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The first time we went to have sex for real, he couldn't stay hard! Is it the porn, or something else?

Q.   Well my boyfriend and I decided to have sex for the first time but we ran into a major problem. He is having trouble getting completely "hard" and staying that way in insertion. We have never had this problem before while we were messing around and ...

A.   15 January 2006: TOTALLY normal...especially if this is the first time you guys tried to have actual sex. Guys can lose their erections when they are nervous or extremely excited. It doesn't sound like a serious thing, it just sounds like he needs to relax a ... (read in full...)

Can you fall in love with someone over the phone?

Q.   Is it possible to fall in love with someone you havent met in person yet?? I feel I have fell in love with my soulmate! We talk on the phone all the time but with our schedules not meeting up is the only thing that is keeping us apart! Not to me...

A.   22 July 2005: YES it is possible. It happened to me. We met after 9 months and are now closer then ever. We do live in the same country, but not within driving distance. Follow your heart!... (read in full...)

We just can't have sex. It's too painful for me!

Q.   I am virgin and my bf is not. Recently, we have had several attempts for sex. The first time, it seemed that he could put it in about half way. I didn't bleed at all. Since then, all the times we attempted to have sex, I feel pain . We were not ...

A.   18 July 2005: Talk to your doctor. This sounds very much like a condition called vulvadinious (although I am not sure I am spelling it correctly). I am not a doctor, but a friend of mine was recently diagnosed, and the doctor told her it is not uncommon. ... (read in full...)

My 15-year-old son says he wants to be "clinically obese"...

Q.   I am a mother of two. My youngest son is 11, my oldest son is 15. I have a problem which I need your help with and any advice is appreciated as it is really worrying me. My 15-year-old son told me he would love to be clinically obese as that...

A.   10 July 2005: you should take him to see a therapist. i did the exact same thing when I was 14; the only difference is that I was not so "open" about it, and I am female. But I purposely ate and ate and ate to get bigger and bigger. The reason I did it was ... (read in full...)

Was I just being self-destructive to meet my old flame before I get married?

Q.   I'm getting married in less than 2 months to a wonderful man. We've been together for almost 3 years, been engaged for 2. Up until 2 weeks ago I was blissfully happy, then my self destructive behaviour got the best of me. I dated a man for 2 we...

A.   5 July 2005: Get over yourself and stay with your fiance! This man who you think is so perfect is definitely not. You have been with your fiance for 3 years, that is too much to throw away over a 2 week fling with some guy who doesnt even live in your town.... (read in full...)

He's thinking over going out with me, but was I too forward asking him out?

Q.   hiya! I have this crush and I just asked him out. He is thinking about it at the moment but do you think I have done the right thing to ask him out cos he is a year older than me? I am 13 and he is 14, is that wrong of me? Should I be going out w...

A.   5 July 2005: I say good for you girl! A year is no big deal at all, trust me. I think that you absolutely did the right thing, and that it is normal for boys that age to want to think about it. Dont be surprised if he never comes back to you with an ... (read in full...)

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