Can anyone give me feedback on taking Xanax?
Q. This is a health question, but I'm hoping to get some opinion. At the last few month , I'm having a very bad time, with numerous health complains, but when I go for tests, everything looks ok. The doctor is running of ideas, what could be wr...
A. 9 September 2015: Hi I'm a mental health nurse so here my penny's worth .. have you been checked for a b12 deficiency. . As b12 isn't always about anemia. . It lowers moods causes anxiety and sleeplessness and depression and even the way we feel and think .. ask if ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be in a marriage where my husband is always trying to make his mom happy!
Q. I am getting married in a year. We have been together for 6 years. My fiance has a 17 year old daughter who will go off to college next year. We set our date for August 21. His daughter was raised by him and his parents. Yesterday his mother asked ...
A. 9 September 2015: I think you need to talk over boundaries with your husband to be .. lay your cards on the table .. This is his and your day and you two do get to choose the day of your wedding .. so talk it I've Rex plain what you've said here what you write isn't ... (read in full...)
My friends all have better lives than me!
Q. Why is everybody looks so happy with their life although i know they might have their own problems but i feel like a loser seeing my friends life. Im 25 yo. Have a longterm boyfriend that proposed to marry me but im still waiting for him to be mo...
A. 7 September 2015: Life is what you make it .. not what material things you have or gauges on your success.. yes money helps ..being comfortable .. being content . Sas a mental health nurse here is my penny's worth .. stop looking at your friends life style . ... (read in full...)
I love her and don't want to leave her. What to do about her insecurity over her body since pregnancy?
Q. I'm a married man with two children. My wife is an excellent mother however our relationship hasn't been going too well for a long time. Our problem is our sex life. Ever since my wife had our second child she has not really been wanting to be in...
A. 5 September 2015: Why would leaving her even come into the equation. . May I ask how old are your children .. being sexual intimate I can understand your frustration at wanting that closeness .. but at the moment she just isn't ready . How do you help at home .. does ... (read in full...)
Why would he dance with me,call me ugly,then carry on dancing with me?
Q. I saw this boy at a party and started dancing with him, he seemed enthusiastic enough and he even tried to kiss me then we went to get a drink and while we were at the bar he said your face is ugly-I thought I had misheard so I asked him to repeat ...
A. 5 September 2015: In my opinion .. He was looking for a hook up .. He was being mean .. and nasty and if I were you I would wash that incident right outta my hair and move on sweetie .. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be bitchy over this. Any advice on how to handle this please?
Q. I messed up things with my boyfriend and did something wrong for which he dumped me. I am really sorry about it but he will not stop getting angry with me and texting me horrible things. We had a week long argument which resulted in him sa...
A. 4 September 2015: Hmm what good for the goose is good for the gander ..what I mean is maybe you invite your male friend to get up your bf nose a tad.. Make him feel some of the emotional hurt that you are feeling and it's clear from your post . You are hurting . I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't know that I seen a text he sent to a friend where they were discussing a 3 way!
Q. Hi, Me and my partner was in bed and he was texting his friends in a group chat on 'WhatsApp', I glanced over (we've all done it) and his friend said "I think I was in love" to which my boyfriend said "Yeah, I think you was" (this is about their ni...
A. 3 September 2015: I think this is something you shoulda done at the time .. but that doesn't mean your too late . I would sit him down for an adult chat and tell him that if he is unhappy in your relationship he needs to say .. banter with friends is one thing but ... (read in full...)
Does he prefer older women, or did I mess it up?
Q. Hello, I found this man I worked with really attractive, he's really nice and fun and we get along great! I have known him for a few years now and consider him a good friend. My friends always tease me and say what a great couple we would make, an...
A. 3 September 2015: It's hard sweetie, I would hold your head up high, you told him and his response wasn't positive. So if I were you I would continue to be happy to see him and cheerful but I would not flirt .. maybe he like the idea .. as he knew you were taken .. ... (read in full...)
If your partner cheated, would you want to know?
Q. I've been on this site for a while and I'm horrified at the number if times cheaters have been told to keep quiet about the affair or the kiss 'to spare the partner's feelings'. If my partner cheated on me I would want to know. If he cheated and t...
A. 2 September 2015: As a RMN ( health nurse) I would as do most of the aunts, ask anyone to lie to their spouse .. However if it were a infatuation say and no harm was done; then I would advise to look at what was lacking in the relationship ..think back to when you ... (read in full...)
He made a remark that upset me. Should I say something to my boyfriend's friend or just let it go?
Q. I was at the beach yesterday with my boyfriend and a couple of his friends were there to meet me for the first time and hang out with us. I was in a 2 piece suit but you could still see a bit of skin. I was devastated when I over heard his...
A. 27 August 2015:
I would say to him . I love me .. I love my body .. I'm beautiful .. your ugly inside and out, and if I wanted I could get this fixed .. but guess what .. you'd still be ugly .
Your bf needs to tell his friend to shut his hole up .. tell him don... (read in full...)
I don't think she'd ever admit to having feelings for me but I'm crazy about her and we live together!
Q. So, I'm in love with a girl I live with. We are close friends, however we act in a way that is very "coupley". every evening she wants to lay on the sofa cuddling which usually leads to us messing around. I'll move away and she'll come to me usually ...
A. 26 August 2015: You are going to have to .. wean yourself of her . Very much like a baby with its bottle. You don't have to be doing coupley things so back off. Go to your room.. say you want some you time . Those other friends you mention .. go to theirs or go ... (read in full...)
My manager's crush makes him act inappropriately. Should I film him and send it to his supervisor and wife?
Q. Has anyone ever cringed at their Manager, I work in retail and My Married should I add Store Manager has such an obvious crush on a customer. A young women around late 20s comes in every other day and my Manager, makes no secret he is checking her ...
A. 24 August 2015: can relate to your frustration over how your manager is conducting himself and I would agree it is not professional. However has anyone else mentioned his behaviour ? You leave yourself open to its his word against yours .. If you raise this .. ... (read in full...)
She said she'd be busy but I haven't heard from her in a week. What should I do?
Q. Hello, So I was introduced to an awesome lady through a mutual friend and we seemed to hit it off right away. We have had two other dates/hang outs and at least from my perspective, things seemed to go well. She would always text me after and say...
A. 24 August 2015: I think, this is one of those " ride it out situations " you get on with your life and give her until the end of the month .
If you haven't heard anything then I would just say it wasn't to be . And move along . And who knows you may meet again some... (read in full...)
I feel I really don't deserve my partner.
Q. I feel I really dont deserve my partner. I have been with him six years, and I have treated him appallingly. I have anger issues and hormone problems and he has bore the brunt of it for years. I have been so jealous and possessive, how he stuck it ...
A. 24 August 2015: I think that you have done well so far and like an alcoholic who has issues .. you may feel tempted at times to fall into the bad habits you once had .. keep a journal of how far you've travelled . Write in it nightly . Be fair to yourself . No one ... (read in full...)
A brazilian wax has left a cut, should I treat it?
Q. Hey guys. I could use a bit of advice. I had my first Brazilian wax yesterday... it was okay, if painful. When I got home and looked underneath I saw some skin had been pulled off with one of the wax strips, leaving a cut about a centimetre long. ...
A. 22 August 2015:
The previous posts especially honeypie are all fab .. as a mental health nurse I would suggest cleansing it with a saline solution of salt and water well mixed and then apply the cream .. The solution will sting just a little but will make sure... (read in full...)
Do I pull out of the pageant? I'm just not feeling it anymore and can't fake it!
Q. It took me 3 years to finally make up my mind to contest for a beauty pageant and my talent would be singing. I am a soprano singer and I always sing with my heart so the audience can feel what I am feeling inside. But the problem is I have since ...
A. 22 August 2015: Hey sweetie; it's never to late to pull out .. but I need to ask you someone . Has someone said or implied something to you regarding the contest ..?
As you sound so down beat about it . When I would have guessed that when you applied you were very... (read in full...)
We broke up, working on being together but she changed all her passwords and while away she hasn't been making much contact. What's up?
Q. I have been with my lady for over 5 years. We moved together from NJ to maryland about 4 years ago. She was working at front desk at a major hotel chain. She was offered a Assistant General Managers position, so she took it and we moved in ...
A. 21 August 2015: To begin with I wish you well on your new business adventure . It takes courage and some spark to start one, especially under the current climate . So good on you .
Now you and your girl.. I myself agree that the "back bone" reference isn't a ... (read in full...)
Did my gf cry because shes been found out again?
Q. Hi, I'm a little confused right now and don't know what to think or do. I'll try to keep this as short as possible but I need to include all relevant details. Well basically, before me and my gf got together she was talking to another guy to whom ...
A. 20 August 2015: Everyone reacts differently ..I have a friend who when in tense situations starts giggling .. does it mean she making light of the situation .. nope it's just her way of expression her anxiety at that point .. If your worried because of past ... (read in full...)
Why did I fall for her lies?
Q. I was strung along by this girl who pretended to be my 'friend' but all the time she was carrying on with my ex behind my back. I had a good idea she was - but she would always deny it - so I just carried on as normal doing what friends usually do. ...
A. 18 August 2015:
Have to agree with all the other posts .. Once the honeymoon period is over and the daily routine of life kicks in and those rose coloured glasses fall of and they see each other as two peeps who can't be trusted as far as you throw them . And trus... (read in full...)
Why do these high school girls think that the relationship will last forever?
Q. I have three main "exes" from last year, and two years ago. I did some thinking and dating with these girls, all different from one another, but they all seem to have it in their mind that I broke their hearts and they can never be the same agai...
A. 18 August 2015: I met my husband when I was 14 and he was 17teen and he helped tutor me on maths as I had been off sick . I'm now 39 .. We have three adorable if not rascal kids .. what can I say .. sometimes things even as young as we were .. work .
If your not... (read in full...)
I finally told her how I felt and it's like I'm the bad guy. Did I do wrong? Should I have just walked away?
Q. I have a situation that I'm not sure about. I have a girl best friend of eight years. This past year I started to develop feelings for her. I waited until she was single to tell her how I felt. Before I told her she would give me mixed signals, ...
A. 17 August 2015: This is complicated I'm not going to slate you for opening up about your feelings. You did right but saying; why live a lie. Now on the other hand she certainly doesn't have these types of feelings and she may think that you used the word ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my overbearing controlling sister in law?
Q. I have a bad problem I need to learn how to say no better especially to my husband s oldest sister, we have only been married a year August 1st this year. We got married fast which I am now saying we were pressured anyways she is Power of ...
A. 16 August 2015:
I couldn't say it any better than abella other than chin up and it is your life .. x... (read in full...)
Why am I still obsessing over my ex and his new girlfriend? How can I stop obsessing like this?
Q. Why do I still obsess over my ex and his new girlfriend after all this time? I had a bad break up with my fella - last year. I'm not the dating type so have never moved on or found anyone since as I don't want really anyone - I still love my ex de...
A. 11 August 2015: Sweetie .. We all have what we call pride .. I bet even if you got him back you wouldn't want him really .. its jut your pride that's
What to do .. Make a list of all his crappy behaviour .. don't hold back .. just get it all out .. then ever... (read in full...)
Why do married men fancy me? And why do I respond?
Q. I am a 40 year old woman.. Separated from an alcoholic husband, no children but I work and manage on my own. I also live on my own. Of late I have a lot of interest from married men. This is the second one in 3 years and I like them as friends ...
A. 9 August 2015: Your not bad for wanting or craving attention . It's the way your going about it .. married men are not the way to go .It's just a train wreck waiting to happen . Do you have any female friends ? As going out socialising and finding comfort in the ... (read in full...)
We are involved but both married. I don't know how to stop this relationship!
Q. My boyfriend and I are both married to someone else and are in love. Yes, people call it love affair. It hurts me bad because it is not right thing to do but I can't stop this relationship. (Yes, I have tried in the past.) If anyone out the...
A. 3 August 2015: Sweetie he isn't your a boyfriend .. A boyfriend has to be single and he is not
You know you need to break this .. you deserve better .. you need to say to him how you feel.and wither be together wholly or not .
Certainly the guilt is eating yo... (read in full...)
He's seeing someone else. But also wants to see me. What's my best response to this?
Q. I have been good friends with a guy for a number of years and about a year ago we both found out that we were attracted to each other. We became fwb as neither of us were in a position to have a relationship, even though I really would have like...
A. 2 August 2015: Sorry sweetie but if he had the morals you think he has he wouldn't be wanting his cake and to eat it too
I would draw a line under this as he easily could have waited for you ( if you were attached) and not went into another relationship .
I wou... (read in full...)
I felt I had no other option than to do what I did. But will he suss out that I sent it?
Q. What do you guys think about sending fake messages under a pseudonym? I know you are going to think this trivial and trouble making - but I just need your answers:- I needed to get a message to this bloke on Facebook - he had blocked me (all beca...
A. 30 July 2015: Why why why ....waste your time, energy, on a guy that bad mouths you .. I mean who cares if he thinks it's you that's started these rumours .. He already thinks your poo on his shoe already, hence he blocked you . Listen sweetie life is far to s... (read in full...)
We are friends and I'm interested in becoming more but am not sure if I should make a more advanced movement?
Q. Hello, a lot of time has passed and i still have interest for a man that we are just friends. We have come more near during the previous time but nothing has happened to imply a relationship. I can't really ask him or say something about this ...
A. 23 July 2015: I would say " don't " make the next move as in ask him directly or anything but maybe your going to learn the act of being a bit cheeky and flirty to see if he takes the bait .. For example if you catch him looking at you when dolled up .. stand ... (read in full...)
What is the point in remaining married really?
Q. Hello cupid, I am a 40YO female struggling with the meaning of marriage. We originally wed 8 years ago with the thought that we might decide to have children together. Now I found out I have PCOS which makes it hard but not impossible to have c...
A. 23 July 2015: Here here i agree with you wish
I posted too but isn't showing yet.
Just in case I did something wrong as came of a long shift . My point is very similar you seem to be not taking stock of what you do have ? You didn't marry your husband for ... (read in full...)
What is the point in remaining married really?
Q. Hello cupid, I am a 40YO female struggling with the meaning of marriage. We originally wed 8 years ago with the thought that we might decide to have children together. Now I found out I have PCOS which makes it hard but not impossible to have c...
A. 23 July 2015: Sometimes it's the little things that should bring us joy.. There are people who crave what you have . A home, a husband who loves her, stability comfort companionship and sex . Children are very energetic bundles of neediness and though I wou... (read in full...)
I'm not sure who I'm meant to be and meeting my real birth mother didn't help things
Q. I have been adopted and I'm in care at the moment I have struggled for the past year with my identity and not really knowing who I'm meant to be, if that makes sense. It saw my birth mum a few months ago and it really hit me and I'm sort of really ...
A. 23 July 2015: Oo sweetie I wish I could give you a cuddle and tell you it will be okay .. Can I ask why your back in care system. Here a Lil about me as if I ask a q's I share a Lil. I'm a mental health nurse and I have three children. Our oldest is adopted ... (read in full...)
He has enough lesbian porn to open his own shop!
Q. I don't understand, hate his porn addiction, he has enough lesbian porn to open his own store and still buys more, whats the attraction? Will it ever stop. ruining our relationship for me, he doesn't seem to have a clue, or ever intending to stop ...
A. 19 July 2015: I'm a mental health nurse .. so before we run the riot here, let's get a clearer picture please .
How often does he watch the lesbian porn?
Do you enjoy porn of any discription?
How often does he purchase porn would you say ?
Do you both l... (read in full...)
How can I modify girl on top position to make it more comfortable for me?
Q. Hi guys. I've been in a relationship with this guy for about six months and we have been having sex regularly for the last few months. And yes it is amazing. My only issue is that when I'm on top I can't seem to hold him in and my legs cramp ea...
A. 17 July 2015: Why not sit on him and then slide down so your on top much like how he would be on you .. then use your arms to push your weight of him and use your hips a lot.
I hope this helps ..sweetie ..... (read in full...)
My close male friend's behavior seems like a slap in the face. I don't know what to make of it
Q. I'm a little baffled by the behavior of a close male friend who wants to be more. He otherwise is very engaging and warm but when there is any type of problem that I may be stressed, saddened or angered about and nothing having to do with him, he ...
A. 17 July 2015:
I had a friend like this .. I said had as they couldn't cope with anything negative in their life ..yet when the tables were turned they received heaps of support . But it goes to show not all friendships are well balanced. You have to think of c... (read in full...)
Long term friend: Do I stop pursuing him, or should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Hello i'm 19 years old. I have a guy friend named “E” who I have been friends and next door neighbors with since I was five up until he had to move out with his parents and siblings across town to live at his grandparents house when he was 10 o...
A. 16 July 2015: Honey, I know you will be yo yoing with emotions .. but you must hang on to your pride a lil bit more .. you have already confided in his sister who has asked and had the courtesy of mailing you and letting you know that though he finds you ... (read in full...)
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