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I am worried that he is now only with me because he doesn't want to hurt me...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. I have been away for the last six months and he cheated on me with a girl for about one month. He did tell me about it and said he was sorry but said he wasnt ready to discuss why it happened yet. He ...

A.   6 June 2009: I'm sorry you are going through this; it must be very painful. I'm a lot older than you, so what I suggest is that you give yourselves some time. You have only been with each other for a year, so I would - if you believe- he really doesn't ... (read in full...)

Wife very upset that I have lost my sexual desire

Q.   I totally lost my sexual desire,and I don't know why? My wife is very upset about this,and she is not understanding about it. How,is it effecting usually a woman,when their husband losing sexual desire? Is it always that gloomy feeling ,that the...

A.   6 June 2009: Have you gone to the doctor to see if there is physical cause? It is very important. Also,have you recently started a new medication - some medication can affect your sex drive. Finally, one of the most common reasons for loss of interest is ... (read in full...)

My wife has doubled in size, I've lost interest in sex..do I leave her to get her to get in shape?

Q.   When I proposed to my wife she was 5' and a perfect size zero. She had lovely long hair and walked like a graceful lady. Exactly my type. Now after 15 yrs of marriage she's a size 14-16 w/ short hair and walks like a chimp. Doubling her weight ...

A.   6 June 2009: How shallow! I truly feel sorry for your wife because it appears you loved how she looked and not the person inside. Sometimes women put on weight from stress and loveless marriages. Perhaps you should look at yourself and seek some therapy. You ... (read in full...)

My husband left me, and I want him back. I don't know what else to do.

Q.   Help. My husband of 13 years just left and but we have been together for almost 20 years. He has been gone for about 4 months now. I don't even remember what started this. Just an argument, and then he starts saying he doesn't know if he wants ...

A.   6 June 2009: It was so nice to hear you are making a life for yourself. Our faith in God can be the only thing that gets us through such a sad situation. I truly hope all things work out for you for the best. Take care.... (read in full...)

My husband left me, and I want him back. I don't know what else to do.

Q.   Help. My husband of 13 years just left and but we have been together for almost 20 years. He has been gone for about 4 months now. I don't even remember what started this. Just an argument, and then he starts saying he doesn't know if he wants ...

A.   5 June 2009: I know you posted this almost a year ago and I really hope things have worked out for the best for you. When I was reading your posts it occured to me that your husband sounded mentally ill;perhaps borderline Personality Disorder of Anti-Soc... (read in full...)

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