genuinely nice. She used to say "Oh, I love you" (as a friend I persumed) which al...

A.   30 October 2010: No you're not a lesbian and I doubt your bi. Its her your best friend that you admire, adore, and you find her beautiful. Their no switch to turn gay on and of its either you like women or not. You think you're gay because she turns you on, but I ... (read in full...)

I need to get rid of this young girl before my wife finds out!

Q.   I need help getting rid of a girl of a young girl in my life... This is causing me much stress and I don't know what to do.. Here is a little background... I'm in my mid 40s, been married for 20 years and have two teenage daughters. My w...

A.   30 October 2010: I became upset while reading your advice but calmed after I read your follow up. Its looked to me that she was up front about things. Only she knows how she feels, but I doubt she has no feeling for a man basically is a boyfriend/husband to her. To ... (read in full...)

He acts like he hates me and I don't want to keep begging him

Q.   Hi,my boyfriend broke up with me about two weeks ago after an 8 month relationship. He said it was better for both of us. Lately we've been having lots of arguments and he has anger management issues.At the beginning of this month, he slapped me ...

A.   30 October 2010: Your guy is unstable and really needs a professional counselor. I doubt he's in the right mind set for a relationship. A lot of women take abuse for years before the leave them. You need to walk away for good unless he agrees to get help. Your guy ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for him to masturbate to porn whenever I am not at home?

Q.   my guy masturbates every time I am not home to porn is this normal? Even if we have sex on a regular? It always makes me angry when I find out , should I be worried ? I have talked to him about it but he says its normal but it hurts my feelings ...

A.   27 October 2010: Its only normal if you accept its normal. Don't listen to people that turning his whacking off on you. First when I looked at your post I thought you have a bigger problem his masturbation. I thought you have a trust problem. We all know that a lack ... (read in full...)

Could my dad be cheating on my mom?

Q.   I was browsing through my dad's phone and saw a msg from a woman in our church giving him her banking details and said " i luv u c u on d....." What does that mean? Is he cheating on mom....

A.   27 October 2010: I have a lot of female friends that we say to each other (I love you) but its a friend love. Nothing romantic like you're thinking. ... (read in full...)

In the heat of the argument I told him he has a tiny penis! I know I have screwed up, so how do I fix this?

Q.   Ok so ive been seeing this guy for a while now almost a year. He told me before that he always thought he had a small penis (he had been drinking, in fact i dont know if he remembers telling me that) but hes not small hes like 6.5 in. Ive been told ...

A.   27 October 2010: Theirs no fixing this remark. Its said it done just let it go. Try encouragement later. I am sure you already apologized and repeated apologies would only remind him of what he think is a short coming. You two will get through it. I must say you won ... (read in full...)

How to handle trust issueswith pornography, boyfriend & lying

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. My previous boyfriend was addicted to porn and lied about it. I'm one of those girls who hate it--it's demoralizing in my eyes, sick, and perverted. So when I asked him about watching it or ...

A.   27 October 2010: Dirtball I want respond to that garbage. Here figure out her key point. Here what does this say to you: "it's demoralizing in my eyes, sick, and perverted." Its targeting her mental state sooner or later she'll be depress by all this constance ... (read in full...)

His family is keeping me from my love!

Q.   i am incredibly in love with my boyfriend, no matter how young i am, i still love him, he's asian, so his parents are a little stricter when it comes to his education. They have recently been making sure we dont see eachother as much, taking away ...

A.   26 October 2010: You took offense to what I had written so let me restated a little clearer. 1.) You said you weren't doing anything yet his mother caught you all hugged up on his bed. What image do you think that cross her mind. A 14 year old girl in her son ... (read in full...)

I don't feel comfortable at my boyfriend spending the night with her ALONE!

Q.   My boyfriend has a female friend, who he was in love with before he met me. Nothing ever happened between them, except that eventually he told her how he felt and they talked it over. Now his feelings for her are platonic and he's been with me for ...

A.   26 October 2010: Listen whether its happen are not your guy will always hope. I really doubt he'll try anything with her. I think if she pull back the sheets then you will be nowhere in his mind. I know he's showing her what a true friend he can be and she can ... (read in full...)

Will our relationship last?

Q.   hi! am 23 years old, dating a 45 year old. he is married having three kids, his relationship with his wife is complicated. the wife left him with kids and went back to her home. the man is struggling so hard to raise the kids. will our ...

A.   26 October 2010: Short answer is no. One of the hardest thing for a man is to change routines. Most likely when they divorce its the wife that demands it not him. He needs help more of a maid than lover. If I was you I would back away and for heaven sakes don't fuck ... (read in full...)

How to handle trust issueswith pornography, boyfriend & lying

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. My previous boyfriend was addicted to porn and lied about it. I'm one of those girls who hate it--it's demoralizing in my eyes, sick, and perverted. So when I asked him about watching it or ...

A.   26 October 2010: You should always speak only for yourself. Most men don't watch porn are it would be larger than it is today and not taboo as its seems to be. Sex is away of expressing one feeling for their partner. When you masturbating whom are you expressing it ... (read in full...)

Very depressed about bad sexual experience and small penis!

Q.   Hello everyone, I am 21 years old and I have a small penis and have a very general questions. Should I look into some type of enlargement methods? I admit i have very low confidence about myself and most likely this is the more of an issue tha...

A.   26 October 2010: Dude really your over the top here. Every guy that's sleep with a woman going to feel like he's inept to her. Find away to get this under control. There's other ways to please her besides your penis as well. www.sexinfo101.com learn and you will be ... (read in full...)

Threesome lead to wife giving something that I had always wanted

Q.   Awhile back, my wife and I got drunk and lost our inhibitions and did something we always fantasized about, but should have left as a fantasy. We had a threesome, with a complete stranger. We picked a stranger, because we thought the chances of a...

A.   26 October 2010: When you treat your wife as a slut don't get up set when she acts as one. You said it best something needs to remain as fantasy. Why will you leave her for something you talk her into doing? ... (read in full...)

I found naughty texts do I confront her?

Q.   I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over 3 months. My friends don't think she is trustworthy. The other day I was going through her phone and I noticed a text from a guy named John. I clicked on it and it said thing like I want you so b...

A.   26 October 2010: You're sleeping next to her each night. You two been dating for three months. You wonder why theirs no trust between the two of you. You two don't know each other. Why would you spy in the first place then ask her about it. I bet you have a mental ... (read in full...)

His family is keeping me from my love!

Q.   i am incredibly in love with my boyfriend, no matter how young i am, i still love him, he's asian, so his parents are a little stricter when it comes to his education. They have recently been making sure we dont see eachother as much, taking away ...

A.   26 October 2010: Sorry but if I would have saw that I would have ask you to leave also. I would've never allow you to be in his room in the fist place. I would have asked you to not come back. Don't need any babies. Its not a matter of standing up to his parents its ... (read in full...)

Is the date of filing for divorce also the date that one or both spouses are free to have new sexual relationships?

Q.   I filed for divorce and soon thereafter discovered that my wife is having a sexual relationship with another man. She says that since I have filed for divorce, she is free to have sex with other men and her behavior therefore is not adultery nor ...

A.   26 October 2010: The day she knows with out a doubt she doesn't love you is the day she is free to do what she likes. How can she cheat on you if you two don't love each other. Sex is just an expression of that love so how can you consider it cheating. Just because ... (read in full...)

In love and now we're "kissing cousins"

Q.   I'm 21 years old and i'm in love with my 15 year old cousin. I have told her how I feel about her and she told me she feels the same way. I was shocked when she told me she's in love with me too. We are now kissing cousins. I know my feelings for ...

A.   26 October 2010: Every father worst nightmare running free (you). Stop saying you love her that's a cop-out. You want to have sex with her or more of you will love to fuck her. Your own family member is off limits. "She told me she has always wanted her first... (read in full...)

Did he get what he wanted and now I'm not important?

Q.   I have been with my bf for 9 and a half months, a couple of days ago I performed oral sex on him for the first time (we has previously done other stuff) at the time it was like he was encouraging it (I started by kissing him stomach and got lower, ...

A.   25 October 2010: I think your ok here. I think what you want to know is you gave him a bj and a few day later you two went to see a movien then he had a choice you or a video game. The video game will win every time. He'll be back. ... (read in full...)

15 and pregnant...parents don't know..

Q.   I am 15 and 2 months pregnant.. i have told my boyfriend of 9 months this and he is happy but scared like me. but i have a big problem. my parents do not know and his don't either. and this baby doesn't belong to my boyfriend. i started seeing ...

A.   25 October 2010: Its obvious you took offense at what I written here, its the truth. I spelled it out for you. Penis plus vagina equals baby in mst cases. Condoms usually don't break are come off unless they're used improperly such as applying oils are using one ... (read in full...)

When does the age gap become too big?

Q.   Recently started seeing a friend of a friend, and found out that he is 22 years my senior (I am 44). You do the math. I had simply never asked, and didn't realize he was that much older, he certainly doesn't look it, and our mutual friends are my ...

A.   25 October 2010: When its affect you personally and mentally the gap is to big. ... (read in full...)

He took rough sex too far and now I'm afraid to trust him

Q.   My boyfriend like to be rough during sex. So when he started slapping my face about 6 months ago I told him that he was taking it too far and they only thing I don't want him to do is slap me because I feel like he is abusing me. He still likes to ...

A.   25 October 2010: Listen sweetie this man beats your azz at your most vulnerable time. When you give yourself to him. He's should be your protector, yet he loves seeing you humiliated. That why I say those porn movies are corrupting people minds. If I were you ... (read in full...)

I didn't treat my friend well, now she won't have anything to do with me!

Q.   if anybody will help, do you think all problems have a solution?? i have a problem that is just making me so depresed i had a friend who i didnt treat well sometimes shes mad at me or feels she needs a time apart.But it has been months already and ...

A.   25 October 2010: I believe every problem has a solution just as yours do. You friend found the answer, yet you want to change the outcome to favor you. If you care for your formal friend thenjust let her be. She moved on. ... (read in full...)

I need sex asap! Sleep with a prostitute?

Q.   Sorry for the long question, I need to set the background. And I really need help (I thought about going to a shrink, but I can't afford it). I'm a foreign PhD in the US. My English language is good but not great. I go along pretty well. I e...

A.   25 October 2010: Post an ad for FWB and no strings relationship. Make sure you understand it purely for relief. As a virgin we tend to fall in love with the female that takes it. Just remind yourself it fake love and just lust. ... (read in full...)

15 and pregnant...parents don't know..

Q.   I am 15 and 2 months pregnant.. i have told my boyfriend of 9 months this and he is happy but scared like me. but i have a big problem. my parents do not know and his don't either. and this baby doesn't belong to my boyfriend. i started seeing ...

A.   25 October 2010: I had to read it twice before I got it. Stop don't you get rid of either of them before you find out who's the father is. If you're sexing both of them then either one could have father that child. You had sex today it doesn't mean your pregnant ... (read in full...)

I like a 40 y/o man and I am 17...what are the chances?

Q.   I met a man in a chat room on July of this year. We didn't talk much in pm but when we did, I was mostly seeking his advice on something. I always showed a certain interest in the cat room because I liked his personality. Not once had I seen his ...

A.   25 October 2010: Uncle Larry's is here, Age is a number yet it can be an obstacle as well. I couldn't get a feel for you so I will just say this. When I see a lot of reserved girl posting here I know age wouldn't matter. I know they wouldn't be interested in clubs... (read in full...)

I think my teacher flirts with me

Q.   hi guys. I'm a little confused right now because I think my teacher flirts with me. he always stares at me when he is teaching the class, but when I look at him he doesn't look away he just gives me a cheeky grin or just looks into my eyes wit...

A.   25 October 2010: I'm 45 and my eldest daughter is 15 years old. I would be so hurt beyond belief if my own child would let a grown man molest her and call it flirting. It would show as a parent how I fail to protect my own child. This man "if all is true" has ... (read in full...)

Biggest age gap you've ever seen?!

Q.   Hi, ok. are u sitting down people? I seriously need a word of advice..i've fallen in love. madly, deeply inlove. And this man is in love with me, but we have to keep our relationship secret because we are afraid of what people might think. We ...

A.   25 October 2010: wow, oh boy, what can I say...those comments or should I say judgments are harsh and basically uncalled for she only asked for advice not personal opinion. Now I'm 45 and age to me isn't such a deal killer for theirs it is and that's the only thi... (read in full...)

He's in to me and four other girls too

Q.   He says he loves me and like 4 other girls. I really like him. After awhile of not seeing him i lose the feelings then when i see him again they come rushing back. I'm 15 he is 17. .Is he just confused?. .If i date him will the stuff with t...

A.   24 October 2010: No he's not confused at all. I think he likes the attention that he's receiving or think he getting. No he's not a player. If he was a player he would be dating all 5 of you and defiantly you wouldn't know it. Here your guy is a virgin regardle... (read in full...)

My married cousin is so friendly to me, what does it mean?

Q.   My cousin is a married woman and also we are so friendly. She is always wearing sexy dresses as her boobs are partially shown to me.I don't know it is accidently or not. She is middle aged. I want to show that i am interested in her. Also she is ...

A.   24 October 2010: Middle age women love sex but if this your aunt that you want to have sex with. I couldnt do it with family members. ... (read in full...)

Hotel employee keeps hitting on me!

Q.   I am staying a season at a bed and breakfast in a very small rural community. The innkeepers' 20 year-old son works for his parents doing odd jobs around the place (maintenance, shuttle driving, etc.), so I have to deal with him pretty often. Every ...

A.   24 October 2010: Your no's or so subtle that it like a maybe. You need to say no with meaning. Hell do you really need to stay there so bad that you have to go through that. Just tell him upfront NO and you can have him arrested. They evict you press charges. ... (read in full...)

I think my b/f likes me older sister

Q.   i am 4~5 yrs youngr thn my bf and i had a feeling that he likes my older sister my sis is 2yrs youngr than him and they are both in d sme grade.. it is my 1st time hving a bf ,i dnt really know hw rlationships work and i realize i get jealous ...

A.   24 October 2010: Don't worry about your spelling I see you're leaving out you vowels on purpose. You took me back to the very first girl I like/love at the age of 13 and now 30 years later my heart thumps when I see her name. I am sorry but that could be very well ... (read in full...)

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