I want to get married and have kids so badly, how do I get rid of this feeling?
Q. I swear to the powers that be, about 90% of the people I graduated with (class of '08) or graduated a year below me have kids, are engaged, married or all of the above. Here's some annoying facts: Both of my best friends (who graduated with m...
A. 17 August 2011: sounds like you two have your head on straight, married life is hard so take your time, however, he's not your husband and far from it. Never service a man like youre his spouse. Date, court and then marriage in that order. Sex comes after youre co... (read in full...)
Why do people think its okay to berate women who sleep with married men?
Q. I'm so fed up reading people taking the moral high ground on every topic, especially that of married cheats and 'home wreckers' There is so much contraversy surrounding cheating at the moment on this site and I would like to express my views as...
A. 17 August 2011: Theis not one cheater male/female that cheats by themselves, most likely theyre cheating with anothers so to say only one of you is the cheat is like saying (he rob the bank and i was just standing there) no both of you are equally guilty. If you ... (read in full...)
Texting a guy who already has a girlfriend.....is this wrong?
Q. I know this may seem obvious and I'm sure most of you will right away say it is wrong and I shouldnt be texting him, but let me give you the full story and please reserve your judgement until then! I met a guy on Saturday night whilst out with ...
A. 17 August 2011: I read some of these response's, but theyre off the mark. Each of us are individuals and therefore we have a life to live. Ever action deserves a reaction, if he make advance on you and still date his gf than you know he's a cheater. Cheaters ... (read in full...)
Should I be angry at a drunken kiss?
Q. Hi guys, basically I have been seeing my now ex boyfriend for 8 months, he is the most caring loving honest person ever. I have trust issues due to my past and I accused my boyfriend almost everyday of cheating on me, fancying my friends and even ...
A. 17 August 2011: my your own business is the slogan. He actually didnt own you an explaination of his personal life. I would walk on this coz he will never gain your trust. Your past is your past so leave it there. You cannot do that, in your eyes, he was a cheater ... (read in full...)
He spent more money on his ex than he does with me, did he love her more?
Q. did my partner spend more money on his ex because he loved her more? He was with her for a short time but furnished her house and paid her rent, got her a car and paid for her boob job. With me, he is not like that. ...
A. 17 August 2011: Don't worry, you'll be in his wallet in no time flat. Just teasing, but it could be how you present yourself. She could be high maintenance and he see's you as an independent woman, therefore, he doesn't need to spend money on superficial things to ... (read in full...)
We have a great relationship all around--so why does he need to watch porn??
Q. Hi, I am trying to understand why my bf watches porn and would like your insights. We've been together 1 yr, and everything is great:) We have told each other we love each other. I love spending time hanging out with him, we share interests, make ...
A. 15 August 2011: I just think you two need to talk. You start by asking him his fantasy with or without you. Go deep and dont be afraid to say that isnt going to happen if you think its freaky. I think its not about not getting enough but hes watching what he cannot ... (read in full...)
Wife says the root of our arguing is that she does not trust me--even tho I have never lied or cheated!!
Q. Hello all. I recently asked for advice about how to renew the spark in a very argumentative marriage. I recently found out some news that explains a lot about the arguing. My wife told me last night that she doesn't trust me. She said she jus...
A. 15 August 2011: First thing first, i would apologize for giving her the impression that i'll leave her. Its not trust but fear she has of you bolting on her, heck you said it more than once. (when times gets rough you will get going). I would just start romancing ... (read in full...)
How could I find out if my best friend is bi?
Q. I am 18, bisexual, and... meh... I kind of half-fancy my best friend. He is tall, blonde, has a gorgeous smile and has a soft, cuddly build. He has had a girlfriend but I always wonder if he could be bi. How on earth would I bring it up or find out? ...
A. 15 August 2011: well this friendship is over...lol. You can ask him directly or indirectly. Try this (have you ever thought of doing it with a guy) my ex-friend ask me like that. We was pals since we were 14. ... (read in full...)
Why do creeps ask girls if they are virgins?
Q. Why do creepy guys and perverts ask teenage girls "Are you a virgin"?...
A. 15 August 2011: Whats creepy about it. The answer is clear-yes or no. When someone is interested in you then he wants to know you or about you. That is such a person question, unless your ashamed to answer. Ask him is he a virgin, but if youre in or planning on ... (read in full...)
Why does he want a trial marriage if we have already been G/f and B/f for two years already?
Q. I was out to dinner with my boyfriend tonight and I asked him what his reservations are about getting married. He told me that he wanted to live together first because he wanted a trial run to see if we were compatible. I feel after two years he s...
A. 15 August 2011: Your guy is a freeloader and will never marry you. You see this now, why rent your parents rental if he can get into the main house with a bonus-sex with the dauther and maybe more. This is a guy who's looking for a naive girl. Has he found one?
D... (read in full...)
First-timer wants to play safe
Q. hello i need help im about to have my first anal intercourse with someone who i met online and is 10 years older than me he says hes clean but he told me stories about how he lost his virginity and what he likes to do and by the looks of it he ...
A. 14 August 2011: 10 minsk could be a lifetime of pain. What is wrong with you? Never have unprotected sex with anyone for any reason. You can get an STD from oral sex as well. You need to pratice no sex until you learn all the danges of what you did in those 10 ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is so tight I have trouble getting in and staying in.
Q. I need help!!!!! Me and my girlfriend are have become recently sexual, now i'm a good lover, don't get me wrong, but past foreplay i find it pretty hard to get "inside" of her. She tends to get really tight and then i cant get in, now i don't have ...
A. 14 August 2011: 5.5" is hard to see that she tight for that size penis. Here: sexinfo101.com there are poitions where she can take control, but mostly she needs to be on top of you because of the size you have to offer. ... (read in full...)
Are people who look at porn more likely to cheat?
Q. Hey, I'm interested to know-do you think people who look at porn are more likely to actually cheat on their partner? I'm asking because I know my bf of 1 yr watches porn videos online every 3-4 days. It used to get me down, but so many people have ...
A. 14 August 2011: its doesnt matter, but what does is communicating to each other your desires. There is a reason why he doing it. 3 to 4 times a week? Thats sounds more of an addiction than the average person. You to need to talk, sex means different thing to each ... (read in full...)
If a man wanted to propose to a woman, he would". How true do you think this statement is?
Q. Dear Cupid! "Nevermind everything else, if a man wanted to propose to a woman, he would". How true do you think this statement is? My boyfriend/partner and I have lived together for a few years, but have been relatively poor due to loans we too...
A. 12 August 2011: well i dont understand the new car at all. He seems superficial to me and will low his money on himself and luxury items that surely isn't in a secure future for anyone.
In a way youre already married. You do all your wife duties and he does all ... (read in full...)
First-timer wants to play safe
Q. hello i need help im about to have my first anal intercourse with someone who i met online and is 10 years older than me he says hes clean but he told me stories about how he lost his virginity and what he likes to do and by the looks of it he ...
A. 12 August 2011: stop, this isn't how it should be done. 2his guy is a freak and want to play all his fantasy out on you. If your looking for safe sex then talk. Never listen to people that say someone pass is his or her own when it comes to your health and safety. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had sex with a girl when we broke up for only 2 days!
Q. I just found out that my boyfriend went and had sex with a girl once when we broke up for only 2 days. Technically he didn't cheat but it feels like it. He never told me, I had to find out from another person months later. He told me he regretted it ...
A. 12 August 2011: ok, first you need to recognize what happe. If someone profess their love to you or want to be with you then turn and sleep with another; their a cheater and will always be one. Every chance he gets to cheat, they will. 2.) never believe it happens ... (read in full...)
Sexual encounter btw an 18 yr and 25 yr? legal yes but is it ok?
Q. Thoughts on a recent high school graduate having sex with a 25 yo? Or a college sophomore dating a 26 yo? I know its legal but is it appropriate?...
A. 6 April 2011: Why wouldn't two pleople bothering no one have the freedom to do as they please. Who deems anyone master of whats appropriate or not for two adults. Easy way to think of this is to keep your moral to yourself and live by them, that way we all can ... (read in full...)
He can't keep up with me sexually, should he get his testosterone checked?
Q. how do I ask my man to go to the doctors and get his testosterone level checked? I feel like this is the problem he is having sexually he is only 28 but he is really having a hard time. We are still fairly young I am 23 and like I said he is 28, I ...
A. 6 April 2011: “when he was single he could jack off almost everyday and sometimes twice” This doesn't take much energy to preform then actually having sex. Some people want it all the time and others don't, that doesn't mean anything is wrong with him. You may ... (read in full...)
How to please him?
Q. What are some good positions or things to do to make the guy feel good sexually? ...
A. 6 April 2011: Usually just come within site of him, but try this site since you're over 18: www.sexinfo101.com... (read in full...)
I usually date skinny girls, my girlfriend is bigger. I'm worried I won't be attracted once she's naked!
Q. Okay so this is a rather simplistic question. I am 16 dating a girl a month younger than me; just to provide you with an age. I usually only date girls who are pretty skinny but I recently fell in love and am dating my best friend who is a little ...
A. 6 April 2011: Their isn't any for you little dude. We date those that we're attracted too. You need to tell her that you cannot carry on this relationship, or wait to have sex with her then let her go. You know how she would say you just used here. oh you already ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend told me she had a threesome. Now I want to know with whom!
Q. My girlfriend while being blunt tells me that before meeting me that she previously had a threesome. Should she tell me with who? She brought it up and now I feel like it is a curiousity that will not go away. Should she tell with who or should I ...
A. 6 April 2011: I would let this go because nothing can change this now. I couldn't be ashamed of anyone that I love. Those things happen before you and while your dating you should see if this relationship is compatible. If you think that you can't handle this, it ... (read in full...)
What are the chances that the baby is not my boyfriend's?
Q. Please don't judge me for this I feel awful as it is - I am currently almost eight months pregnant. I am due on may 10th and my last period began on august the fifth. I have a steady boyfriend who I am sorry to say I cheated on once on the evening ...
A. 31 March 2011: "period began on august the fifth" Its a very good chance that your carrying the other guy baby. You need to do a DNA test. Forget what "The Realist" Don't just force this child on a man that had nothing to do with what you decided to do. I hope ... (read in full...)
Will my shorter penis please her as much as a longer one?
Q. Hi, been lurking here, and have seen all the questions on penis size. I know these get asked a thousand times, but I have another one, sorry. I have never been insecure about my size before, but I am with a girl who was with a guy much, much ...
A. 28 March 2011: Its all in the head dude on both size male/female. No your 5 in want really do anything for her if you keep thinking like that. Its very intimidating for me as well and I larger then you. But theirs many ways to make up for it. Stop worrying about ... (read in full...)
I want my marriage back, but my feelings for the other woman are keeping me from rekindling my relationship with my wife.
Q. I really need some help on this one. In prior posts I spoke of how after a 6 year marriage and two kids, my marriage was failing due to a lack of intimacy, attraction and just all out togetherness. We never fought or argued, we just drifted apart. ...
A. 28 March 2011: Your first step is to get rid of this woman and confess your deeds to your wife. You need to give her the same options that you have "the right to choose on her own" when you with hold and lie to her face as your doing each time you see this woman ... (read in full...)
First he says he wants friends with benefits, then he says he wants to be with me, what does he want?
Q. So today, I had a date...or hang out day...with a guy I like. He knows I like him and he's told me he likes me too. But I had asked him if it was a date, he said he wasn't sure. And when I brought up what we were, he said "I'm not sure." Throughout ...
A. 27 March 2011: I disagree with this...let the relationship blossoms if it can, but with hold sex because it just confuses things.... (read in full...)
Is this behaviour between my fiance and his 20 year old daughter normal??
Q. This is kind long lol. Me and my fiance have been together for 2 years, he has a 20 year old daughter. When I met her the first time we got along then me and my fiance had some issues which he ran to her about no she seems a little cold to me. ...
A. 27 March 2011: Its his daughter and I have two of them...babe isn't baby. Its a difference in the two, but i think its a pet name he uses. A daughter that knows how to melt her father...well thats all of them. You need to walk away before you accuse this man of ... (read in full...)
He left me when I was a month pregnant and I never hear from him until a year later when he wants to marry me!?
Q. Hi everybody,Please help!My boyfriend left me when i was a month pregnant.I take care of myseslf during all my pregnancy time.I had never heard about him and I did not know where he was neither.I took over everything on my own,no child support,and ...
A. 25 March 2011: You gave yourself the best advice that you can ever receive: “I still love him,but I want him to pay back for some years before we can rejoin.” He needs to work to get back where he was and that comes with a lot of begging anything less isn't worth ... (read in full...)
I fantasize about older men and am no longer happy with our sex life!
Q. My husband and I have been together for 5 years, married for 2. Throughout our relationship we have had our share of ups and downs. When we first got together we were both in our teens (18-19) the sex was amazing, but after kids and doing a little ...
A. 25 March 2011: cupidus, no one should ever have to feel like its part of there job to have sex and defiantly don't do it if you truly don't want to give yourself to him. You two need to go deeper within you relationship and from what I read I believe you not real... (read in full...)
Should I accept his invite to visit his home? he's 23 years older than me. I'm a virgin.
Q. What do you think about this ?. I recently started meeting up with a much older man ( he's 23 years older than me ) . I cant exactly say that we are dating yet, as we have only met up a few times for a drink. Recently, some of his friends, who are ...
A. 25 March 2011: Here's what I think sweetie. Those old men that is winking at you is actually flirting and getting a vibe that you like it. You need to put a stop to it unless you want it. If your at my house and flirting with other men I would think you're a ... (read in full...)
My wife had a one night stand for years ago but won't tell me his name. What do you think?
Q. my wife cheated (one night stand) on me 4 years ago. it was a one night. she just confessed what she calls everything.....But she will not tell me her friends name. What's up with that??? The reason that it is important is this guy works at a f...
A. 25 March 2011: Who cares if she wants to move on, he has a right to know every little detail. This is how STD is tranmmitted from one person to the next. Heck you need answer and you need them now. She would be out of my house if the mouth is closed.... (read in full...)
I'm offended and hurt by his ignorance
Q. I need some answers. There is this guy, as there always is. He gazes and stares at me from afar and upclose and gives me undivided attention, like i'm the only one he sees. It is obvious he feels something for me. But here's where the problem ...
A. 25 March 2011: I think he may like you, but can't strike up a conversation. I think you're over reacting to that outting.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend stopped talking to me and a girl answers his phone every time I call!
Q. Hi aunts! So I need some advice on what to do in this situation. Me and my boyfriend of 2 months broke up 2 days ago. He was at a party and I was going out to. Well I called him and was asking who was ther and stuff nothing mean though. And he said ...
A. 25 March 2011: She told you they were doing it....that would mean she going to service him. He sleeping with another female for any reason I think it wouldn't be a second thought on my part. Put this in your head, a vision of him humping her!... (read in full...)
I like porn and get turned on by women. Am I bisexual?
Q. Hey, well im sort of touching a senstive matter and i could perhaps use abit of advice. Im 14 years old and well im a girl and i like to watch porn. i watch metro sex porn, the thing that i dont really understa...
A. 22 March 2011: When I first join the military I went into the military I had a few female friends. I got there and the five of us was watching porn as well. Mainly female and was more then turn on by it. Trust me those females weren't gay in the least bit. I still ... (read in full...)
What does a man feel emotionally when receiving oral sex?
Q. Hey guys....I read something once that "Giving a man a blow job is like giving a woman flowers" What kind of feeling does it give a man when she wants to give him a bj? Is it just a feel good sexual act or do you guys feel a connection with ...
A. 22 March 2011: it depends on the guy. I see a woman that would suck on a penis is C***ksucker that i wouldn't ever consider as a life partner. I would wonder how many more penis she been sucking on.... (read in full...)
I found porn on my 53 year old dad's computer
Q. My dad is 53yrs old.. a very simple, sober and decent man who practices meditation daily. But today when I went on his laptop, there were loads of porn (hardcore) websites in his browsing history. Is it normal for a person like him to be looking ...
A. 22 March 2011: I am 45 and yes i like sex. heck son and daughters are a direct result from fathers that have intercourse with a female.
Yes you should write your father an apology for snooping in his things. He may take it as disrespect that you went through ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know how to break off with his 19 year old g/f to be with me!
Q. First,let me start with my mistake. I started an affair before I decided for sure to leave my husband of 9 years. Husband is a good man, but we married at 19 and my feelings have changed. I love him, but no longer in love or desire him. We have a 6 ...
A. 22 March 2011: Don't listen to them, listen to me because I will always tell you the truth. I see a few things that they having hit on and if you can come to see these points I think it would set your mind free.
She's 19:
Or you kidding me that a man would wa... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room?
Q. What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room? I share an office with a woman, and it seems that every time she leaves she touches her butt on the way out. Three possibilities come to mind for me: 1. Sh...
A. 21 March 2011: why is it rude to check someone out that you're interested in male/female?
She could be itchy...lol. Who knows. Only she could answer that.... (read in full...)
Me single, her married, but SO INTENSE!
Q. there is a woman at work i have been sleeping with for about a year, there were so many feelings shared early in the relationship that were outstanding on both our parts. Well theres a huge problem, She has been married for twenty years but has ...
A. 20 March 2011: She's using him? What a joke...this man (if you can call him a man) sleep with another man's wife for over a year and she's using him. The easy when to sleep with is one that is emotionally beat down. They're quickies and just time passers. His gi... (read in full...)
My baby's father has a double standard for us, what can I do here?
Q. hello i dont know wht too do with my babys father he cant stay home at all.... two weeks tops when he goes out hes out all night even all weekend at times yet he gets mad when i go out but when i do its usually me buying groceries and paying...
A. 20 March 2011: Its you!!! He treating you the way you're letting him. Put a freaking stop to this mess and now. No words needed anymore. He has half the kid so make sure he be a father at least half the time. If he leaves then change the locks. If you honest ... (read in full...)
He cheated, doesn't want to get married, I do, should I just leave, we have a child?
Q. My boyfriend of 3 yrs cheated on me while I was pregnant with our 1st child got that woman pregnant. I found out on the night of his baby shower from his male cousin. It really hurts, I keep going back and fort whether to stay or to leave. Family ...
A. 20 March 2011: My wife cheated on me and I know the pain that comes with it. It not the act that hurts as much as the emotional tolls that it brings with it. It will remain with you forever, but at some point if you want it to work then you must find away within ... (read in full...)
Should I go to my ex's house and tell his family he cheated on me?
Q. What should I do? are my friends right? ? My ex boyfriend cheated on me, betrayed my trust and my love for him. I loved him so much and he hurt me and lied to my face over and over. He told me he doesn't want a relationship and wan...
A. 16 March 2011: Just let this go coz your relationship with him has run its course.... (read in full...)
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