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I love him, but dont like sex, I will do anything to avoid it, could this end our relationship ?

Q.   i know this may seem realy silly but i do not like sex. i have been with my partner just over 3 years and try everthing to avoid it. We are both very much in love but have only slep together around 10 times, he keeps asking me but i try my best to ...

A.   26 October 2010: I would say there is nothing wrong with you at all. You sound just like me an 99% of my friends. Our desire is strong for a year or two at the begining of a relationship, but then takes a dive; and if you have kids it falls off the cliff. For me ... (read in full...)

Getting him to take care of himself!

Q.   Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...

A.   15 October 2010: This has gotten me wondering about how sex appears to have a different meaning -generally- for males and females. For me, and other females, it is a bonding, loving expression, or we are usually not into it. But I see with my husband, and males in ... (read in full...)

Getting him to take care of himself!

Q.   Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...

A.   13 October 2010: There are definantly(sp?) two different schools of thought on this issue. One is as expressed by Miamine, the other is quite the opposite and holds that a couples' sex life is meant to be a shared experince with no secret solo activity. I have seen ... (read in full...)

Getting him to take care of himself!

Q.   Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...

A.   12 October 2010: When the shoe is on the other foot it gives you a different perspective doesn't it? (: Seems like the SOs of men who masturbate instead of having sex are hurt by the masturbation, and those of us like me who are burdened by our SOs' requests... (read in full...)

Getting him to take care of himself!

Q.   Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...

A.   12 October 2010: Sorry, but I can't really tell what your question is. Could you restate it?... (read in full...)

Getting him to take care of himself!

Q.   Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...

A.   22 September 2010: Success! After putting off his requests for a week I finally explained to him that I resented having to work on him when I don't feel like it, and that other couples have the man take care of himself when she isn't interested. I told him if he ... (read in full...)

Getting him to take care of himself!

Q.   Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...

A.   15 September 2010: We only have one video monitor, no TV, and it is not in our bedroom. You are so right about the resentment! I am there now and am just not going to do it any more. I am going to use the recommendations you and others have given: We have a few photos ... (read in full...)

Getting him to take care of himself!

Q.   Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...

A.   15 September 2010: We used - before kids came 7 years ago - to have sex almost every day. I still enjoy sex, and orgasm very easily - he always makes sure I come first - I just am very rarely in the mood, and would rather sleep or watch a movie or read a book. I ... (read in full...)

Do women find penises attractive?

Q.   Do women find penises attractive? As a guy I know I'd get easily turned on by thinking of vaginas and boobs, but do women think the same way about a man's penis?...

A.   15 September 2010: Gosh, I am not used to being in the minority on this one. All my friends agree the things are just plain ugly. We like men, but penises are just something we only enjoy during intercourse, otherwise not interested in it.... (read in full...)

Getting him to take care of himself!

Q.   Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...

A.   14 September 2010: Well, I do, hence my question. Problem is, he wants it all the time, and once or twice a month is OK with me. As you can see from the other replies, I am hardly the only wife in this boat, and I would just like some relief, and some suggestions from ... (read in full...)

Getting him to take care of himself!

Q.   Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...

A.   13 September 2010: Gabrielle, If you are taking your top off while you continue what you are doing, id he then masturbating?... (read in full...)

Getting him to take care of himself!

Q.   Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...

A.   8 September 2010: Sorry, I was not clear. He is much more frequently interested in sex than I am. I would be happy if he took over the task of servicing him when I am not in the mood, and I was just wondering if any other women have had any success doing this.... (read in full...)

How can I make him cum quicker?

Q.   Hi, when I give my boyfriend a hand job I usually swap hands because my arm gets sore after a while... but recently I broke my arm, so I can't do this. Is there a way I can get my boyfriend to cum before my arm gets sore when I give him a ...

A.   8 September 2010: Two secrets to getting him to come as quick as you want: (1)baby oil or mineral oil or best, but if you don't have that use any lubricant like hand cream. (2) Once you get him hard, keep stroking him with a firm grip with one hand (unlike his balls, ... (read in full...)

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