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| | satindesire's profile:Hey fellow Aunts and Uncles! I'm Megan, 25 years old and pansexual, and my husband of nearly four years is heterosexual.
I am an ex-model who had a successful acting and modeling career in California, although I have taken a permanent leave of absence from that line of work so I can concentrate on being a mother and wife.
I am married to an absolutely wonderful man who is almost two years older than me. He works outside the home, I am a homemaker. We are a passionately Christian couple who works hard daily to stay on the right path that God has set out for us, and also we are in an interracial relationship. We are both bi-racial...I am Irish and Native American, he is Puerto Rican and Saudi Arabian.
We live in a small town in Oklahoma. I have traveled all over the United States and have lived in lots of really interesting and fun places.
We have three cats, Rocco, Tabitha and Sage. Our daughter is Brooklyn Giselle, she was born August the 25th at 8:58 pm and weighed 8 pounds 9 ounces.
I am very interested in cosmetics and the beauty and fashion industry, relationships and the differences in the way men and women communicate. I have had a lot of interesting experience when it comes to human sexuality and BDSM, including fetishes and sexual kinks. I would like to go back to college after Brooke gets into school and earn a Psychology degree so I can become a kink-friendly Marriage/Couples counselor.
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| Latest articles: Thinking about losing your virginity?
This question has 33 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
5 March 2009: Right about at the onset of puberty, a lot of people start thinking about who they would like to lose their virginity to. Losing your virginity is one of the single most important decisions a person can make for themselves. Once you give it away...
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My husband claims he will change if I go back to him but I don't trust his word!
Q. I left my husband, we were working together on cruises, saved money to build a future together for 5 years, I am from latin america he is eastern european, first of all he choose living in his country, despite i suggested a neutral country, after I ...
A. 20 November 2009: You're right not to trust him. DON'T go back to him, you can feel it in your gut that he'll treat you the same way he always did!
You're worth a lot more than that, sweetheart. It takes more than love to be in a good relationship. Do right by... (read in full...)
He just wont touch, kiss or hold me...and we've only been married 46 days!
Q. Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a ...
A. 20 November 2009: You know...I agree with Double M. You have been experiencing these problems for a very long time now, what made you think putting a ring on his finger would change things? Marriage is no different from your past living situation, other than the fact ... (read in full...)
How can I explain this to him so we end on good terms?
Q. I met my ex boyfriend through work although i didn't want to start anything in the beginning because i had just broken up with someone and he lived a very long way away from me. After around 6-9 months we started talking every day on the phone, ...
A. 20 November 2009: Why do you want to be friends with him?
That will only prevent him from moving on with his life and healing from the breakup, and then finding a new girl.
Just tell him that you shouldn't talk to him anymore because you're holding him back... (read in full...)
I want to get pregnant, how do I bring this up with my boyfriend? And after our last unprotected sex, is there a chance I could be pregnant?
Q. [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into the same post] Question 1: When me and my boyfriend have sex we never use condoms. he always just pulls out. well the other night we had sex and he pulled out and came nea...
A. 20 November 2009: You may want to read these articles as well:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-thinks-i-am-too-young-to.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-gently-break-the-news-to.html
http://www.de... (read in full...)
I want to get pregnant, how do I bring this up with my boyfriend? And after our last unprotected sex, is there a chance I could be pregnant?
Q. [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into the same post] Question 1: When me and my boyfriend have sex we never use condoms. he always just pulls out. well the other night we had sex and he pulled out and came nea...
A. 20 November 2009: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fifteen-and-i-want-a-baby-now-.html... (read in full...)
Fifteen and I want a baby now! Mature advice needed.
Q. Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a ...
A. 20 November 2009: Read the responses on this page.
http://www.videojug.com/filmsuggestion/is-it-okay-if-i-want-to-get-pregnant-at-sixteen... (read in full...)
Is oral sex on a woman better than intercourse for them?
Q. Is oral sex on a woman better than intercourse? I'm better at sex when I'm tipsy, I come out of my shell. Is that normal??...
A. 19 November 2009: since most women get most of their sexual pleasure from clitoral stimulation, some women enjoy oral sex more than PIV intercourse, but that depends on the woman.
You should really avoid drinking, because not only is it full of calories and suga... (read in full...)
She reaches climax too soon!
Q. hey this is my first time asking for help...anyway.... I'm 19 and I love my girlfriend so much,but I'm having problems with her in bed. What I mean is that she cums really really fast. 5 minutes fast. This is frustrating caus it takes me about 45 ...
A. 19 November 2009: Are you sure she's not faking it just to avoid having sex?... (read in full...)
How do I keep my boyfriend happy?
Q. hey i have been with my boyfriend seven months now, but i have known him for years... we both love each other and are very close, i can be myself around him. but sometimes i feel that i could be boring him, do you have any tips on how to keep hold ...
A. 18 November 2009: Do you share his hobbies? What does he like to do? Is he into video games? Computers? Motorcycles? Cars? Sports?
Find out what his hobbies are and take a serious interest in it. Learn stuff about it so that you and he can have good conversa... (read in full...)
I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?
Q. i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...
A. 18 November 2009: The female anon below me is correct. Kindness is what is attractive, not bust size. I have been on both sides of the spectrum, small AND large busted, and as long as you tell these so-called 'friends' (who don't seem very friendly to me at all) that ... (read in full...)
Any good tips for online dating?
Q. I turned 22 a couple of weeks ago. I've decided to try this online dating malarkey now. basically, how do i present myself in the best possible yet most honest light, and have a chance of finding someone? i always used to associate online ...
A. 18 November 2009: When you talk to the girls, what do you say? Can you give me an example? Maybe I can help you.... (read in full...)
Is this normal? Am I pregnant?
Q. I have missed my period for five monts and I have had backaches and headaches, my breasts have been itching a lot lately and all I do is eat. I mean I always ate a lot but now I just can't control it. Can anyone help me out here? Am I pregnant? I ...
A. 18 November 2009: If you haven't had a period in FIVE months, you need to go see a doctor. We can't tell you if you're pregnant or not, since we're not a pregnancy test or a doctor's office. Sorry, but there's no practical advice we can give you here other than to go ... (read in full...)
I know more about books than women... help!
Q. Well, this is another story of my life. i have decided to write those things down coz i cannot keep them inside me any more. I have started to like this website (I have received quite helpful advice), but I'm curious to see if anyone has an answe...
A. 18 November 2009: She meant counseling in the sense of a therapist, not committing yourself to an insane asylum...come on, son, that's ridiculous! ... (read in full...)
Any good tips for online dating?
Q. I turned 22 a couple of weeks ago. I've decided to try this online dating malarkey now. basically, how do i present myself in the best possible yet most honest light, and have a chance of finding someone? i always used to associate online ...
A. 18 November 2009: Well, for one thing, do you have your profile filled out, complete with an up to date and good clear photo of yourself?
... (read in full...)
I cannot make my girlfriend orgasm no matter how hard I try!
Q. basicly my problem is i cannot satisfy my girlfreind no matter what i try i cannot make her orgasm i recently found out she has been faking them to make me feel better and this has made me feel rather bad knowing that i cannot satisfy her i j...
A. 18 November 2009: I will refer to my last post in saying that it seems as though your partner is just not really comfortable with sex at all. Obviously I do not know her, and the only information I have is what you've given, but it's my best guess at this point.
... (read in full...)
I am a virgin. Should I sleep with my boyfriend of 5 weeks?
Q. ok, im a virgin, my boyfriend of 5 weeks is not, he wants sex (he's 17). I want it so bad, when im around him i feel safe and happy. (i come from a background with alot of abuse and so does he but he has been drinking and smoking since he was in ...
A. 18 November 2009: One in four people under the age of 26 have an STD. Whether it be chalmidya, herpes, HPV (very common!) or something as serious and fatal as HIV/AIDs, there is NO EXCUSE for not wearing a condom.
You are old enough to be on birth control. Go and g... (read in full...)
His girlfriend told him to stop talking to me!
Q. Hello :) Okay so I recently met a guy and his friends. He has a girlfriend, who is a friend of one of my best friends. Me and the guy talk alot, we're good friends. The other day my best friend told me that his girlfriend told him to stop talking ...
A. 17 November 2009: Quiet echo is right. Be VERY respectful of their relationship, and conduct yourself in a decent way around them, and eventually she will trust you.... (read in full...)
Sex with the perfect guy....
Q. Me and the guy I am with have been together for a little over a month now. He is a great guy, he makes me feel good about myself, he's ready and willing to do something with his life, and he has a lot of traits I am personally attracted to, he's ...
A. 17 November 2009: No, the pills are a scam. Think about this logically, sweetheart, the penis is made up of spongy erectile tissue. Why would a pill make it grow?
I suggest you both focus on bringing you to orgasm before intercourse, using oral sex, manual stimulat... (read in full...)
Smelling sweet... or not!
Q. This question may sound a bit stupid, but do women ever get paranoid of what they smell like down there? I don't smell or anything but when my boyfriend plays with me I get paranoid just in case I do, and even if I did would a boy tell you? I'm just ...
A. 17 November 2009: A clean and healthy vagina's scent is usually very arousing for men, so as long as you have no infections, STDs or hormonal imbalances, and you maintain a good diet and shower regularly, you will have a very pleasant womanly scent that will be ... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm having sex right! Please help!
Q. Okay my name is jake. im 14 years old and i had sex i think! i dont no if i did it right or not. i mean she didnt make a sound it felt good 4 me but she didnt even move... i kinda thought she was dead or asleep. what am i doing. i was wondering if ...
A. 17 November 2009: Let me guess, anon. You're 14, too, huh?
When you grow up, you'll seriously regret the sexual activity you're having at your age. Trust me.
Go ahead and throw a tantrum, it won't do you any good at all. ... (read in full...)
Does the number of x's at the end of a message mean anything?
Q. Hey, Id just like everyones opinion on this very controvertial topic! Now everyone says 'dont be silly and count the number of x's; nobody uses that as a way to say if they like someone.' But they do. Atleast everyone did a lot when we were younger,...
A. 17 November 2009: I think you are SERIOUSLY over analyzing this.... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable for a man to hit his girlfriend when she stands up for herself against unfair accusations of infidelity?
Q. Is it normal (or acceptable) for: -a man to accuse his girlfriend of infidelity for more than one year? -for the woman to raise her voice and shout, after one year of being falsely accused and asked the same question over and over and over ...
A. 16 November 2009: Why are you even here asking this question? You ALREADY know that these things are not acceptable. I don't know if you're looking for sympathy or what, but you already know what you need to do. Just go do it.... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm having sex right! Please help!
Q. Okay my name is jake. im 14 years old and i had sex i think! i dont no if i did it right or not. i mean she didnt make a sound it felt good 4 me but she didnt even move... i kinda thought she was dead or asleep. what am i doing. i was wondering if ...
A. 16 November 2009: Okay, since no one else had been straightforward with you, it looks like I'm going to have to tell you what's up.
Okay, Jake. Men and women's genitals are quite different, and I know it can be confusing to someone your age. At fourteen, you real... (read in full...)
My husband and I have violent and abusive arguments. Can we fix this or is it too broken?
Q. Last week I had a big arguement with my husband. It was the day before a big exam he had and he swore at me several times pushed me and in anger told me to get out. I left but then he rang and profusely apologised. I returned home but was still so ...
A. 16 November 2009: You're physically abusing him, he's physically abusing you, and you want to have a baby with this guy?
How does that even make sense to you?!
This relationship is nothing but toxic, and bringing a child into the world with this man would be the... (read in full...)
Will sex become more enjoyable for her with time?
Q. Hey everyone, Just a really quick query but....me and my girlfriend have reached the stage where we are starting to have sex. She has had it before so shes not a virgin but hasnt had it for a little while i.e. a few months. We have only done it...
A. 16 November 2009: Well, we can't really answer that question because we aren't your girlfriend, and there's no way to know for sure. It's possible.
A few things you can do in order to make intercourse more enjoyable for her:
Wear a condom and use water-based ... (read in full...)
Her childish behaviour is making our new marriage difficult
Q. Hi, I recently got married (3 months ago) to a girl i was with for 2 years. She is 20 and I am 26. I understood before getting married that she is younger and I decided to go through with it and develope more patience to accommodate the ...
A. 15 November 2009: Why on earth did you marry her? She sounds like a right brat.... (read in full...)
I'm worried about sleeping with my boyfriend. Any advice?
Q. I want to sleep with my boyfriend but I am not on the pill nor do I want to go on the pill, but I am worried that by just using condoms that I will fall pregnant, he says he will be careful but I'm not sure....
A. 15 November 2009: The birth control pill is NOT the only hormonal birth control option. There is also the ring, patch, and shot that you can use, as well as IUD's.
Hormonal birth control is very safe and millions of women all over the world use it. Please talk to ... (read in full...)
My fiancee is extremely needy!
Q. Dear Cupid, This is my first time using the site and I really need some relationship advice. My Fiancee, (I have known her for 6 years) and I have a problem The problem is, I'm a lot smarter than her. Normally, in the relationship thi...
A. 15 November 2009: If you're such a smarty pants, figure out a way to fix the problem and stop being such a misogynist.... (read in full...)
Why are my parents so strict with me?
Q. My parents always need me home and don't let me out past 10. My friends, boys and girls, are almost all allowed to stay past 3 or 4. I feel incredibly left out when they're having fun and I'm not included in the crowd. What makes it worse is that ...
A. 15 November 2009: Your parents are strict with you because they remember what it was like being your age and they do not want you to do the same things that they and their friends did.
You are not the only person in the world with strict parents. Mine were worse th... (read in full...)
My husband hates my cooking!!! Help!
Q. Hi, i need some idea or any advice. my husband is very difficult or complicated man most of the time in anything but specially with food. im his second wife. he was separated to his 1st wife of course i dont know the reason. but i do know his ex ...
A. 15 November 2009: Instead of bitching about your cooking and doing NOTHING to rectify the situation, he should get off his arse and fix the problem. Chiefly by cooking for his own damn self.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have sex during your period?
Q. Is it wrong to have sex when you're on your period? I recently did and I believe that I freaked my partner out, but I didn't think anything about it and forgot to tell him....
A. 15 November 2009: If your boyfriend actually 'freaked out', then you have a very sexually immature boyfriend in my opinion. He is aware that women have vaginas, and that vaginas have to bleed sometimes, it's a fact of nature. Girls poop and get hairy underarms, ... (read in full...)
Please help! Can you have sex while on your period?
Q. Can you have sex while on your period?...
A. 15 November 2009: Why wouldn't you be able to? It's not like your clitoris and vagina magically disappear when you're on your period.... (read in full...)
How do I overcome my sexual inexperience with men?
Q. Hey everyone this si the first time i've posted on here but have always had interesting reads from this site! Ok basically here goes. Four years ago when I was 16 I decided, together with my bf at the time, that I was ready to lose my virginit...
A. 15 November 2009: Okay, let's do a little exercise in trading places.
What if you got involved with a nice guy that you really liked, but he has very little to no sexual experience with women, and was basically a virgin?
Would YOU feel he was 'weird'? Would y... (read in full...)
Does it hurt worse to lose your virginity when you are younger?
Q. i was wondering if it would hurt worse to lose your virginity when your my age which is thirteen or if it was the same no matter what age you are cause my friend said it was worse when your younger....
A. 13 November 2009: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to dominate him, but I don't know how!
Q. My boyfriend told me that he likes it when girls take control of things sexually but im not really sure how to do this. He says he wants me to tell him what to do, or make him do things, but I dont know what to say....
A. 13 November 2009: Think about this logically here for a minute, sweetheart.
He is asking YOU to tell him what you want him to do.
That means, you think of something you'd like for him to do for or to you.
Paint your toenails? Scrub your back in the shower?... (read in full...)
Its been a long time since I asked anyone out... how do I handle possible rejection?
Q. Dear Aunties and Uncles...I broke up with my ex over a month ago... And we dated for a year.. I'm finally moving on, being happy with life and such.. I met this beautiful girl the other day and she just got back from Nashville, Her parents found out ...
A. 13 November 2009: You understand that logically, rejection means absolutely nothing. Just because a girl turns you down doesn't mean your life is over. The world doesn't blow up, the sun doesn't stop shining, nothing happens that affects anything permanent or lasting ... (read in full...)
How do you keep a man from straying?
Q. what tips you do to prevent a man from cheating?...
A. 13 November 2009: Treat him the way you'd like to be treated.
Talk to him if you want or need something.
Don't expect him to read your mind, he CAN'T. EVER.
Appreciate it when he does something for you, even if it's a small thing that he does every day. ... (read in full...)
How can I get myself to orgasm?? How can I get her to make me orgasm?
Q. Hi everyone, I have a problem that keeps on bothering my partner. I am a 20 year old female in a relationship with a 21 year old female. We met about a year ago, and have been going out for near enough 6 months. I absolutely love and adore her, and ...
A. 13 November 2009: If you've tried masturbating (and you've done it correctly, by stimulating your CLITORIS) and STILL cannot reach orgasm, I strongly suggest you visit your OBGYN and speak to them.... (read in full...)
How can I persuade her to have sex with me?
Q. hi. i am 15 year old male from india. we have a maid servant in our house, about 25 years of age. she is very plump and has well developed breasts and hips.she lives in our house itself in a separate room. i have had sexual feelings for near...
A. 13 November 2009: FAAAAAKE post.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online?
Q. Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online? My friends commented that it is disgusting for girls to do so but I have to confess that I always watch them and masturbate after that. Is it normal or am i a weirdo?...
A. 13 November 2009: Totally normal. Your friend is a sexually immature dope.... (read in full...)
I cannot make my girlfriend orgasm no matter how hard I try!
Q. basicly my problem is i cannot satisfy my girlfreind no matter what i try i cannot make her orgasm i recently found out she has been faking them to make me feel better and this has made me feel rather bad knowing that i cannot satisfy her i j...
A. 16 October 2009: It's entirely possible that she simply has not mentally matured enough to accept sex, masturbation and sex toys, and orgasms, as normal and acceptable to have, do and discuss.
Often young women, especially if they did not have open communic... (read in full...)
I cannot make my girlfriend orgasm no matter how hard I try!
Q. basicly my problem is i cannot satisfy my girlfreind no matter what i try i cannot make her orgasm i recently found out she has been faking them to make me feel better and this has made me feel rather bad knowing that i cannot satisfy her i j...
A. 15 October 2009: Why does she 'refuse' to try a sex toy? MILLIONS of people own them. That doesn't make her weird or slutty or bad...if it does, then I'm Satan in comparison, because I own a LOT of sex toys.... (read in full...)
I cannot make my girlfriend orgasm no matter how hard I try!
Q. basicly my problem is i cannot satisfy my girlfreind no matter what i try i cannot make her orgasm i recently found out she has been faking them to make me feel better and this has made me feel rather bad knowing that i cannot satisfy her i j...
A. 15 October 2009: Women, especially young women, sometimes take years to learn how to orgasm with their partners. You absolutely have to be patient, not get upset and not pressure her. Keep trying, all the time. Try often, and enjoy yourself.... (read in full...)
I cannot make my girlfriend orgasm no matter how hard I try!
Q. basicly my problem is i cannot satisfy my girlfreind no matter what i try i cannot make her orgasm i recently found out she has been faking them to make me feel better and this has made me feel rather bad knowing that i cannot satisfy her i j...
A. 14 October 2009: FemFetale is correct. We can't help you unless we know some more information. Is she capable of orgasm, has she ever had one through masturbation? Have you thought about getting her a vibrator?
Are you sure you're stimulating her correctl... (read in full...)
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