My family first or him? My family criticize him. So I need to break up but think he'll take it badly
Q. Hi, I can honestly say that I love my boyfriend. I can honestly admit that I have never feel so much loved before him. However, I am not happy because my family been criticising him in the past few months. His business went down pretty bad. M...
A. 11 September 2011: You need to slow down and think this through before its to late. They're criticizing him on a one sided story (your side) and not his, so criticizing him is easy to do without all the facts. You said they ask questions and you gave an honest answer, ... (read in full...)
My family first or him? My family criticize him. So I need to break up but think he'll take it badly
Q. Hi, I can honestly say that I love my boyfriend. I can honestly admit that I have never feel so much loved before him. However, I am not happy because my family been criticising him in the past few months. His business went down pretty bad. M...
A. 10 September 2011: Well let you and I hope that he open his eyes and see that you wouldnt make a good wife to him for many reasons. 1.) why will you discuss your relationship with your family? If he hitting you then yes tell everyone, but if he's not then your rel... (read in full...)
After she gave birth she is not tight like before! What can I do?
Q. Hello all cupid users Can you please help, since she gave birth sex is not like before. Her vaginal wetness is not the same. its dry. And how can I get the vaginal tightness she had before? Thanks...
A. 10 September 2011: Dude its in your head. i bet she wasnt tight as you think it was and why would you want it to be thight. You should want her to enjoy sex as well.
She's dry because somehow she isnt into you at the moment. It could be that she just giving to you ... (read in full...)
Does sex on the first date ruin the chance of a relationship?
Q. I am now seeing this guy whom i have been talking to for while on the internet.I tried not to have sex with on the first date as I have been told that he will dump me and a relationship will not happen if you sleep with them straight away.I asked ...
A. 9 September 2011: Sometimes at our age and been so long without it its best to do it and get it over with. At you guys ages thaen i doubt it would be the case. So have sex then get to know him. ... (read in full...)
He waited 23 years to express his disappointment. How many people out there did not have sex on their first wedding night?
Q. How many people did not have sex on their wedding night and waited until the honeymoon?? Husband was upset that we did not have sex on wedding night. We did have sex as soon as we arrived at the hotel on the honeymoon. when i tried to explain...
A. 6 September 2011: its obvious that this bothers him in to call it petty or silly is an understatement. Why does it matters now? Your marriage is over so just let it go. When i asked for a divorce i told my wife its neither of us are at fault but we're just not good ... (read in full...)
He has no trust in me. He says it's because he is scared of losing me. But is this the best I can expect? It makes me sad.
Q. Hello Cupid, I am 20 years and i have been dating the love of my life for over 4 years. He is my age and we have been going to school together. However, i feel confused of late. He is a very nice guy the kind of guy who will never cheat on you...
A. 5 September 2011: Your guy is a control freak and it always leads to abuse. You will never change this guy at all. You wont see this untill he start slapping you around. You should have look for a guy that complemented you, some that will be compatable to you, not a ... (read in full...)
After 8 months, he says he feels he loves me more as a special friend than a girlfriend
Q. So i've been going out with my bf for 8 months, and recently he told me that he didn't feel like that he loves me as a gf anymore.. and he said like, right now he still loves me but he feels like i'm more of a really special friend than a gf.. B...
A. 5 September 2011: nothing you can do, lust isnt love. You dont measure love on a scale from 1 to 10. Hes probably has another ready and ur in his way. ... (read in full...)
I'm bothered by my fiance's past
Q. Hello I need some help... I been with my fiancee for awhile now and we are due to be getting married here very soon. I been hurt a lot by many people... He's a wonderful guy and he's very open and honest with me about everything.... When we talk ...
A. 5 September 2011: I
had a lot of women in my past, some meant something to me and other didnt at all. When i ask my ex to marry me i sat her down and told her of them. We talk a long time and i could see the disapointment in her face in eyes. I thought it was over... (read in full...)
Why do exes from years ago get in touch when they're single and have nothing to do?
Q. Why do exs from years ago get in touch again when they are single and having nothing else to do ? This has happened to me ...again , im with someone , have been for two years , my ex knows this , her other half is in prison, she married him whil...
A. 5 September 2011: Only you know why you truly called! 1.) you call to let her know that you have someone and better for it. 2.) you call to see if her life turned out worst since you two parted. A friend would habve tried to understand and sent moral support if any. ... (read in full...)
Texting male friends constantly while we were watching a movie, should I be okay with this?
Q. So I met this girl, we hit it off And started seeing eachother. One of the things we talked about was how her last boyfriend was very controling, wouldn't let her have male friends, go out to the bar with her girlfriends And so forth. Well I don't ...
A. 4 September 2011: Heck no, i would felt disrespected enough to turn on the lights, walk to the and opened it, as i gustered her texting self out. No words need after her rude behavior. When someone is jealous its usually the person their with that makes them that ... (read in full...)
My mind says do not go back to my abusive ex. My heart says yes. what should I do? Should I just stay friends and avoid relationships for a while?
Q. My ex-boyfriend wants me back. What should I do? He is 26 years old, I'm almost 17 years old. Our relationship was of 3 years. It was a long distance relationship. We met online. I broke-up with him 3 months ago but we still remained in contact on ...
A. 4 September 2011: You have got to be kidding me. You see what type of man he is and your trying to get back with him. They dont change, they just beat you worst later on. Get rid of the guy for good. You will get over the love once you realize that your worst ... (read in full...)
I love 3 older married men and I'm only 18.
Q. Hi, I am an 18 year old girl, and I am single. I met one of my mums friends husband last year and I instantly felt a connection with him. He had just been made redundant so he got a job at where me and my dad worked. He is 31 and probably not the ...
A. 4 September 2011: Stop, youre getting ahead of yourself looking at married men. Why? You may have an attraction for older men, but why not just get to know someone for whom they seem to be regardless of the age. Heck you may find one you really like whether he's 1 da... (read in full...)
Are we both too proud? Why am I like this? I never wanted to hurt him or to get hurt so easily
Q. I am 19. Seeing a now 35yr old man. We have been seeing each other for nearly two years. I secretly love him, and he has told me he loves me. But, he has gone away on bussiness and I miss him. We spoke to each other on Skype every morning and nigh...
A. 4 September 2011: I think texting is so impersonal and misleading as in you case. I think the two of you are misreading one another. There is an age gap between my gf and I. She has a big problem like you do here. She talks for me and when i say talks for me, i mean ... (read in full...)
After ignoring me shall I give him another chance? or just chill out?
Q. Last weekend I went out for some drinks with a guy,he is 4 years younger than me so I was a little uncertain whether I wanted to or not. He insisted that he was looking for a relationship and seemed nice enough,so I went. Things really went well I ...
A. 4 September 2011: I find texting impersonal for a relationship, but others dont. I dont see that hes into you as you thought, but i could be wrong. I would refrain from sex if your looking for a LTR, what is on offer could just be a booty call. ... (read in full...)
My fiancee's promiscuous past disgusts me.
Q. Cupid, my wife to be has a promiscuous past, am having second thoughts as am a virgin.am not insecure am just disgusted with how she lived her life. Should i stay or let her down gently...
A. 4 September 2011: Cindy Cares ur correct and im mistaken (sorry about that) its obviously when someone lies, withholds, or pretends than thats apart of there character. Those things develop from someone past. She knew by withholding that information that she could ... (read in full...)
Should we work things out or does my wanting to see other people pretty much mean the end?
Q. ok, so me and my ex (but we are supposed to be working on things) have been together for almost 4 yrs and have 2 yr old together.....but my thing is he has cheated 3 times and the 4th time he messed around it was not really cheating he broke up with ...
A. 3 September 2011: What your mind is saying is you're ready to move on. Dont waste any more time on this guy because life is just too short. I bet there is a guy out there now wishing for the opportunity to meet someone like you, yet you would rather spend more time ... (read in full...)
My fiancee's promiscuous past disgusts me.
Q. Cupid, my wife to be has a promiscuous past, am having second thoughts as am a virgin.am not insecure am just disgusted with how she lived her life. Should i stay or let her down gently...
A. 3 September 2011: Why is it so hard to understand "cindy cares". She lied to him, present a different person than whom she really is. He didnt ask her to take a virginity test, she blabbed it out over drinks. I say give her a few more drinks and get more of the truth ... (read in full...)
My fiancee's promiscuous past disgusts me.
Q. Cupid, my wife to be has a promiscuous past, am having second thoughts as am a virgin.am not insecure am just disgusted with how she lived her life. Should i stay or let her down gently...
A. 3 September 2011: I honestly believe you love her as a person and trust me youre doing the right thing here. I saw red flags and ignore them, i paid a high price in the end. Dont walk, Run from this and give her a chance to reach 30 or 35 conquest. You just dont be ... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend just seriously tear up after sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. He started sniffling like he was going to cry and didn't 'finish'. (He instigated the sex). I didn't push him or anything. Has anyone ever had it happen to them or know why? I don't want to humiliat...
A. 3 September 2011: Nothing wrong with him. It how you feel about that person. Its obviously he feels deeply for you. It happen to me twice with the girl i wanted to marry and my ex-wife. If he does it again just tell him to stop it. ... (read in full...)
Should I let it go and forgive my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I had been dating for 4 months but have known each other for almost 3 years. I always suspected that he and my sister had/have a thing for each other, but always thought that it was more like unspoken. He was once her teacher ...
A. 3 September 2011: I really doubt he did anything with your sister, but i believe he loves you as a friend. I had a romantic interest in one sister while the other long for me. This went on for 2 and half years. I never took the offer of her sister like your guy did ... (read in full...)
My fiancee's promiscuous past disgusts me.
Q. Cupid, my wife to be has a promiscuous past, am having second thoughts as am a virgin.am not insecure am just disgusted with how she lived her life. Should i stay or let her down gently...
A. 2 September 2011: I wonder how many of the past forgiver would feel the same as they do now about their spouse if they contracted HIV from their past behavior. I really believe they would feel hurt and betrayed. Just because some has a preference or belief of whom ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for us to not have sex for the 4-5 years before we get married?
Q. Hi! Here's my problem.i and my bf have been dating for 8 months now and we have not had sex with each other.i'm a virgin but he is not.we agreed not to have sex until we are married which could be in 4-5 years time.we only only have make out ...
A. 30 August 2011: Anything possible, im heading home in two months and i spoke to someone i dated for two and a half years. I was hoping to marry her, but her two brothers fault me through the whole relationship. I really never thought about having sex with her. I ... (read in full...)
I've been talking online with a 30 year old woman who wants to go out with me!
Q. Hello there everyone i could use some advice. Ive been talking online with this woman she is 30 years old. We have been talking for about a month or so and do not live far away from each other. I have talked to her on webcam so i know she is who ...
A. 30 August 2011: I work with a 21 year old guy. He's very goodlooking and im not gay, but you got to give it to the dude on that. His sister could be models. He can stand that my girl is much younger than me, yet he dates women twice his age. Im not sure if its a ... (read in full...)
My wife fell pregnant by another man, should I forgive her?
Q. Hai people, my wife had a child by another man, i kicked her out but she returned begging to be forgiven she was always sad so i feared she would have a miscarriage so i took her back in despite the pain i was going through. The father of the child ...
A. 30 August 2011: I think you have done more than most would have or even tried. Let this go and move on. ... (read in full...)
She wants an abortion but I disagree! What can I do?
Q. Ok so I don't know where to start.. I recently found out that the girl I've been seeing is pregnant with my child. The problem is she does not want to keep the child she wants to get an abortion and I strongly disagree with her! What can I do for ...
A. 30 August 2011: their isnt much you can do here. You can try to find someone close to you and her to reason with her. Try to offer her away out by letting her know she can give up parential rights once the child is born. If all that fails then seek a court act... (read in full...)
She lied and told me she was a virgin, the truth came out while drinking
Q. Dear cupid, the woman i am suppose to marry is a liar. 2 years ago i asked her if she was a virgin because i am and didnt want to waste each orther's time if we had different ideals about premarital sex. She said she was a virgin, now that i am ...
A. 30 August 2011: No No, she lied at least 10 times to him by saying she's a virgin. This isnt the person you were searching for. We all have preference whom we should and will date. This person created another person for you to fall in love with.
Walk from this now!... (read in full...)
My FWB started liking another guy so I downplayed my feelings for her, now she seems to be falling for the other guy even more!
Q. i have a sex partner we've been having sex maybe just over a month now.. but i feel like our sex has been going down a hill lately.. how do u spice things up? and.. i am falling for her but she told me she likes this other guy who she just m...
A. 29 August 2011: You cant just cut off feeling for someone, it the two of you. Your relationship is stricly sex. Your trying to protect your feeding hold so naturely youre in love with her. Its really in your head not your heart. This is a lay to you. It a love coz ... (read in full...)
My fiance says he doesn't trust me!
Q. I have been with my partner for 6 1/2 yrs, we are coming up to our 1yr anniversary for when we got engaged. And yesterday, he tells me that he doesnt trust me. He didnt give me specifics...but he says he has problems trusting people...is that a good ...
A. 29 August 2011: Almost 7 years, dont be naive and look closer. You maybe set for a heartbreak. Most people that suddenly accuse you have already done it. The guilt make them blame you. ... (read in full...)
How to I deal with turning down this girl who asked me to homecoming?
Q. I got asked to homecoming by one of my friends today. I haven't really known her that long and I feel like she might have a crush on me, the problem is though, that I don't have a crush on her in return. She asked if I wanted to go, and I told her I ...
A. 29 August 2011: I was in your shoes almost 30 years ago. Over the last year i tried but fail to add me on facebook, but she wont. I know what happen and i know she had it bad for me and i sort of like her. If i could redo it. Who knows what would had happen. You ... (read in full...)
I am miserable being married to my husband.
Q. I have been married for 29 years.All these years were very tough I feel like I am in prison.We are like day and night. I got depressed. I had a break down before and i Can feel one coming soon. Ijust want to dissapear and never come back.I hate him ...
A. 29 August 2011: This is heart breaking. At one point you must have love him, i would hold on to that part. You stranded because of money and nothing else. I would be honest and end it coz no matter what happen now this marriage is over.
I ended my marriage when... (read in full...)
My boss and I text each other, now his wife is furious at me. Did I do something wrong?
Q. This is a strange one I'm having mixed opinions about. Basically my boss is 20 years older than me, and married... and male also! However we text back and forth just silly jokes, general day to day stuff, and sometimes just to see how each other are ...
A. 29 August 2011: No you we're wrong for texting a married man. Their plenty of cheating spouse on here. This was just friendly text..wink wink. We all know if we put ourselves in situation ways like this, someone will get screwed in the process. You know exactly ... (read in full...)
The woman I like has a boyfriend but said she likes me. What should I expect?
Q. I need a little help deciphering what happened when I went out last night. So here is the quick run down... My friends and I went out to a local bar/club and I met this beautiful woman. Everything seemed to be going great. We danced a couple ...
A. 29 August 2011: She may have an open relationship with her bf. This sound like sex dates in the making. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about getting pregnant while taking birth control.
Q. Dear Cupid..i have been on birth control for about 6 to 7 months, but i havent had sex before. The reason why i got on them was because i thought it wouldnt be soon before i wasnt a virgin anymore but looks like i still am. Anwyays, the first i have ...
A. 29 August 2011: It takes about 30 days for the birth contorls to work, yet its not 100 per cent. ... (read in full...)
My husband said he shouldn't have married me!
Q. while we were arguing, my husband told me this "I should've not married you". Did you think he meant that? He said he just said it coz he was mad at me but I kinda felt like we are about to get divorce. Idk what to do. if I will save this marriage I ...
A. 29 August 2011: He said what was in his heart and that thought been there. You force out what he really want to say for sometime now. It will take both of you to save this relationship, but it may fail down the road. ... (read in full...)
Three questions for men!
Q. Three Questions to guys : 1.)Do men go out their way to make an ex/ or current girlfriend jealous? And if so, how? 2.)Why would a man in a 3 year relationship make an online Dating profile? 3.)What are the signs that a man is no longer ...
A. 29 August 2011: Sorry but your guy is missing someting at home. I doubt he's pushing you away although it obviously he looking for extra.
Your guy is actively searching more than a one night stand and i doubt he trying to make you jealous here. I think he doesn... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my older boyfriend help with the bills?
Q. I am 26, and am/was dating a 43 year old. I normally tend to date guys younger than me or my same age, but figured I'd try something different this time. Anyways, he has basically been living with me the past 2 months and has never offered anything ...
A. 28 August 2011: I would go look at each of my kids and tell them as a woman that im sorry. (this will not happen again). I'll promise both of them that as their moter i would protect each of them from phyical and emotional abuse as humanly possible. I would ch... (read in full...)
The married man who I am seeing, accuses me of cheating on him!!
Q. I am absolutly livid and hope somebody can either 1) Persuade me I'm wrong or, 2) Prove me right! I have been seeing a man who is married for a while now and I have stayed faithfull since day one. He also tells me he doesn't sleep with his w...
A. 27 August 2011: Here youre the most faithful cheater i know. I bet you a 100 dollars no man can cheat alone. Their always cheating with someone like yourself. Its takes two to cheat unless they have an open marriage. Its obviously that you care about your parttime... (read in full...)
Different sex style and sexual expectations...how can we make compromises in bed?
Q. Hello everybody, so one month ago, i've started dating one guy. I'm 22 and he's 30 (these age differences are ok for us). We have decieded to be a lovers and maybe one day couple, but we're not in really hurry. Our dates are in the nature, in t...
A. 26 August 2011: Stop! You need to realize what this is to him, a sexual encounter and nothing more. Don't be naive about this, otherwise youre going to feel screwed in the process. You're not going to be anything more then a FWB to him, or it will be a bad relation... (read in full...)
She has a new boyfriend but I still have feelings for her, do I still have a chance or is she gone?
Q. Alright this is kind of long question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year and for most of the ...
A. 17 August 2011: I think its a miss opportunity and its hard dating a friend. Let this go b4 you get hurt and lose a friend. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is talking to another girl online but not cheating!
Q. I have boyfriend that have been with for 6 years got a 5 year old child with and is engaged. He gets on a site called craiglist and talk to girl behind my back I have asked him why he does this he says I don't know. now he is doing again right after ...
A. 17 August 2011: your guy is willing to pay for sex and he has you. This is inter thoughts or fantasy. All of us has them, yet your guy will act or willing to act on it. I dont tnink its much you can do because i believe whatever you suggest once it in his head it ... (read in full...)
I want to get married and have kids so badly, how do I get rid of this feeling?
Q. I swear to the powers that be, about 90% of the people I graduated with (class of '08) or graduated a year below me have kids, are engaged, married or all of the above. Here's some annoying facts: Both of my best friends (who graduated with m...
A. 17 August 2011: sounds like you two have your head on straight, married life is hard so take your time, however, he's not your husband and far from it. Never service a man like youre his spouse. Date, court and then marriage in that order. Sex comes after youre co... (read in full...)
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