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I think I might be a lesbian and in love with my best friend!

Q.   I think I'm in love with my best friend! What do I do? When I was at one of my friends parties we were playing the usial spin the bottle, 5 minutes in heaven, that sort of games. But with a difference, we decided that gay was OK to make it more i...

A.   2 December 2010: No you’re not a lesbian but your escapade has you confused. Don’t be too alarmed because you‘ll see other females that are turn on by another female, yet they’re not gay in any form. I say chop this up as lesson learn and don’t play that game again.... (read in full...)

B/f puts his job before me!

Q.   My bf currently puts his job before me. I can deal with this for the time being, but I am more worried about the future. If he's always going to put his job before me, Im not sure if I want to be with him. Please help. :(...

A.   2 December 2010: In this job climate he needs to work as hard as he can to keep it. Heck I see government employee actually working trying to keep theirs. When you’re in a relationship sometimes you have to compromise and act as an adult. It hard out in the real ... (read in full...)

Handjobs?

Q.   i know to wait until im comfortable but just curious as to how long others wait to give handjobs in relationships? ...

A.   2 December 2010: You really want to get to know someone before you introduce sex into the equation. Keep your clothing on and his hands off you. Nothing wrong in getting to know a person before you starts servicing them on a daily basis. Yes, once you start ... (read in full...)

I found out the guy I was dating was a registered sex offender

Q.   HI. I just started dating this guy, when I found out that He was a registered sex offender. I found out through his ex mother in law that I happened to work with. When he was 15 he sexually molested his sister over a time frame of about 3 months.. ...

A.   2 December 2010: Adults don’t wake up one day and start molesting kids. It starts when they’re kids themselves and it progress into adulthood. I watch this pedophile on Fox News and he said the only way to stop someone like him is complete separation from him and ... (read in full...)

Is he using me or her?

Q.   my ex and i are split up for about 7 month now. He go a new girlfriend that stays with him. But call me in the night, wanting me to go to his place when she is not there, we still sleep together is he using me or her? I still love him what do i do? ...

A.   30 November 2010: He's using you... (read in full...)

Crushing on my dentist!!!

Q.   i went to a dentist, he is very beautiful and i am feeling that i am attracted to him. I am 15 years old, i am too young he is older than me by at least 10 years. But his nurse told me that i am the only one he jokes with . I am telling myself that ...

A.   30 November 2010: Girl you got it bad, lol, I can see him and unless you have more than that I see an older man joking with a teen. I think your feeding off of something that you like about him. Maybe you find him attracted and beautiful as you say. I just don’t see ... (read in full...)

24 years is too big of an age gap for him!

Q.   Is age gap the real problem? I met someone online and we chatted for a few months and he visited me in my place. We started to date and I decided to stay in his place so I won't have a hard time going to work in the morning. We had great sex an...

A.   30 November 2010: Unless something goes wrong with him he would always be able to father a child: http://www.judiciaryreport.com/images/larry_king_and_family_-4-14-10.jpg This is a picture of Larry King and his younger kids…. It’s not that he can’t be a loving... (read in full...)

Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?

Q.   Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew ...

A.   30 November 2010: You done well for yourself and went to your mother like you’re suppose too. Congrats on that it shows you’re responsible. Now her reply was nuts in my opinion and I just like to say this in hope you rethink your action. Cervical cancer: https... (read in full...)

Is this normal for a guy to not be able to finish?

Q.   my boyfriend is 36 and im only 24. the other night we kinda hit a bump in our sex life and since i have never dated anyone this much older than me im not sure if what happened is normal and Idk what to think. we were having sex and everything was ...

A.   30 November 2010: Its stress and he's just going through the motion. I bet he's really worrying about all of this to the point that he needs space to sort it out. ... (read in full...)

Why would he call me? He's married and lives several states away

Q.   I met this guy--I'll call him "Eric"--several years ago, while he was on tour with his band. He gave me his e-mail address so I could send him some photos I'd taken of the gig. We have kept in very sporadic touch over the past few years and until ...

A.   29 November 2010: He's just being a guy and trying to secure extra sex nothing to worry about here. He see a walking vagina. ... (read in full...)

Should I message her again now that her account is reactivated?

Q.   On an online dating site I messaged a girl a few months ago, she never replied and then de-activated her account. Her account is now active again. Should I message her again or just leave it alone? My gut says leave it alone but I don't know....

A.   29 November 2010: Leave it along she may or may not remember your first response. If she does then you would look desperate. ... (read in full...)

I can't drive yet and he doesn't have his license, so how do we see each other?

Q.   Okay, so i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. We live about 20 minutes apart. We live in the same district, but different towns. Lately, our arguments have mainly been about seeing each other. Unfortunately, i can't drive yet, and he doesn't have his ...

A.   29 November 2010: You sound so informative, so smart, yet clueless. Why I the H you want this man in your house? Nothing good can come of this and we all know why you want him there. Penis plus vagina equals baby. Oh most states carry a 10 year prison sentence... (read in full...)

Secret relationship and now I'm pregnant!

Q.   i like this man okay but it is a secret love. okay so we are seeing each other it is a secret relationship we have only been seeing each other for about 2 months but i think it will work . i need your help in how i should tell my parents and my f...

A.   29 November 2010: If you need to hide it than its wrong, furthermore you need to tell them so all of you may get to know each other. Item, ok I think it'll be to hard for a parent to turn there back on their own child so go ahead and introduce your bf or lover ... (read in full...)

Is he trying to show me he's not spooked?

Q.   So here I am..on a website asking kind strangers for advice :) I apologize for the length. Even if no one responds, I'll at least be able to see my thoughts in writing. We were smitten with each other right away. After about 3 weeks of constan...

A.   29 November 2010: First you need to develop a relationship. If I would ask him about you, his answer would diff than what you're thinking. When a guy sleeps with you some kind of way you see it as dating. You don't see it for what it really is (sex). You should f... (read in full...)

No oral sex because I'm afraid I don't taste good

Q.   i feel like i cant let a man give me oral sex because i am afraid i might not taste good. or something bad. how do i get comfortable with my body? and is there anything that can help cum taste good?...

A.   29 November 2010: A guy licking you probably will not taste it at all unless he trying too. ... (read in full...)

Husband doesn't like being with me in Public

Q.   I'm 38 and married to a younger man. He and I have great chemistry at home (awesome, in fact) but he completely withdraws and doesn't want to be with me in public. I love to dance and he will not dance with me in public although he will dance with ...

A.   29 November 2010: Actually if immigration knew of him sleeping around your marriage would be no good at all. The would claim that both of you lied on official papers. You don't have a marriage and he's trying to make it to the two year mark. At that point he can make ... (read in full...)

In love with my ex's brother!

Q.   Hello, I know many people posted about this, But I feel like I really need some help. This is a tough situation, and I dont know what to do. I had a 3 years relation ship with my ex, we lived together for 2 years. I know his family, I actually...

A.   28 November 2010: I had to read it again because it no freaking away I would be loving a woman my brother been getting off to for the last couple of years. The image alone would do me in let long the thought of whom the heck she been with besides my brother. For c... (read in full...)

Am I gay? or os it just a phase in my life?

Q.   Am i gay? or os it just a phase in my life? I have not had a girlfriend, But i had no interest in boys untill i had gay sex with my friend. When i see a girl naked now i dont get turned on but when i see a guy naked i get a full on erection. I have ...

A.   28 November 2010: You're gay and you're gay. ... (read in full...)

I'm not ready for most things but I'm afraid he'll leave me

Q.   hello i have a boyfriend and weve been going out for 3 weeks. weve already hugged and kissed goodbye. but he txts me saying we should hold hands and make out and have oral sex. im not ready, when im with him i feel akward even thoough i love him.i ...

A.   28 November 2010: Psst he's wanting to get laid and you look pretty easy to him. You love him within three weeks. Go ahead close you eyes now describe him. Why didn't you tell us much about this wonderful guy; I can tell you didn't and it because you don't know him. ... (read in full...)

Do I have to dump my married man?

Q.   Im inlove with married man,we have been together for some mnths now,judging by his actions i think he loves me,god im so much inlove with him,he dont want to talk much about his marriage,is he using me for sex?do i have to dump him b4 it 2 late?...

A.   28 November 2010: Just keep it going what else do you have going for yourself. How is he using you is what I want to know? Is you getting his penis as well? Is you using him? I think if you're there to get a husband then you should move on he's already married. Oh ... (read in full...)

Sister vs. sister

Q.   okay i have a bad situation. my sis and this guy were together. they brroke up cuz he was flirting with me, well now im with him and he talks on the phone and txts my sis alot wat do i do??...

A.   28 November 2010: You can't help whom you like, but if he hits on your mom I would call it quits. Why would you want any guy that been with you own family member. ... (read in full...)

How can I seduce a married lady

Q.   i m a 26 yrs old guy..........i m havng affair with a 34 yr old married lady.....she has thre kids.....her husband is 50 yrs of age..how can i convince her for sex ......or seduce her.........as she doesnt like her husband.just with her for sake of ...

A.   28 November 2010: Yes go find a woman that is single and leave this man wife alone. If its that bad she knows how to leave him. What is it about you that a single guy in his mid 20 can't find a woman that he preys on a woman in this state. Google what makes a male ... (read in full...)

How can I meet my online guy safely?

Q.   The guy im dating lives overseas and im dating him online, we talk for hours everyday and he finally wants me to come see him in england. Im 19 and hes 21 i Know this could potentially be dangerous but i also know that it might not be. so how do i ...

A.   28 November 2010: Have you chatted with his family and friends yet? have you seen this guy on camera? Does he have a facebook account that you may chat with whomever is listed? Is theirs away you can verified information he given you? I use to watch justice ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend sneaking around talking to gay guys when I was pregnant. Is he gay?

Q.   So my relationship is very complicated! I dated this guy for a year and a half and we even had a baby together. The problem is, while I was pregnant and even before he lied a lot. Although he claims he didn't cheat on me I still found messages he ...

A.   28 November 2010: You're guy is bisexual. He can be turn on by either sexes, most bisexual or more risky than any other group out there. Not say that he can't be faithful to you, he's already looking. Some bisexual or more into one sex then the other, he still like ... (read in full...)

He doesn't like me yet we came close to having sex

Q.   I need some advice on how to get ovr this guy I really like. He says he doesn't like me, yet we have made out before and was very close to sex. I am tired of feeling hurt around him. I see him at school everday, but next semester he is moving. ...

A.   28 November 2010: This isn't nothing but pain for you here. Don't have sex with him because nothing will change. A lot of guys can have sex with you and feel nothing for you afterwards. Just let this go. ... (read in full...)

I slept with my dad's best friend!

Q.   okay so my dads best friend is 8 years younger than my dad so he is 30. any ways he lives with us in our house with me and my dad . my dad is divorced because my mum is a alcoholic. anyways i came back from school on wednesday and i had stayed b...

A.   28 November 2010: I always say never bring adults in on your kids; they always end up getting screwed. He doesn’t see a problem with this in any form. He came out of the shower want to have sex with you. Heck I would say he came out of the shower molesting you. I ... (read in full...)

What sexy suprise can I do for him?

Q.   My husband has been gone for a month at home, hunting and helping his parents move. He's driving back home today and will be here tomorrow morning. What sexy surprise can i do for him in the morning??? I can't think of any good ideas....

A.   28 November 2010: I was going to write out a scenario but I had to erase it. I think you should text him and stay flirty don’t let him turn the conversation. Keep him guessing in his mind, you know him and if he into you just the thought of you should be enough to ... (read in full...)

More potential baby-mama drama!

Q.   Hi, I'm so confused. I have been dating my boyfriend for five years now. When we meet I knew he had a daughter. After the first six months everything was fine and his daughter and I got along great and his "baby mama" and I had figured out ...

A.   27 November 2010: You may scream as loud as you like, but the fact is your man is a cheater. When you sleep with another man wife it’s called cheating. You may have another name for it, yet it’s all the same (cheating). He probably was cheating on the previous girl ... (read in full...)

Help!!! Am I addicted... to sex?

Q.   okay so i lost my virginity to a guy i honestly felt great feelings for at the time. we stayed together for 2 and a half years until i decided that something was missing. I broke it off then I found myself starting to like a guy three years older ...

A.   27 November 2010: Every time you have sex with a guy he mentally holds that against you. We look for images of our mother for a potentially serious mate and we know our mother wouldn’t be fucking a guy she’s not married too. If he wants you, keep it close because ... (read in full...)

More potential baby-mama drama!

Q.   Hi, I'm so confused. I have been dating my boyfriend for five years now. When we meet I knew he had a daughter. After the first six months everything was fine and his daughter and I got along great and his "baby mama" and I had figured out ...

A.   27 November 2010: Not really drama, but a dead beat dad that pawn his own kid off to another man to raise. i beat he barley pays anything on the one he claims. You have a cheater and you want to stay with that. How many does he really have?... (read in full...)

We have an open relationship, but how do I go about explaining to him that I'm not comfortable with this one girl?

Q.   My partner and I have been together for three and a half years, and have been living together for one and a half of those years. We've recently both been feeling quite trapped (he more so than I, admittedly), so we've decided to try out an open ...

A.   26 November 2010: Ever open relationship I have known about ended. He's going have a really hard time making a wife out of you with those vision of other men doing you. Sometime when you follow a man, he'll lead you down into a hole. Problem with the hole is when ... (read in full...)

In love with my 5th cousin

Q.   I'm 15 years old. I'm in love with my 5th cousin and my parents made us break up when we first started dating because they thought it was nasty and horrid to date your cousins. So, I had to break up with him. Later on, we still talked on the phone ...

A.   25 November 2010: i agree with the rest on here, its just to far apart for anyone to make a fuss over.... (read in full...)

Do all men watch porn and hide it?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have a very good sex life and have sex at very least once a day. but he always watches porn and then hides it, this really upsets me, am i being silly, do all men do this? ...

A.   25 November 2010: If you hide something then it’s wrong. You need to be upfront and may have to tell one to him. Let him know he doesn’t have to hide the jerk off videos and you don’t mine him viewing them. I see nothing wrong with it unless it’s hurting your ... (read in full...)

My teacher is 2 different people around me! When we are alone he is great, but in front of others he makes me the butt of jokes!

Q.   hey guys. so i'm in a really confusing situation, my teacher is 43 i think hes married because at the begining of last year he wore a wedding ring but now doesn't, and i'm well 16. and the problem is things are tense and i dont know why, and i c...

A.   25 November 2010: Simple, he’s crushing on you and you need to be stern that you want no part of it. Don’t respond and you’ll send a silent message to him.... (read in full...)

How long do men stay horny?

Q.   I'm 17 and i'm currently dating someone. when we're together, he tells me that he's horny and the next day, the feelings stay the same. How long do boys stay horny?...

A.   25 November 2010: When a person is into you he’ll stay horny for you. Some people are just horny and it becomes a bigger factor than it should be. If his sexual appetite is more than you like it to be then you need to voice that without turn him off. A guy can have ... (read in full...)

I want this to be our flat not his childrens

Q.   my boyfriend and i are moving into a one bed flat together soon - our first home together. he has three kids and has a family photo on his wall currently but i want one of me and him in our new flat. i don't get on with his children and want it to ...

A.   25 November 2010: I look at your posting last night and I think you’re totally correct here. Even within a relationship each person needs their own personal space. That’s where his kid’s pictures should go. That wall belong longs to you and him, on your new start as ... (read in full...)

My gf wants me to have a bigger penis, how do I handle this??

Q.   I've got a question recently me and my gf had a talk about my penis and she says that she wants it thicker I asked her why and she said why not. I know that all those pills are scams aswell as mentioned exercises but is there any way to make it ...

A.   25 November 2010: Dude take a look at it that's it for life. If you're waiting on it to grow more then it is now than you have a long wait (a lifetime wait). The study of the body is called anatomy and you will learn about it. Don't overreact about the sizes dude. I ... (read in full...)

I am having a problem accepting her sexual past, please help me??

Q.   I got divorced ten years ago and thought my world had come to an end,however,after a year of trying to find a new life partner i met a fantastic woman who had also been divorced around the same time as me.To cut a long story short we have been ...

A.   25 November 2010: Get over yourself please. She has done nothing to be ashamed of at all. Most women do that many guys and 4 days, yours it taken her life so far to do 4 guys. You need to thank her. What's about this greek guy that's bothers you so much? Do you t... (read in full...)

Am I gay? Help!

Q.   I don't know why but for some reasson I was just thinking and I thought I was gay. I'm 13 and I masterbate over normal porn and lesbian I've seen my friends penises before and I have never got hard or boner and I've kissed a girl who I like before ...

A.   24 November 2010: Hey lil dude its the movie that you watched. Stop thinking about it, you're at an age were it swells for no good reason at all so find away to let it go. Dont watch it until you're at least 18.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has pushed me and punched me but now he wants me back what should I do?

Q.   write im 14 and the other day i was with m boyfriend and we started arguin about something stupid and he called me a slag so i pushed him backwards (which didnt move him anyway) then he punched me in the stomach and pushed me over i started crying ...

A.   23 November 2010: Sweetie you're trying to justify his reaction. He will hurt you get it. Don't take this from him. Move on and find a real guy that know how to treat a girl. He will never be your protector, more of your abuser. ... (read in full...)

She doesn't like to hear "I love you" Why?

Q.   My girl friend doesn't like to hear me say i love her,why?...

A.   22 November 2010: My girl use to say it to me all the time until I set her down and told her how much it annoyed me. You need to back it up with deeds or you will render it meaningless. Here: I love you Did that do anything for you? Try this instead of saying I... (read in full...)

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