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She doesn't like to hear "I love you" Why?

Q.   My girl friend doesn't like to hear me say i love her,why?...

A.   22 November 2010: My girl use to say it to me all the time until I set her down and told her how much it annoyed me. You need to back it up with deeds or you will render it meaningless. Here: I love you Did that do anything for you? Try this instead of saying I... (read in full...)

My clitoris is bigger than other parts. Is this normal?

Q.   Hey guys this is abit embarrasing hence annon, but is it natural for my clitoris to be larger than the other parts of my private parts? Is it bad and do men find it unattractive?...

A.   22 November 2010: Yes and its a plus for you.... (read in full...)

I'm a neglected wife and my neighbor wants to see and touch me!

Q.   Hi, I am married women and my husband works in a different country and visits home only once in 3 years. Apparently I have a neighbour who is wel knwn to our family too keeps visiting our house and once over the dinner table he saw me braless over ...

A.   21 November 2010: No one going to advise is going to advise you on cheating. Three years is a long time and you and your husband need to really talk. You and your neighbor have crossed the line so why stop. Either have any open marriage, continue the groping ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend watches gay porn on a regular basis!

Q.   I found out that my boyfriend of 5 years watches gay porn on a regular basis. He has always watched a lot of porn, but about 1 year ago I noticed gay porn and gay dating sites in his search history. He used to say that it was all pop ups from the ...

A.   21 November 2010: “What did you do about it?” you can’t do anything about someone mental state. He’s turn on by both sexes but he prefers women. At some point he will be with a man. “Can a straight man really look at gay porn and not be gay?” Yes that’s true, bu... (read in full...)

How can I tell my future husband about the past sexual abuse?

Q.   I was sexually abused over a period of four years, I was eight years old when this took place. I lost my Mother at the age of twelve. After my Mother's death my Father used to suggest that I invite a group of girlfriends over for the weekend,...

A.   21 November 2010: Sweetie listen to me what happen to you was a tragedy and as a man I wouldn’t hold that against you. If you listen to people that tell you to without information or hold off in hopes that he loves you enough to overlook it is totally wrong. What you ... (read in full...)

I have a baby with a married man. Now what?

Q.   I am a 36 year old single woman who has a daughter with a 50 year old married man. He has no children with his wife. I am so in love with him but I want a complete family. Is it wrong of me to want him to leave his wife? And if he doesn't (which ...

A.   21 November 2010: Raise your child as you have been and keep the legs close to him. Thiers nothing else to do she will walk with half are more so he’s in it to stay.... (read in full...)

Will I get any bigger?

Q.   Hey guys, I know this is asked a lot but it's an issue I have to deal with. I'm so discouraged by my penis size. I'm a 16 year old boy and when you look at me you see a buff looking guy who you'd a assume has a larger than average size. But that's ...

A.   21 November 2010: “Is it possible that I may get bigger still?” Sorry but No. A male stop growing around the age of 15 and it want get any bigger. It’s the veins in your body and nothing else. If he well-endowed at the age of 35 than we was like that at the age of ... (read in full...)

In love with a married man. What is my future? Is this a sin??

Q.   i am unmarried and in love with a married man who's 22 years elder than me. He's got his wife and daughter in India and says if he divorced his wife she would commit suicide. I don't want to make her sad either. Currently he works in Dubai. His love ...

A.   21 November 2010: I am wondering how he got you to buy off on this without hitting the in laughter. He’s a smooth typist coz this is almost unbelievable. I am trying to picture buying this case of bull. I google Australia but couldn’t get a clear answer. Over the ... (read in full...)

Do guys like it when girls get really wet during sex?

Q.   Hi. This is my first time on this site, and I can't believe how helpful it has been! My question is: Do guys like it when girls get really wet before/while having sex? I ask this because I tend to get very turned on during sex, and get really ...

A.   20 November 2010: Do no such thing girl. You become wet for a reason and the feel of your wetness on the male penis causes a lot of friction when it comes to condoms. Guy like the feel of it and it also is the main cause why a guy’s comes fast or slow. The wetter you ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend does not celebrate X-Mas and I'm hurt by his apparent disregard to my my feelings

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are on the verge of breaking up over this.. He doesn't celebrate xmas, he's not from the UK, but he knows how important it is for my family to be around each other at that time, and this year has been one hell of a difficul...

A.   20 November 2010: I understand how you feel and it’s a little one-sided, but understands your plight. When I was stationed in Hawaii (Schofield Barracks) I had a friend and I guess he was religious yet I thought otherwise. He and his girl invited me over for a ... (read in full...)

Flirting with my daughter's friend, old enough to be his mom!

Q.   My daughters boyfriend is 20... iam 42 and have a son older than him. I really liked him so allowed him to go on vacation with us. A few months later my daughter in a joking manner said that he wanted me..........we laughed it off as a joke. It is ...

A.   19 November 2010: Sweetie they’re talking a strain in your daughter relationship. She already told you to go for it. Why are you prolonging this treat that for this (man) he is dying to get into? This could be good for you and you know sex is a relaxer. Who knows ... (read in full...)

Help! I have a crush on my (much older) boss!

Q.   Help! I've got a crush on my boss, and if that wasn't bad enough... he is also a lot older than me (I am 20 and he is 40). What should I do? I started working at this new job about two months ago and right from the beginning my boss and I hit it o...

A.   19 November 2010: I say drop it. After you want a full blown relationship this could become a problem. I think you should keep the focus of doing your job and less on flirting.... (read in full...)

Does his girlfriend of 5 years deserve to know the truth about her "perfect man"?

Q.   Does his girlfriend of 5 years deserve to know the truth about her "perfect man"? I starting seeing this guy who I really feel for only I always got the impression he wasn't all he seemed, anyway after a long time I found out that he had a girlfri...

A.   19 November 2010: She has a right to know, but its none of your business. Theirs a lot of STD's that want show up for years that all of you can be sharing. If you want to tell her so that you have him to yourself than go for it. A cheater never change, they jus... (read in full...)

How do you tell someone willing to get help that its too late?

Q.   Like all couples when my husband and I first got together we had sex all the time. He expected it everynight we were together. If I happen to start to fall asleep during a movie he would wakeme up to make sure he got sex before I fell asleep. If ...

A.   19 November 2010: Straight forward and complete honestly. Even if you can correct all mistakes you two had created, the pains over the year were so great that this marriage has to end. Don’t waste another minute trying to please a man you don’t love. Don’t have sex ... (read in full...)

I cheated with him when he had a g/f and now I think he's doing that to me!

Q.   help me! i was looking through my boyfriends phone and we were just messing about, but in his inbox it said stuff like "dont worry babe mattys here for you xxxx" and thats the sort of stuff he says to me! its not fair i started crying to i tihnk he ...

A.   19 November 2010: Cheaters don't change, they just switch partners...... (read in full...)

I don't understand how this whole reproduction system works!

Q.   I know this is a common question. But pls i need help. I don't understand how this whole reproduction system works. Can i fall preg after having sex 6 days after my periods? When am i likely to fall preg(if terms of days after periods)?...

A.   19 November 2010: Trying to dismiss all myths is impossible. If you take some advice in here, you as a woman need to get ready to mother. Have you heard of fraternal twins, triplets, etc that’s when your body releases more than one egg. Trying to predict when your ... (read in full...)

I don't know how I can get married in the next month?

Q.   My fiance contact his ex wife to say goodbye yesterday after they separated 5 months ago.I don't know how I can get married in next month? Please help me. My husband contacted his ex wife recently to say that forgive me for all things that happ...

A.   19 November 2010: Men are jealous by nature (possessive males) and will react or show emotions that aren’t warrant when it comes to an ex. They even show it when they don’t even like her. A lot of guys just don’t want another man screwing what they consider there’s. ... (read in full...)

Do I marry the guy my parents chose for me...or stay with my boyfriend?

Q.   i am a 27 year old from a very conservative family and am in love with a boy outside my community/religion. I have been seeing him for 2 1/2 years and am in love with him. He is kind, sensitive and we get along great.My parents have found a boy fo...

A.   18 November 2010: I say end it with the boyfriend and get to know the knew guy. Someone that blows money will lead you in ruins and the love for them will vanish. Now if the new guy is very strict I would tell him where to go also.... (read in full...)

Did I kill his love for me?

Q.   Hi, so hopefully you can give me some advice... When me and my boyfriend first got together we were absolutely crazy in love and I honestly still am, i would die for him... Wed known each other a while before and there was a rumor going round about ...

A.   17 November 2010: Everything I was going to say, has been said. I honestly believe you can't be in a truly loving relationship. The minute you see you past as none of his business then your next minute is to end it. The one person that you should be able to trust and ... (read in full...)

It hurts when he cums inside me. What can we do?

Q.   I'm 31 and dating a 56 year old male. He tends to have strong ejaculations to the point that he goes too deep and hard inside of me. Ive told him this is painful. The sex is great up until he ejaculates. I've asked him to pull out, but for some ...

A.   17 November 2010: When I first read this I was thinking like the rest on here. Women mainly say they can't feel it. You're not talking about cum here, but his performance when he climaxing. When your guy comes he pushes in very strong and hard. Pretty much trying to ... (read in full...)

Web cam adventure is turning into a nightmare! I'm being blackmailed!

Q.   I did some stuff on cam for a guy once, he recorded it. he lives over seas. and now his threatening to send it to all my facebook contacts, his saved them. please dont say i shouldnt have done that, i know that now. but what do i do about it? if...

A.   17 November 2010: I doubt he has it. It very hard to capture msn or yahoo. Let him know that hold child porn in your country is illegal and you will report it. Let him know computer can be track like finger prints. That should make him think. Let him know you have ... (read in full...)

How long does a sperm live???

Q.   hey all, my question is... how much time does a sperm live in dry atmosphere/outside human body?....... for ex: if i touched my bfs penis by hand, and after 30 mins i had to pee is there a possibility that sperm lived for 30 mins outside the body...

A.   16 November 2010: Its all depends: http://answers.webmd.com/answers/1193396/How-long-do-sperm-live... (read in full...)

We have financial issues, I'm thinking about finding a sugardaddy!

Q.   I am married and have a soon-to-be 6 month old baby. We are starting to have a hard time with finances (just like everyone else in the country). I work full time at home on the farm and part time outside of the home (as needed) and my husband has 2 ...

A.   11 November 2010: A surgardaddy is usually someone willing to pay to be with her. It may or may not involve sex; most like he wants her company and they're usually married men or he going through a mid-life crisis. Once it become sexually its really no longer a ... (read in full...)

He was a perfect gentleman until we had sex!

Q.   I thought I had been dating this man. we met at a night club, and we kept catching eachtother's eye, so as I was leaving with my friends, he grabbed me by my waist, we chatted for a while, then he gave me his number. I called him about a couple of ...

A.   11 November 2010: Thjis is a FWB and see it for what it is.... (read in full...)

My teenage daughter wanted permission to marry her boyfriend!

Q.   Hello everyone. This question is really me just wondering what you would do in my situation: Yesterday, my 16 (almost 17) year old little girl and her boyfriend came to me and asked me to give her permission to marry him. I was baffled by it, a...

A.   11 November 2010: No isn't the answer here,She'll just wait it out. Once she turns 18 tyhen she want need your say and the only thing you will have is a strain relationship. I would sit and talk.... (read in full...)

He leaves after we just had sex!

Q.   right i am seeing a man nearly 9 weeks and i am very confusing about him . we had great sex but all he text me about sex and on sites . he never takes me out to make them know i am his girlfriend at all . i only see him oone or 2 times a week at ...

A.   11 November 2010: honestly you couldnt actually dump someone that you really don't have.... (read in full...)

He's leaving in a week, should I tell him how I feel?

Q.   Not sure what to do here. I'm usually pretty assertive when it comes to guys and people I like in general. I've recently gone through a rough episode with someone I dated for a few months and wasn't interested in anyone at all and then I ran into...

A.   11 November 2010: he's leaving for a few months...how would you feel it he lay another? I think you should voice your opinion or think of it as a "what if".... (read in full...)

Are his reactions normal?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are a couple for more than a year now, both virgins and decided to take things slow. However, we cuddle a lot, make out, fool around with clothes on, getting to know each other's body... Yesterday we were at his place and whil...

A.   11 November 2010: Some people are emotional than other...good news is your guy seems like he's into you and thats a good thing.... (read in full...)

Why does this 40 year old man want my virginity?

Q.   I've been speaking with a 40 year old man for about 4 months on the internet. Don't tell me about the fact that I'm 18 and he could be my dad. I am aware of that. That's not the advice I'm seeking. Or tell me that he's going through a midlife crisis ...

A.   11 November 2010: I read everything you wrote here. I do believe ur more mature or reserved then someone your age. Heck I said and I am not even dating or trying to date you. I read over your post and look at what you posted. I then read the advice given to you. “... (read in full...)

Did I come across as trying to cheat on my husband?

Q.   i am married and have great relationship with my husband.Few weeks back i met three people at a party and two of them were husband and wife and one was single guy who flirted with me throughout the night and i flirted back a little but it was all ...

A.   11 November 2010: Never put yourself in a situation to cheat. You were interested in him. Deny it as much as you like but he would be in you soon or later. I say spend more time with your husband. ... (read in full...)

Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant?

Q.   Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant. I was on the depo shot for six months and once i was off i had heavy bleeding for a month none stop. Finally i my period regularize and my period stopped 5 days l...

A.   7 November 2010: It may just be stress that’s has you period out of whack again and its very soon to think that’s your pregnant. It could take up to two weeks before you conceive. Go see a doctor and stay with one guy.... (read in full...)

My ex attacked me in front of our baby. Do I go to the police?

Q.   My ex, who I have a 6 month old son with, attacked me the other nite, not majorly just pulled my hair and threw me out of a door, in front of my son. Now my mum has gone mad saying I need to report him to the police. He has never been violent to me ...

A.   7 November 2010: "I know he would never lay a finger on our son" Did you know he would lay hius hands on you? You two are playing a scary game and you need to stop it. I really doubt that this incident had any effect on your child, yet you two need to cut it out ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend wants his friend to watch us have sex

Q.   My boyfriend wants me to have sex with his friend infront of him ! I don't know what to do! help me please xx...

A.   7 November 2010: Nothing wrong with having limits in a relationship at all, even if he’s your husband you have boundaries. Never give an inch or he’ll take it further. You need to be stern and honest. I suggest you dump this guy because you and him don’t see sex on ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend wants his friend to watch us have sex

Q.   My boyfriend wants me to have sex with his friend infront of him ! I don't know what to do! help me please xx...

A.   7 November 2010: Once you do it he'll always see you as a slut.... (read in full...)

Should I cut off a 22 year friendship for my girlfriend?

Q.   Hello everyone. I have an ex girlfriend from High School that I am still very good friends with. We live 5 blocks away from each other. Speak to each other 3 or 4 times a week. See each other twice a week. But this is only because we are in the same ...

A.   7 November 2010: I am like the rest of them; I think you know the answer too. I think you need to look within yourself and grab a pair…Its obvious after four year this woman means nothing to you or this 22 year old crush would be gone. You run to this woman every ... (read in full...)

I want my feelings for wife's sister to go away!

Q.   To make a long story short here recently (very recently) Im having feeling about my sister in law.I dont know were these feeling have come from. Am I wierd? I really dont know what to do. I have been married for 7 years and have a 5 year old son. My ...

A.   5 November 2010: Just masturbate when you feeling like that and it will ease until you get horny again.... (read in full...)

Does my teacher have any feelings for me? Or is he just being nice?

Q.   My teacher is 24 and started teaching in my school in september (im 15 from the UK). He's not really what others would call 'fit' but i really do like him. I admit to having crushes on teachers before but not like this. And i thought i just ...

A.   5 November 2010: All relationship like yours the guys are sweet and caring. It’s much harder if they’re jerks. Your guy has crossed the line and if you go to him, he could snap. Go tell someone else. I rather for this guy to hate me to have my parents looking for ... (read in full...)

My husband is rubbing his affairs in my face!

Q.   I have been reading your colume for awhile and i felt it was time to reach out to someone. iv been married for 24 years my husband 2 years ago took out a young girl out for valintines night.for the past 2 years their has been 2 different women call ...

A.   5 November 2010: Sometimes we don’t realize what we have until it has been taking away from us. Your marriage has been over from sometime and you need to come to grips with it. It’s over and I am truly sorry. I hope you’re not sharing the same bed with this guy. You ... (read in full...)

He's distant, won't look me in the eyes, only gives me one-word answers and doesn't really talk to me.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Just this weekend I had a text on saturday saying 'down at the pub for a party, miss you loads and love you more than ever xxxxxx' This sort of message isn't uncommon for him, He likes to tell me how much ...

A.   5 November 2010: I was broke up with a girl too when I was 17. I couldn’t tell her that I cheated. She was too sweet and caring so I ended it. I am not saying that what he did, but that how I acted.... (read in full...)

I snooped through my husband's phone and now he is distant!

Q.   A fleeting moment of insecurity had me snoop through my husband's phone while he was in the shower. Now he is distant. What's my next move? I'm 95% of the time very confident but I get these fleeting moments of insecurity from time to time. I ...

A.   3 November 2010: You have more problems than snooping and that’s something you need to recognize. You have no trust in this so I’ll assume that your courtship was brief or you fell to connect, ie: “expect him to do things my way because he moved into my house” I ... (read in full...)

Will this get in the way when I have sex?

Q.   Hello. when i am on an errection and go to pull back the forskin, i can only pull it back a little bit, only enough to see the top of the penis, i am nervoius that this will get in the way when i have sex?...

A.   3 November 2010: dude a lot of women like that.... (read in full...)

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