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Before this I went through some difficult experiences. I have been unemployed, depressed, emotionally abused and bullied.
I would like to use my life experience to help those who need advice. I will be sympathetic to any situation but very honest at the same time.
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I want to work abroad...can you share your tips and experiences?
Q. I have always wanted to do some work abroad,either in America or Australia,so that would be seasonal work,which is where you can work there inbetween three months and a year i think.Has anyone ever done this kind of work before,either in these ...
A. 14 July 2008: You should check out Camp America.... (read in full...)
Are boys more mature in their 20's and are they commited or are they just like boys of 17 and 18?
Q. I find myself attracted to men in their 20's mainly 21 and 22 year olds, I'm 18... do I stand a chance. I feel they are more mature than boys my age, boys my age are just interested in shagging the fittest girl in the year, are they more mature in ...
A. 15 March 2008: "I find myself attracted to men in their 20's mainly 21 and 22 year olds, I'm 18... do I stand a chance."
Yes you do have a chance. For example I am 22 in May and my girlfriend is 19 in May. I don't even notice the three year gap because we have ... (read in full...)
He kissed another girl at a club! How can I ever trust him again?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me last week in a club by kissing another girl as my friends saw and told me. He, however, claims he was 'too drunk to remember' and therefore he says it means nothing. I love him and don't want to loose him, this was ...
A. 7 March 2008: I think you should adapt the approach of "three strikes and he's out", but don't tell him about it.
If it was totally out of character and he only kissed another girl whilst totally drunk, then I don't think you have anything to worry about, u... (read in full...)
Why don't boy ( like teenage boys) like girls with gingerish hair ...
Q. Why don't boy ( like teenage boys) like girls with gingerish hair ... im not ginger ( i have brown hair ) but my mate is and i feel bad for her.. i fink i colours lovly and so is she. please help. ...
A. 8 December 2007: I dated a ginger haired girl when I was 14 (my first girlfriend). Yes, some people did make fun but they were not my real friends. Also they may have been jealous because I was happy with her. Personally I wasn't bothered by her hair colour, I liked ... (read in full...)
Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Q. Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?...
A. 29 November 2007: I was 17 years old and we were both virgins so it was very special.
I didn't tell my mum for a while but she kind of knew we had.
I went out with this person for three years and loved her very much. I do not regret the experience.
X... (read in full...)
Is it possible that your boyfriend loves you but also wants sex everytime you're together?
Q. Is it possible that your boyfriend loves you but also wants sex everytime you're together? ...
A. 4 August 2007: Yes they can if you believe that love and sex are related. e.g. your boyfriend is always being affectionate and trying to seduce you in a loving way (stroking, massaging, lots of foreplay etc) He gets pleasure from making you happy so he loves ... (read in full...)
I just want to move on and forget about him. Any suggestions?
Q. Hi there, I'm finding it really hard to get over my ex. He broke up with me about a month ago. It was all very sudden and he didn't really give me any valid reasons. He just text me and said "I can't do this anymore." I was devastated, as he always ...
A. 4 August 2007: You already have the right attitude it seems. You have removed the physical memories of him (photographs, love letters and so on). I did this because I was getting too upset by looking at them over and over wishing what could have been with m... (read in full...)
We want to take things further without having sex; what do we do?
Q. Yesterday my girlfreind slept over at my house and when my parents went to bed we watched a DVD and when it finished we snuggeled on the sofa and all night she hinted and told me she wanted to take the relationship further without having sex. This...
A. 2 July 2007: Don't watch porn as a guide to sex it's unrealistic.
Just take it slowly and make sure you are both comfortable with anything new before you try it. And if you are both virgins that is nice but don't rush into sex, let it happen and when its time... (read in full...)
He told me he "loves me in God's way". What the heck did that mean?
Q. Hi, I'm a bit confused on something, and I thought maybe you all could help me... I'm seeing this guy from NZ and I'm from the states, so naturally things mean different things there than they do here... But recently I told him I loved him and...
A. 19 May 2007: Hello Anonymous,
It sounds as though he is a religious person.
What he says, to me implies that he might want to wait until getting married until the two of you make love (again?. Or this could be his in-direct way of saying "Do you love me ... (read in full...)
Do men only become friends with women to get sex?
Q. I was talking to a guy at school and he told me how 99.9 percent of men will only befriend a girl if he thinks he's going to get something in return, i.e. sex. Is this true? I have plenty of guy friends and I don't get that vibe from them at all. ...
A. 8 May 2007: If you don't get that negative vibe from your own male friends then I wouldn't worry.
Some men do befriend ladies that they would like to make love to, but you seem to be able to tell who these users are already.
Alot of men, myself included ... (read in full...)
Would you kiss a girl that does oral sex with a guy 3 months before you meet her.
Q. I am asking a weird question. Would you kiss a girl that does oral sex with a guy 3 months before you meet her. Second question If she did it with the guy and don`t want to do it on you what do you think. Is it that she was force or didn`t like oral ...
A. 3 May 2007: I would have no problem kissing her if she was in a loving relationship, but would not even go out with her if I thought she was a loose women.
She may not feel like doing it if she has had a bad experience or her confidence of performing oral sex... (read in full...)
After our date, I told him I just wanted a friendship and he wasn't interested! Any ideas whyhe doesn't want this?
Q. Thank you in advance to anyone who answers. I went out on a date with a guy that I thought I really liked a couple of months ago. We did get hot and heavy a bit on that first date...I could see that he seemed to really like me. For some reason I got ...
A. 15 April 2007: You getting "hot and heavy" with this new guy may be the problem. I am not judging you it's very understandable for you to want some comfort/passion it is a basic human need. The guy might want more than you because a) He really likes you or b) He ... (read in full...)
He set me up on MYspace with a fake profile...and then accused me of cheating! What can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, im 20 years old. me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years and 2 months. we just got into an argument about communicating. im the type that like to keep everything in and he's not. we both have a my space page and he doesnt want me ...
A. 15 April 2007: Hello Anon,
You ARE entitled to a MySpace page don't let your guy tell you otherwise. It seems to be double standards if he can have one and you can't.
I think that having a picture of you and your BF is a nice gesture because it shows that yo... (read in full...)
Bored with all these sex positions! Any tips on some new ones?
Q. I'm getting bored with our positions. We've done legs (one and both) over his shoulders, missionary, me on top, anal, vaginal from behind, I've sat on him (going vaginal), sat on him face-to-face(vaginal), and legs behind my head...Seems like a lot, ...
A. 15 April 2007: Try making love standing up. Wrap your legs around your guy while he holds you up. Then get him to bend his knees slightly and he can assist you in bouncing up and down on his penis. This deep penetration will get you both really horny.
If yo... (read in full...)
I'm a black male and I feel women expect me to be well endowed! Do I measure up?
Q. Is 6.75 inch penis and 5.5 inch around/girth small? I'm about 6'2" 175 pounds, 19 yr old black guy. I just get the feeling that most women expect me to be huge, but I'm not....
A. 14 April 2007: Firstly I am white, 20 and length varies between 6.5-7.5 inches (never measured the girth LOL). Do you see how that information was not necessary for me to give you an answer?
In the same way, penis length is not a necessary topic of conversa... (read in full...)
How can a girl make sex truely amazing for her guy? Any tips?
Q. Just wondering - how can a girl make sex truely amazing for her guy?! Does anyone have any tips or advice for a girl who has just about mastered the 'girl on top thing' (that being the step above the missionary) but not much else in the way of posit...
A. 14 April 2007: The first few basic positions to learn after missionary and cowgirl are a) from behind or "doggy style" b) reverse cowgirl and c) standing up where you wrap your legs around the guy's waist and he supports your weight. With that last one though it ... (read in full...)
I'm male and 19 and I masturbate 2 times a day. Is this too much?
Q. I'm a 19 year old boy who is single. I masturbate once or twice a day (sometimes I don't) but is that too much especially at 19?...
A. 13 April 2007: In a word, NO, it is not too much. Its actually very healthy because it lets you know your own body and what turns you on. Your sex drive can change from high to low very easily at this age. As long as you are not hurting then keep on having fun.
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Gf of 5 years doesn't want sex anymore! What should I do?
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 5 1/2 years, we are living together. The issue i am having is we very rarely have sex anymore, i know you can get into a rut routine but we have not had sex for 3 months (Once in nearly ...
A. 13 April 2007: Try asking her what is wrong. There may be many reasons why her libido is not what it used to be. You have to decide how important sex is in your relationship with her and how long (in the possibility that she refuses to make an effort) you can live ... (read in full...)
What places do you guys recommend for two 16 year olds to go to know each other?
Q. i really like this girl i met online. she lives in a same town as me so it's not hard to meet as we live close, but i've never met her. i told her she was beautiful in the picture she replied with your so sweet, thanks, etc and since than she was ...
A. 8 April 2007: If you do decide to go on a date with her I would advise that you meet up in a public place at first so that you both feel comfortable. Also tell your parents where you are going and make sure that she does the same. I would start by going o... (read in full...)
He doesn't like saying "I love you" Is he only with me for sex?
Q. my boyfriend doesn't like saying i love you even when i say i love you to him. it seems like if ever he says i love which is once in blue moon, he's under pressure to say it. i always feel that he's with me for wrong reasons. i say i love you to him ...
A. 8 April 2007: I have a best friend who is similar to your BF.
When he begins a new relationship he never says "I love you" to a girl because he feels like if he says it and doesn't meen it she will get hurt.
Different people have different meanings of thos... (read in full...)
He slept with her during a break in our relationship, but he still sees her now! It's driving me insane!
Q. How do I get over this? My boyfriend and I are so very in love but early 2006 we split for 2 months and during this time he had sex with another woman who was his friend at the time. He says he wishes it had never happened and I believe him but I ju...
A. 7 April 2007: Splitting up with your BF SHOULD be an option especially if he is treating you like this. In my opinion he doesn't deserve you. Don't give out ultimatum's though because it will push your man away and into the arms of his "Friend". Do say to him ... (read in full...)
I need more confidence in myself for starting realtionships. Any tips?
Q. Hi there, Basically, i am a 21 year old female who has been single for just under two years. Although i dont think that this is a huge amount of time, the time has affected me quite severly i think. Firstly, i am not unattractive - although...
A. 7 April 2007: If you wish to attract the right type of man i.e one that will not use you for sex, money, status etc then you need to give yourself a self-evaluation. What do you have to offer in a relationship apart from being attractive? Get others to help you ... (read in full...)
I'm married yet i'm beginning to have feelings for another man. I don't know what to do.
Q. hi i am 24 and i ve been married for 2 years, recently i ve been having feelings for this guy who i met only once, we talk to each other almost every other day. The more we talk the more i want to spend time with him, i think about him all the time ...
A. 7 April 2007: Ask yourself this. Are you doing anything that would upset your husband with this infactuation? Do you have any intention of getting physical or having an "emotional affair" with this total stranger? If all answers are no then don't worry its normal ... (read in full...)
I really like him, but he confuses me! I don't understand what he wants
Q. ok, i am really stuck! im 20, i have just split up with my boyfriend two weeks ago after a year and a half, i really like somebody, but he really confuses me, we slept together and go out alot but then after some time he will say to me why do you ...
A. 7 April 2007: For me personally, I couldn't get over someone in two weeks and then sleep with another girl, but I guess that depends on the circumstances of your break up and your personality e.g. Are you comfortable without a man around to keep you company. If ... (read in full...)
My gf does moan and groan during sex, but how do I know shes had an orgasm ?
Q. HI i have been havin sex with my girlfriend for the last 5 months and I lost my virginty to her, she does moan and groan alot while we are at it but how do i no if she is having an orgasm or if she has cum? any replies would be grateful thanks...
A. 6 April 2007: I know this might seem like a simple answer but if you are unsure just ask her for an honest opinion. Whatever her reply, believe her because a relationship needs to be based on trust. If she is having enough orgasms when you make love then keep o... (read in full...)
How long do most people wait before sleeping with their new partner?
Q. how long do most people wait before sleeping with their new partner? ive started seeing a friend of mine and was wondering how long most people wait before they first sleep together? i know it should be "when the time feels right", but im just ...
A. 5 April 2007: Very good question.
Some people (possibly for religious reasons), do not have sex until they are married.
I made love to my girlfriend after waiting for about two and a half months (we were both virgins). We had spent quite alot of time tog... (read in full...)
He is quite large so sex is a bit painful! Also he said he had an orgasm without Cumming, is that possible!??
Q. I'm 24 years old and have never been in a really serious relationship before, I was always too busy having fun to worry about it and I think I got myself in some bad habits (I had a three date rule, after that I wouldn't see the guy again). A year ...
A. 5 April 2007: Hello anonymous female.
It IS possible to orgasm without ejaculating. I know this because I personally can during both masturbation and intercourse. It's all about the control. It feels great afterwards and sometimes I don't need another orgasm. ... (read in full...)
I argued the case of homosexuality in ethics, now my entire year think I am gay.
Q. Hi, I'm 13 In school it's kind of "evil" to be gay or a gay sympithiser. But In an RE lesson under ethics this boy went on about how homosexuals are sick and wrong ect. So I publicly argued with him over it and now my entire year thinks I'm gay...
A. 5 October 2006: Oh dear I really feel for you my friend.
The truth is you are a mature, intelligent individual who has an open mind and your classmates (I won't call them friends) are very jealous.
You challenge there biggoted views handed down from genera... (read in full...)
Telling him I want to date him might mean rejection and it scares me! Any advise?
Q. well i like my best friend's cousin and i think thats weird but she doesn't.i don't think he likes me though we are friends and i don't want to mess that up and i am so scared of rejection.what do i do plz help me!!! ...
A. 5 October 2006: Ask him out love because you have nothing to lose. If you can respect his decision and still be cool afterwards whatever happens you'll be fine.
And if he says no its his loss.
Good luck
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How long should a male last in sex? Any tips on lasting longer?
Q. How long should a male last in sex? also what techniques could you apply to last longer...
A. 4 October 2006: This hasn't been mentioned yet. You can buy special types of condoms that help you to last longer. They are called durex performa and have a special lubricant that delays orgasm.
Also I find that the angle of intercourse can affect your staying ... (read in full...)
Isn't it a man's duty to most of the work in bed? He want's me to be adventurous but what's the point?
Q. my partner wants me to be more adventurous in the bedroom, i think its a mans duty to do most of the work as it seems to be only about them, he sometimes try's to involve me more but he prefers to try to please me after he has come,by then i just ...
A. 4 October 2006: Sex should not be a "Duty" (as you put it) for either sex.
You need to make sure that you both give each other lots of foreplay. This could consist of mutual masturbation, oral sex, sexy dancing, feeding each other "love" foods e.g. chocolat... (read in full...)
My bf likes to perform oral on me, but I take so long to orgasm, is this normal ??
Q. My bf likes giving me oral pleasure as I enjoy receiving it as well because its the only way I can orgasm, but I always take too long to reach that point he always finishes of course but it always takes anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour. Lately he ...
A. 4 October 2006: You need to make sure that the environment around you is peaceful and calm. This will help with your nerves and may make you enjoy the experience more. Setting the 'mood' is very important. You could try playing sexy music to get in the mood or try ... (read in full...)
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