My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: Really this is a thank you note to everyone who helped me over the last 2 very stressful years. I am now happily divorced and got a good payout and am getting married again in December to a very different type who treats me very well and actually ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend, his online dating voyeurism, My problem...Can you help?
Q. I would like advice. I probably should note that it looks a little long compared to the other Dear Cupid's but a little background is necessary. I have been dating a man I met online for 3 months - he's a great guy. We are in a real relationship. ...
A. 19 November 2008: Well warning bells and red lights are flashing here. This chap wants to have his cake and eat it. You have discussed this with him twice. Both times he says he will do something about it and then you find he has been sneaky and tried to cover ... (read in full...)
What should I do to get my wife interested in sex again?
Q. I have known my wife for the 8 years and we have been married for 3. We have two beautiful boys aged 4 and 2. Ever since the birth of the second child, our sex life has gone down hill. If I don't ask for sex she will never give, and when I do ask it ...
A. 19 November 2008: Your wife is very tired and probably suffering from a mild form of post natal depression. This happened to me and I lost total interest in sex. If my husband even came near me I hated it as I felt he was taking precious sleep or rest time away from ... (read in full...)
To call or not to call???
Q. Met a guy back in the summer who was in early stages of divorce. Saw each other for a while, pressure from all angles got to him and contact between us ceased. I emailed him about 6 weeks later and our friendship restarted. Been seeing each other ...
A. 19 November 2008: Hi there,
NO CALLING!!
I would really leave him alone and not contact him. I do know how hard this is but he knows where you are when he wants to find you. If you have left very positive images in his mind and have been a good friend and listener... (read in full...)
He took her before her time... it's not fair!
Q. Hello.....please explain to me. My mother had open heart surgery as well as I. She passed away.... I was a failed operation, and yet I still stand to this day. I blame myself for losing my mom, because I was the failer and she wasn't. Why did ...
A. 18 November 2008: The thing is no one knows when their time is going to be. Your mum went early in life but that was her time to go, it wasn't yours. My best friend has just died, I spoke to him in the morning he was dead the next day. There was no reason and he had ... (read in full...)
He NEVER has his cell phone out of his hands and I'm getting fed up with it!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for about 1.5 years, and things were very rocky in the beginning. He is always texting on his phone. He becomes very annoyed if I always ask him who is talking to. It started off when I learned he was getting n...
A. 16 November 2008: I so understand where you are coming from as my ex husband never put his phone down. He would take it to the loo, into the shower, sleep with it under his pillow, everywhere. He was constantly texting other women and used to put it on vibrate so as ... (read in full...)
What to do about my mascara? My eyelashes seem clogged up.
Q. hello ok this is a make-up question for the girls. i apply mascara everyday and stuff, but recently my eyelashes are clogged up and my think comb mascara brush wont go through them! please help! what should i do? X...
A. 16 November 2008: It is very important to remove all your eye make up at night with a waterproof eyemakeup remover or just water depending on the brand. The eye lashed get clogged when you are putting new mascara on top of an old one. This happened to me when I was ... (read in full...)
My brother is mad at me because I slept with his wife. How can I make up it to my bro ?
Q. My brother is mad at me because I slept with his wife, I lived with them cause my girlfriend kick me up for cheating on her. My bro beat the sh!t out of me (he gave me a black eye) and throw me out. I think he's divorcing her now, He hasn't talked ...
A. 16 November 2008: I think you need to keep away from your brother for the time being. I presume you have said you are really sorry and asked for forgiveness and tried to explain to him why it happened. I think the only thing that will lessen your brothers anger and ... (read in full...)
A survey on family household stuff...for school, and I need your answers.
Q. Hey guys! I'm doing a survey in school + need as many people as possible to take part, it's okay if it's not allowed to be asked on here.. but if it is, could you please answer these questions with who you think should do these things? m = man, w = ...
A. 16 November 2008:
Hi there,
Hope this helps,
wash up... b
washing...w
hoover...w
feed a baby...b
change a light bulb...b
school run...w
put up shelves...m
fix the car...m
cook...b
put the children to bed...b
wor... (read in full...)
Abuse caused our separation, not interested in a reconcilation, how do I tell him strongly?
Q. My husband of 2 years and I seperated in September. He is now begging me to reconcile with him, says he's been going to counseling and feels he is a better person. I really feel I have no interest in being with him again. He was very abusive ...
A. 15 November 2008: I don't think you should consider going back. This guy went out of his way to have you sent back after the split - that is not very nice or forgiveable by anyones standards. I imagine he wants you back now because he is alone and has no one who will ... (read in full...)
Do men ever change their minds in matters of the heart?
Q. I've been in love with a man for five years. This year he moved about 40miles away. We didnt speak because of a fight we had for about 8 months. Then one night he called, the next week i went to the hospital very sick. We began talking and i've been...
A. 15 November 2008: I'm honestly not sure on this. Some men do and some don't. A man I was very much in love with many years ago wouldn't touch me because he said I was always duplicitous. I wanted him and stopped lying and scheming and showed only a positive image of ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused, I've been seeing him for the past 3 years, but lately contacts are rare. Should I leave it at that? He has a family.
Q. I guess i already know the answer to this question, but i need to hear it from someone else really. I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 years, we met online, chatted, then met, and ever since we have been really good friends, he is/was my bes...
A. 14 November 2008: Don't contact him at all, just leave him well alone. He is probably trying to get his head round things and his new situation. He knows how to get in touch with you if he wants to. I imagine on finding out the news that he has left his family you ... (read in full...)
His firstborn child is with another woman!
Q. Please help me! I have been back dating my current bf for about a month now. Long story short, we originally met 2 years ago, got engaged too fast and realized we needed to slow things down, so we broke off the engagement and took sometime apart, we ...
A. 14 November 2008: Hi there,
I think because of the terrible event that happened to you so recently that this is all a bit too much to cope with right now. I would not make plans or start trying to have another child with your boyfriend at the moment. If you can bear... (read in full...)
We are living together, he has cheated and impregnated another woman, I still love him, I am hurt, what do I do?
Q. I've been with my daughter on and off for about 5 yrs... I moved out of our apt due to issues that we had... he has never wanted me to move on and vice versa... though not officially together we still were together... I knew that I needed my ...
A. 12 November 2008: I too can feel the distress and upset in your post. The whole situation is awful for you. I understand that you still love him and feel jealous over him but this guy is not nice and I think you need to move away. I know you probably don't care about ... (read in full...)
If I don't contact her, will she change her mind about our break up?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out over 4 years, she is in her 2nd year at university studying psychologly, it's been 2 weeks since she split up with me, I called her last night 2 see how she is doing, she says she still thinks this is a ...
A. 12 November 2008: I would say don't contact her at all if you want her back. That will get her wondering what you are doing, what you are up to, why you haven't called etc. Do a search for the three month 'no contact' rule which does very often work. This explains ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get pregnant ?
Q. hey just got married there three months ago and came off the pill.am having lots of intercourse around the time i shoul be ovulating but nothing happening so far bought some ovulation predictor kits and am hoping they will work have two beautiful ...
A. 11 November 2008: I think it takes 6 months to a year to conceive for most couples. i know they won't offer you fertility treatment in the uk until you have been trying for 2 years. I couldn't get pregnant either and then had a hysteropingogram ( where they put dye ... (read in full...)
What can I do to help myself develop an interest in someone other than my ex?
Q. Does anyone have any advice for things I can do to help myself develop an interest in someone other than my ex? We dated off-and-on for about two and a half years. I was sure I wanted to marry him. There were times when I think he was definitel...
A. 10 November 2008: Ok honey, this chap is not coming back and things are now very different, Basically you are grieving for something and a shared experience with someone that you loved and you could see a future with. I have been divorced for 3 months and separated ... (read in full...)
He needed time apart, I'm worried he won't return to me!
Q. He tells me that he needs some space to try and clear his head, we have been together for 2years and 3months, he told me that he loves me and thinks the world of me, but then he goes and stays with his mate and his mates partner. He rings me every ...
A. 9 November 2008: Ok, this is very difficult for you. Your boyfriend requested space so let him have it. You have behaved perfectly so keep doing this. Do not ring, or ask him to stay over or when am I going to see you again/ when will you be back questions, just ... (read in full...)
I embarrassed her. Does this mean we are thru ?
Q. Me and my girlfriend got drunk tonight we ended up making out. One thing lead another and I pull off her shirt but it stuck to her bra strap. me being quite drunk pulling harder thinking it would come with it. But some padding fell out. I said " ...
A. 9 November 2008: She will be embarrassed so will probably avoid you for a while. The best you can do is not to refer to this incident at all. I can really relate to this because when I was 17 the same thing happened to me and all these tissues fell out and 'Richard' ... (read in full...)
In his cupboard I found butt plugs, a mouth gag, huge dildos, handcuffs, double penetration toys and other things...
Q. My boyfriend has a cupboard in his bedroom which he locked. In it I found butt plugs, a mouth gag, huge dildos, handcuffs, double penetration toys and other things I can't even put a name too. I haven't said anything to him, but it's put me right ...
A. 8 November 2008: Because you have bothered to post this, it seems to me that you are very uncomfortable with the idea of using these sex toys or being with someone who likes this kind of thing. I would not feel comfortable about this either and if this is how he ... (read in full...)
Do you think I deserve an answer from him?
Q. My boyfriend of a year broke up with me. He said I did nothing wrong, but that we just needed time apart. I didn't get to talk to him for a week. Then he called me and said that he could never stop loving me. He always told me that I was the best ...
A. 7 November 2008: You may well be right and the crowd he is hanging with is leading him astray. If he is of that kind of character it doesn't take too much to be led. I know you really miss him and want him back and I do think he will come but i think you are going ... (read in full...)
Why does my fiance hide things from me?
Q. Why is he hiding things from me? My fiancee and I are getting married in two weeks and I don't think I trust him anymore. We have been dating for three years and during that time, I have caught him intentionally hiding stuff from me. (sometimes ...
A. 7 November 2008: I can understand that you are worried and upset. I don't want to hurt you but there is more to this than meets the eye. When a woman gets a gut feeling they are rarely wrong and there is definitely something going on. My ex husband used to near ... (read in full...)
He confessed he had sex with a prostitute while on a business trip!
Q. We have been married for last 6 years and I would like to say happily until last week when my husband confessed that he had sex with a prostitute recently on an official trip. I have sort of forgiven him and have been trying to come to terms with ...
A. 7 November 2008: My best male friend is a habitual prostitute user although he is very happily married and has been for a long while. He says that the urge for sex suddenly becomes so strong that it is all he can think about and wants it straight after work. He says ... (read in full...)
Do you think I deserve an answer from him?
Q. My boyfriend of a year broke up with me. He said I did nothing wrong, but that we just needed time apart. I didn't get to talk to him for a week. Then he called me and said that he could never stop loving me. He always told me that I was the best ...
A. 7 November 2008: Honey, I do think you deserve an answer but I don't think you are going to get one. Men in the main are poor with communication and confrontation and put them together and you get nothing. He doesn't want to deal with his emotions, he probably is ... (read in full...)
I know that my cheating husband is in love with his secretary...
Q. My husband of 37 years started having and affair with his 37 year old secretary a year or more ago. I had no idea. I thought we were comfortable in our marriage and could trust him. Wrong. he started acting wierd, going in to work really early, ...
A. 7 November 2008: My heart goes out to you because this is exactly what happened to me. I was in my mind very happily narried for 15 years and then my husband started working longer at the office, dropping this woman's name into the conversation and saying he had to ... (read in full...)
My BOSS wants to sleep with me what do I do????
Q. ok so i had a job working at a coffee shop this guy use to come in every weekend and get coffee we always chatted very nice and good looking well than one day he asked me if i wanted to come work for him at a hotel and do like front dest work....i ...
A. 5 November 2008: No no no, not a nice man. Don't sleep with him. Do exactly as Emilyanswers says and keep a diary of all the times he has come on to you so you can take him to the industrial tribunal when it all goes wrong. You are obviously a pretty young girl and ... (read in full...)
Can't stop brooding, any advice?
Q. I am a terrible brooder. I seem to have a mind that wont ease up and give me a break from the moment i wake up to the time i go to sleep. My brain concentrates on particular issues that are going on in my life to the point of obsession until it ...
A. 4 November 2008: I am identical to this going over every point, thrashing it out, playing different sides, going over and over the scenario until I can do no more with it. As you say this is very useful but very exhausting when you want to switch off. I have found ... (read in full...)
I just wish I could have untouched lips again!!
Q. I've never kissed my boyfriend, but i kissed another guy, my first kiss, and i hate to think i did. I feel awful and it makes me want to be sick! I just wish i could have untouched lips again. What can I do to forget?...
A. 3 November 2008: I suggest you give your teeth a really good brush and use mouth wash and then clean your face and lips as carefully as you can so in your remind you are removing all trace of this first kiss. This kiss didn't mean anything to you so now it has gone. ... (read in full...)
He left me for his co-worker! Is this a mid-life crisis?
Q. my husband has been gone 7 weeks now, i think i am slowley coming to terms with the fact that my 25 year marriage is over. tonight he sent me a text moaning that his adult children are ignoring his texts and that he loves them so much, then saying ...
A. 3 November 2008: We were married for fifteen years and the same thing happened to me. My husband up and left for a woman he worked with. He said that he had found real happiness with her and that i hadn't made him happy, he'd fallen out of love with me etc etc. Like ... (read in full...)
Hard time moving on, how do I get over this horrible ending to a relationship?
Q. I moved from San Diego back home to NH and met this incredible girl. She completely accepted me for who I am and fell deeply in love with me. It all happened rather fast. She cheated on her boyfriend of 10 months with me. Within two days we were ...
A. 2 November 2008: I think it could be the intensity of the emotions which is causing you such intense heartache. Restraining orders, courts, being violent are all extremely passionate and physical emotions that are difficult to move on from. They are in a differnt ... (read in full...)
Another boyfriend question
Q. ok this is the first time for this...My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago. the funny thing is he never told me we broke up, he just quit answering my calls and texts! We dated a year and a half. we have mutual friends and when asked by them ...
A. 2 November 2008: Honey, I don't think you are going to get any closure here by calling or ringing him. He knows you are calling and obviously chooses not to answer as he doesn't want to deal with the situation. Men avoid confrontation at all costs. A wise ... (read in full...)
He broke my heart! :(
Q. I was with my boyfriend for 5 and 1/2 years. Everyone always said that we were great together... we were so in-love. Two weeks ago we broke up. He said that he no longer could be with me. He gave me no explaination. Needless to say, we ...
A. 2 November 2008: I am really sorry for what you are going through. I think for him to bring his 'girlfriend' with him to collect your daughter is not very nice. Maybe he just did it to rub your nose in it to make you feel jealous and upset. If you think really ... (read in full...)
Do you think that you forgive someone who did something very wrong to you?
Q. Do you think that you should continue to talk to someone who did something very wrong to you? I mean this person tricked you but they still try to be nice to you and somtimes you go along with it.. do you think that person should leave them alone ...
A. 31 October 2008: Having done a few things in my life that require forgiveness and not always getting it I make very sure that I try to see both sides of the story and forgive where possible. I have found most people do something wrong because they have been forced ... (read in full...)
Bumps on my tonque and in back of my throat. Do I have oral herpes?
Q. i think i have oral herpes but i have never had any outbreaks at all. but i have a small bump on my tongue that has been there for a week and i think another one is developing. i also had some bumps in the back of my throat that was hurting but it ...
A. 31 October 2008: Probably a bacterial infection or thrush. It could also be a number of ulcers appearing - if so rinse with Corsodyl as this is amazing stuff and really works. I imagine you may need antibiotics so go to the doctor. I had something very similar with ... (read in full...)
Why has he left me to go back to her?
Q. It is late at night and I am sitting here not knowing what to think or how to get through this. My partner of 4 years has left me tonight to go back to his wife. He never divorced her but left years ago to have a fulfilling and loving relation...
A. 31 October 2008: I am really sorry for what you are going through and can tell you really love him. Sometimes when a man has been married the ties are just too strong esp if the wife makes it clear she will always take him back. With the credit crunch in the Uk that ... (read in full...)
These rides to work are really pissing me off!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out ...
A. 31 October 2008: Fandabadosi!!!! Really well done. I am so proud of you. If it means he chooses to leave his job so be it. No wife can live like that and no other wife of his work colleagues would put up with it either. It is totally unacceptable behaviour and if ... (read in full...)
These rides to work are really pissing me off!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out ...
A. 30 October 2008: I think your warning bells should be going off here. This is an absurd amount of time to spend with someone who is just a colleague. i have to say that you are remarkably well balanced over this because if he had put this other woman and her ... (read in full...)
Betrayed, hurt, confused and angry too.
Q. Betrayed hurt confused and angry was my last question. It's been a couple of months since I asked that question. And I'm realising that as much as I want to forgive I'm still at stage 2 anger! And she's taking control! It's killing our relation...
A. 28 October 2008: Dear Arrow,
There is no easy fix for this because anger is such an intense emotion. My husband had an affair and we got divorced and even two years on I still feel such intense anger, not all the time but at times. The only thing that helps at all ... (read in full...)
He is ignoring my texts...should I carry on and forget about him?
Q. my boyfriend of a couple of months broke up with me a week ago, he originally said he couldnt handle the long distance relationship (whihc was never an issue before) and eventually i dragged it out of him a few days ago that he thought our ...
A. 22 October 2008: Stop contacting him at once. Let him chase you. If he wants you he knows where to find you. If you send lots of texts and try to make him speak to you and open up it will probably just make him want to run a mile. Men like doing the chasing and they ... (read in full...)
Should I stop paying the mortgage?
Q. My Ex-partner lives in the house we own jointly. I have moved out into another property and now pay 2 mortgages. She refuses to pay her half of mortgage and expects me to pick up her tab. I have asked that house be auctioned she refuses; the house ...
A. 21 October 2008: Having just gone through something very similar to this I would not suggest not paying the mortgage as this will be held against you in court. If you are married it will be a diffirent situation for you as she will need to have somewhere to live and ... (read in full...)
We are having a baby through incest - what can I do?
Q. To everyone that doesnt understand, this will seem really wrong but i've been in love with my brother (no not step, my actual brother) for the past 2 years after he helped me get over my cheating ex. At the start i thought it was just an admiration ...
A. 19 October 2008: You need to tell your parents what has happened and then get expert medical advice. I do know that heart problems in particular can manifest themselves in children of incestuous relationships and other abnormalities can occur, recessive genes come ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 October 2008: Just an update really. Just come back from court where the interim finances were discussed and to my amazement i got a lot more money than I was hoping for so that has made me chipper. husband still wouldn't look at me or speak to me. He quite ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 September 2008: Still fighting over the money. Ex husband will fight over 50p. I have tried myself and via my solicitors to negotiate a reasonable settlement but all he wants is us out of the marital home so it can be sold and he gets his bit. This is a moot point ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 August 2008: Got back from court last week and I am now officially divorced, just the finances and child contact issues to contend with. Husband read out this long statement detailing all my faults from 15 years back. My barrister said just to switch off. Funny ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 July 2008: Thank you for all your help. Went to court over child contact yesterday and I was practically lamblasted by the judge for not being co-operative and letting my negative feelings affect my child and his relationship with his father. They were so in ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 July 2008: I learned a very valuable lesson today. Was due in court today but on business so unable to attend. Solicitor and Barrister did their best for me but husand turned up and played the sympathy role so all his costs were awarded against me. So so ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Divorce is still going ahead although husband now takes as long as possible to respond to any paperwork at all. He is being ss difficult as he can be over paying bills and has all but opted out over anything to do with our son. He visits on his ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 June 2008: Hi All,
I have said there is no problem having a DNA test but husband doesn't want to do it now - funnily enough. I know he's taking the solicitor out for meals and things but have no proof of them having sex ( apart from in my heart I know they... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 24 May 2008: Latest news husand now says he is going to contest being childs father and has denied adultery on my divorce petition. Now feel in no mans land as am running out of funds and he has endless funds for his solicitor. I just can't be bothered to deal ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 May 2008: Thank you to all who have helped by offering advice and sharing their stories. Things have gone from bad to worse. Husband has started ringing a lot as the divorce is going through because he is concerned about money. He is exceptionally abusive ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 May 2008: You are right I am being very weak and now have to get on with things. I kept hoping desperately things would change but they never do they just get worse so I will pull myself together , admit to myself it is over and try to move forward and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 May 2008: I have been a bit brighter recently and found that I can actually do things by myself without the help of a man. Had major problem with the car which lost all its electrics on the motorway which was terrifying in rush hour and son was with me.Called ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 April 2008: It went well in court and we agreed to a bit of access which I am happy with. Husbands drinking came out which pleased me no end and he appeared horrified that it had been raised. We never spoke a word or even looked at each other. I felt really sad ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 April 2008: Soon to be ex husband has put an emergency court order on me for access to child. This has terrified me and son has to come with me to the hearing on Tuesday. I am so scared and don't know what to expect. I am horrified that things have turned so ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 April 2008: Hi everyone who has helped me,
This is a bit of a strange question but it is costing me a fortune asking my solicitor anything so I wondered if anyone could help if they have had te same experience. The divorce is progressing , very slowly, husb... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 10 March 2008: Thank you all for your help,
Husband came to collect son on Saturday and was even more horrid than normal. Suddenly all the feelings I had for him dissipated and I thought what a rude man he is. I told him he had some kind of a mental problem and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 5 March 2008: Actually the pain this causes in me is unbelievable. The weekend went quite well. As soon as he arrived I went out and when I came back I behaved normally and made coffee etc and talked about school and things. Husband wouldn't look me in the face ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 29 February 2008: Thank you all for your helpful advice. I have been to the solicitor who was good and switched on but bloody expensive. He basically told me to let the divorce go through or cross petition on adultery and concentrate on the finances. It all appears ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2008: Hi All,
Well the very worst has happened. Divorce papers came in the post this morning citing unreasonable behaviour. I don't really know why I am shocked as it was bound to come but there had been no verbal warning or anything other than he had ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 8 February 2008: My situation gets worse and worse. I am behaving terribly but don't care as sadly the more time you are separate from the person the less you care about what they think anymore because you know they aren't going to come back. Husband has been back ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 January 2008: things are now at the lowest ebb ever. Husband has stopped communicating full stop, no texts/e-mails or anything anymore. Just pays the bills and cc's. i've tried to be conciliatory but he won't respond to any communication from me at all. I know he ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 January 2008: Husband didn't come for son's birthday as son decided he didn't want him there and I didn't push it. Recently things have gone from bad to worse between me and the husband and now he won't take my calls or answer any texts/e-mails. This situation ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 8 January 2008: On Christmas eve husband sent text to see if he was welcome for Xmas. I let him come for 2 days and it was truly awful- he didn't look at me or speak to my face just talked to the carpet. My son and I couldn't wait for him to go. Made us laugh as he ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Hi everyone who has helped me - thought I'd give you an update. Getting stronger and stronger everyday. Never hear from the 'husband' unless it wants something. He never calls or asks to speak to our son he just sends an e-mail from his office if he ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 September 2007: After being back together since beg July came home the other night and he had bolted!! No phone call, no warning no nothing. Sadly I thought things had been going well. After eventually tracking him down I found out that he was living back in his ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 August 2007: After a terrible holiday together husband has moved back in. Atmosphere is very strained and it is like walking on egg shells but we are trying to be nice to each other and see how things go. He still doesn't want to be here and is definitely here ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 June 2007: I have a question for all those who have helped me so much over the past. Things are going well with me and the husband but there are 2 fundamental stumbling blocks which I cannot get my head round. First - is his mother. We hated each other on... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 June 2007: Things still going well. Husband asked me out for lunch out of the blue. Sadly I ruined this by getting pissed and emotional but that's life!! Husband behaving very very well and being considerate and in return I have stopped calling all the time ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 June 2007: A very strange thing has happened - things have suddenly become a lot better between me and the husband. After a lot of hoo/haaing he decided that he would give the idea of a continental marriage a go. This now works that he spends 4 nights in the ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 30 May 2007: I wonder if any of the aunts out there can help me on this one. Husband has become nastier and nastier when he comes, now every 2 weeks. He is drinking very heavily and when he comes he is threatening, punching the air or the door next to my face ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 May 2007: Made a truly terrible mistake. Husband came at the weekend to see child off on trip. I was very upset as never been separated from son for 6 days and was crying. We went back to the house and had a jacuzzi and some champagne and then one thing led ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 10 May 2007: Hi everyone,
It is now a little while since I got the devastating news that husband wants a divorce. This is resulted in countless rows with me telling him I will contest etc etc. I refuse point blank to go to the solicitor to initiate this as he i... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2007: Hello Everyone,
Well today has been the hardest day of all. I thought things had been going quite well but husband finally managed to say that he wasn't coming back ever, had no feelings for me and wanted to end the marriage. He said he would take... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 April 2007: Please can anyone give me some advice on how to make this situation go the way that I really want it. After 2 relate sessions husband and are now talk to each other without flying off the handle. I have put a deadline date of 1st May on him ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 April 2007: Now getting very close to 1st May. I am so sure that he isn't going to come back that I offered an extension to this time frame but he said it wouldn't make a difference. Husband tried for a while but now spends less physical time actually present ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 April 2007: Things have calmed down considerably between me and the husband. The one benefit from Relate is that we can now talk calmly to each other even if we don't like what the other person is saying so well worth the money. I don't feel as needy or ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 5 April 2007: I would like to thank everyone who has helped me over the last few months. As I still want my husband back and want to come cross in the best possible light can anyone guide me as to how to best behave over Easter. He is coming for the next 4 days, ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 4 April 2007: Things have got a little better recently. Husband although still not home has kept to his word and informed me of his whereabouts, been civil and allowed me to book one or two family events. I have taken a more friendly approach to him on the phone ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 29 March 2007: Things have got a little better after going to Relate and husband has booked another session. We have started being civil to each other and treating each other with respect. Husband came round late last night to talk and we behaved properly, no ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 March 2007: Had Relate session today. Was in the most awful attic type building but actually I benefitted from going!! Husband behaved very well, turned his chair to talk to me and not the councellor, was well mannered and charming. I was upset and cried to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 March 2007: Well another day has gone past and not a sign so I rang. Phone on voicemail so left message. Many hours later got text saying it would call. It didn't so I rang. Said it had flu and not able to go anywhere. Obviously said 'why haven't you rung for 3 ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 24 March 2007: Getting sadder and sadder today because its Saturday and don't know where he is, who it's with or what it is up to. Have not heard anything from him for a while since having a bust up on phone. Relate sesson is booked for Monday and this is also ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 March 2007: Reached a total stalemate between me and the husband now. Everytime we speak we go round in circles, he wanting one thing and me wanting another! Every discussion I have with him tries to cajole him into coming back and he always says lets see what ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 March 2007: Ever so sad and made such a fool of myself. Pushed this chap to come back because I want it and he doesn't . Finding it really hard to accept this and move on. Last night he rang me to say he still wasn't well and I couldn't stop pushing it and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 March 2007: Well here we go again. Husband still living in the City but getting on quite well with each other, being a lot more considerate. He calls all the time to actually speak to me, not child and asks my opinions on things with regard to work etc. We have ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 March 2007: Latest update. Husband came round ( for food) on Sunday and was very pleasant. Told me he had organised sessions for us at Relate because he wants to come back but wants things to be right beween us if it is for the long term and wants someone non ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: Husband had decided he is not returning after all. Says he is being threatened and blackmailed, cannot turn his affections on like a lightbulb and is not coming back under those terms. I am no way near as upset as I thought i would be infact I was ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: Well....... On Saturday when husband came down I called an ultimatum. I had been working myself into a strop and felt very strong with a desire to move on as no mans land makes me ill. Told him in no uncertain terms that I had had enough of his ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 February 2007: Well here we go again! Husband was due to turn up last Thursday night as spending Friday half term with son and wanted early start. Obviously couldn't cope with this and rang to say would be turning up on Friday after all. Anyway went to bed but ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I am beginning to cope with this situation but know this 'do nothing no mans land' cannot go on forever. Very soon he is going to want money to buy/ rent somewhere and then he will commence the divorce proceedings. This subject is never raised by ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 February 2007: Had lunch with the husband in the City today. I made a major effort with my appearance and got lots of looks which bolstered my confidence no end. Husband was miserable and said next to nothing but didn't drink. Child said nothing, husband said ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 February 2007: Hi to all the ladies out there helping me on such a regular basis. Husband came on Sunday and he was very subdued. He was sober and didn't drink anything apart from tea. Said he was on the wagon for a month. Told him that was great and a really good ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 18 February 2007: Situation has worsened because i now feel cross and ashamed. He has rung to speak to child and I was very cold and abrupt and he commented on this. I said I was fine but got him off the phone asap. He also said ' you sound really down' which I ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: Actually had a major setback today. Son is having his first sleep over tonight and god knows what came over me I said to husband that he might like to come round or we could go out and husband went absolutely spastic. Screamed and shouted that he'd ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 February 2007: As you say you can take a horse to water but you cannot make it drink!! Yes, I have tried everything to win him back but he is not having any of it. Out of the blue he rang on Monday to say he had to stay over on Tuesday night as his friend wanted ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 February 2007: Truly terrible weekend. I picked it up from the station, it was hours later than expected and had overnight bag with it. Made no referral to this. He got in the car and wouldn't sit in front, sat in back with son. Miserable as sin. Got home and he ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 8 February 2007: Still not very well, have made myself ill with all this nonsense and not eating etc. He rang last night and said that he was sorry that he couldn't help but was really too busy with his work and that he might pop over Saturday. Asked him again if he ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 February 2007: Husband is back from his pretend business trip (holiday with girlfriend). I was very pleasant on phone and massaged his ego. Quite possibly he is the most arrogant man alive talking about his ability to get people to invest millions in his films etc ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 February 2007: Hi everyone and thank you all for helping me and your excellent advice. I need some help today because I can't be objective - I can't stand back and look at this clearly. Husband is due to fly back from LA at weekend - he has rung a couple of times ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: Eyeswideopen,
Thank you for this. Today is a really bad day as I have found out he has gone on holiday with it to LA for a week or so. Lied to me and said he was away on business but I found out. Feel very tearful and destructive. I know this is a... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 29 January 2007: Finding it very hard to cope without the husband today. He apparently has gone on business to LA for a week, not sure if I believe this - think he has gone on holiday with the girlfriend. His mother rang last night, cut me dead and went straight for ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 24 January 2007: Hi Honey,
Thank you for this. It has been 6 weeks now and he still hasn't come back to me. He is still living in London and seeing the girlfriend and appears to be quite happy. I am still furious but know not showing that I am desperate and need... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 4 January 2007: Thank you so much everyone who has replied. I still feel increasingly angry and even crosser when I am on my own but am not going to do anything. I am going to do nothing for a while and let him get on with it. The advice was really good about not ... (read in full...)
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