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| | satindesire's profile:Hey fellow Aunts and Uncles! I'm Megan, 25 years old and pansexual, and my husband of nearly four years is heterosexual.
I am an ex-model who had a successful acting and modeling career in California, although I have taken a permanent leave of absence from that line of work so I can concentrate on being a mother and wife.
I am married to an absolutely wonderful man who is almost two years older than me. He works outside the home, I am a homemaker. We are a passionately Christian couple who works hard daily to stay on the right path that God has set out for us, and also we are in an interracial relationship. We are both bi-racial...I am Irish and Native American, he is Puerto Rican and Saudi Arabian.
We live in a small town in Oklahoma. I have traveled all over the United States and have lived in lots of really interesting and fun places.
We have three cats, Rocco, Tabitha and Sage. Our daughter is Brooklyn Giselle, she was born August the 25th at 8:58 pm and weighed 8 pounds 9 ounces.
I am very interested in cosmetics and the beauty and fashion industry, relationships and the differences in the way men and women communicate. I have had a lot of interesting experience when it comes to human sexuality and BDSM, including fetishes and sexual kinks. I would like to go back to college after Brooke gets into school and earn a Psychology degree so I can become a kink-friendly Marriage/Couples counselor.
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| Latest articles: Thinking about losing your virginity?
This question has 33 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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5 March 2009: Right about at the onset of puberty, a lot of people start thinking about who they would like to lose their virginity to. Losing your virginity is one of the single most important decisions a person can make for themselves. Once you give it away...
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I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...
A. 7 November 2009: Maybe some babies are easier than some puppies, but as a woman who has a two month old, I can tell you from MY experience that MY baby is NOT easier than a puppy.... (read in full...)
Know of a place to get a cute dress?
Q. hey this would be a huge help to me if i can get some answers. does anyone have any websites where i can find a cute strapless dress, above the knee in length. any color, that i can wear for my winter ball. thank you, just reply with any websites ...
A. 7 November 2009: Holy Crap TOI, you shop the exact same places I do!
Yeah, go to those sites sweetie, they have awesome clothes, and cheap, too.... (read in full...)
I'm ready to introduce sex back into our marriage...How do I approach my wife?
Q. Ridiculously, we have let our marriage slip into a nearly sexless funk for 2+ years. Our second child was born in January and we've only been intimate a couple of times since she conceived. We've always been pretty low on the libido front, our ...
A. 7 November 2009: If she's still having pain after two years, she needs to see a doctor.... (read in full...)
What to wear going around town with my brother and his friends?
Q. This isn't really a question about relationships or anythin, but its the only place i seem to get quick good answers. So i don't have many friends because i fell out with my best 3 and they kinda turned everyone against me. But the few i am friends ...
A. 7 November 2009: They are going to places that requires ID, which means there's probably alcohol served there, which means you need to NOT GO WITH THEM. Okay? You are not old enough to legally enter those places, and if the cops raided it and caught you, you will go ... (read in full...)
Does their type of marriage work?
Q. My best friend and her husband work together in a Retirement facility. They live on site. They are together 24/7. Working together during the day and living together at night. They have been doing this for 11 years. She is not happy and never gets a ...
A. 7 November 2009: When you have a good relationship, yes, it can work. My husband and I have worked together in three different companies since we've been together, and we spend pretty much every waking moment together as well. He rarely goes out without me, often ... (read in full...)
Can a person that is still a virgin get a disease?
Q. Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...
A. 6 November 2009: A disease? Do you mean an STD?... (read in full...)
How can I make sure my asshole is completely clean?
Q. im guna try anal soon and i know this is really gross but how cn i make sure my asshole is completely clean?...
A. 6 November 2009: Take a shower.... (read in full...)
Does he still love me? And why is he ignoring me?
Q. I was with this guy for a year and we both loved one another very much. But there was a lot of struggles we had to go through to be together and we both got tired of it so we decided that we should just stop for a while. Well... after that I text ...
A. 6 November 2009: You guys broke up. He's trying to move on with his life. Please, do yourself a favor and just do the same.... (read in full...)
What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?
Q. what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...
A. 5 November 2009: Because children cannot make informed decisions about sex.
Sex is not harmless fun. It is an adult action with serious adult consequences. Sex spreads STDs, including fatal ones like HIV/AIDS, and Hepatitis. Sex causes pregnancy, and a 15 or 16 ye... (read in full...)
Is she really that busy?
Q. I have been exchanging emails with this girl. She has written twice that she is sorry it took couple of days to reply to my email, but she first mistakingly thought that she had replied me and only later realized she hadn't. Do you think it's pos...
A. 5 November 2009: She is avoiding you because she doesn't want to get involved with a -married- guy.
If you were sincere about JUST wanting to be friends, you'd take your wife along with you, and have your wife contact her about getting together.... (read in full...)
Does he want more than friends with benefits?
Q. Ok this is a bit of a story but i'll try and keep it brief as poss! Basically, over the weekend I had my 18th birthday party, and obviously there was quite a bit of drinking involved. One of the people there was this guy G, who I have had a friend...
A. 5 November 2009: I don't see why it would be weird. Why do you think it'd be weird?
I think you should talk to him about being exclusive. He seems nice.... (read in full...)
Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?
Q. I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...
A. 5 November 2009: Unless her entire family is dead, or they hate her, she won't be homeless.
Being desperately unhappy, crying at work and sitting at home alone isn't worth putting a roof over her head when she doesn't even appreciate it.
Her job IS NOT her '... (read in full...)
I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!
Q. 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...
A. 5 November 2009: If you're looking for a reason to divorce her, why don't you just divorce her?
Jeeze, dude, stop turning over all the rocks looking for a worm. If you can't find signs of misdeeds after this long, just freaking drop it.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?
Q. I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...
A. 5 November 2009: Totally normal. Many women feel a stronger urge to have sex when they're on their menses.
Plus, orgasms help relieve the pain of cramps.... (read in full...)
Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?
Q. I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...
A. 5 November 2009: She's a gold digger!
Listen to yourself, man. You're being tormented by this woman but you continue to stick around. There are BETTER women out there that won't do these sorts of things to you. She's selfish, inconsiderate, greedy, manipula... (read in full...)
He never feels sex!
Q. hi i want to know about my boyfriend, he never feels sex.when ever i try to seduce or if i come naked in front of him he is not aroused.i tried everything kissing hugging but he doesn't fell anything and his little boy is not erecting even after se...
A. 5 November 2009: This screams fake post to me.... (read in full...)
Will a penis that curves to the left be a turn off to women?
Q. Hey. Im 15 and my penis curves slightly to the left. I was just wonderin is this a turn off to most girls and will it still feel good to them when I do decide to have sex? ...
A. 5 November 2009: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html... (read in full...)
Could this be implantation bleeding?
Q. i had sex on november 2. we didn't use a condom. i have been on the pill, but i have missed a couple of pills. my period isn't due yet but this morning i had a little bit of bleeding. it was very light but i know i shouldn't be bleeding yet. could ...
A. 5 November 2009: Anytime you have sex, you run the risk of getting pregnant. Obviously you already know this.
Go see a doctor.... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend turn gay if he enjoys it when I give it to him from behind?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have a very good relationship....and sex can be a little kinky with us and I know sometimes my boyfriend likes me to play with his butt hole sometimes and I was thinking about using a strap on with him cause I heard that's ...
A. 5 November 2009: Enjoying having sex with a woman will not turn a man gay.
Being homosexual means you are only attracted to members of the same gender.
How then does it make sense that having sex with a woman can force a man to only want to have sex with me... (read in full...)
Would you believe a married man who......
Q. would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...
A. 5 November 2009: First off, Extenz is a scam, he's wasting his money. Talk to any doctor on the planet and they'll tell you that no pill on earth can make you have a larger penis. That's just retarded.
Secondly, if he's not sleeping with his wife, I wouldn't... (read in full...)
How can I encourage my boyfriend to drive to see me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months, and we both live an hour away from each other. In the 3 months that we have known each other, I have always driven to see him weekly (sometimes twice a week), and he's only driven down to see me ...
A. 5 November 2009: Jeeze, what a lazy arse he's acting!
If he can't dredge up the energy to go see his partner, then he shouldn't waste her time. ... (read in full...)
Does using a G-spot stimulator mean you're not a virgin?
Q. As said virginity is not having sexual intercoarse...but if you have a g spot stimulator are you still a virgin?...
A. 5 November 2009: Using a sex toy on yourself isn't having sex with someone else. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be just friends! It's too hard to pretend nothing happened!
Q. Ok this is my situation. My ex and i broke up in early june. Im a junior in high school so it so it was summer vacation. She went to school where i went but she lived two hours away so i knew i wouldnt see her the rest of the summer and that was ...
A. 5 November 2009: Just forget her. It's damaging to be friends with your ex, in any situation, it just makes getting over them SO much harder.
Tell her you can't be friends with her. You aren't together anymore and it's time for you to move on and get over her.... (read in full...)
He doesn't get it in before I push him away because of the pain!
Q. i just truned 16 and me and my boyfriend who is 23 have been going out for a year in half and he said he will wait till i am ready to have sex as it will be my first time and now that i am 16 i feel that i am ready to have sex .. i have been rea...
A. 5 November 2009: Have him stimulate your clitoris until you have at least one orgasm (some women are multiorgasmic, you may or may not be) so that your vaginal muscles are more relaxed.
If he's wearing a condom, using lube, and you've had an orgasm first, it shoul... (read in full...)
How can I get condoms discretely?
Q. i'm only 13 years old and my girlfriend want us to have sex and i said i wont do it until we have a condom. she said she cant get one. i want to know a way to get a condom with out my parents finding out and not having to be imbaressed at the store...
A. 5 November 2009: If you're too embarrassed to buy condoms, then you shouldn't be having sex. Sex is an extremely adult thing to undertake and at your age, you obviously are uncomfortable with some aspects of it, which means you are NOT READY to have sex.
Pleas... (read in full...)
Can a smaller penis look bigger from a different person's perspective?
Q. Hi i am about 18 years of age, and I have a question on measurement in penis sizes. When i put the ruler next to my penis it shows me that i am 8 inches. Now the problem is, when i was in MMA the men had to take showers when the session was over. I ...
A. 5 November 2009: Unless all your guy friends had erections, you can't judge how big they actually were. Most of the time, a man's penis doesn't get to it's full length and girth until it's fully erect.
Anyway, it doesn't matter. You're probably getting your... (read in full...)
Every time we make love, he gets a sore or bruises on his dick!
Q. recently, each time my boyfriend makes love to me, he gets a sore on his dick or bruises. i am really worried about this new development .i get wet when we make love and i shave the hair in my pubic area. so i really dont know what the cause is. ...
A. 5 November 2009: If he gets sores and bruises, you're obviously having WAY too rough of a time.
Gentler sex is key here. You guys don't need to pound the bed into the ground and break walls to have a good time, you know.... (read in full...)
Family: Where does your priorities lie?
Q. Wife Question to husband Who do you see as our family? Husband Answer to wife You and the two kids of course Wife to husband No one else? Husband to wife No. No one else Husband to wife Who do you see as our family? Wife to ...
A. 4 November 2009: Husband Daughter Father and Mother Aunt and Uncle Cousins... (read in full...)
My boyfriend took advantage of me while I suffered alcohol poisoning!
Q. Alright well, i'll try to explain this the best way i can. On halloween, last saturday, i went to a party with about.. 6 people. one of which included my boyfriend. We obviously were drinking since it was halloween and just for fun, you ...
A. 4 November 2009: First question: Why are you drinking and partying at YOUR age? You are not mentally or physically equipped to deal with the consequences, as you can readily see. Not to mention it's ILLEGAL.
Second question: If you knew you were already pretty d... (read in full...)
How can I make our first time together a Crazy, Passionate event?
Q. Ok, new girlfriend, new start, mindlessly love her, we are both very close with each other and enjoy each other's company. We've been together for a month and a half, we've both been in sexual relationships before, and i'd like to have a passionate ...
A. 4 November 2009: Sex is not like in the movies. I seriously doubt your first time will be as enjoyable as you hope...I've never known anyone who actually had the 'crazy passionate' time you're hoping for. Sorry to say this, but you shouldn't get your hopes up.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend didn't respond to my calls or texts in 7 months!
Q. My bf and i have had a long distance relationship for 1 year now. but in march i texted him normally and waited for a reply. but he didnt reply to none of my calls or text messages. before all this he said he was busy with work and would be free in ...
A. 4 November 2009: After 7 months of no contact, he's not your boyfriend anymore.... (read in full...)
My good friend wants to see my penis. Should I show her?
Q. i have a realy good friend and she ask me to show her my penis i dont know if should show her but at the same time i dont know why she want to see it can someone help me with this...
A. 4 November 2009: Are you really 26-29 years old? Because, if you are, then you've got bigger problems than your friend wanting to catch a glimpse of your man-sausage.
Geeze.... (read in full...)
My ex-girlfriend says she wants to be friends, but is hot and cold with me!
Q. My gf broke up with me like 3 months ago after about a year and a half. We tried being friends right off the bat, but it didnt work and we didnt talk for about two months. She calls me to hangout two days in a row and now she says she doesn't want ...
A. 4 November 2009: Most people tell their exes that they want to be friends because they're trying to dull the pain of the breakup. They're too afraid to just break up with them and move on, because they don't want to hurt the other person too badly. Thing is, ... (read in full...)
14 year old girl scared about sex with her 15 year old boyfriend
Q. my boyfriend is 15 and he wants to have sex with me but i don't know if i want to remain abstinent or have sex with he says he's ready when i'm ready but i don't think thats true and he might dump me i'm scared though that it will hurt and i will be ...
A. 4 November 2009: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html... (read in full...)
My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size
Q. My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never ...
A. 4 November 2009: This screams fake post to me.... (read in full...)
I had an abortion and now my sister won't talk to me!
Q. Should I say sorry to my sister, I had an abortion in April and my sister got very angry at me, she is very pro-life and wanted to to weigh my other options. She did not talk to me for a couple of months, and it was really hard not being able to ...
A. 4 November 2009: Instead of villifying her, try to understand her position. She wanted to be pregnant and lost the baby. You got pregnant when you didn't want to, and then aborted your baby. In her eyes, she feels like she's gotten an unfair cop out in life. Here ... (read in full...)
I lied about my virginty. Can a man feel your hymen?
Q. I am a virgin, but for my own personal reasons I do not want my guy to know. We are having sex for the first time tomorrow night, and I'm afraid he might feel my hymen and know I lied to him. I don't care about the bleeding, since I know that can...
A. 4 November 2009: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html... (read in full...)
What was SO HOT while we were drunk wasn't the same when we were sober!
Q. So im 14, and he is 18. I met him at my friends party and we made-out that night. We talked every weekend after that and he always asked me if i wanted to chill and i would always be busy or he would but it would mostly be me. Then, on halloween i ...
A. 4 November 2009: You're drinking and going to parties at 14 years old, doing sexual things with adults that could get him thrown in jail, and you want advice?
Respect yourself more than this. Stop drinking, and stop messing around with grown men. You are FOURTEEN... (read in full...)
Abnormal discharge
Q. I'm almost seventeen, and I began my periods when I turned about thirteen. I think it was a few months before my first period came that I noticed the discharge from my vagina. Though I care for my mother, I didn't and still do not feel comfortable ...
A. 3 November 2009: The vagina is a self cleaning organ. Every woman has it every single day, it's totally normal. Any guy who has been with more than 1 woman knows this and is used to it.
Your discharge is not abnormal in the least. There is no way to stop it since... (read in full...)
I want more intimacy but not sex.
Q. I've been dating a guy for about 3 months now. I've met his family and friends and he calls me his girlfriend. One night, about a month after we started going out, he said he wanted to sleep with me. I told him I wasn't ready and he said he ...
A. 3 November 2009: He's waiting for you to tell him that it's okay to progress.
Just be direct with him.... (read in full...)
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