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Too tight for first time?

Q.   A few months ago my ex boyfriend fingered me, and it felt really good. But afterwards he told me that maybe I should lose my virginity to someone else as he thought I was "too tight." For various reasons we decided to break up and now I'm with...

A.   4 October 2010: @xAx Yeah thanks for that. I'm 16 in a few weeks, which in the UK is legal and my boyfriend is 17 and so already legal. So, you assumed that because I've spoke about having sex I'm gonna go out right this minute and do it. Also, for you... (read in full...)

Kids having sex!

Q.   OK lately I see a lot of questions here where children from the age of 14-16,17 years think that they are old enough to have sex. They don't understand anything about it. They think that they are ready. There are even parents who agree with the idea ...

A.   4 October 2010: See pregnancy and STI's/STD's are less of a risk these days due to all the different contraceptives. God knows that when I have sex in a month or so (I'll be 16 then, and we've planned ahead)I'm going to be on The Pill and my boyfriend will use a ... (read in full...)

Does this mean he's in love with me?

Q.   i have a cousin who i think is in love with me but am not too sure. last time he saw me, he looked at me with some weird expression. when we chat online he always call me sweetheart, honey ,...even when he text me. in front of my cousins, he very ...

A.   4 October 2010: No don't worry. I do that with my boy cousins. I'll say stuff like "well hey there sexy" as a joke, and they'll introduce me to their friends as their "bit on the side." But nothing physical would ever, ever, happen. Are you very close to this cou... (read in full...)

My ex says he'll hurt the new guy! And how do I kiss the new guy with his lip piercings?

Q.   theres a guy i really like, but my ex is still in love with me. ive moved on, and i love this new guy, hes so caring and sweet and we get on really well, lots of people have said were perfect for each other and think we'll get together really soon. ...

A.   19 July 2010: Thank you, even if it is a bit late :/ me and snake bite guy decided to be just friends, it wasnt really working and im now with a new guy who is just....well hes amazing :D but thank you xox... (read in full...)

Is it okay to go out with her? No sex, of course!

Q.   OK, what it is there's this girl who likes me a lot and I like her back! The problem is, she's 15 in November and I'm 17! Is it wrong to be going out with a girl who's 2 and a half years younger than me? Nothing will happen in terms of sex or ...

A.   2 July 2010: I don't think there's a problem with it. The guy I like (who likes me back) is 17, 18 in January and I'm 15 now and 16 in November, thats about the same age difference maybe give or take a few months. Everyone would be so happy if we got together ... (read in full...)

How can I tell if she is a lesbian?

Q.   Hi If lets say I didnt want to ask so straightforward, what else can i notice that she might be a lesbian? Can I tell it by action? What action can I tell that she is a lesbian? ...

A.   2 July 2010: Having a best friend who's a lesbian has taught me one thing. Its impossible to tell. She acted straight for 3years, and then came out to me at macdonalds and I was sooo proud. But, now i can tell. Well, she has a girlfriend. But, in answer to your ... (read in full...)

Contraception question

Q.   My wife had our baby 8 month and two weeks ago. She started using norigynon(injected contraceptive) 2 weeks ago. Can she still get pregnant? Will she see her period when she complete the month?...

A.   2 July 2010: She can't get pregnant after having the injection (as long as she keeps having it of course) the injection basically puts a contraceptive into the bloodstream and stops a woman from ovulating this means she wont be able to get pregnant. But, when ... (read in full...)

He deletes computer history and lies about it!

Q.   The past month or two, my boyfriend has been using my computer because his has a virus on it. He has been deleting the history. But then he lies about deleting the history and says that there must be a comptuer "glitch"! I know he is doing this ...

A.   19 April 2010: Ok, so. Just trust him more, I mean jeez, give the guy a little credit! I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. If he is ready to propose chances are YOU are the one who makes him happy. If he wan'ts to propose he obviously, genuinely loves you ... (read in full...)

My babysitter is a hooker!

Q.   I have a 6 month old daughter and I recently had a babysitter who turned out to be a prostitute who was all this time sending naked pictures to men for money and on holidays she would go out to sleep with husbands who she used to work for their ...

A.   12 April 2010: I don't think her being a prostitute has anything to do with her babysitting as long as she is taking care of your baby and not bringing her "other work" into your house. However, I would sit her down and tell her if she doesn't stop spreadin... (read in full...)

After a lifetime of abuse I am scared I will contine the cycle!

Q.   My whole life I have been abused by different guys. I was born and my biological father started the abuse right away, we went on drinking and dug binges and disappeared for days at a time. When he came back he would hit and pinch me until I bleed. ...

A.   11 April 2010: I'm going through something similar. My current boyfriend is amazing, he's sweet and loving. But my ex used to emotionally abuse me, things like "you're not good enough me, i could be with [insert girls name here]. why can't you be like her?!" and ... (read in full...)

Lacking body confidence

Q.   my boyfriend wants me to send him a nude picture of myself, but im nervous because of my weight. im not really big, im 5'1 and weight 125lbs, but you can see where my tummy stopps. im scared. please tell me what i should do, and how i should pose. ...

A.   11 April 2010: Hey, don't worry I had the exact same problem. You just have to think about the good aspects in yourself 'cause that's the only way you're gonna see how beautiful you really are. Then, just take the pictures when you feel really good, and send them ... (read in full...)

Why is there so much pressure for virgins to give in?

Q.   i've come across alot of teen girls on here who say they are virgins and are not ready for sex, yet they want to do it just to please the guy. please tell me why girls feel so pressured into having sex when they don't want to. why do SOME guys not ...

A.   11 April 2010: I don't think boys put as much pressure on girls as you think...In my school there is actually more girls than boys who ask if other girls are virgins. For example heres a conversation I had once with a girl I barely spoke to... her: hey, aren... (read in full...)

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