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She yelled at me and accused me of cheating. It's only a picture!!
Q. Is this cheating? I have a picture of a female musician on my binder. It's a normal picture, not one where she's half naked or in a slutty pose. Girlfriend: Who's that woman? Me: That's a musician I like. Girlfriend: Do you think she's pretty? Me...
A. 4 November 2008: If i were you I would keep the poster and dump her. haha
okay seriously, she's way insecure and she is being overly controlling. She's young and sounds a lil immature.
You could reassure that she's the only beautiful girl that you know. sweet ta... (read in full...)
Am I a bootycall?
Q. ok I met this guy on myspace his friend was my friend so we started chatting exchanged numbers then started texting a lot! I knew he had a girlfriend but he was just so cute and we have almost EVERYTHING in common we started hanging out first night ...
A. 4 November 2008: of course he's using you. He's having his cake and eating it too. Why would he end it with you or her if he doesn't have too. The only one that is going to get her heart crushed out of all this is YOU.
The only thing to do, is tell him that you ... (read in full...)
Is the perfect girl I met from the internet cheating?
Q. Hi, I am currentley dating a girl that I met from a dating website. She onley lives 10 minutes away too. It's been 3 weeks now and everything is going ok but she always seems to be busy. She will arrange to meet me and then right at the last min...
A. 3 November 2008: Go ahead and take it, but i advise you to set up some boundries and not be a doormat to her. she will take advantage of you and use you.
She knows you won't leave her that is why she is treating you like this.
If you stand up for yourself... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a serious relationship but refuses to take his apartment key back from me. Very confused and hurt...
Q. I started to date an old classmate. I will call him Mark (fake name), that I use to date in high school. We met up and started dating for almost 3mths. We both wanted a friends only deal in the beginning since we were both out of hurtful ...
A. 3 November 2008: He probably is in love with you,
but is sleeping with other women to get over you.
if that makes any sense. He got scared gettting close to you so now he's doing everything possible to get away from you. Men are weird that way.
The question ... (read in full...)
Should I apologize for stealing their bf's?
Q. okay, the end of my sophmore year in high school i hooked up with a long time friend. the only problem was, he had a girlfriend. we started hooking up more regularly and eventually his girlfriend found out. she got really mad, yelled at me, and ...
A. 3 November 2008: Um...you should if you truly in you're heart feel bad and won't do it again. Be sincere and genuine. However, since it was only 5 months ago, I have a feeling that your intentions are not real.
I think you get a power trip knowing you can get any ... (read in full...)
Wayward husband got another woman pregnant! I need advice!
Q. Me and my husband have been married for 6 years and within those years, we always had arguement about money and support he was not giving me and to the birth of my baby daughter and other women. A year ago, he had affair, forgave him, but he left ...
A. 3 November 2008: You need to let this loser go, and move on with your life.
He does not respect you and that is why he is treating you like this. It's hard because he is your first love, but you have to know that there are better men who will love you the way you ... (read in full...)
He said 'it's not his fault' that I'm pregnant!
Q. please can someone help me because i really dont know what to do! my boyfriend and i had been together for just four months and he knew i was no where near ready for sex, even though im 16 and legal n all that i didnt feel physically ready for it! ...
A. 3 November 2008: WoW! i am so sorry you are going through this. But you need to tell your mom. you are still underage and her responsiblitly. Of course at first she will get mad at first, but then her instinct will kick in and she will want to protect you. Don't go ... (read in full...)
My bf went back to his ex wife without saying a word to me! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months, has in the last month has gone back to his ex wife without even telling me,i dont know what to do or think, we did not live together but i thought that he could have wrote a letter or something to tell me but i have not ...
A. 3 November 2008: You have no choice but to accept him and move on.
And if he later calls and try to get back with you it's because his ex dumped him. So don't take him back because he is a loser and wasn't man enough to take responsibility
for his actions. What a c... (read in full...)
Should I deposit money in her account without telling her?
Q. My girlfriend works as a nanny for a large family, which for some reason in the last 3 months have somehow not paid her on time, sometimes her wages are paid 1 week late, meaning that she sometimes is low or runs out of money, i have offered her ...
A. 3 November 2008: if she said she did not want your help, then you should
listen to what she wants. Not what you want for her.
You've offered and it the best you can do. Just be supportive in other ways and offer to pay everytime you are with her... (read in full...)
We just split up and I feel miserable, please help!
Q. me and my boyfriend just split up he says he needs space so i have not seen him for a while, we text eachother fine, but when i ask him what he wants he replies i love you but i don't know, our sex life hasn't been great for a while and he seems ...
A. 2 November 2008: i completely agree with Icelordess. He needs his space.
Sometimes us girls come on too strong and the just need to breath. Let him be alone to sort things out.
I understand he's your first love, but maybe it's time to see what's out there. y... (read in full...)
Is sex with your loved one a major part of the relationship?
Q. Is sex with your loved one a major part of the relationship?...
A. 2 November 2008: i say it is. Its the ultimate connection you feel with another person. All marraiges and relationships eventually die when the sex dies. ... (read in full...)
I've emailed him and asked him out for a drink but haven't heard back yet...
Q. I've been at my new job now for 1 month, me and my male boss get on very well. He is 31 and I'm 19. He is single and has a child. He talks to me a lot about his life, most of the time he is the one to start a conversation with me. I asked him out ...
A. 2 November 2008: i agree. keep it professional. cause if it doesn't work out, it'll be too awkward. Also, he is probably being friendly..don't think too much into it. no need to get an answer from him because he probably didn't think too much of it. ... (read in full...)
Is the perfect girl I met from the internet cheating?
Q. Hi, I am currentley dating a girl that I met from a dating website. She onley lives 10 minutes away too. It's been 3 weeks now and everything is going ok but she always seems to be busy. She will arrange to meet me and then right at the last min...
A. 2 November 2008: Dump her. The first 3 weeks should be bliss.
If she ask why? Tell her it takes two people to be in a relationship and right now if feels like you're the only one in it. Go with your instinct...it is usually correct... (read in full...)
Ex-boyfriend a bit too friendly? Am I being used or pulled into a FWB?
Q. Ok, so me and my ex-bf have been split for about three months now. He broke up with me for some internet friend and said they were so in love that she was going to move down here next year... then she broke up with him a month after they got ...
A. 2 November 2008: Yes..you are definitely being used. He is feeling rejected and needs a woman to fill his ego. Although, he probably cares about you, he does not love you because he left you for another girl. As a woman, we have compassion for the men that we care ... (read in full...)
Everything happens for a reason?
Q. Hey you guys well me writing this question is proof that i'm still here!!! LOL!!! well i know everything happens for a reason. well the day i met the str8 guy was like destiny. well a new kid just transferred to my class and he took my seat, me ...
A. 19 October 2008: don't think more of it than it already is. I bump into people and lock eyes with people all the time. It doesn't mean that it's destiny that we are suppose to live happily every after. although I do believe in fate/destiny mumbo jumbo...you also ... (read in full...)
Sometimes when we're kissing he has his eyes closed, which is very odd to me.
Q. I've been dating a guy for about four months now and I really care about him a lot. He tells me he loves me and I tell him I love him. He's eleven years older than me but I don't think that really matters. I love him. I do have a concern though. ...
A. 17 October 2008: i never open my eyes either. okay. to peek once in a while but most of the times it's closed because i'm wrap up in enjoying the moment. i think it's because if you close you eyes... then your only sense that would be working is your sense of touch. ... (read in full...)
Do I ride it out and see how it goes, and go to Japan with her?
Q. Hi Everyone, Where do I start. Well I met this girl a while ago through a friend after I had gone through a rather emotional patch. She's Japanese and 30 years old - and I'm 23. She can't speak english very well at all and I communicate with her...
A. 14 October 2008: you sound like you care for her a lot.
she is obviously very special to you. I think since the tickets are already bought, I think you go should ahead and take the holiday trip with her and then make your decision aferwards. That way you can see ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend proposed and I said no because I wasn't ready. I feel guilty.
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years proposed to me. I told him no because i'm not ready to get married. I do feel a bit guilty cause he was a little upset. We've been fighting about dumb stuff (like who forget take out the trash.) What should I do? The guilt is ...
A. 7 October 2008: don't feel guilty. Its okay to say no if you have doubts.
Better to make yourself happy then be miserable making him happy.... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, but I will try not to see him
Q. I began to fall in love with my civics teacher six months ago( now im in college). He's not handsome but really nice. Im actracted by his personality. He's a caring person. I remember one time he cried because one student died for car acci...
A. 4 October 2008: Honestly, there are some people in life we fall head over heals for but in reality we will never be with. This is just a fact of life and something you have to learn to accept. He was your civics teacher, so he is off limits to you. What you are ... (read in full...)
STD from a dog?
Q. I came home from work early and saw my girlfriend at the time uploading videos to the web. When i logged onto the PC i went to check out what she recorded. It seems my ex-girlfriend engaged is sexual acts with my German Sheppard. She literally had ...
A. 4 October 2008: my first thought is ...is this a joke?
but i have heard people have done this. The thought is so repulsive. EWW. anyway,.. just go get tested and do your research online to see if their are any disease that can be transmitted through animals. Afte... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband about my one night drunken affair?
Q. I feel horrible, before me and my husband got married I slept with someone else but I never told him because I know he would of left me over it, but it seriously a drunken mistake. I told him once before when I cheated and he forgave me. What should ...
A. 4 October 2008: why did you marry so young when inside you knew you weren't ready? I think you still want to have fun and not commit to one person. However, what's done is done. you can't turn back time. What you can do is focus on your marriage and your husband. ... (read in full...)
I feel like it's all my fault. I can't stop thinking about him.
Q. I met this guy in early March and he gave me his number. We started going out for drinks together and getting to know each other. We soon got involved in a sexual relationship and he told me that he wanted more than sex one day but wasnt ready for a ...
A. 4 October 2008: i believe you posted on here already, but i will answer you again.
First off...Stop telling him YOU LOVE HIM. you don't even know him to love him. You know nothing about the guy.
What you want so badly is for him to love you. Which he sense an... (read in full...)
Wow! Have I blown it?
Q. I met this guy about seven months ago in a karaoke bar. We started talking and afetr a few weeks we exchanged phone numbers. We ended up sleeping together several times and I really liked him. In the summer I had to go away for work purposes and he ...
A. 4 October 2008: Because you slept with him early on without taking time to build a relationship he will only see you as his booty call. That is why he never text you back. And for him to say that he did. He is lying to you as well. don't be so naive, this guy is a ... (read in full...)
How do you gain a thicker skin in life?
Q. For most of my life I have tried so hard to get people to like me. I'm quite a sensitive person and I was always the "nice girl." While this had it's rewards, I didn't feel I could really express myself. In recent years, I've begun stating my mind ...
A. 4 October 2008: This is something i am working on to this day.
I was the epitomy of a nice girl. Until one day, I woke up and had enough of people taking advantage of it.
I think you learn to set boundries with people. What they can do or say. And when they cro... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend want to spend time with me? What's wrong with me?
Q. I have been with my fiance one year now and we only see each other twice a week. The two days out of the 7 he would rather spend at home or with my family. I get all dressed up trying to look cute and you would think since we only have those two ...
A. 4 October 2008: i dissagree with talking to him.
Honestly, i think he's scared about the prospect of getting married. Men are afraid to lose their freedom, and marry a "needy" or clingy girl.
To show him that you are not one of those girls, go out and do your own... (read in full...)
I cant tell whether hes just naturally flirty or is he even interested in me at all?
Q. i met a guy about 3 months and that night we began texting each other and talking on msn. we got on really well but the next week i went on holiday but not before we arranged to go to a gig together. throughout the holiday he emailed me and when i ...
A. 4 October 2008: first of all, you have to look at how you feel about him. Do you like him as a friend, or are you starting to have more feelings for him and like him as a boyfriend.
If you look at how you feel, and realize that you like him a lot more than a brot... (read in full...)
We've been married four years and I still haven't met his family - should I be worried by this?
Q. Me and my husband are in our fourth year of marriage , blessed with two beautiful girls, but the problem is, up to now i haven't meet any of his family knowing that they are just a minute away...sometimes i kept asking him "why?" but i cant get ...
A. 2 October 2008: A lot of people grow up in broken homes, and sometimes we just are not close to our family because they hurt/harm us more than help us. If you want to get down to the bottom of this, instead of asking him and getting a reason. I say find the phone ... (read in full...)
The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all. I also love someone else. Please help.
Q. Me and my husband were just married June 14th 2008 and i'm not in love with him. The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all, and therefore somebody was going to get married that day! Anyway, I've been in love with...
A. 1 October 2008: If you don't love him, let him go.
plain and simple. tell him in a nice way, that you want out..and take the nessessary steps to get a divorce.
You still have the power to change yours and your kids life. You are young and if your not happy in... (read in full...)
We've been married four years and I still haven't met his family - should I be worried by this?
Q. Me and my husband are in our fourth year of marriage , blessed with two beautiful girls, but the problem is, up to now i haven't meet any of his family knowing that they are just a minute away...sometimes i kept asking him "why?" but i cant get ...
A. 1 October 2008: Most people want to run from their inlaws. lol.
Count it as a blessing.
Ask yourself why you want to meet them? Is is because secretly you think he doesn't love or care about you enough to introduce you to them?
Or you think he has a secret lif... (read in full...)
Talking to her on myspace but having trouble approaching her in real life. How can I talk to her in person?
Q. There is this girl i want to date. I added her on myspace about 2 weeks ago. We have been talkin on there. Since then, I gave her my number to txt me but she still hasnt. I havent talked to her in school yet I see her all the time. I never no ...
A. 1 October 2008: yup..you're the guy. YOU ASK FOR HER NUMBER. you don't give out your number. You like her, so you pursue her.
by you giving out your number,it shows you weren't sure that she like you and you didn't want to get rejected..and you weren't conf... (read in full...)
We broke up as he wanted to examine his feelings and focus on himself, so we cut all contact! How can I get him back if we don't talk?
Q. Hey guys So .. my boyfriend of a year broke up with me month and a half ago. We completely stopped talking and seeing each other. He said, he needed time on his own, to think about his life and focuse on himself. I tried to understand and I...
A. 29 September 2008: I hate to tell you but sometimes you just have to accept that things are over and move on. As painful as it is, if one person doesn't want to be in a relationship there is nothing you can do. He asked you for his space, and you have to respect his ... (read in full...)
I'm young, I don't want to be trapped in a pointless relationship for the rest of my life, so please, help me.
Q. Hi. this is actually weird and hard to type and to share with everyone, as i havent spoke about this to my best mates, or my family, as i know wht theyll say, but i dont know if i want to except it. I'm 17 and have been goin out with my bf, who is 2...
A. 29 September 2008: Yeah, your relationship is over and you are holding on to something that is obviously broken. The trust and respect is gone, and its not worth it to put in the effort to repair it. You are young, and should be out there dating and seeing other men. ... (read in full...)
He hates my past so he calls me ugly and disgusting! How do I cope with this?
Q. My boyfriend hates my past. Even though it wasn't terrible, I mean most people would think it's mild (the worst I did was give oral sex to a friend once). So yeah, but it bothers him. We were arguing, and he told me how ugly and disgusting I am....
A. 29 September 2008: Dump this loser and take the time you need to find yourself and love yourself. It will be hard at first, but then you will find strength. Build your self-esteem and confidence by looking at the great qualities that you possess. It's not all about ... (read in full...)
My ex suffered a terrible tragedy. How do I support him?
Q. My ex suffered a terrible tragedy and now I don't know what to do. My ex of 2 years decided to finally pick up his stuff the weekend before I move (I have been asking for 2 months, he lives 2 hours away and I am moving 1 hr further away). H...
A. 29 September 2008: If you are adament the relationship is over, then I agree with your Mom. Let the relationship go and move on.
You really don't owe your ex anything.
Right now he's going through a tough time and wants you there by his side. He's also using it... (read in full...)
Should I Marry Someone That I Am Not 100% attracted to and may become fat in the future?
Q. Should I marry a woman that I am not entirely attracted to and might get fat in the future? She is one of my best friends and has everything I want in a woman... but I can tell she does not work-out enough to maintain a healthy body and always finds ...
A. 26 September 2008: i think attracting is huge in keeping a marraige alive.
However, you can not marry her and try to change her. Only she can change when she's ready.
The only thing you can do is accept she is who she is ..and if you marry her, then that is what ... (read in full...)
I give my wife everything, but she's always mad at me. What do I do?
Q. I'am a 24 year old with one kid and a wife but the thing is my wife dont deserves me but i love her and want to give her the world. Shes never has to work and i do my best to get it if i dont have it but i never say no.she all ways mad at me and i ...
A. 26 September 2008: You need to tell her no.
Then she will respect you. Sometimes when we love someone so much we think if we keep giving , they will love us the way we deserve, but the truth is ,they walk all over us.
So stand up..be a man. Don't let her walk all... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair with an older woman, now my girlfriend has asked me to marry her!
Q. I'm 23 years old, and have been in a steady relationship for 2 years now. However, for the last 6 months I have been having an affair with an older women. She's 45, and I know that there's no future with this woman, but I enjoy her company. My gi...
A. 25 September 2008: If you are cheating on your girlfriend, then there is obviously something missing in your relationship with her.
Just because she ask you doesn't mean you have to say yes.
Call me old fashion but isn't the guy suppose to ask the girl?
I think y... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him just to keep the relationship going?
Q. hi .. my boyfriend and i have known eachother for over 6 months now .. and we havnt had sex yet. He has been asking me to have sex with, but im just nervous. i realy love him and he said he feels the same way, and just the other day he said to me i ...
A. 22 September 2008: something is telling you it's not right, and you don't want to have sex. So you better listen to it.
You will know when you're ready. If the relationship ends because he's not getting sex, than you know he's not the one for you and good ridd... (read in full...)
Should I wreck their relationship so I can have him?
Q. ok so there is this boy and we are both 13 he is my nextdoor nieghbor! I really like him and he flirts with me all the time. even my parents like him but he has a girfriend and i want to go out with him so bad it makes me feel so sad when i see them ...
A. 22 September 2008: there's nothing you can do but be his friend until they break up. Just be yourself, act cool, and maybe he'll like you better and break up with her for you.
BUT ..don't interfere in their relationship and do anything to break them up. Karma's a bi... (read in full...)
I'm 15, have sex regularly and not always protected. How comes I haven't fallen pregnant yet?
Q. hello im a 15 year old girl, have sex near enough regularly and some of the time i use a condom but its like rarely. im just wondering how come i havent fell pregnant yet?is there something wrong with me or is it normal?please help! x...
A. 21 September 2008: why are you testing it? Do you secretly want a baby?? At 15. Thank your lucky stars you aren't pregnant. Go to the ob/gyn and get yourself checked and also ask her to put you on birth control. If you think you are old enough to have sex, than be ... (read in full...)
Why do I think like this, about her past?
Q. Hello, i am one very confused person. Basically i met this girl over 2 years ago and we fell in love and are engaged everything was great with us until we started talking about her history. We never talked about it much before, always figured s...
A. 21 September 2008: these are your issues and not her. She didn't do anything wrong and you are letting your insecurities ruin a good relationship. You are thinking too much about her looking at the house down the same street. Do you want her to close her eyes each ... (read in full...)
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