My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: Really this is a thank you note to everyone who helped me over the last 2 very stressful years. I am now happily divorced and got a good payout and am getting married again in December to a very different type who treats me very well and actually ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 October 2008: Just an update really. Just come back from court where the interim finances were discussed and to my amazement i got a lot more money than I was hoping for so that has made me chipper. husband still wouldn't look at me or speak to me. He quite ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 September 2008: Still fighting over the money. Ex husband will fight over 50p. I have tried myself and via my solicitors to negotiate a reasonable settlement but all he wants is us out of the marital home so it can be sold and he gets his bit. This is a moot point ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 August 2008: Got back from court last week and I am now officially divorced, just the finances and child contact issues to contend with. Husband read out this long statement detailing all my faults from 15 years back. My barrister said just to switch off. Funny ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 July 2008: Thank you for all your help. Went to court over child contact yesterday and I was practically lamblasted by the judge for not being co-operative and letting my negative feelings affect my child and his relationship with his father. They were so in ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 July 2008: I learned a very valuable lesson today. Was due in court today but on business so unable to attend. Solicitor and Barrister did their best for me but husand turned up and played the sympathy role so all his costs were awarded against me. So so ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Divorce is still going ahead although husband now takes as long as possible to respond to any paperwork at all. He is being ss difficult as he can be over paying bills and has all but opted out over anything to do with our son. He visits on his ... (read in full...)
My best friend is moving away. Now I wont have anyone to hang at school with. What should I do?
Q. My best friend is moving away to a different city. Now I will never be able to see or hang out with her at school anymore when school begins. It is very hard for me to make new friends, because everyone at school has their own friends. I am very ...
A. 29 June 2008: Hi there,
This happened to me at around the same age as you and it is very hard to begin with as most girls are in clicques already. For the first couple of weeks or so after she has left it will be hard but then things will get better believe me. ... (read in full...)
My best friend is moving away. Now I wont have anyone to hang at school with. What should I do?
Q. My best friend is moving away to a different city. Now I will never be able to see or hang out with her at school anymore when school begins. It is very hard for me to make new friends, because everyone at school has their own friends. I am very ...
A. 29 June 2008: Hi there,
This happened to me at around the same age as you and it is very hard to begin with as most girls are in clicques already. For the first couple of weeks or so after she has left it will be hard but then things will get better believe me. ... (read in full...)
Now 6 years later I'm paying the price.
Q. Hi everyone, this is gonna sound gross, but I have a lot of hair on my stomach and some in-grown hairs on my chest, I pluck them but its obvious that hair grows there, I also have hair that grows around my nipple and a few on my neck and chin. I ...
A. 28 June 2008: You are totally normal and the old wives tale of shaved hairs growing back more robust and in greater number is just that - an old wives tale. If you have hairs growing round the nipples as nearly all women do unless they are naturally very pale ... (read in full...)
Any help on making my Curriculum Vitae?
Q. i know this isnt to do with relationships but ive seen that this site is just soo helpful!! i really need a bit of help with writing a CV ive just left school and am looking round for jobs as im bored stupid and also need a litle cash before goin...
A. 25 June 2008: I do this for a living so if you would like help send me a private message and I will do your CV for nothing give you some pointers/ tips.... (read in full...)
Do you always bleed after the morning-after pill?
Q. If you take the emergancy contraceptive pill do you always bleed? - because i havent....
A. 25 June 2008: Hi there,
It made me bleed both times when I took it. I am not sure about the actual medical reasons behind it but on two separate occasions years apart both times it made me bleed. It could make a difference depending on your stage in your mont... (read in full...)
Should I just leave him alone? I feel he's being rude...
Q. I was seeing a guy who i think may have depression we have ended things as he cant cope with a relationship...i have left him alone for a few days and texted him last night just asking if ok as i do worry about you and if you need anything etc etc, ...
A. 25 June 2008: Sometimes when people are really depressed they cannot be bothered to do anything. I know it is rude not to reply and he knows it too its just that he can't force himself to do so. My close friend suffers from severe depression and often won't ... (read in full...)
Husband cheated and other woman got pregnant, what should I do?
Q. A year and a half ago, my husband had an affair. The OW got pregnant. We decided to separate because of this and I moved away. My husband's reasons for starting the affair are many, but one of them being that I didn't want children yet and he ...
A. 25 June 2008: I am very sorry to hear what you are going through. The same thing happened to my best friend. She is married and had absolutely no idea that her husband was having an affair. She is a really good look woman and her husband is very overweight and ... (read in full...)
Is there anyway I could work at winning him back slowly?
Q. I was seeing a guy who i still really like and can't get him out my head, he told me he could not see me but really likes me, but he has anxiety problems, and feelings for his ex. He said he does not want to hurt me as he will let me down as having ...
A. 24 June 2008: Being there as a friend is always good but definitely not pushing for anything more. Just offer your services if he needs anything, any help etc and then back away. If you are a good listener or can lend support without there appearing to be any ... (read in full...)
I'm not willing to become a hermit because of my mother's own problems. Please help!!
Q. I posted a week ago about how I had been struggling to move on with my life after being betrayed by my friends in the past -- best friend started dating my ex two weeks after the break-up when I was very depressed, then both were malicious to me ...
A. 24 June 2008: Gosh this is very unfair. At 16 I went from Peebles to Edinburgh to London on the train to meet my pen pal and there was no trouble or problems. At 18 you should be able to take a trip. To take your debit card is a very strange and controlling move ... (read in full...)
How can I get closure? I still love him.
Q. I'm still in love with my ex, we broke up almost three months ago. He is dating, and i am too. I think he is really into this girl, as for me - i still miss him and love him. He still has some items in my home, and i have to stay in contact with him ...
A. 23 June 2008: Hi there,
What Diovanlestat has said is really spot on. I too am in the same situation and I am trying to accept that my husband doesn't want me anymore.
This is so so hard but you have to try to accept that this man has moved on. The orchid t... (read in full...)
I'm fed up with waiting for someone to find me - what do I do?!??
Q. Lately, i've completley given up on guys and everything to do with them. I haven't been in a relationship since october, and i've had a few crushes which have turned out to hurt me. I've been hurt by guys so many times, I don't know what to do ...
A. 16 June 2008: Your time will most definitely come and it will probably come when you are not looking any more. When I was your age I was the same and desperately wanted a boyfriend. I went out with a few and they dumped me although I was quite pretty and good ... (read in full...)
I hurt the love of my life badly, is there anything I can do to regain his trust?
Q. I was in a relationship for almost 7 years, we broke up for over a year. During the year, I dated this guy for a couple of months, broke it off with him, called my ex of almost 7 years after a couple of months and he welcomed me with open arms. We...
A. 13 June 2008: I think maybe a little time will heal this rift between you. When you are found out in a lie or volunteer to tell the truth the response from the other party alway depends on how much they love you. If they love you they will forgive you. I told ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend can't trust me because I've confided in other people!
Q. Theres a girl I'm in love with and we've been seeing each other for almost a year but not too long ago she lost complete trust in me. She is a very private person and doesn't like sharing her personal life with others. Throughout our relationship ...
A. 12 June 2008: To my mind this is a control issue. She doen't want you talking to others about her or the relationship as she can't control what you are saying / maintain the upper hand. I too am very controlling and was furious when my soon to be ex husband ... (read in full...)
I need good advice on how to cope alone with 3 kids after my husband left me.
Q. I've been married for 11years and now my husband left me for another woman. we have 3 children. we put in the divorce papers. I haven't worked for like 9 years. I have no income i have no job no one that can baby sit my kids for me to work he works ...
A. 10 June 2008: Tellulah has given you excellent advice. Get chatting to some of the other mums at school drop off /pick up time and you will soon forge new friends. Have a look and see if you could do any part time work in the area. It doesn't matter that you ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 June 2008: Hi All,
I have said there is no problem having a DNA test but husband doesn't want to do it now - funnily enough. I know he's taking the solicitor out for meals and things but have no proof of them having sex ( apart from in my heart I know they... (read in full...)
I told a lot of lies. Now she throws it at me when we argue. How do I stop this pattern?
Q. i am lesbian,33 and my civil partner is 24..i told alot of lies in the 1st yr of our relationship and when i got caught out i stopped as i do not want to lose her..she forgave me on condition that i never lie to her again..i have kept my side up but ...
A. 25 May 2008: I had a similar situation to this when I had lied about something early in our relationship. The truth eventually came out and we discussed it in depth. I apologized until I was blue in the face when in truth it had got to the point where I wasn't ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 24 May 2008: Latest news husand now says he is going to contest being childs father and has denied adultery on my divorce petition. Now feel in no mans land as am running out of funds and he has endless funds for his solicitor. I just can't be bothered to deal ... (read in full...)
Hasn't he got it in him to tell me it's over?
Q. hi there, i feel like im going mad. i had up until a couple of days ago what i thought was a normal relationship with my partner and then the other day he walked out. last night he came home and told me that he was leaving me and going back to his ...
A. 17 May 2008: Ok you've got go and have a nice relaxing bath and then sit down and have a cup of tea and watch tele. Do not send any more texts, ring , e-mail or anything. This chap is going for the 'I want a bit of space' thing which they like doing and women ... (read in full...)
I'm going to be a Dad, but she won't get back together
Q. Hi there 6 weeks ago i found out i was going to be a dad, i was shocked at first but realised it was a special thing to happen. Then when we discussed it my partner did not want to live where we where at, she wanted me to move closer to her pa...
A. 15 May 2008: I am really really sorry you are going through this. I can understand how you are feeling. Your girlfriend is obviously going through a number of hormonal changes and she wants to be near her parents as she is obviously apprehensive about being a ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 May 2008: Thank you to all who have helped by offering advice and sharing their stories. Things have gone from bad to worse. Husband has started ringing a lot as the divorce is going through because he is concerned about money. He is exceptionally abusive ... (read in full...)
I'm a bit tired of being the mum and dad, how do I get my partner to contribute??
Q. Right i am in abit of a dilemma, i have been with my partner for just over for years and have 2 children 1 at 2 years and 1 at 1 year. Since the 1 years old has been born, and maybe before that i have done a lot of the house work and have tried spea...
A. 5 May 2008: Maybe she is suffering from a bit of post natal depression. This happened to me after the birth of my children and it made me feel that I had no energy and couldn't be bothered with anything which left my poor husband to do everything. Also having a ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 May 2008: You are right I am being very weak and now have to get on with things. I kept hoping desperately things would change but they never do they just get worse so I will pull myself together , admit to myself it is over and try to move forward and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 May 2008: I have been a bit brighter recently and found that I can actually do things by myself without the help of a man. Had major problem with the car which lost all its electrics on the motorway which was terrifying in rush hour and son was with me.Called ... (read in full...)
Should I just be patient and wait for his call?
Q. Hi, I just recently got back from a vacation where i met an absolutly wonderful guy. He wrote me a little letter before we left, and we were romantically involved. He gave me his cell number, even though it went into the ocean and doesn't work. I al...
A. 1 May 2008: Definitely do not call his house number as this will look like you are a bit needy and are chasing him. He didn't give this to you. As the other posts have said he will be in the process of getting a new cell phone so just keep trying that ( once a ... (read in full...)
How can I tackle my insecurities and get my bf back?
Q. Hi, I'm writing this following my bf splitting up with me last night. I know there are things about me I need to change, but not sure how. I also wonder if there's a way we can be together again - we've had some really good times and after over a...
A. 30 April 2008: Dear Pink Cat,
I would leave him alone for a while. I know this is going to be really hard but I have found that men like space and women in the main do not! During this period of time work on your confidence and self control. I am sure you will... (read in full...)
I'm ashamed of myself and my scars. How can I get over this and talk to people, especially girls?
Q. im 14 im very shy i find it very hard to talk to anyone especialy girls ive never actualy kissed a girl ive had 1 girlfreind and that went no where i really like a girl who i met over the internet ive met her once i dont think she likes me back...
A. 28 April 2008: Honey,
Don't feel down. I have lots of scars on my legs and arms and I have found vitamin e rubbed in is good, Bio oil is also good and as LJ001 said foundation is excellent. If you test the skin tones you can blend them in and they will cover most... (read in full...)
He wants me to move AGAIN, for him. Should I?
Q. My boyfriend and I moved in together and lived together for almost a year. Things got rocky and we broke up. Now we are living in opposite sides of the state and we have been talking a lot. Our communication has really improved and we have ...
A. 28 April 2008: Hi there,
My mother moved for my fathers job 17 times which meant I went to 14 different schools when I was growing up. Oh how I hated it. As you have moved for him before, I personally would not move again. 2 years is nothing in the grand sche... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 April 2008: It went well in court and we agreed to a bit of access which I am happy with. Husbands drinking came out which pleased me no end and he appeared horrified that it had been raised. We never spoke a word or even looked at each other. I felt really sad ... (read in full...)
She won't respond to me so should I try again or just move on?
Q. I recently got to know this girl who works near my place of work and we have spent a lot of time talking to each other up till midnight most days and during work time we constantly sent text messages to each other she new I wanted to be more than ...
A. 20 April 2008: I think Laura is spot on here. Just pretend it never happened. When you see her next just be cool and indifferent - women don't like to be ignored and that will start her wondering!... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 April 2008: Soon to be ex husband has put an emergency court order on me for access to child. This has terrified me and son has to come with me to the hearing on Tuesday. I am so scared and don't know what to expect. I am horrified that things have turned so ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 April 2008: Hi everyone who has helped me,
This is a bit of a strange question but it is costing me a fortune asking my solicitor anything so I wondered if anyone could help if they have had te same experience. The divorce is progressing , very slowly, husb... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 10 March 2008: Thank you all for your help,
Husband came to collect son on Saturday and was even more horrid than normal. Suddenly all the feelings I had for him dissipated and I thought what a rude man he is. I told him he had some kind of a mental problem and ... (read in full...)
Part 2 of "Please help me win my husband back!"
Q. Hi thanks to all you answered the question I posted about "Helping me win my husband back" Ok her are some more details. My husband left me 4 weeks ago because of the way I used to treat him, which was lower him down and call him names(But ne...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi there
I am sorry to hear what you are going through. This happened to me and unfortunately my husband left and didn't come back. He also told me that he felt his love for me had died. At about the same time span as yours he would come round all ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 5 March 2008: Actually the pain this causes in me is unbelievable. The weekend went quite well. As soon as he arrived I went out and when I came back I behaved normally and made coffee etc and talked about school and things. Husband wouldn't look me in the face ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 29 February 2008: Thank you all for your helpful advice. I have been to the solicitor who was good and switched on but bloody expensive. He basically told me to let the divorce go through or cross petition on adultery and concentrate on the finances. It all appears ... (read in full...)
He's asked me to some big family events, do you think this means he's really serious about me?
Q. My bf has invited me to all these big family events of his, such as his dad's b'day celebration and his grandma's and granddad's wedding aniversary as well. All his family will be at them, like his mum, dad, grandparents, siblings, aunty and uncles, ...
A. 29 February 2008: Hi there,
Oh yes!! He is serious!! It's a big thing to meet his family and he obviously thinks a lot of you. This is going well. I know it goes without saying that you will be nice to them and well behaved and he will think even more of you and re-a... (read in full...)
Ladies, what would you enjoy reading in an email from a long lost ex-boyfriend?...
Q. I want to reconnect with an ex I haven't spoken to in 2 years. There's no bad blood between us. We spoke after the break-up a few times on good terms until we both graduated. Ladies, what would you enjoy reading in an email from a long lost ...
A. 29 February 2008: Hi there,
I would be really pleased to receive an e-mail out of the blue from an old boyfriend. I would hope it would talk about times that we spent together and mutually enjoyed and maybe a few comments on jokes and in things that only you and she ... (read in full...)
Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older?
Q. Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older? I am interested in some real life occurances that worked out. Thanks for inputs....
A. 28 February 2008: Hi,
My best friend is married to a lady 25 years his junior. I cannot see what they have in common apart from the fact that he is exceedingly rich and she is very pretty!! They honestly have no idea what the other is talking about when it comes to m... (read in full...)
I'm sure he's cheating, isn't he?
Q. Here is my question. To make a long story short, My boyfriend got a text from a woman that he is supposedly "friends" with, asking if she left a pair of black pants at his house. I calmly asked him how long he had something going on with her. He ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi there,
I also think a woman's instinct is seldom wrong. However, don't do the awful business of ransacking his phone and blls etc instead work on the side of showing what a great catch and girlfriend you are. If you concentrate on suspicion it j... (read in full...)
He is obsessed with my ex, I told him it's all in the past, now we aren't talking,what did I do wrong?
Q. i was seeing this gentleman who would always bring up my old boyfriend. He would not let it go. I finally got upset, said that I don't live in the past. I live right now. He said me if I told him I loved him. I could not understand why he kept ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi there,
You did absolutely nothing wrong. I actually think you will hear from him again as I think he will realise he has behaved in a pathetic jealous way and then it will be up to you if you want to see him again. He does sound very chil... (read in full...)
Which is usually the best pillar for a decision, ration or sentiments?
Q. I made a big decision after fighting my head with my heart for some time. I chose to go with what my head was telling me after months of questioning what I should do. The actual day of my decision I had felt the strongest, that what I chose was the ...
A. 26 February 2008: Everytime I use my heart I make the wrong decision as I get just too emotional. Write things down like the pros and cons etc and then follow your head. Unless you are in love and the person is in love with you the heart always gives you a false ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2008: Hi All,
Well the very worst has happened. Divorce papers came in the post this morning citing unreasonable behaviour. I don't really know why I am shocked as it was bound to come but there had been no verbal warning or anything other than he had ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 8 February 2008: My situation gets worse and worse. I am behaving terribly but don't care as sadly the more time you are separate from the person the less you care about what they think anymore because you know they aren't going to come back. Husband has been back ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 January 2008: things are now at the lowest ebb ever. Husband has stopped communicating full stop, no texts/e-mails or anything anymore. Just pays the bills and cc's. i've tried to be conciliatory but he won't respond to any communication from me at all. I know he ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 January 2008: Husband didn't come for son's birthday as son decided he didn't want him there and I didn't push it. Recently things have gone from bad to worse between me and the husband and now he won't take my calls or answer any texts/e-mails. This situation ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 8 January 2008: On Christmas eve husband sent text to see if he was welcome for Xmas. I let him come for 2 days and it was truly awful- he didn't look at me or speak to my face just talked to the carpet. My son and I couldn't wait for him to go. Made us laugh as he ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Hi everyone who has helped me - thought I'd give you an update. Getting stronger and stronger everyday. Never hear from the 'husband' unless it wants something. He never calls or asks to speak to our son he just sends an e-mail from his office if he ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 September 2007: After being back together since beg July came home the other night and he had bolted!! No phone call, no warning no nothing. Sadly I thought things had been going well. After eventually tracking him down I found out that he was living back in his ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 August 2007: After a terrible holiday together husband has moved back in. Atmosphere is very strained and it is like walking on egg shells but we are trying to be nice to each other and see how things go. He still doesn't want to be here and is definitely here ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 June 2007: I have a question for all those who have helped me so much over the past. Things are going well with me and the husband but there are 2 fundamental stumbling blocks which I cannot get my head round. First - is his mother. We hated each other on... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 June 2007: Things still going well. Husband asked me out for lunch out of the blue. Sadly I ruined this by getting pissed and emotional but that's life!! Husband behaving very very well and being considerate and in return I have stopped calling all the time ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 June 2007: A very strange thing has happened - things have suddenly become a lot better between me and the husband. After a lot of hoo/haaing he decided that he would give the idea of a continental marriage a go. This now works that he spends 4 nights in the ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 30 May 2007: I wonder if any of the aunts out there can help me on this one. Husband has become nastier and nastier when he comes, now every 2 weeks. He is drinking very heavily and when he comes he is threatening, punching the air or the door next to my face ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 May 2007: Made a truly terrible mistake. Husband came at the weekend to see child off on trip. I was very upset as never been separated from son for 6 days and was crying. We went back to the house and had a jacuzzi and some champagne and then one thing led ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 10 May 2007: Hi everyone,
It is now a little while since I got the devastating news that husband wants a divorce. This is resulted in countless rows with me telling him I will contest etc etc. I refuse point blank to go to the solicitor to initiate this as he i... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2007: Hello Everyone,
Well today has been the hardest day of all. I thought things had been going quite well but husband finally managed to say that he wasn't coming back ever, had no feelings for me and wanted to end the marriage. He said he would take... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 April 2007: Please can anyone give me some advice on how to make this situation go the way that I really want it. After 2 relate sessions husband and are now talk to each other without flying off the handle. I have put a deadline date of 1st May on him ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 April 2007: Now getting very close to 1st May. I am so sure that he isn't going to come back that I offered an extension to this time frame but he said it wouldn't make a difference. Husband tried for a while but now spends less physical time actually present ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 April 2007: Things have calmed down considerably between me and the husband. The one benefit from Relate is that we can now talk calmly to each other even if we don't like what the other person is saying so well worth the money. I don't feel as needy or ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 5 April 2007: I would like to thank everyone who has helped me over the last few months. As I still want my husband back and want to come cross in the best possible light can anyone guide me as to how to best behave over Easter. He is coming for the next 4 days, ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 4 April 2007: Things have got a little better recently. Husband although still not home has kept to his word and informed me of his whereabouts, been civil and allowed me to book one or two family events. I have taken a more friendly approach to him on the phone ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 29 March 2007: Things have got a little better after going to Relate and husband has booked another session. We have started being civil to each other and treating each other with respect. Husband came round late last night to talk and we behaved properly, no ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 March 2007: Had Relate session today. Was in the most awful attic type building but actually I benefitted from going!! Husband behaved very well, turned his chair to talk to me and not the councellor, was well mannered and charming. I was upset and cried to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 March 2007: Well another day has gone past and not a sign so I rang. Phone on voicemail so left message. Many hours later got text saying it would call. It didn't so I rang. Said it had flu and not able to go anywhere. Obviously said 'why haven't you rung for 3 ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 24 March 2007: Getting sadder and sadder today because its Saturday and don't know where he is, who it's with or what it is up to. Have not heard anything from him for a while since having a bust up on phone. Relate sesson is booked for Monday and this is also ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 March 2007: Reached a total stalemate between me and the husband now. Everytime we speak we go round in circles, he wanting one thing and me wanting another! Every discussion I have with him tries to cajole him into coming back and he always says lets see what ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 March 2007: Ever so sad and made such a fool of myself. Pushed this chap to come back because I want it and he doesn't . Finding it really hard to accept this and move on. Last night he rang me to say he still wasn't well and I couldn't stop pushing it and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 March 2007: Well here we go again. Husband still living in the City but getting on quite well with each other, being a lot more considerate. He calls all the time to actually speak to me, not child and asks my opinions on things with regard to work etc. We have ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 March 2007: Latest update. Husband came round ( for food) on Sunday and was very pleasant. Told me he had organised sessions for us at Relate because he wants to come back but wants things to be right beween us if it is for the long term and wants someone non ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: Husband had decided he is not returning after all. Says he is being threatened and blackmailed, cannot turn his affections on like a lightbulb and is not coming back under those terms. I am no way near as upset as I thought i would be infact I was ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: Well....... On Saturday when husband came down I called an ultimatum. I had been working myself into a strop and felt very strong with a desire to move on as no mans land makes me ill. Told him in no uncertain terms that I had had enough of his ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 February 2007: Well here we go again! Husband was due to turn up last Thursday night as spending Friday half term with son and wanted early start. Obviously couldn't cope with this and rang to say would be turning up on Friday after all. Anyway went to bed but ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I am beginning to cope with this situation but know this 'do nothing no mans land' cannot go on forever. Very soon he is going to want money to buy/ rent somewhere and then he will commence the divorce proceedings. This subject is never raised by ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 February 2007: Had lunch with the husband in the City today. I made a major effort with my appearance and got lots of looks which bolstered my confidence no end. Husband was miserable and said next to nothing but didn't drink. Child said nothing, husband said ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 February 2007: Hi to all the ladies out there helping me on such a regular basis. Husband came on Sunday and he was very subdued. He was sober and didn't drink anything apart from tea. Said he was on the wagon for a month. Told him that was great and a really good ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 18 February 2007: Situation has worsened because i now feel cross and ashamed. He has rung to speak to child and I was very cold and abrupt and he commented on this. I said I was fine but got him off the phone asap. He also said ' you sound really down' which I ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: Actually had a major setback today. Son is having his first sleep over tonight and god knows what came over me I said to husband that he might like to come round or we could go out and husband went absolutely spastic. Screamed and shouted that he'd ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 February 2007: As you say you can take a horse to water but you cannot make it drink!! Yes, I have tried everything to win him back but he is not having any of it. Out of the blue he rang on Monday to say he had to stay over on Tuesday night as his friend wanted ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 February 2007: Truly terrible weekend. I picked it up from the station, it was hours later than expected and had overnight bag with it. Made no referral to this. He got in the car and wouldn't sit in front, sat in back with son. Miserable as sin. Got home and he ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 8 February 2007: Still not very well, have made myself ill with all this nonsense and not eating etc. He rang last night and said that he was sorry that he couldn't help but was really too busy with his work and that he might pop over Saturday. Asked him again if he ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 February 2007: Husband is back from his pretend business trip (holiday with girlfriend). I was very pleasant on phone and massaged his ego. Quite possibly he is the most arrogant man alive talking about his ability to get people to invest millions in his films etc ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 February 2007: Hi everyone and thank you all for helping me and your excellent advice. I need some help today because I can't be objective - I can't stand back and look at this clearly. Husband is due to fly back from LA at weekend - he has rung a couple of times ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: Eyeswideopen,
Thank you for this. Today is a really bad day as I have found out he has gone on holiday with it to LA for a week or so. Lied to me and said he was away on business but I found out. Feel very tearful and destructive. I know this is a... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 29 January 2007: Finding it very hard to cope without the husband today. He apparently has gone on business to LA for a week, not sure if I believe this - think he has gone on holiday with the girlfriend. His mother rang last night, cut me dead and went straight for ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 24 January 2007: Hi Honey,
Thank you for this. It has been 6 weeks now and he still hasn't come back to me. He is still living in London and seeing the girlfriend and appears to be quite happy. I am still furious but know not showing that I am desperate and need... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 4 January 2007: Thank you so much everyone who has replied. I still feel increasingly angry and even crosser when I am on my own but am not going to do anything. I am going to do nothing for a while and let him get on with it. The advice was really good about not ... (read in full...)
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