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| | sofiamorgan's profile:I'm always the one people come to for advice or a shoulder to lean on, and I found that a little tough at times because I never really had anyone to turn to, and I discovered this website and got given some really good advice, so I decided to join and give a little something back.
What makes me qualified to help other people? Just the journey of life...I've been on the edge of becoming anorexic until I realised what I was doing to myslef, and with help I recovered fully. I have two friends who are anorexic, one who has recovered, the other in the process of doing so. I have been there for them as have they for me.
I've had relationship crises far to often! I'm forever helping out friends who don't know what to do about them!
I've a few quotes that I always keep in my mind:
~ It's not how you fall down but how you get up
~ Don't dream dreams, live them
~ Remember the only time you fail is when you stop trying
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7 July 2008: It’s only in the black of night you see the stars, and those stars will lead you home. So don’t be afraid to make mistakes, to stumble, to fall, because most of the time rewards come from things that scare you the most. Maybe you will get everything ...
Do it today...you never know what's around the corner....
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30 April 2008: If you're mad at someone and nobody's there to fix the situation...You fix it. Maybe today, that person still wants to be your friend. And if you don't, tomorrow can be too late. If you're in love with somebody, but that person doesn't know...t...
A life story....
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27 January 2008: The following is a story of what has happened in my life, just something to say that we can all get up and carry on. Well when I was at primary school I was the typical pupil, doing well in class participating in sports etc. but when year 5 came...
It's not about how you fall down, but how you get up.
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21 November 2007: There are times when I feel like I have no one to turn to. It feels like my life is so empty and that no one cares, sometimes I feel like no one would actually notice if I disappeared. Then again, there are some people who would notice and I just ...
Memories...
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19 November 2007: I got this in an email a while ago...and I thought I would share it with everyone because I think it is so true...let me know what you all think.... There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from you...
Fighting the fight
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13 November 2007: I've come to the conclusion that if having things turn out the way you wanted them to is a measure of a successful life, then some would say I'm a failure. The important thing is not to be bitter over life's disappointments. Learn to let go of the ...
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Can my friend be pregnant from being fingered?
Q. my friend was fingered at a party but it wasn't like a typical party no alcohol or anything it was a barbeque and the guy that was there had been there for over 2 hours, shes freaking out because she hasn't had her period yet and she was supposed to ...
A. 9 July 2008: No you cannot get pregnant from being fingered.
If she doesn't know the answer to this question I think she should stop engaging is any kind of sexual activity until she is old enough to understand the consequences of her actions. ... (read in full...)
Spit or swallow? Where should I spit?
Q. If I want to give my boyfriend head what do I do with the sperm? People say spit or swallow but I don't want to swallow so where do I spit it?...
A. 7 July 2008: If you don't know/can't figure it out then I suggest that you wait to have sex, oral intercourse until you know the answer to this question.... (read in full...)
My periods are irregular, is this normal?
Q. Im 13 as of June 10 and i've had my period since i was nine. it was never really normal, and i've went to doctors and stuff.They put me on the pill but that made me sick so they put me on the patch and it still didn't help me. The doctors say my ...
A. 3 July 2008: Its perfectly normal for your periods to be irregular, your body is changing and you are still growning, mine didn't settle down for a year or two. It's nothing to worry about!... (read in full...)
Is it really a friend, that person you get drunk with every week-end?
Q. I don't know, I wouldn't say I was boring! Although I'm a family girl, married and a mum, I travel around the world a couple of times a year, I go to Rock gigs (Eric Clapton on Saturday!), I perform and I am always up for a party. But most people m...
A. 2 July 2008: I know exactly what you mean, although I'm not in the same age group as you, my friends do go out clubbing ALOT. When I haven't seen them for a while thats the last thing I want to do I'd rather go for a meal or catch up over a cuppa. Don't get me ... (read in full...)
My step-father and I are masturbating together everynow and then...is this ok?
Q. HI I am a 15 year old boy My stepfather and i are masterbating together every now and then I was just wandering if it is ok??...
A. 2 July 2008: No I don't think that this is right...talk to your mother about it and see what she has to say. ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to notice if you've had sex? Do you walk differently?
Q. my boyfriend and I are starting to have sex. last time, we were having sex and when i took his thing out of mine their was white stuff all over, an I think it might be his cum, but I cum alot and it might be mine, but he said it was not him because ...
A. 2 July 2008: Emilyanswers has answered everything very well! (Great answer!) I suggest that you listen to her and take all of her advice.
Also I suggest that you do NOT have sex until you understand it and how it 'works'. Use protection (condoms) or go on th... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!
Q. Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all t...
A. 1 July 2008: Wow! What a brilliant set of statistics! Well done everyone, Andrew, mods, aunts, uncles all of you incredible people make this site a great place to be and to help others as well as be helped!
Hugs to all!... (read in full...)
I'm dating an older guy online, could he be using me?
Q. Hello. I have a question to ask.... I am a 15 year old girl...and i'm dating a soon to be 22year old male over the internet. My friends think it's wrong and my parents don't know about my relationship with this guy.. I want to move o...
A. 1 July 2008: I think you should get out of this relationship as fast as you can, people are not always who they say they are. Your 15 and he is 22 (so he says) big age gap. Please for your safety stop this relationship now. ... (read in full...)
I'm dating an older guy online, could he be using me?
Q. Hello. I have a question to ask.... I am a 15 year old girl...and i'm dating a soon to be 22year old male over the internet. My friends think it's wrong and my parents don't know about my relationship with this guy.. I want to move o...
A. 1 July 2008: I think you should get out of this relationship as fast as you can, people are not always who they say they are. Your 15 and he is 22 (so he says) big age gap. Please for your safety stop this relationship now. ... (read in full...)
Is it safer to use 2 condoms?
Q. is it safer to use 2 condoms at a time?...
A. 1 July 2008: Using 2 condoms will not work anything like as well as one. This is due to the friction that will be caused by the two of them rubbing together causing one if not both to break. If you want to be really safe, go and see your GP who will put you on ... (read in full...)
He says sweet dreams, is he flirting with me?
Q. hi again... like i said there this guy i like alot... i want to know if he is flirting with me.. well when we hang out on saturdays he hits me with rubber bands in areas if you know what i mean.. an he says sweetdreams an dreams about me. he is ...
A. 30 June 2008: Yep he is flirting with you!... (read in full...)
Embarrassing pubic hair. Is this normal for guys?
Q. I'm 19 and I have a bit of an embarrassing problem. Well actually, I don't even know if it's really a problem, or something a lot of people go through, because it isn't something people discuss. Whatever it is, it's starting to cause me ...
A. 29 June 2008: It's perfectly normal and nothing to be worried about! You may well want to get waxed there, but then again its your choice!... (read in full...)
Is 8 months too long to wait to have sex?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and he's my first proper boyfriend. I'm almost 17 and he's almost 18. We haven't had sex yet and we're both virgins. I don't feel ready for sex yet but nearly all of my friends have had sex and I'm starting ...
A. 29 June 2008: I applaud and respect you for standing by your moral and your beliefs. It is completely up to you what you and when you do it. Do NOT let anyone iflunence your actions, you are your own person.... (read in full...)
How do I know if my husband has had sex with another woman?
Q. how do i know if my husband has had sex with another woman...
A. 29 June 2008: The quickest and most reliable way would be to ask him!
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Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?
Q. Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...
A. 29 June 2008: Haha cool indeed...I do get a Margate bound train most weekends...as I go back to school! So not too far at all... ;-)... (read in full...)
If I continue like this at 15, will it affect me when I get older?
Q. Im 15 and usually cum about once a day. If i continue this at this age will it affect me when I get older? Like when I want kids and that?...
A. 29 June 2008: Nope it won't affect you at all when you're older. You are a teenager, most people come twice a day at your age! You will be fine.... (read in full...)
What should I do - she doesn't like roller coasters, should we break up?
Q. I've been going out with my GF for a year a a few months, i think she's great and we have alot in common.I found out recently that she doesn't like roller coasters (although she has only been on one). The problem is i absolutely love roller c...
A. 29 June 2008: Ok dumping her over her dislike of roller coasters is just really pathetic - I'm sorry if I'm sounding harsh. Why can't she wait for you whilst you go on them and vice versa..?
If you are really going to break up with her over this then I'm sure... (read in full...)
Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?
Q. Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...
A. 29 June 2008: I'm a london gal BigSis...
I'm looking foward to it! ;-)
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Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?
Q. Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...
A. 28 June 2008: I know its starting to get depressing BigSis its been far too long!! :-(
I'll kiss ya! ;-)
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How can transfer personal files from computer to laptop?
Q. I know this isn't a relationship question, but i would appreciate any answers. There are some files on my computer of which i need to transfer to my laptop (don't ask for the reason lol) but i'm not sure how to transfer them. I've considered email...
A. 28 June 2008: The easiest thing to do and to ensure that you don't loose them is to buy a USB memory stick and transfer them across like that. I do it all the time with work and so on - its really quick and easy once you get the hang of it!... (read in full...)
How does this speech for my 18th birthday party sound?
Q. I'm currently writing a speech for my 18th birthday party and would really value your feedback on a particular paragraph that I really want to be good and sound right and from the heart... Here goes... 'You will notice that there are two people...
A. 28 June 2008: Thank you so much for your kind words Tish and Minnelisse I really appreciate it. It was an incredible party and an incredible, if somewhat emotional evening! I don't think that there was a dry eye after all the speeches were finished.
Thank... (read in full...)
Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?
Q. Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...
A. 28 June 2008: I've been there...one guy I went out wiht for a couple of months...was so excited by the whole thing...it felt like a fast spin cycle in my mouth and when I tried to pull away and actually stepped backwards he just kept on coming! Boy oh boy...that ... (read in full...)
No period yet. What can I do?
Q. hi im 14 and i havent stared my perid yet what should i do ...
A. 28 June 2008: I got mine when I was 15. Enjoy this time of life without it...you won't enjoy it so much when it comes!! Trust me, cramps etc etc People develop at different speeds there is nothing at all wrong with you! You have untill you are 17 or so until you ... (read in full...)
I have NO facial hair! Is that a turn off to the girls??
Q. Ok, I'm 16 years old, and basically my problem is that I currently have no facial hair!... I know i was a little behind my mates when it came to pubity, but now I'm pretty much the same as them; I have a reasonable amount of pubic hair,...
A. 28 June 2008: I prefer it when my guy is clean shaven and has no facial hair...kissing just starts to hurt after a while! It's not a problem that you haven't started growing facial hair yet...you'll look younger!... (read in full...)
He asked for pictures of me in my underware, does he really like me or is he just trying to use me for my body?
Q. Hi.. This guy i really like has started to ask me to send pictures of me in my underwear! I was really shocked as he claims he is still a virgin so i didnt think he would be into that sort of thing and when i ask him why he wants them he says its...
A. 24 June 2008: NO NO NO!! Don't send him any pictures, he is being very disrespectful. He is asking for underware now, then what semi-nude, fully nude. They could end up anywhere.
This happenend to a friend of mine, she sent off some *pictures* to a friend, ... (read in full...)
I've got feelings for my girlfriend's friend....more so than for my gf!!
Q. How can i find out how my girlfriend's friend truly likes me without her telling my girlfriend?? I think she has a thing for me but keeps her mouth shut because of my current status with her friend....
A. 23 June 2008: Brutal answer is that it ain't gonna happen. Even if you do wait a while before dating her - likelihood is that she ain't gonna want to date her best friends ex.
It seems to me that it is just a crush, if however I am wrong then the best thing to... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out but I don't know how
Q. Hey everyone!! I (re)met this girl a few days back (I knew her from a convention I went to last year but we didn't really keep in contact) and I wanted to ask her out but I don't know how! I suggested hanging out with her but I don't know if I ...
A. 23 June 2008: I know that men are under alot of pressure to go up to girls and start talking to them.
Ask her if she wants to go for a drink/coffee whichever is appropriate! Or maybe ask her if she has seen X movie and would she like to see it with you, the... (read in full...)
Can you tell me how to squirt?
Q. I've always wanted to act sexy and one of the only things that all the men that i know say is sexy is to squirt when i'm having an orgasm! can you tell me how to squirt please! my boyfriend does not mind me not squirting but i would love to. and ...
A. 23 June 2008: Some people find to hard to orgasm, just explore your body and find out what feels good.
As for squirting only a small number of women do actually squirt. As Emivia says it is not something that you can learn to do.
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I'm I going to be pressured to have sex from all these boys?
Q. i am nearly 14 and i am underpresser about having sex! there are soo many sexy lads that i know, and most of them have asked me out, i have only went out with 1 of them, and there is 9 more lads that have asked me out. the one i went out with said ...
A. 23 June 2008: I congratulate you on respecting yourself and your beliefs. Stand for what you believe in. If you don't want to have sex then don't. You should not feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to do.
My opinion is to go out with this guy... (read in full...)
Help me understand what he means by all this!
Q. hi, I like this guy but I am not shore how he feels about me. Wean we talk he poets he's hands an his waist and he leans little for word. Wean I see him at church he always says "Hi" or even sometimes he says "Hi sunshine" or "hi sweet hart". We ...
A. 23 June 2008: It sounds to me like he's flirting with you. :-)
You say that you like him, so why don't you ask him if he wants you to grab a coffee or maybe go and see a movie. Or something like that.
Go for it!! You never know what will happen unless yo... (read in full...)
Help me understand what he means by all this!
Q. hi, I like this guy but I am not shore how he feels about me. Wean we talk he poets he's hands an his waist and he leans little for word. Wean I see him at church he always says "Hi" or even sometimes he says "Hi sunshine" or "hi sweet hart". We ...
A. 23 June 2008: It sounds to me like he's flirting with you. :-)
You say that you like him, so why don't you ask him if he wants you to grab a coffee or maybe go and see a movie. Or something like that.
Go for it!! You never know what will happen unless yo... (read in full...)
What is the likelyhood of me being pregnant from this??
Q. Hey ... my b/f and I were naked, and he was on top of me - he pre-cummed, but it was on my mons pubis, a good 3 inches away from my vagina. I cleaned it up without letting it drip any further ... what is the likelihood of me getting pregnant from ...
A. 23 June 2008: No chance at all. You are not pregnant. None of it went inside you so theres no way that you could be pregnant.... (read in full...)
How do I become confident with kissing?
Q. dear readers i am almost 15 and have boy troubles. i have never had my first kiss as i am always scared on my inexperience and his experience as this happens i always end up chickening out and honestly i dont know anyone who hasnt had there 1st ...
A. 22 June 2008: Don't be insecure about kissing, everyone has a first time! When you start to kiss someone properly it all comes naturally, I didn't kiss anyone properly untill I was 16, but that didn't matter to me it was finding the right guy that did.
Hones... (read in full...)
I like a girl at school!! What can I do to get her to like me?
Q. I am 12 and I have a crush on a girl in my school. The girl I like is also twelve and school just ended and I don't know how to get her to like me. Her name is [...] and she is very atractive. What should I do. ...
A. 22 June 2008: Just be yourself around her, maybe talk to her a little more than you would normally. Hang out within a group over the summer, as being in a group won't put pressure on either or you and it'll be more relaxed.... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out? My confidence with women is low at the moment...
Q. Hi I have played golf regularly for the last 2-3 months with a couple of friends. On a couple of times one of my friends sister's has turned up. We seem to get on and she is single and about the same age. I would love to ask her out but on both ...
A. 22 June 2008: I say go for it!! I suggest you email her and suggest going for a drink and then maybe to see a movie.
I really hope it works out...you seem like a really nice guy!
Keep us posted please!! :-)... (read in full...)
A friend shows us up at a club on my graduation night...am I right to be unhappy at her??
Q. ok guys.. need advice. last night my friends and i went out to celebrate my graduation, there was 6 of us. 2 of the 6 had just finished a relationship of 1 year about a month ago... anyway... towards the end of the night we went into a great club ...
A. 22 June 2008: I personally think you have every right to be angry...I would be as well if a person I had specifically asked not to make big scenes promptly did so.
I would rethink your friendship with her...as from my point of view a true friend wouldn't... (read in full...)
The condom broke and I got my period the very next day, any chances of pregnancy?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were having sex when the condom broke, Now I got my period the very next day and had a normal period except for the odd fact that I had severly bad cramps for two days. Is it possible I could be pregnant? I don't feel like it,...
A. 21 June 2008: The chances are that your due on another period soon, which could explain why you are more emotional and so on.
If you are really worrying about it then wait untill your due date and if it hasn't come within a week or so then take a test.
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How can I get my parents to trust us?
Q. Me and my boyfriend, we were planning to stay at the chalet for a few nights. we're going to share a bed but my parents were afraid that we would have sex. how can i persuade them?...
A. 20 June 2008: You have to look at it from their point of view. You, him, chalet and a bed, alone. Of course they think that you are going to have sex. The simple thing to do would be to respect their views. Your parents are looking out for you and they're not ... (read in full...)
I have not told my mum that I started my periods and I've a school trip soon...
Q. ok so i need a bit of understandment help, a few months ago i started my periods and i never told my mum, because i just couldnt say anything really. but i am going on a school trip soon which includes an overnight stay...she has got my washbag ...
A. 20 June 2008: The first thing you should do is to tell your mum. However it is surprising how intuitive mothers can be and she may well already know that you have started, and put them there to save you from doing so yourself. However she may just be putting them ... (read in full...)
Period problem! Normal to sometimes have a thicker, darker period? I'm worried!
Q. I really need some advice. My periods are usually pretty regular, for example if i had a period on feb 21st, i'd probably have one around march 22nd or 23rd. Now, during feburary I took the morning after pill. It was all fine, no sickness. Then i...
A. 20 June 2008: Pepper has indeed listed all the possibilities and I think the safest thing to do if you really are worried then go to a doctor.
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