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I'm living in Kilkenny Ireland and I've had some good, bad and pretty ugly times in relationships but I've learned how to get on with my life cos every day I see people with worse problems than me...
I recently broke up with the love of my life but have learnt to cope and get on with life... Life doesn't stop just cos he's not ready for more in our relationship...... |
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My best friend had sex with my ex boyfriend!!!
Q. okay i need advice, me and my boyfriend broke up but we were still extremely close and still loved each other, then him and my best friend had sex and I'm no longer friends with her but I'm so confused I love him but I dont know what to do. help...
A. 10 April 2008: It is hard but you will get over it. I was with my guy for over 8 years! Just keep yourself busy with work/college/hobbies and you will get thro it.
I found it very hard I'll be honest but I had to make a clean break and move away for a few mont... (read in full...)
I'm 34 and been single for 10 yrs! Where do I find a guy that isn't dull, depressing or a half wit????
Q. I'm a 34 year odl girl and I have been single for about 10 years!!! i have dated a billion guys and i find them all either dull, depressing or halfwits. I have my own house, a great job and cool friends. But the guys i meet are either drug ...
A. 9 April 2008: LOL she will just smell of desperation and of self importance!
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I'm 34 and been single for 10 yrs! Where do I find a guy that isn't dull, depressing or a half wit????
Q. I'm a 34 year odl girl and I have been single for about 10 years!!! i have dated a billion guys and i find them all either dull, depressing or halfwits. I have my own house, a great job and cool friends. But the guys i meet are either drug ...
A. 9 April 2008: Well done TELLULAH, tell her like it really is!
Often the truth hurts and thats why she is being so spiteful and insulting to everyone else here.
She might learn but by then, she will be too old and full of regrets to do anything about i... (read in full...)
A part of my stomach near the belly button is swollen...this started since dieting.
Q. Dear Cupid I would like to know what does this mean, a part of my stomach near the belly button is swollen like bloated appearance and the other is sort of in. Will this go away later or should i go doctor's to get it checked out? All these prob...
A. 9 April 2008: I think you should go to the doctor. Its probably nothing but its better to get this checked out sooner rather than later.
I agree with the other posters that are saying it could only be your body adjusting to this diet or else its a way of telli... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has told me to back off a bit but just how far do I go?
Q. My boyfriend has told me to back off a bit. I haven't text him much at all but when I do I'm wondering should I still tell him I love him? Or if I don't say it, will it make him miss me? Please Help x...
A. 4 April 2008: I don't blame you for feeling so confused at the moment. Don't make any tea for him or have anything ready. When he turns up say tell him you have nothing ready for him as he never confirmed/said for sure what time he would be over at.
I wouldn't... (read in full...)
How can I make my guy see that it is time for us to break up and move on?
Q. Hi I've just ended my relationship after almost 5 years. We split up early last year and somehow got back together around August time. We didn't live together or anything. During that time apart though my feelings changed and after getting ba...
A. 21 February 2008: Your story sounds so much like me a few years ago. The only thing that I can say will work is if you change your contact numbers.
If not he will keep persisting after you, until he finally wears you down. My ex did the same thing when we broke up... (read in full...)
Seeking revenge over my boyfriend's cheating. What should I do?
Q. my bf cheated on me and now i wanna show him...i've revenge like feelings for him...i just wanna show him that he is the one who has lost something by cheating on me....otherwise it's goin to ruin my self esteem...we are in touch on day to day ...
A. 18 February 2008: Honey my fiance cheated on me with my best friend and I had every chance under the sun to get revenge on him but I didn't - even tho a lot of people were very surprised at. The 2 of them thought that I would scream & shout my head off at them any ... (read in full...)
My feelings died for him, will they come back?
Q. Hi all, Please, I need some advice. I have been in a relationship for 12 years, and am now 28. It has been a mistake from the start, but I did love him. He has spent alot of time critisizing me, bad mouthing my family friends, my ways, and tryi...
A. 13 February 2008: He says that your hurting him????? What about what he has done to you over the last few years?? At last you are listening to you head and not your heart!! Your doing the right thing by finishing with him now. You've already admitted that he... (read in full...)
My ex-boyfriend tried to rape me! What should I do?
Q. hi there i was wondering if there is anyone out there who can help me out with this back in august i was almost raped by my ex boyfriend i dumped him excatly for this reason and im now with someone who respects me and loves me well my ex bo...
A. 17 December 2007: Go to the police, report him for this and do not let hiim get away with it! If he thinks he is getting away with it he will keep coming back to you and things could turn nasty!
You have done nothing wrong and have nothing to be ashamed of here.... (read in full...)
Should I give her my number?
Q. There is this new girl at my work (retail). She has been there 2 weeks now. The first thing I said to my coworker (and one of my best friends) upon seeing her was that she was the cutest girl I've ever seen. We (the new girl and myself) talk ...
A. 1 November 2007: You haven't anything to lose by giving her your number! I say go for it!!! ... (read in full...)
How often do women think of their past sexual partners?
Q. I have general questions for women. How often do women think of their past sexual partners? I'm curious because my girlfriend seems to bring up(in converstaion) people she has slept with at random moments. ...
A. 9 March 2007: Whats happened in the past stays in the past!!
There's no point in dragging up ancient history if its got nothing to do with my current situation...
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We broke up as hes off to Oz tomorrow!!! Im not going to see him for 2 months and he says see how we feel then!!!!
Q. Ok update on my story so far… As ye all already kno my boyf is off to Australia for 2 months 2morro. And the reason I wrote in the first place was that he wanted to break up before goin and I didn’t want that to happen… So the outcome of it a...
A. 23 February 2007: Since my boyf came back from OZ things have been better than ever with us!! Thanks everyone for your replies and support too - greatly appreciated!!! ... (read in full...)
Do I tell him about my two kids?
Q. i am 35 years old woman i have 2 kids from both diffirent father,why is that happen well its a long story.but for sure i have a reason for that.im not bad'im honest and sincere person,things happen,happen you know'but i am not that looking bad, but ...
A. 8 January 2007: My boyf has a 7 year old son from a previous relationship and from the very start he was open and honest with me about him!! I was glad that he felt he could trust me enough at such an early stage to tell me about him and his commitment towards him, ... (read in full...)
Hes going to be away for 3 months, will things be the same when he gets back ??
Q. My boo is away for 3 months, we've known each other for 3 yrs,we talk on the phone daily,will our relationship be the same when he gets back?...
A. 21 December 2006: OF course you'll survive!! I did when my boyf went to Australia 4 2 months and we're better than ever now since he came home!!! It will all work out - even if your not talking on the fone every day and you are txting each other its just as good!!
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Hes going to be away for 3 months, will things be the same when he gets back ??
Q. My boo is away for 3 months, we've known each other for 3 yrs,we talk on the phone daily,will our relationship be the same when he gets back?...
A. 21 December 2006: Hey girl, I was in your shoes just over 2 months ago when my boyf was goin to Australia for 2 months!! The hardest part for me was the week he was goin and the first week after left!!!
But we stayed in touch via texts and calls (but even at that ... (read in full...)
After he sent me these obscene messages..I get the feeling he doesn't like me anymore. Any advice?
Q. This is what my bf wrote on a text message after we got into an arguement. I was just asking him to stay on the phone with me longer because I felt lonely and he got frustrated and hung up on my face. Here is what he wrote on his text message "You ...
A. 21 December 2006: Be the bigger person in the relationship right now (if you can call it that)and walk away from this loser!! You don't deserve to be treated or spoke to like that by him or anyone!! Don't bother contacting him again and the first thing you do is go ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want to introduce me to his family until we're almost engaged! Is this normal?
Q. advice from guys, please: how big of a deal is it if a guy doesn't want to tell his family about you? at what point in a relationship should he want to do this? my bf told me he doesn't think he'd want to really bring a girl into that part of his ...
A. 30 November 2006: No that sounds like this guy's got a lot to hide from you!! I mean why else after 2 years would you not have met his family?? I would give him an ultimatum - meet his family at christmas or finish with him!! Tell him Chrimstmas is a time for familys ... (read in full...)
We broke up as hes off to Oz tomorrow!!! Im not going to see him for 2 months and he says see how we feel then!!!!
Q. Ok update on my story so far… As ye all already kno my boyf is off to Australia for 2 months 2morro. And the reason I wrote in the first place was that he wanted to break up before goin and I didn’t want that to happen… So the outcome of it a...
A. 6 October 2006: Yeah I kno and thank you again for your response... I'm sure it will fly by and don't worry I'm not goin to sit in wallowing and feeling sorry for myself!! Life's too short for that! I will be out with my friends enjoyng myself!
I know its goin... (read in full...)
My bf is off to Oz, for 2 montsh he wants to break up, as doesnt feel we will last, I dont and want to try!!
Q. My boyfriend is goin to Australia for 2 months on friday week and thinks it would be better if we broke up as it would be too hard on us to try and continue our relationship with the distance between us. I don't want do that and would be willig to ...
A. 5 October 2006: Ok update on my story so far…
As ye all already kno my boyf is off to Australia for 2 months 2morro. And the reason I wrote in the first place was that he wanted to break up before goin and I didn’t want that to happen…
So the outcome of i... (read in full...)
How can you move forward after someone has cheated on you?
Q. how do or can you move forward in a relationship when one has cheated is it healthly to move forward ...
A. 29 September 2006: Its not easy to move on, my fiance cheated on me with my best friend & supposed bridesmaid! We were together 9 years!
Its not healthy to stay thinking about the past and the what if's... It will take time and a lot of soul searching.. I ended up... (read in full...)
Dirty text messages found on mobile
Q. 6 monthes ago my wife had a mobile phone which i didnt know of, when i found it ,it was full of dirty texts she had sent to 2 guys. one of the guys was her friends hubby, her friend was also in on the dirty texts. now i have found she has another ...
A. 28 September 2006: To me it sounds like she has something to hide - why else would she feel the need to have 2 extra mobiles including one with a security lock if she didn't have anything to hide? Well if she won't tell you or even talk to you about suppose 2 could ... (read in full...)
He knows I exist so why won't he talk to me?
Q. I am a Single mother. i have a liking for this man who is 5 yrs younger than me. We are working in the same company but different dept. We do not talk to each other but he knows that i am existing. Just wonder why he does not want to talk to me? Can ...
A. 28 September 2006: Well it is the 21st Century and there's no reason why you can't smile and say hi to him when you see him? At least that way he'll know that HE exists! Maybe he's thinking the same as you... but you won't know til you at least try... ... (read in full...)
We slept together and I haven't hard from him this week... Am I worrying too much?
Q. Hi, I have been dating a guy and it was going very well. I met his friends recently and we ended up sleeping together for the first time. We have been seeing each other for about a month. I have been away a lot of weekends visiting friends,...
A. 28 September 2006: If I was you I would make time for him - spend a w/end with him and tell him how you feel... Explain to him that these w/ends were all arranged before you met & got 2gether but also you HAVE to make some quality time alone for both of you to get to ... (read in full...)
My bf is off to Oz, for 2 montsh he wants to break up, as doesnt feel we will last, I dont and want to try!!
Q. My boyfriend is goin to Australia for 2 months on friday week and thinks it would be better if we broke up as it would be too hard on us to try and continue our relationship with the distance between us. I don't want do that and would be willig to ...
A. 27 September 2006: Thanx again and yeah its one way of looking at it as well. Maybe I'm just jumping the gun & panicing at the moment as he's not actually goin til 6th Oct!! But yeah it would be nice to maybe talk to you while he's gone if you didn't mind? Just been ... (read in full...)
My bf is off to Oz, for 2 montsh he wants to break up, as doesnt feel we will last, I dont and want to try!!
Q. My boyfriend is goin to Australia for 2 months on friday week and thinks it would be better if we broke up as it would be too hard on us to try and continue our relationship with the distance between us. I don't want do that and would be willig to ...
A. 26 September 2006: Thank you for your advice - its good to know I'm not the only one out there feeling like this :) ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is away, how can I keep our relationship alive whilst hes away ?
Q. hi everyone Im feeling a bit sad and emotional at the moment as my boyfriend is away for a month with work To keep in contact we mainly text and I need some advice/tips on how to keep going on this. It seems like I send the same texts daily...
A. 26 September 2006: I'm in something of a similiar situation as you - my boyf is goin to Australia next week for 2 months & I'm dreading it so much!!! I got this advice earlier and to me its after making me think things through some more.....
"While he is away try... (read in full...)
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