Should I go to my ex's house and tell his family he cheated on me?
Q. What should I do? are my friends right? ? My ex boyfriend cheated on me, betrayed my trust and my love for him. I loved him so much and he hurt me and lied to my face over and over. He told me he doesn't want a relationship and wan...
A. 16 March 2011: Just let this go coz your relationship with him has run its course.... (read in full...)
Should I trust him after seeing the picture of another girl on his phone?
Q. so me and my boyfriend had a little break up cause i wasnt treating him good enough. well we was texting today and he didnt txt me back for 5 hours. then he text me and ask if i wanna go to the movies i said yea sure. so we was on our way to the m...
A. 14 January 2011: He's full of... Leave everyone out of your relatiOnship but the two of you. You have nothing to prove he does. He could have easily told you about it if it was innocent. I wouldn't ask anyone about this except him. I can enlarge picture on ... (read in full...)
I don't think my boyfriend wants to have sex anymore!
Q. I have a question that is a little difficult to ask because I don't really know how to. My boyfriend and I have been having sex problems lately. Awhile back he told me he didn't want to have sex every night. He used to say he wanted to and could and ...
A. 4 January 2011: Go ahead and over look the one that said he cheating without any evidence that he remotely strayed. The penis is a muscle and if you over work it, it will hurt and its a little scary feeling. That fear may be enough to slow him down. It not painful ... (read in full...)
How can I fix those missing feelings and get them back?
Q. So my problem is, I cheated on my boyfriend and now have no want to be around him or be intimate with him. My feelings for him, well I don't know if they've changed, but I know I still love him. I've been trying to to dump him because it hurts too ...
A. 1 January 2011: You can't get those feeling back because you're not into him. As you see you care for him a lot but you know deep inside you can give yourself to him. If you two worry married you would be more likely to stray on him.
Many people is like him, all... (read in full...)
How far is too far, too soon?
Q. I was just wondering what people's opinions on this were. If you really like a guy and want to do everything on the first date, or at a party, or something, would you? I know in my head that for a guy to respect you and see you as more than just s...
A. 1 January 2011: Sex always confuses the situation, going part of the way would label you as a tease. Go all the way with a guy then you know what he'll think of you. Once you start servicing a guy and stop, he'll become angry and putting pressure on you to continue ... (read in full...)
I said I missed him and he blocked me!
Q. I have or had a friend who I use to get in touch very often. We had this for 4 years and far most this year that is now ending when he was sent to Afghanistan so I guess he took the chance to talk with me and not feel lonely. I really liked tal...
A. 30 December 2010: I think they're correct here. My GF blocked like 8 friends of mine and I miss chatting with all of them. I think you were excited to have him home and may have been a little to friendly. She never blocked any woman I chat with that tried to get to ... (read in full...)
Out Of Town Lover!
Q. I have been talking to this guy for about 6-7 months. He lives outside the city that I live, however we met here in my city. Anyway he is a business man, and I am a career woman myself who has went back to school, so we dont get that much time to ...
A. 29 December 2010: This relationship is only about sex while he near you. You will be his love when he comes to you and he'll have another one at his resident. You know what its all about. ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my sister that her boyfriend is coming on to me?
Q. my sister is 2 years younger than me and she has a bf the same age as me. They've gone out 4r a year! She's lost her virginity with him and has told me that he is the one and that she loves him. And she isn't messing, she takes love very seriously! ...
A. 29 December 2010: Yes he's groping you and I would invite him to dinner with the whole family then ask him about his action. Ask him direct questions and be blunt. ... (read in full...)
I am still resentful that my wife left during a very low point in my life
Q. I am a 24 yeare old male. I got married about 3 and a half years ago. Within the last year I feel that my marrage has realy taken some difficult hits, and I just feel like I need to vent or gain some perspective on feelings I am having. The histo...
A. 29 December 2010: You listed more excuses then anyone on here. You felt that she abandon you selfishly, you can't forgive that, you need to tell her exactly how you feel and come to a solution. You're looking for excuses to end this marriage. Start by talking to her! ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex say he still loves me when he doesn't want to be anything more than friends?
Q. well its a pretty common situation im in love with a my ex for more than a year now. We dated for about a month and a half earlier this year but he ended the relationship because we didnt see each other as often as we would like. This crushed ...
A. 29 December 2010: What he saying to you is that he loves you like a friend, but he not into you. He can't see spend his life with someone that he would long for another. The relationship you're hoping for will end in a brother/sister style. You seem couples like this ... (read in full...)
Ask her for a dance with me...get a "whatever" in response. Weird?
Q. I liked this girl, a little while ago, but then something happened. I always tried to be nice to her, I was considering making her my girlfriend. I always invited her out, bought her drinks on the occasions she showed up (most times she would make ...
A. 26 December 2010: You still like her and wants more then she's offering. Drop the hope of being with her. I would only look at this as a friendship and quit being for her. No matter what you spend on her she' owe you nothing in return. ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to know her past in details so that I can forget them?
Q. I'm a 28 years old man and my wife is of the same age. Well, she is from a different country and we met each other when i had been to her country for some work. Well it wasnt love at first sight but we eventually fell for each other. At that time i ...
A. 24 December 2010: I always say that if their past is there business than leave them with their past. You on the other hand need to be more honest with your spouse and tell her why you want to know it. “Actually she had told me everything about her past shortly ... (read in full...)
My guy is looking at quite a lot of gay porn on line. Why?
Q. I found gay porn on my guys computer..it wasn't just one site, there were several over a couple of days and some had galleries,is it normal for straight guys to look at gay porn? There was other porn but quite a lot of gay porn....
A. 24 December 2010: No, you guy is bisexual and he like guys like you do. As soon as he able to come clean to your about his feeling, the better your understanding of him and the situation you find yourself in the better.... (read in full...)
Could a relationship and sex with a much younger man be a good experience for me?
Q. I am 42 and I have only been attracting younger men lately. The youngest recently was 24. I told him that’s way too young for me (only 6 years older than my oldest son) but he keeps trying to tell me why it could work between us. Not buying it. He ...
A. 21 December 2010: Never get involve in a relationship playing with other emotions. If this is just sex that your hoping to get out of this then just tell him upfront. I see know reason to hide your intention. ... (read in full...)
Am I right to leave him due to his impotence?
Q. i am married for 5 years now my husband is impotent i am really hurt that he hid this fact from me. i want to leave him now is this my right decision....
A. 21 December 2010: I see they're beating you up on this issues but its yours to make alone. If I was him and honestly love you. I wouldn't be selfish enough to ask you to go with sex for gods know how long or ever again. He lied to you and didn't trust you enough to ... (read in full...)
Are there clues to find guys who prefer small boobs?
Q. How can I find guys who prefer small boobs over big boobs? I have small boobs, and I'm tired of always finding guys who prefer and like big boobs better, but who "don't mind" small ones. Yeah, I know I'm insecure, but I can't help it, and I always ...
A. 21 December 2010: I love looking at large breasts but I never dated a girl whom were large than a B-cup. If you were a 32-A then you're perfect for me there. My girl cup size now is a 32-A. She was ashamed of them before me, but now she has no problems at all. Lots ... (read in full...)
Am I right to leave him due to his impotence?
Q. i am married for 5 years now my husband is impotent i am really hurt that he hid this fact from me. i want to leave him now is this my right decision....
A. 21 December 2010: Only you can answer this honestly. Do you want to be in a sex less marriage. If the answer is No then tell him the honest truth. ... (read in full...)
Should I trust her? Says she she loves me, but dates another.
Q. My ex gf say said she loved, then a guy walks up on us, and turns out she was on a date with that guy that night? we hung out almost every day for a week, then we talk, but don't do see each other, then the next night shes on a date with a guy, ...
A. 20 December 2010: It means that she loves you. Who wants to sit home lonely. take her out.... (read in full...)
She becomes defensive when I talk to her
Q. i meet this girl a year ago anyway we now live together i pay all the bills and take care of her and her 2 kids she says she loves but do,s not sleep with me and always wants money and leaves me for awhile comes back and hides in the bathroom and ...
A. 20 December 2010: You know she has a man so why pretend. You’re her BANK and if she had another way to make it; she would.
“It is possible she has love for you” there’s no freaking way this person loves you bipolar or not. Heck with meds she could live a normal l... (read in full...)
He's married, but I want him back. What should I do?
Q. i had been in affair with married man for 7 months. i knew having sex with married man is no good. but he was a good looking 47 years man and he has a nice body. first, he drove me home after work and he was saying he had cheated his wife befo...
A. 20 December 2010: Just send him a text saying you’re will to sleep with him. Most men want turn down sex. It great when they know it’s just sex so you don’t have to keep lying about that I love you stuff are doing things for them. It’s all about humping. Make it ... (read in full...)
The always-in-trouble boyfriend, the lover and pregnant me...help me out of this mess!!
Q. Alright ive been with my boyfriend for a year and 6 months,the first year we wer very good i was the happest girl in the world.hes a great guy weve never had any trust issues we are alwas together. after the first year we moved out together that was ...
A. 20 December 2010: You’re making mistakes after mistakes, why don’t you do a self-assessment of yourself and see how you can change this for your own good. You have a guy that you love (hard to say that), but he clearly doesn’t love you back. When you love someone ... (read in full...)
Is my ex really gone? Or do I still have a chance?
Q. So I was dating this girl for about 4 months and while 4 months doesn't seem that long, we moved really fast. We fell head over heals for each other and spent everyday together because of how much we had in common and how well we got along. She soon ...
A. 20 December 2010: You may love her but it seems that she has anger issues. She sounds controlling as well. The heart wants what the heart wants. I would write her a letter but leave out the pleading, crying. Basically no begging. I would just tell her how I feel and ... (read in full...)
Haven't seen him in years, am I doing the right thing?
Q. Okay so I am completly in love with this guy Bobby. I met him when I was 16 he was and is everything I want in a man. He broke my heart when I was 16 he left me for someone who was suppose to be my friend. He isnt a good person he robs everyone he ...
A. 20 December 2010: Absolutely not, what are you thinking. This guy isn’t anything but trouble, what do you see in this man? Should I say convict soon. Is your life so bad that you only think you deserve a man who will spend years in prison before he sees the light…if ... (read in full...)
I cannot stand doing anything intimate with my husband of 3 weeks?!
Q. I don't know what I should do... I cannot stand doing anything intimate with my husband of 3 weeks?! I met my husband while in Iraq (he was inshape and so nice). We just had a baby and then he wanted to go active army. Since we had a child he ...
A. 19 December 2010: Its maybe like the USA military. You can't be a single parent in the military. The soldier cannot be sole parent because they would be the primary provider. A sole parent would have to exit the military or give up custody to grandparents.
T... (read in full...)
I cannot stand doing anything intimate with my husband of 3 weeks?!
Q. I don't know what I should do... I cannot stand doing anything intimate with my husband of 3 weeks?! I met my husband while in Iraq (he was inshape and so nice). We just had a baby and then he wanted to go active army. Since we had a child he ...
A. 19 December 2010: It doesn’t matter why you got married anymore, this guy isn’t for you. Family sticks together. Go let them know what you did so they can stand by you as you undue this horrible mess that you two created. Annull this marriage before you need a ... (read in full...)
How is the best way to handle meeting the youngest daughter?
Q. I'll make a long story short, I've been with my boyfriend nearly a year. When I first began seeing him, he had been separated from his wife. We lived 45 mins apart, he and I slowly established our relationship. A couple of months in to the ...
A. 19 December 2010: First of all you’re shacking up. You're living with a man who’s twice your age and that's what they’re looking at here. No way on god green earth would I be setting up, as he is. I have no problem with the age difference, but come on here, good grie... (read in full...)
My girl friend is sending naked pictures of herself to her ex. Is that cheating?
Q. So the girl I've been dating for 6 months now has been sending naked pictures to her ex, and having conversations with him while telling him that she loves him too, and that he should come over to have sex with her, all while telling me that she's ...
A. 19 December 2010: I always wonder why it was so easy to play around with women in relationship and you a classic case why it’s so easy. After being mistreated and talked to like a dog or worst, it’s easy for them to jump ship. You sir need a mirror. Are you a ... (read in full...)
My girl friend is sending naked pictures of herself to her ex. Is that cheating?
Q. So the girl I've been dating for 6 months now has been sending naked pictures to her ex, and having conversations with him while telling him that she loves him too, and that he should come over to have sex with her, all while telling me that she's ...
A. 18 December 2010: No advice really needed here except that you need to let her go. ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him so he can leave me alone?
Q. Somebody plz help me. I made a stupid decision that can cost me my marriage. I'm ashamed,embarrassed, and feel like crap. I got myself involved with a man at my job who liked to do phone sex. He is older than I and married. It was fun at first ...
A. 18 December 2010: I would look into a restraining order and reporting him to the medical board. If you tell him that then maybe he’ll back off.... (read in full...)
I have a problem, I like my teacher!
Q. I have a problem I like my history teacher. I know it is wrong, but it's getting worse. everytime i see him my heart beats faster and feels like it is going to explode, just like when i think about him. he is married and has two kids,and there is a ...
A. 18 December 2010: She (the poster) shouldn't be harassed here, whatever he does or don’t do is made by him, his decision and his alone. She just has a crush and its him whom putting his future on the line not her.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend gets mad when I try to kiss her!
Q. i don't get my gf i try to kiss her and she gets mad. i get frustrated when she doesn't kiss me and i only try to kiss her a few times a week! i tell her i love and she either says "Suck my d**K" or dido or dildo to be funny but never an i love you ...
A. 17 December 2010: It doesn't matter how long the two of you have been dating, she's not into you. People just lose interest in their mate like yours has, over the years. Sit down and ask her does she honestly want to be with you? If not I would set her free. ... (read in full...)
How long before you should have sex?
Q. I have been with my boy friend for a few years and we havent had sex yet? How long would be a good time to be with someone before you have sex with them? ...
A. 16 December 2010: I would say on the night of your wedding.... (read in full...)
Trust or not trust
Q. I'm married seven yr old, I never had sex before marriage and I expected my wife also must be virgin and I believed always she was virgin as she said/says but after 8yrs now she said everything about her past, now i understand that she had 2 boy ...
A. 16 December 2010: You’re saying you were married for 7 years with no problems and on the 8th year she decided to reveal her past to you. You lost trust in someone that it took her so many years for her to build confidence in you to tell at all. You ask her in the b... (read in full...)
His teenage daughters and ex dictate his life!
Q. my boyf of two years has two kids - 18 yr old girl and 16 old boy who have never liked me even though i've made the effort but they claim they want to see their daddy 'alone'. we split up for 6 months and during that period they have started to ...
A. 15 December 2010: I think people never take in consideration the welfare of the children/family. Key point they’re not hers! I am dating a woman who isn’t the mother of my children like you are. My ex is alive and well and she does an excellent job mothering the ... (read in full...)
Will men find me a whore for initiating anal sex?
Q. I am a bit concerned with the fact i am constantly thinking about anal sex... it turns me on so much... my boyfriend likes it, but he prefers vaginal sex... i was wondering if men will find me a ''whore'' for iniciating the anal sex activity... i ...
A. 13 December 2010: well...yes w__re would come to mind... (read in full...)
Is this what all the protective guys do?
Q. This is the third time i've asked a question here, that just shows that my life is full of drama. The only reason i dont tell my family and friends about my problems is because they can be very judgemental so i guess i need an outsiders ...
A. 13 December 2010: thats his way of controlling you, Lt him be some other girl problem.... (read in full...)
Will she still be 'tight' for me?
Q. My girlfriend had sex one time before she met me for literally only 2 minutes and told the man to stop. She knew what she was doing was wrong theres a long back story to this. But I'm wondering will she still be tight when we do it? Tight as a ...
A. 13 December 2010: No dude and I really find it hard to believe she stop him after 2 mins. She will never be a vigin again.... (read in full...)
Am I crazy or is my family really screwed up?
Q. Are my morals wrong in thinking that sisters shouldnt sleep with each others exs?? I'm the middle child of 3 sisters.I found out recently that my little sister slept with my ex fiance' and my older sister is currently sleeping with a guy i was ...
A. 12 December 2010: Your family is crazy. If a guy can sex all females in one family than you guys needs help, lots of it. ... (read in full...)
How is this possible?
Q. my friend is hiv positive and pregnant but her husband is hiv negative how is it possible?...
A. 12 December 2010: She's has two lovers or she been infected by a needle. It possible that he's actually positive but test neg. Hiv like many other virus can remain dominate,but pass the virus on to others. Hiv and other people has no effect and they never become sick ... (read in full...)
Why do men cheat with women who are not as attractive / accomplished / affectionate as their partners?
Q. Why do (guy) cheaters cheat with women who are usually not as attractive, as accomplished or usually not as affectionate? ...
A. 12 December 2010: If she has a vagina then that's all she needs to have in order to cheat. A guy can hate you, but still have sex you. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. What you see as ugly someone else may think she hot...like your guy. ... (read in full...)
Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt?
Q. Hi eyeryone! Okay so here is my question. My friend told me that she lost her virginity and i asked how did it go and she said it hurt really bad but in the end felt good. so i was wondering. Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt or is that ...
A. 12 December 2010: It'll hurt a lot. My ex was 19 and she said it hurt like hell. ... (read in full...)
I have a problem, I like my teacher!
Q. I have a problem I like my history teacher. I know it is wrong, but it's getting worse. everytime i see him my heart beats faster and feels like it is going to explode, just like when i think about him. he is married and has two kids,and there is a ...
A. 11 December 2010: You got it bad (:, but it’s nothing to be ashamed of a lot of us go through it. It helps to me and a friend of mine. He married his teacher and when it hit the light all hell broke out. The shame, the families involved her life and husband. It was a ... (read in full...)
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