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I got banned on a website, will they come looking for me?

Q.   I Think I have been banned from a certain website (being a young male you can imagine what type) for not paying for the service. I made several accounts on it and one of their rules was no identity fraud. Well in my eyes I created the names of the ...

A.   23 October 2010: what? haha. just delete the history of your browser and youll be fine, silly. sites usually have bigger issues to deal with.... (read in full...)

Is it normal to want to lose your virginity?

Q.   okay, im a 16 year old girl. im really pretty and im a nice person. i have a great additude and im really funny. i have alot of friends, and maybe a handfull of guy friends(that i couldnt see myself being in a relationship with) and i just want to ...

A.   22 October 2010: painting54: i wasnt planning on losing it to one of my guy friends because of that reason. im not sexually attracted to them and even though im sure theyd have sex with me, i know it would change something. maybe not between me and him, but between ... (read in full...)

How can I stop this bullying before it gets out of hand?

Q.   my cousins oldest child is showing major signs of being a bully. she has locked my oldest daughter in a car in the heat of the day, she shoves her off a trampoline and pushed her into an unsocialized pittbull. she is 4 yrs old and my kid is 3. she ...

A.   22 October 2010: i think that you should say something one more time to your cousin and if she doesnt do anything about it, you should stop letting them play together. i know you dont want your daughter to get hurt so a jurastic decision like that may be necessary.... (read in full...)

I'm interested in my sister's 30 year old ex!

Q.   Okay, so I need alot of help. I'll start off by saying I'm 16 years old and I'm mature for my age. And I'm not just saying that. I'm not a fake person. I dont wear to much makeup, but I am very pretty. I dress nicely and I'm chill, but I have a wild ...

A.   21 October 2010: No no no, you have it all wrong. NOTHING went on between us. We never talked about dating, but I really do like him.... (read in full...)

Do women like to catch a glimpse of a man's penis or balls?

Q.   Do women like it when men wear shortish kind of shorts and maybe you catch a glimpse of what he is packing here or there (san undies, of course). I love it when I happen to catch a glimpse up a woman's skirt, or into her shorts, or down her top to ...

A.   21 October 2010: EW NO... (read in full...)

How do I go about satisfying my bi-curiosity?

Q.   I want to try having a sexual experience with a woman, but i'm not sure how to go about it. I have been bi-curious for a while now, but i have only ever been involved with men, although, i am a virgin, and i haven't dated many guys, and the guys i ...

A.   21 October 2010: i think just starting out with having sex with some girl you dont know is a BAD IDEA. i know what you mean, but i think that you should find someone that wouldnt mind talking and getting to know you better before the sex. why dont you talk to a ... (read in full...)

Husband texts other women

Q.   Hi, I need some opinions on how you feel about your husband texting/talking on the phone with other women. We have been married for about a year and I trusted him that he is a good husband and will never cheat on me, but now im not so sure. He...

A.   21 October 2010: well if you feel this is serious enough, and you dont mind doin a little snoopin, you could call the phone company and explain to them that its urgent that you get a printout of all texts. you could probably even go to the store to pick them up. you ... (read in full...)

My ex is damaging my new relationship

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up a while ago and I found someone new who makes me happy and my ex is keep calling and texting me all the time I don't respond to any of it but when he first did this I told him to stop and leave me alone but obviously it ...

A.   21 October 2010: i had the same problem. just delete him from your life. block him on facebook/myspace. change your number. and you can even get a restraining order against him. i know that sounds harsh, BUT THEY WORK. im pretty sure theyre free, but maybe theyre ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend says it's over if I get another tattoo!

Q.   Hi all My boyfriend has told me that he might leave me if i get another tattoo, piercing or modify my body in any way. We have been together for 5 years and i love him dearly. He is very sweet and kind and i do value his opinion on body modifi...

A.   21 October 2010: wow. DUMP him!!! he should love you for who you are and stand by you no matter what? im a 16 year old girl, and personally, if someone didnt like my piercings(chest, ring finger, ears, sides of the neck) id say SCREW THEM im happy with my body. i ... (read in full...)

I'm interested in my sister's 30 year old ex!

Q.   Okay, so I need alot of help. I'll start off by saying I'm 16 years old and I'm mature for my age. And I'm not just saying that. I'm not a fake person. I dont wear to much makeup, but I am very pretty. I dress nicely and I'm chill, but I have a wild ...

A.   20 October 2010: no! it completely has everything to do with his personality and who he truely is. i like how smart and funny he is. and hes really interesting to talk to. i really love talking to him. looks arent everything to me and thats what i was trying to ... (read in full...)

My best friend is only using me till he gets a girlfriend

Q.   I have been blowing my best friend since I was 16. Now I am 25. I’m gay, but my best friend is not. He really is straight. He will mostly watch straight or lesbo porn when I blow him. he let me do it because he’s ugly and he doesn’t have a ...

A.   20 October 2010: WOW. okay, im a sixteen year old girl, but it seems like hes just using you. i know this may sound harsh, but do you really think youd be friends if you werent blowing him? what id say to do is to NOT continue blowing him. tell him how you feel, and ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I haven't had sex in 8 years?

Q.   just started talking to an old boyfreind. Its been 19 years! We want to be together again and he is out of state, but coming back. How and do I tell him i havent had sex in 8 years? What will he think of that? Don't know what to do!...

A.   19 October 2010: dont tell him that its been eight years. just say, right before the sex, "its been a while since ive had sex, so you better make up for all that time." thats what id do(:... (read in full...)

I'm not sexually attracted to my girlfriend anymore!

Q.   I love my girlfriend very much, we have been dating a good 2 years. The problem is is that I don't find her sexually attractive anymore. Because of this I have cheated on her a couple of times, once was on a break. I don't want to break it off ...

A.   19 October 2010: BREAK UP WITH HER! trust me. id rather have a guy break up with me and be sad, then to find out that my boyfriends not attracted to me anymore and has been cheating on me and be really sad and feel humiliated.... (read in full...)

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