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Do you think he knows I was raped at 14, or is he wantin me to make the first move for sex? we've been together over a year now!

Q.   dear cupids. ive been with my amazin boyfriend now for over a year and i love him with all my heart, we havnt yet had sex but have recently started to talk about it, like he was rubbin down there a couple of nights ago and i really enjoyed i...

A.   2 September 2008: it could be either way for this. but if u wanna go ahead and have sex with him, u should make ur move. and if he knows that u were raped, or if he doesnt. he might just be waiting until u r ready for it.... (read in full...)

Does my teacher have feelings for me, because the signs are all there?!

Q.   I think my teacher might have feelings for me. We are both female, and she's apprently a lesbian (although it's never been confirmed) and she knows i'm Bi. Anyway...whenever i've walked past her room i catch her staring at me, when she's teac...

A.   3 August 2008: hey, i can see u have a big problem, i've had a similar problem before. I can help u but i need mor info on the situation, ya know like how much high school do u have left, and other things like that, message me so i can talk to u and help through ... (read in full...)

Loving my PE teacher is killing me....will the pain ever end??

Q.   Okay..so lets get it started... I'm 15 years old and about to go into yr 11 however since yr 8 i've been in love with my female pe teacher! I love her so much and would do anything to b with her, but she has a bf already =[. I've told my mates and ...

A.   3 August 2008: look, if u really love her than u should tell her. I wouldnt care what anyone else thought. u've told almost everyone else. they just might go and tell her for u themselves. u should just tell her how u feel.... (read in full...)

It has been a crazy friendship for years, but I do have feelings for her. I don't know if I should try to be with her.

Q.   hey there's this girl i've known all of my life. but its been a bit of a crazy friendship, but we were really close. u see we grew up and went to school together until i was in 6th grade, cuz i had left that school. we soon lost cantact with each ...

A.   30 July 2008: thanks so far, and then we both really liked each other but neither of us had the confidence to ask the other. but yes all i have ever wanted for her was for her to be happy, and she knows that. its just neither of us know if the other still likes ... (read in full...)

My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?

Q.   Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never ...

A.   30 July 2008: hey, i know how u feel. i see why they dont accept the love u two share but trust me. if u truly love each other, it'll all work out in the end. only ur true friends will accept it but trust me go for it, i can relate to this. i also have had sex ... (read in full...)

I have sexual feelings for my cousin, I'm going to tell her how I feel at a movie... How do I ask her to sleep with me?

Q.   Alright, so here's my problem........I've always had sexual feelings for my second cousin.......I'm 18 and shes 27..........when we were younger, I remember her asking me to kiss her on her mouth, I never thought anything of it then but now I ...

A.   30 July 2008: look, i just gonna plain out say it..... go for it. i have a similar problem but go for it, if it works great, if not, at least u were truthful to her.... (read in full...)

I think I'm in love with my step-brother, what should I do?

Q.   So heres the deal, I think I love my step-brother (I say I think I love him because I'm not 100% sure) We've fooled around before, but now I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm worried that he'll just think I'm an idiot . . . What shoul...

A.   30 July 2008: look, i had the same problem. I felt at one point i was completely in love with my step-sister. we did fool around a little bit, and trust me, i wanted at one point to have sex with her. but i didn't. were still close. i always think about what ... (read in full...)

My sister ruins everything for me!

Q.   my sister really winds me up, she ruins everything for me and when i say everything i mean EVERYTHING shes such a tart! shes 13, yes only 13! and shes going out with a 17 year old who shes been with for 3 months and is already having sex with him, ...

A.   30 July 2008: look, i know how u feel, my brother has ruined every good relationship i've had. This girl i've known for entire life is kinda the love of my life. i've always loved her. i'm 17 now but what i did was make sure whoever ur with knows what kind of ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to be attracted to my third cousin?

Q.   Ok, so i have a problem that might sound weird.. I like my third cousin, and she likes me. I've never known her until we met a few months ago, our families don't even really know each other its only that my mother is a family genealogy expert...

A.   30 July 2008: if u guys aint related by blood then who cares what they think, go for it. but if she is related by blood, honestly if u both have feelings for each other, i would go for it. i had the same prob once. i went for it and i never regretted it. wouldnt ... (read in full...)

I've fallen for my best friend who is also a girl

Q.   Dear cupid, Wel my problem is that im in love wid my best m8 - lets cal her alex. iv only nown her 4 under 2 yrs but wer ded close and i tell her stuff i wudnt dream of tellin other people...... Last yr i met...

A.   30 July 2008: i'm not sayin this just cuz i'm a guy, but u should go for it. tell her how u feel. she may either of never thought about but would like to try it, just wanna be best friends.. nothin more, or she may just secretly feel the same way. who knows ... (read in full...)

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