Found out I was the rebound girl. Has this happened to you?
Q. Hey aunts, Yesterday I found out that the guy I have been seeing over the past month (my first boyfriend) was using me as a rebound girl. He had apparently just come out of an intense relationship and only wanted to have fun with me. It came as q...
A. 4 February 2008: Hey DevilishAngel, thanks for the answer. Flavour of the week certainly does count. Omg he had a fiance?! Geez, where do these guys come from! I can't believe that people can be so selfish.
Exercise is a great distraction :) And I'm sure I'll for... (read in full...)
Many dating guides suggest that you should talk to random girls to boost your confidance, EVEN if you don't like them. Do girls think this is *wrong* to do?
Q. Hi, Many dating guides say you should just talk to random girls to boost your confidence even if you don't like them. I was wondering do girls think this is *wrong* to do? Or is it possible that since it's unknowable if in advance if it's ...
A. 3 February 2008: I think it's ok to chat to whoever you like. I can see that talking to girls that you aren't attracted to can help you gain confidence because you won't be as nervous and can therefore gain more conversational skills. HOWEVER!! No one liked to be ... (read in full...)
Mum is overprotective, I'm scared to enter the relationship
Q. well i got out of a relationship 2 months ago and i've been asked out by this guy who i've been talkin to recently met him through a friend, i want to go out with him but dont know how my mum will react to this, she didnt like my ex cause he was ...
A. 3 February 2008: Hey honey,
I just went through something very similar, you can read my question and the responses here:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-met-this-great-guy-but-i.html
I think you can meet him first without telling your Mom, bu... (read in full...)
Is he trying to tell me something, reading out this text infront of me??
Q. Hi, There is this guy tht has told me he likes me, but hasn't said it to my face just over msn, this was a few months ago but since he hasnt mentioned anything and has carried on like we are friends. However, there is awkwardness between us and r...
A. 2 February 2008: That's one of the reasons I hate msn! People tend to be liberal online but clam up in real life. And you can never have a proper conversation!
I think that he does indeed like you, and that the text was to make you jealous. People do stupid t... (read in full...)
We get along physically, but talking to him is awkward
Q. I've been going out with this guy (my first proper boyfriend, I'm 18) for a month now. We get along well physically (no sex.. mostly kissing/cuddling etc) but I find that I can't talk to him. I called him last night for a chat, and it was just so ...
A. 2 February 2008: Don't worry, I've certainly thrown the remote away. I'm not seeing him anymore.... (read in full...)
I want to take it nice.
Q. I found out that a girl a like also likes me. Were meeting to watch film. I wanna kiss her but don't know how. Please help. Can I hold her hand? I want go take it nice Nd slow for her ...
A. 2 February 2008: Sounds great :) I'm all supportive of taking it slow.
You might want to get together a little earlier before the movie and get a drink and just sit and chat for a while. Get to know her.
During the movie, don't talk unless it's necessary b... (read in full...)
Discovered noncommital boyfirend digs porno: is that why there is problems?
Q. For some reason, my boyfriend has always differed in only one sense regarding having a Christian relationship . . . sex. He is more liberated, claims it is beautiful between two people who love each other, yet believes marriage is not necessary. I ...
A. 2 February 2008: Hey there honey :)
I'm glad to know that there is someone else out there who believes in and upholds these values. Please don't let him waver your belief in sex *after* marraige. I fully support you. He is entitled to believe what he feels, b... (read in full...)
We get along physically, but talking to him is awkward
Q. I've been going out with this guy (my first proper boyfriend, I'm 18) for a month now. We get along well physically (no sex.. mostly kissing/cuddling etc) but I find that I can't talk to him. I called him last night for a chat, and it was just so ...
A. 2 February 2008: Well Aunts,
Firstly, thank you so much for your caring replies!
What happened in the last few hours is this:
I got home from work and tried to call him again. He let my call ring through. His excuse (vis sms) was that he is with friends at t... (read in full...)
Whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. What's wrong with me?
Q. I've found that whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. I went on a second date with a guy I am attracted to, and when we were kissing, I didn't feel turned on or feel any pleasure. Is this normal? Is ...
A. 1 February 2008: Well guys,
I've been going out with him for a month now, and after our third date I actually like kissing. You aunts were all right about having an emotional connection - it makes a huge difference. And limiting the time spent kissing too... o... (read in full...)
Wht colour should my period blood be?
Q. Is it normal for my period blood to be a dark brown when i first started my period it was a red colour but i have had about 5 periods now and its not red any more its a dark brown is this colour normal?...
A. 1 February 2008: I think it's normal... my period is red for the first few days then goes brown towards the end. Every one is different. See your doctor if it really bothers you :)... (read in full...)
Should I give blow jobs at parties because all my friends do it?
Q. i am 16 and go to quite a lot of parties with people my age (house parties) whenever i go all my friends go and give head (blow jobs) and seem to think nothing of it. and some of then often have the favour returned. i am th eonly one who doesn't ...
A. 31 January 2008: honey, please don't do anything YOU don't want to do ok? i learnt this lesson the hard way. giving head at parties will cheapen your reputation and guys will look at you and not see you for who you are, but what you can do for them. take c... (read in full...)
Is it normal to get wet just thinking about sex?
Q. Hi. i am new at sex and i was wondering if it is normal to get wet just thinking about it. like out of nowhere in the middle of class just get wet. also what do i do about it? ignore it or run to the bathroom and finger myself and get it ove...
A. 30 January 2008: yep its normal. have you worn pantyliners before? you can get really really small/thin ones that you can hardly notice, they're great!... (read in full...)
What wome love to hear during sex?
Q. Men love to hear women moaning, shouting and complimenting his tool and how good he is performing...what about women? What do they like to hear while making sex? What things turn her on more and make her cum faster? Need to read women's replies ...
A. 28 January 2008: tell her how much you LOVE her. hold her tightly.. make her feel special and cared for.... (read in full...)
13 and havent had my period...is this normal??
Q. Hi i'm 13 and i haven't had my period yet. Is this bad? also even if i haven't had my period masturbation is still ok right?...
A. 25 January 2008: perfectly normal :) i always felt left out since i didn't get my period till i was 14 and a half. but don't worry, it will come one day and then you'll moan about how much trouble it is! just enjoy life where you are at the moment. ... (read in full...)
How do I calculate when my period is due?
Q. hiya! this is kind of stupid but here it goes... first of all ive been having periods for about 2 years. but i keep getting confused becuase theyre really irregular. they last for about 3/5 days. but do you start counting 28 from when your p...
A. 20 January 2008: heya,
basically, every womens menstruation cycle is different. the average is 28 days in between. i have had my period for around 4 years now, and ever since 3 years ago I have recorded how many days in between periods. mine tend to last for 4-7 ... (read in full...)
Is my Girlfriend a bit false, its really getting me down.
Q. I love my girlfriend but most of the time i'm with her she really annoys me, particularly when she is around her mum or speaking to her friends. Her and her mum are always at each others throats and disagreeing and nothing is straight forward...
A. 19 January 2008: Well, as for the fighting between mother and daughter - its totally normal. Me and my Mom are like that.
And as for her acting different around friends? Well she has a different sort of relationship with them to what you have with her. Of cours... (read in full...)
How do I offer to pay for half of our dinner date?
Q. I've recently started dating this great guy. We went to the movies last week and he paid for that (he bought the tickets beforehand so I didn't really have a say). Now we are meant to be going out to dinner later this week, and I don't want him to ...
A. 17 January 2008: Hi all,
Thanks for your replies. Dr Vendetta you are hillarious... seriously :)
Anyway, the date went alright and before we started dinner I asked him if we could split the cost. He said ok, then said 'are you sure, i mean i can pay' but i s... (read in full...)
I have met this great guy but I have to lie to my parents to go out with him and I don't want it to cause problems.
Q. I was hoping that I could get some advice on what to do in this situation. I am 18 years old, and going into my second year of uni. My parents, and especially my mother, are rather conservative, strict, and kinda old fashioned. My mother never le...
A. 17 January 2008: Thanks for the replies guys :)
I ended up accidentally telling my mom about this guy when we were going for a walk a couple of nights ago. She didn't freak out or hit me or get angry as I expected her to... infact the first thing she said was "But... (read in full...)
Whenever a guy gets close to me...I get cold! Am I too immature for a relationship?
Q. hi i really want a steady boyfriend but when ever a guy gets close with me i go cold! i cant help it i just get these feelings that make me want to run! yet theres this guy i long to be with whos not interested. Is the feelings i have for him the...
A. 15 January 2008: hey there,
i found that if i liked a guy, and then he started showing interest/being clingy/started liking me too, i lost interest in him. im not sure why. however! don't despair.. i recently found a guy who i like and who likes me back. admitedl... (read in full...)
How can I find someone who wants more than a drunken fumble??
Q. I'm getting a bit fed up of meeting girls and nothing actually becoming of it, how do i know when a girl is actually interested and wants a bit more than a drunken fumble? How can i meet some one that i can have some good times with, i just see...
A. 13 January 2008: well, if you want a serious relationship you should change the way you approach potential partners. don't be sleasy or come onto a girl on the first date. ask her out properly and maybe even take her somewhere nice. be polite and gentleman-like. ... (read in full...)
What shall I wear for my date with with an old friend??
Q. I recently met up with a old elementary school friend, whose really sweet and nice, but wants to take me out on a date.Don't get me wrong, I'm happy. But, here's the classic question: What the heck do I wear when I don't have a clue where we're go...
A. 13 January 2008: i'de say that black pants (or a skirt... not too short) and a pretty top are the go. you might be running a risk of being too casual if you go with jeans (imagine if he takes you to a classy resturant!) but i think a dress would be fine. i mean you ... (read in full...)
Is there a nice way to say "lets just be friends"?
Q. Is there a nice way to say "lets just be friends"? I just spoke to a female friend who I have known most of my life. We have been great friends through grade school and high school, and have a lot in common. In 2002, I left for college. She is a yea...
A. 12 January 2008: hmm difficult situation... but from my experience there is no *painless* way to explain that you dont share her feelings. there are many mean and hurtful and crass ways to say this to her, but there are also ways that can soften the blow. but yo... (read in full...)
What does "cute" mean, coming from a guy?
Q. I was wondering if there are any guys on here (chicks are welcome to reply too!) who could put a little perspective on something for me. At work, there is this maintenance guy who is around 19 or 20. His mother told my colleauge that he thinks I...
A. 10 January 2008: Just a follow up:
He ended up asking me out today. How exciting! Thanks again for the answers guys :)... (read in full...)
What does "cute" mean, coming from a guy?
Q. I was wondering if there are any guys on here (chicks are welcome to reply too!) who could put a little perspective on something for me. At work, there is this maintenance guy who is around 19 or 20. His mother told my colleauge that he thinks I...
A. 30 December 2007: Thanks for the replies guys. :D... (read in full...)
What does "cute" mean, coming from a guy?
Q. I was wondering if there are any guys on here (chicks are welcome to reply too!) who could put a little perspective on something for me. At work, there is this maintenance guy who is around 19 or 20. His mother told my colleauge that he thinks I...
A. 30 December 2007: Thanks for the explanation :)... (read in full...)
How do I know if he just likes me for me or because we make out? I'm invisible when his friends are near.
Q. Dear Cupid, I like this boy, and sometimes we make out but when he is with is friends, Im just an invisible line... How can I get im to notice me even more, and treat me like is girlfriend? And how do I know i e just likes me because im prett...
A. 29 December 2007: damn don't you hate guys like that! it appears to me that he isn't prepared to enter a relationship since he is embarassed or is just a tosser. i suggest you confront him about it so you can determine which of the above he is. tell him that you ... (read in full...)
I'm extremely shy, I haven't even talked face to face with my boyfriend, why am I like this??
Q. i've got another big problem. im really really shy. i dont know why.i dont like eating in front of people, especially boys. when i go to meet my boyfriend, i will be like 'ok this time im going to talk' but as soon as he says 'you ok?' i go weak at ...
A. 29 December 2007: hey,
hmm well sometimes all you can do is try your best. when i was younger i was really shy (im 18 now) and i hated not being able to chat to guys i liked. i still hate eating infront of people.
it looks like you have a really patient and unde... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he'd only accept my invitation to please me. How do I get him to ask me out?
Q. I've fancied this guy for a long, long time. It's getting to the time now where I feel utterly deflated when I see him (science and english, lunch and break. Oh, and he's my best friends best friend). We're friends, and it seems as though he likes ...
A. 29 December 2007: Hey there,
The best thing you can do to get a guy to fancy you is to be yourself. Otherwise he ends up fancying you but finds out you are different when you end up dating. I know it sounds lame, but if you want to attract a serious boyfrien... (read in full...)
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