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In love after 1 week, wanted to move in together after 2 weeks and now its week 3 I'm getting cold feet! Help!

Q.   Hey! I am having a really hard time trying to figure out my feelings, so I thought I would ask for the help of those whose judgement is not clouded by emotions! :^) So it's a simple story, old as the sun. I met a fantastic guy on a dating site (t...

A.   13 March 2013: I have to disagree with most other posters who have said it will never work, chances are slim to none, because sometimes, granted perhaps not as often, things do work out! I started seeing a guy on a dating site, fell in love after 1 month, living ... (read in full...)

I told my friend I have strong feelings for him and his reaction was of shock and confusion. Did I misread the signals?

Q.   So-- it has finally come to the point in my life where I must go to the Internet for advice. My situation is just too confusing for me to deal with-- and I just need some help. Here's the story as short as it can be put: My friend and I have been ...

A.   14 January 2013: I know its very easy for somebody that's not invloved in the situation to sit back and say 'well, if it were me....' But after reading you're post I really feel strongly that there is only one thing to do. If I had a person who I trusted enough t... (read in full...)

I told my friend I have strong feelings for him and his reaction was of shock and confusion. Did I misread the signals?

Q.   So-- it has finally come to the point in my life where I must go to the Internet for advice. My situation is just too confusing for me to deal with-- and I just need some help. Here's the story as short as it can be put: My friend and I have been ...

A.   12 January 2013: I know its very easy for somebody that's not involved in the situation to sit back and say 'well, if it were me....' But after reading you're post I really feel strongly that there is only one thing to do. If I had a person that I trusted enough to ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend of 11 months broke up with me out of the blue!

Q.   This is bit of a read sorry, but I'd really like some outsider input on this. I guess I now can no longer call him my boyfriend, so my ex, let's call him A, broke up with me tonight. We're both eighteen, he graduates school tomorrow, I grad...

A.   17 November 2011: Having been through this heart ache just over a year ago, I thought I may be able to possible help you out a little bit. It was the same for me, we'd been together over 6 years, he was my first Love, my first in every way and it was all over in one ... (read in full...)

I think I have met the "one" but he is the only person I have ever slept with, and now I am thinking I need to get a few flings out of my system!

Q.   Hey guys, i've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, i honestly beleive he's my soulmate. Totally crazy about eachother, he's the man i want to marry and have children with. Thing is, i've only ever slept with one person, him. And he slept ...

A.   19 May 2010: Hi, I have been with my boyfriend since i was 16, am nearly 22 now so just shy of 6 years. I have only ever slept with him, he's the only one that i've really done anything with and i am the only person he has slept with too. I truly believe he will ... (read in full...)

How do you tell someone to lose weight without crushing them?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years now. We're going through a number of problems, which I addressed in another question, but in thinking about the possibility of us getting back together, there is one issue i just don't know how to deal ...

A.   29 November 2008: Now here is a subject i feel i have ample experience in... Now you may be able to see it from the other point of view. My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 and a half years, and i am ashamed to admit, that within that time i let myself go, ... (read in full...)

I want to dress up sexy for my boyfriend... WHERE to get the clothes?

Q.   I'm a big girl and my boyfriend loves my curves and has asked me to dress up sexy in stockings and a basque and I'm worried as soon as I walk into a shop that sells them, people are thinking ew look at her trying to be sexy, and I get this feeling ...

A.   16 November 2008: Hi Hun, Firstly, if you have found a guy that likes you just the way you are and your comfortable with the way you look then screw anybody else! even if you walked in to a shop and people were saying that about you the likelyhood of you ever seei... (read in full...)

It looked like the condom split, and now I'm panicking!

Q.   Hi Everyone! Right, i'm just looking for peace of mind really.... me and my BF of 4 years had sex this morning, with a condom... but when he pulled out it really looked as if it had split as there was a lot of excess liquid on it.. ordinarily ...

A.   15 November 2008: Thank you so much for all of your advice guys! I think i will play it safe and go to the chemist first thing in the morning. thanks again for being so kind and taking the time to answer me.x.x.x... (read in full...)

When should the condom go on?

Q.   hey i recently had sex with my boyfriend and we used a condom just after he said that hes ready.... anyway he did wear it but now im over a week late for my period... im soooo scard what do i do Additionally, from the same question asker: th...

A.   15 November 2008: Heya hun, I would personally say that he should put one on before he has any contact with you, that way you arent taking any risks, which leads on to your current predicament... it is possible for you to be pregnant if he has contact with you even... (read in full...)

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