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He gave me the reasons to go and snoop!

Q.   My boyfriend is very close friends with his ex, he says she has been very good to him when he had problems, although she has since married, then divorced with a kid she is trying to make things work with her husband and is visiting him in the ...

A.   10 August 2013: We've been together a year... (read in full...)

He gave me the reasons to go and snoop!

Q.   My boyfriend is very close friends with his ex, he says she has been very good to him when he had problems, although she has since married, then divorced with a kid she is trying to make things work with her husband and is visiting him in the ...

A.   9 August 2013: Whenever I bring the subject up he won't give me any explanation and thinks I'm too much drama, he then proceeds to sleep on the sofa, I told him all I want is honesty, I even told him that I thought he still held a torch for her, I try so hard to ... (read in full...)

My GF seem to want her mom-daughter see us have sex!. Why would this be?

Q.   My girlfriend seems to be setting things up so that her daughter or her mother see us making love. Is this a more common desire for women than I realized? My girlfriend and I are sort of engaged to be engaged. she surrently lives with her mom and...

A.   9 August 2013: At 16 she isn't underage, but I personally think its too messed up and weird, you have to be more forward and tell her what she is doing is making you feel uncomfortable because this is definately not normal behaviour... (read in full...)

Am I asexual? Or just afraid of having sex?

Q.   Hi. I'm really confused and need some advice or reassurance! I've had 4 serious relationships and I'm still a Virgin. Simply because I have always been too scared to have sex. I think it's because I have such low self esteem about my body an...

A.   9 August 2013: If you are frightened of just the penetration, why don't you try a sex toy to start with until you start to feel more comfortable with it, please do not fear sex as it can be very enjoyable but you just maybe need to relax a bit more even plenty ... (read in full...)

Sex with him is too long and too rough! How do I make him understand?

Q.   I just met someone , and we started having sex very fast. He is much younger and very good looking, and I know that it won't last long. It's funny how invites me to lunches and drinks, I didn't even expect this. I thought it would be somethi...

A.   9 August 2013: You should really go and see your gp, rough sex causes cystitis, I know because I'm in the same situation my boyfriend is 29 and I am 48, best just talk it over with him and ask him to be more gentle, maybe a little more foreplay would help too to ... (read in full...)

What's more wrong? Checking your boyfriend's phone or your boyfriend betraying you?

Q.   What is more wrong? Checking on your boyfriends phone or finding out he has betrayed you? Seemingly he said I would never of got hurt and I shouldn't have gone looking...

A.   9 August 2013: Thank you for all your feedback,... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is planning a weekend away with a female friend

Q.   Id like some honest advice from men and women to see if I am just being over jealous or if anyone else would feel the same as me. My boyfriend of a year has a 4 year old girl from a previous relationship. He has lots of female friends which I ...

A.   6 August 2013: If that were me id have my suspicions unless you were invited too, the fact he hasn't mentioned about it to you really raises high suspicions, have it out with him and if your not invited stand your ground ... (read in full...)

My married lover's wife knows about us but he still wants to be in contact with me. Why doesn't she just stop him?

Q.   I don't know where to begin, I am asking for an opinion, maybe some advice, no cursing or calling me names please. I am already in a lot of pain as it is. I was having a relationship for 6 yrs with a married man. We spoke everyday, saw each other 2 ...

A.   5 August 2013: He wants his cake and eat it, it's about time you got rid of this low life scumbag, he has no respect for women, and if I were you I'd raise the bar and walk away with some dignity... (read in full...)

What are men's opinions on girls who watch porn?

Q.   what are men's opinions on girls who watch porn? Should we keep it to ourselves and lie to our bf/husband or fess up?...

A.   4 August 2013: There's no big deal in women who watch porn too, if anything it does spice things up in the bedroom plus you learn a lot from it... (read in full...)

Girls, how long do you want your guys to last in bed?

Q.   How long do you want your guys to last in bed, girls? How long have your guys lasted? What's the record? Tell us about it. How long is too long and how short is too short during sex??? ...

A.   4 August 2013: 20 minutes is definately too short, great set should last for hours but if its a quickie I'd give it 40 minutes... (read in full...)

Do women really enjoy anal sex?

Q.   I had a fairly normal but boing sex life with my now divorced wife. I met a nice woman and have been dating her for 6 months. We had our first sex about 2 months into the relationship. She is quite adventurous sexually, way more than my x wife who ...

A.   4 August 2013: You would be surprised more women love anal sex and not admitting to it... (read in full...)

Should I swallow? I always feel kind of sick afterwards

Q.   When my boyfriend comes, I always swallow it. Is that bad for me? Is it unhealthy to ingest and can it make me sick? This only happens once or twice a week. Sometimes my stomach feels upset, but I'm not sure if swallowing is really upsetting my ...

A.   3 August 2013: No it's not bad for you at all, but don't do it if it makes you feel uncomfortable you don't need to prove anything.... (read in full...)

How can I believe that he isn't cheating when he's using porn and having phone sex?

Q.   Me and my fiance are together now for almost 8 years we have 2 boys together as far as I know him he is watching porn and keep on denying it, I cought him 4 times already having phonesex with other woman, he keeps on saying he will never cheat on me ...

A.   3 August 2013: Nothing wrong with porn, but I'd draw the line at phone sex its a form of mental cheating, he obviously has no respect whatsoever for you to go this far... (read in full...)

Could he still be in love with his ex g/f?

Q.   I've been dating my boyfriend on, off for almost a year. I have a problem with his ex who he is very best friends with. I looked at messages on his phone and he tries to horny chat with her, he even told her he was just with me to pass the time, ...

A.   3 August 2013: He says if he really wanted to be with her he would have jumped on a plane to Spain he's had a couple of relationships since they split, but I still feel he holds a torch for her, it seems one sided from his part though from what I read in the ... (read in full...)

What's more wrong? Checking your boyfriend's phone or your boyfriend betraying you?

Q.   What is more wrong? Checking on your boyfriends phone or finding out he has betrayed you? Seemingly he said I would never of got hurt and I shouldn't have gone looking...

A.   3 August 2013: Thank you I'm just very suspicious as he is very close friends with his ex he tells her alll about us, even said he was just with me for sex and to pass the time, even though she lives abroad and she is trying to sort her own marriage out, he even ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend was looking at dozens of pics of his "ex" while sleeping in my room, in my parents house, after we got engaged!!

Q.   My bf and I got engaged a few days ago. We have what I thought was a ‘perfect’ relationship, we’ve known each other for many years, started dating sometime back, we clicked, we were absolutely made for each other…or so I liked to think and from what ...

A.   2 August 2013: He is not to be trusted dump him... (read in full...)

I feel such an enormous amount of guilt every time I so much as think of my ex that it overwhelms me entirely

Q.   Hi everyone! I'll try not to make this too lengthy - I have asked a number of questions when throughout my almost four years of a relationship that ended this April. My ex left to the other side of the world, and for the first time since moving i...

A.   2 August 2013: You have nothing to feel guilty about, it's time you moved on and ex is an ex for a reason... (read in full...)

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