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Why sex after married?

Q.   Our society is starving for intimacy and many of the lies we believe in our culture have to do with our hunger for relationship. We want acceptance, loving relationships and deep intimacy, and yet we believe the lie that sex will satisfy our hunger. ...

A.   2 December 2008: well you raise many important issues of our modern times. and very eloquently for a teenager I must add. For your age to be pondering all these very important aspects of human nature is a good sign, I hope you find a significant answer to them, as... (read in full...)

How can I cheer up?

Q.   i feel so stressed out its un believable, i just feel so annoyed and under pressure with school and stuff. I also feel so useless, and like nothings ever going right it feels like if im not here it will be better :/ please help on how i can cheer up...

A.   30 November 2008:  here are some jokes A man staggers into an emergency room with a concussion, multiple bruises, two black eyes and a five iron wrapped tightly around his throat. Naturally, the doctor asks him what happened. “Well, it was like this,” said... (read in full...)

On a scale of 1-10 how important is sexual compatibility?

Q.   How important on a scale of 1 to 10 is sexual compatibility in a relationship? How devastating can sexual differences be to a relationship? Are there ways to overcome these differences and make things work? Or is it a case by case thing. I'm looki...

A.   30 November 2008: dont fool yourself ,sexual compatibility is essential, you are very young and I am so glad that you are asking this question. if only I had some advice in this department before I married. I married my best friend and I thought that the missing ... (read in full...)

Can sexual attraction be so intense between two people that they are actually uncomfortable in each other's presence?

Q.   Hi. I was just wondering (and please don't read too much into this!) whether sometimes the sexual attraction between two people can be so intense that they actually avoid each other (i.e. never actually consummate the attraction), net result being ...

A.   30 November 2008: yes, it can be true- if you are sure there is a sexual attraction. I have a very strong sexual attraction to someone I know, I am married and know that I wont pursue the issue, however I do feel uncomfortable around the man and mostly try to avoid ... (read in full...)

Could this cramping mean I'm pregnant?

Q.   I am new at this so bare with me? I have been cramping for 5 days now and my period isn't due til the 13th! I can't figure out what is going. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant even if I do take every precaution condom, im on the pill!!! ...

A.   30 November 2008: cramping could mean many things, you could have an infection, it is too early for a home pregnancy test, but a blood test could be done to rule out pregnancy, if you have been taking all the necessary precautions , you are on the pill and used a ... (read in full...)

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