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I deleted my account once before. This is my second account. I regret deleting it, because I would like to see the things I wrote 6 years ago. I would like to see my progression or regression of wisdom. I've gone through phases of cynicism and optimism. Despite the enormity of my traumatic experiences, I almost think I'm too optimistic to give advice. I guess I have, if nothing else, a varied perspective to add to situations. Take it or leave it I guess.

Please feel free to PM for an elaboration of something I've written. However I am not comfortable being contacted for my sole advice. I am not all-knowing, nor an MD or psychologist and part of this site is getting different opinions. So please, for your own sake, if you have a question, post it publicly to get a better response.

Thanks :] ~Sy

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Should I go ahead and do it already? I'm a virgin.

Q. I'm a 34 gay man and haven't had a sexual relationship yet. Being this age now, I feel frustrated for not happening. I have a kind of boy friend who doesn't want commitment but likes me and I like him, we've being seen each other but since I don't ...

A. 19 October 2009: So glad we could help. Goodluck! ~Sy. ... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

Q. Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any ...

A. 18 October 2009: Wow that's great! You are that much further along! The only other thing I thought of is that you'll definitely want a swing for your baby. Yes, q, of course I want to hear my hampster comment. ... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

A. 15 October 2009: Wotsi carrot. ... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

A. 11 October 2009: I really do appreciate that q. You know your hilarity is welcome anywhere. ... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

A. 11 October 2009: Oh, q is just q. He's ranting on about my avatar. I think he's in love with it. He's a funny funny guy and he was just sharing that wonderful sense of humour with you. I'll keep adding if I think of other things. ~Sy.... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

A. 10 October 2009: Burp her/him every couple-few ounces. Leave him/her upright for about 15 minutes afterwards to reduce spit up. ... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

A. 10 October 2009: If you're going to dip your infant into the water of a magical pond, be sure not to miss her heel. ... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

A. 9 October 2009: Oh I thought of something else. It's slighty personal but whatever. Nobody had informed me of how to go about using a breastpump. I thought it would be good to pump it out and feed her with a bottle because I hated the way it felt to brea... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

A. 9 October 2009: Ok q, now we've discussed this! I believe the consensus came to a carrot. Are you try to piss off HTHx again? Because last time we ended up argueing over which country has the best cheezepuff snacks.. what were they called? oh! wotsots! Gross..... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

A. 9 October 2009: Eyes gave you very valid advice. People use pregnancy as an excuse to stuff their faces with al kinds of fattening crap, but the truth is, you have to eat healtily and only until you are no longer hungry. Dont overstuff yourself and don't feast on ... (read in full...)

I lied and told everyone I had a brother!

Q. I just started college and am living on campus. I am an athlete and also play on one of my college's teams. I don't know why I did this, but I told some of my new teammates that I had a twin brother back home in a coma. I also said that my par...

A. 9 October 2009: Wow. Prehaps you have been living in someone's shadow. A sister, friend, family member, ect. Someone who was so beloved and recieved attenion that you became jealous of and craved. Prehaps you watched someone go though a tough time and at firs... (read in full...)

How do I make it obvious that I like this girl? I'm shy!

Q. My problem is little long. Well i am 20,still single. My first luv rejected,from then i never found any girl attractive till last week. I go to college, so there is this new girl in my class . I liked her a lot. Its kinda luv at first sight or ...

A. 9 October 2009: Um, I got a vibe from your question that tells me you're not the kind of guy to date her friend or get laid by a random girl. So, I'll just add that I encourage you to keep your integrity and morals in tact. You'll find that disposing of them will ... (read in full...)

How do I make it obvious that I like this girl? I'm shy!

A. 9 October 2009: You should simply tell your friend that this is the first girl you've liked in a long time and you'd appreciate if he'd let you be alone with her sometimes so that you can get to know her. I think he'll be happy for you and will therefore do what ... (read in full...)

Should I go ahead and do it already? I'm a virgin.

A. 9 October 2009: It is a wonderful thing to wait to find the right one. I wish I had done it, or at least waited till I was a bit older. But is it worth walking out on love, or pushing it away? Would you rather be alone for a while and not have sex, or have someone ... (read in full...)

I can't seem to stop calling it off! What's wrong with me?

Q. I realized I have a huge problem. It all begins with remembering how long each of my boyfriends lasted. Never did it go beyond three months. I've only had two before my current one. My current one and I were best friends before. I can't seem to stop ...

A. 9 October 2009: The closer we get to people, the more ceceptable we are to being hurt be them. If a complete stranger lied to you, how much would you care? If a stranger told you he never wanted to see you again, how badly would it hurt you? Not at all. you'd be l... (read in full...)

I am in the perfect relationship. Why do I feel so needy?

Q. I am in the perfect relationship, we have perfect chemistry.I just don't know why I have these overwhelming feelings of need towards him... He does everything right by me, he is faithful, he is loyal, he is loving, encouraging and supportive. When...

A. 9 October 2009: My guess is that your relationships in the past could have been better. Be they with your friends, family, or boyfriends. In their could-have-been-better-ness you learnt that you obviously cannot depend on anyone but yourself. Your happiness is up ... (read in full...)