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He made me feel like a dirty little slut
Q. Hello Friends! I have a scenario that I would like your opinion on. I was having a nice conversation with my boyfriend last night, and the topic turned to Hollywood actors. I was telling him who my favorites were. And then I said, Johnny Depp is ...
A. 14 March 2009: I don't think you did anything wrong. These are actors that
We will never meet. They are famous because they are hot!
And we dream of being with them. But there's a difference between
Fantasy and reality. Personally I think your guy is insecure.... (read in full...)
What do you think would've happened if I'd gone through with it?
Q. I just got into a relationship with this guy named Josh. He's so sweet, and I really like him. We'd just gotten together on March 10th. (just a few days ago) Tonight I went over to his house for the first time. We played with his dog for a while...
A. 14 March 2009: U did the right thing. If it didn't. Feel right you have 2 trust your instincts.
Take it super slow. Get to know him more so that you are super
Comfortable with him. It he's the right one to lose it to then he will stick
Around. Don't doubt ... (read in full...)
I hate adult friend finder
Q. ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and a half and last year he have me his email and pw so I could go and fix something for him, so while I was on his email i came across this adult friend finder thing and I went to his page ...
A. 13 March 2009: okay. First you need to calm down. You have every right to feel betrayed and angry, but what you need to do now is catch him. get prove that he is "cheating"
As much as you are hurting now, you have to face the truth. Think with your head and not ... (read in full...)
I cheated and he broke up with me does that mean he never loved me?
Q. So I cheated with my ex when my boyfriend an I were broken up. He broke up with me 2 weeks after christmas with no explanation, he wouldnt talk to me at all. Now 3 months later I built up the courage to tell him because i cant keep things from him.. ...
A. 12 March 2009: He walked away because he realize you are not
The girl for him . I'm sure he love u .. But the question is,. Did u love
Him? Obviously not to sleep with an ex so quickly.
Let him and the relationship go, it's over but Learn
From it so u won't ma... (read in full...)
He flirts like crazy on line, but I don't think he would really cheat. Do you think this is ok behaviour?
Q. I am getting married in 2 months. My fiance and I have a great relationship, however, sometimes I find it hard to trust him. I have found a few emails he has had with other girls, flirting and asking them to come over. We have had open ...
A. 12 March 2009: I think u are in denial. None of this will change after marraige.
Trust is huge in a relationship and if u don't have that u don't
Have anything. If u could accept marrying a big flirt then go for it.
But don't expect him to change. He is who he... (read in full...)
So desperate to be with me and yet now he never calls?
Q. Hello to all of you, I am currently going out with a man, he says he loves me very much but there is something that happened recently which got me thinking a lot about his feelings. It's been a long time since we met and he was very really very eag...
A. 12 March 2009: he's not into you. He either got what he wanted "sex" .. And moved on
Or realize u were too much work to get it. Whatever the case his actions
Proves that he's doing his own thing withou thinking of you
So I think u should not waste another thou... (read in full...)
Should I really believe he's just that busy or is it all about sex?
Q. Hey, I'm so confused right now. I'm currently in medical school and I met a guy who is also in my class. We have many mutual friends, and we've hung out at a couple of parties together. My third time hanging out with him we ended up sleeping ...
A. 7 March 2009: Honestly. YOu should stop overanalyzing too much out of this. If he is nice, then enjoy his kindness.
Only time will tell what his intentions are.
Right now. concentrate on yourself and passing medical school.Every second you spend thinking... (read in full...)
She wants to elope!!!
Q. I have been with with my girlfreind for four months, we planned a trip to Jamaica and she has been talking about eloping after we get there, she went online and even looked up everything we have to do and how long we have to be on the island before ...
A. 6 March 2009: it doesn't matter if she's in love with you. Are you in love with her? 4 months is too early to even think about marraige. Take the time to get to know each other first.
Don't do it!!!... (read in full...)
Should I really believe he's just that busy or is it all about sex?
Q. Hey, I'm so confused right now. I'm currently in medical school and I met a guy who is also in my class. We have many mutual friends, and we've hung out at a couple of parties together. My third time hanging out with him we ended up sleeping ...
A. 6 March 2009: I disagree. I think your roomate is right. "He's just not into you". You instincts are telling you this because he actions prove it. He doesn't want you as a girlfriend, but doesn't want to lose his sex supply either. (no offense)
thats why when... (read in full...)
I don't think he loves me... should I leave him?
Q. I live with a guy, he tells me he loves me but he never wants to kiss me or have sex with be but he wants me to give him oral sex when he watchs porn. He sometimes has sex with other girls! We have been living together 5 months. Should I leave ...
A. 23 February 2009: Start packing now. This guy does not love you and he does not respect you.
Find your self respect and leave this loser. ... (read in full...)
I've had two abortions, and still want a baby... I need guidance, help me!
Q. Hi im 15 like all girls that came on this page i want a baby too...but my situation kinda different from everyone elses on why i want a baby ... my boyfriend is 17 now he just turned 17 ...and a year ago i was a pregnant twice and got two aborti...
A. 23 February 2009: You are asking for a life of pain and suffering if you go ahead and have a baby at your age.
You will struggle to make ends meet, work 9-5 for barely nothing, and although you love your boyfriend now... there is no guarantee that he will stick arou... (read in full...)
How do you know FOR SURE when a man has REALLY lost interest in you?
Q. I had a really really bad date with a man I am seeing for 7 months the other day - I now question whether he has lost interest in me or is simply playing mind games again. Your thoughts as usual would be much appreciated. Please give me opinions for ...
A. 23 February 2009: Dear B...
iknow you like him but why? he took you to McD for goodness sake. he treats you like crap. From everything that you wrote. I hate to tell you this but he is "not into you anymore" .
he is only using you for sex. i think he's become a... (read in full...)
My BF makes comments about famous women, and I hate it - am I being too harsh?
Q. My boyfriend makes comments about famous women when we are watching tv or if he sees a magazine. It seems rude to me. My first instinct is to say, well if you like the way she looks enough to brag about it to your girlfriend, then maybe you are with ...
A. 23 February 2009: You're thinking too much about it. You cannot compare yourself to celebrities. he's appreciating their beauty and it has nothing to do with you.
Most likely he will never find anyone that looks like Angelina. Be confident in your own skin, appr... (read in full...)
Is he really that into me or was I just serving a purpose?
Q. I joined a dating site back in Sept and after a few weeks I met someone. We went out on a date and met up a few times before christmas but with conflicting schedules we kept in touch casually. Im suppose I was old fashioned at teh begining and I ...
A. 22 February 2009: hey tedster..
It's not that women are "dumb" It's just that when we like someone, we want to trust what they say and believe them. Is that so wrong? I use to believe everything a guy say to me..and its sad but now everytime a guy speaks all i he... (read in full...)
How do you truly get over someone who you still think is still so amazing? How will I trust someone again?
Q. My now-ex boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, after 11 months (to the day.. 11 month anniversary) of dating each other. He said he just doesn't love me any more. I want to hate him, but I still love him. I accept his flaws, I want to tell him good ...
A. 22 February 2009: Time is the only answer. It is still raw so you have no choice but to feel the pain. But just know that EVERYBODY and i mean everybody has gone through this feeling.
Life can't always be perfect and smooth sailing.
The fastest way to heal is ... (read in full...)
Is he really that into me or was I just serving a purpose?
Q. I joined a dating site back in Sept and after a few weeks I met someone. We went out on a date and met up a few times before christmas but with conflicting schedules we kept in touch casually. Im suppose I was old fashioned at teh begining and I ...
A. 22 February 2009: i think he is needing his space to soak up everything in.
Since you guys arent really together, i say just wait for him to come around. You already made the effort and he doesn't then you'll know that he really wasn't into you.
He could be lying... (read in full...)
My ex and I still love each other after 9 years of on and off, should we make it work this time?
Q. Dear Cupid, when I was 20 I met a wonderful young man of 22. We started dating and became deeply in love with each other. We dated for 2 and half years, then in our first year of university I decided to come to canada to continue and he went to ...
A. 22 February 2009: i have to agree with the anonymous writer. If he truly love you..he would have done anything ...i mean anything to be with you. Why do you have to drop everything and run to him. He should be running to you to prove his love to you.
Look this man... (read in full...)
We're not financially ready, but I really want a baby!
Q. So my boyfriend and I got back together after a very long 2 1/2 month split. He came back, and we are now happier than before. I love this guy with all of my heart, and we are waiting patiently for the right time to get married. Something else I ...
A. 22 February 2009: I know you don't want to hear this but if you are not financially ready, this will bring strain to the relationship if you have a baby. As a woman, our clock is ticking and we want to have a child with the man we love so that we can be with them ... (read in full...)
Was I right to end it with him over lying?
Q. I just broke up with my bf today over his lying to me. He is being scammed at work by a coworker and loaned this guy nearly $5000! The guy disappeared and never paid him back. When I got wind of this he told me he had only loaned him $500. The...
A. 22 February 2009: you can't doubt yourself. The trust is gone in the relationship. and without trust then the relationship is doomed. Everyone tell white lies because they can't own to the fact to what they did..but I would also be more bothered by how gullible he ... (read in full...)
This great guy doesn't love me?
Q. I met a wonderful guy about two months ago. The problem is is that he knows my daughters father, no they are not friends. They've hung out at the clubs a few times, but thats it. They know each other from another friend. Now I met him in a club and ...
A. 20 February 2009: guys that age is only looking one thing. to get in your pants. Soooo of course he said and did all the right things. to get you hooked. and it it worked.
So. If you had sex with him..then he got what he wanted and moved on.
OR... he realize ... (read in full...)
He's so awesome, but isn't completely honest.
Q. I am 35, divorced and a mother of a 9year old boy. My current boyfriend (aged 45) and I have been together 5years.He told me from word go that he was married, having problems with his wife and was in the process of trying to get a divorce.There was ...
A. 20 February 2009: It's not that He can't let you go. It's the opposite.
YOu can't let HIM go. You know he's a cheater...and a liar.
but you made yourself believe you will not find anyone that will love you or your son better than him.
Its not the money, but y... (read in full...)
What should I do if my hubby bought his lover a valentine present and nothing for me?
Q. What would you do if you found out your husband having an affair and brought his lover a valentine present and nothing for you. He says he still wants his marriage to work and his affair meant nothing he just enjoyed the thrill the thought of him n...
A. 20 February 2009: Stop being a doormat. Stand strong and kick him to the curb. Wow! that is the lowest of the low.
he didn't give you a gift cause he thinks you will always be there. you're not going anywhere.
and it's true you are putting up with his cheating... (read in full...)
Sex in public
Q. So, I love the idea of potentially getting caught having sex—that is of course without actually getting caught. Sex in risque places is just a big turn-on for me. So, I was wondering…where are some good places to have sex at with the least chance of ...
A. 20 February 2009: Up a tree??? haahha. that's funny. lol. gotta try that someday... (read in full...)
Call me a bitch or a whore but you know I'm right.
Q. I really laid it on thick with this guy who already had a girlfriend. I even made made him cheat on his girlfriend by having sex with him while they were together. They were together for two years and broke up two months ago after she caught us ...
A. 20 February 2009: you sound like a lost child. i will pray for your soul.... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and don't want anything to do with sex!
Q. Ok I'm 14 and don't want any thing to do with any thing even related to sex is that good or is there something wrong? Like I even think masturbating is a waste of time plz give me your advice! ...
A. 20 February 2009: what are you talking about??? YOU ARE NORMAL!! The older you are having sex the better. I didn't know anything about sex and was quite niave until 18.
Don't get peer pressured into sex. Don't let the media and friends affect you. I wish all teen... (read in full...)
My b/f seems to be pulling away and I'm not sure what to do about it!
Q. Any help and advice anyone can give I would really appreciate it. My boyfriend and I are both in our 20's and have been dating for 4 years. I love him very much but lately (as in the past few months) he seems to be pulling away from me. He is ...
A. 20 February 2009: He's hinting he wants to break up and see other people.
He's doesn't have the guts to do it but he prolly wants to see what's out there. Sorry ..but guys do that.
women always inverst more in relationships than men.
we think about it...want it... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonably selfish here or is something else at work?
Q. I am strangely and suddenly conflicted. I broke up with my ex-wife a few years ago, we still have a couple of minor children and get along great as friends. We were together for many years. On some level, we still love each other though her ...
A. 18 February 2009: you don't want her, but you don't want anyone to have her either. Yes. it's selfish.... (read in full...)
Marriage before I go away to the navy??? Or not...?
Q. My boyfriend says that he wants to marry before I go into the NAVY and that this is our engagement stage.... oh yeah we have been dating for 7 months... but any how when I tell our mutural friends he comes back and asks me why did I tell them that ...
A. 18 February 2009: first off...nowadays marraige is not even a guarantee you will be together forever.
You've only dated him 7 months and this is the guy for you FOREVER? You are so young. concetrate on yourself and your life. not him. whatever happens ...h... (read in full...)
G/f cheated while I was deployed, now I struggle with trust issues!
Q. I want to first start by saying sorry if my typing grammar may not flow well. As you can tell I am in the military (air force) and have been for 12 years now. I am 30 years old and my area in work in the military is under special operations through ...
A. 17 February 2009: she doesn't sound like the right girl for you.
You're job requires a strong woman who will love you unconditionally. Be there thick and thin. I don't take she has what it takes to be a military wife. Don't settle ...keep looking for the right girl... (read in full...)
I have a desire to have sex with my sister, what do you think?
Q. i need help to sleep with my sister but she says that she is complely by say that that stuff is gross when ever its mentioned. i feel like she just say that to convince her self. when we were little we would alwaly show eachother our privite parts ...
A. 17 February 2009: I think we are all disgusted and grossed out by this because never in a million years we would ever think of sleeping with our brothers/sisters. It's taboo and wrong on so many levels. However, I read an article about how a woman had a physical ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt the children more to grow up in a divorced home or an unhappy one with the parents together?
Q. I was engaged to my ex for 5 years. We ended up breaking up for a stupid reason and I didn't contact him for months. He ended up sleeping with a girl and getting her pregnant after the break up. I found out later. We spoke and texted everyday and ...
A. 17 February 2009: I think you need to take a step back and ask yourself why you are still involved with this man. During a "break" he went out and gotten another girl pregnant. Not only that. He is now married to her. why are you justifying it saying they are only ... (read in full...)
Should I hold on to her? Even if our relationship time is limited?
Q. I just need advice. Ok, so here's what's going on. I'm pretty much in my first real relationship, the girl I'm going with is great. But recently, she told me she plans on keeping her virginity until she's married which is a bit of a bummer because...
A. 17 February 2009: If things are going good why end it now? Unless you don't think you can handle a sexless relationship.
In that case be honest with yourself and her and end it now. why do i have a feeling if she was giving it up you wouldn't think twice about endi... (read in full...)
I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend...
Q. hey guys I really need everyones opinion on this please im realllllly confused atm... I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend 3 months into out 10 month relationship... it was a funny way we started the relationship... ...
A. 17 February 2009: Personally I think you are the rebound girlfriend to him to get over his ex. he probably is still in love with her and she doesn't want him so you are 2nd in line and he doesn't want to lose you because who else is he going to run to for sex. I know ... (read in full...)
I've been holding back too much, I want to let myself go and show how I truly feel
Q. There's someone who i really like at my college. The first time i saw his face there was this instant attraction, and finally after a few weeks we began talking and are now pretty good friends. He does know how i feel about him because i told him ...
A. 17 February 2009: guys love the chase and when they know a girl like them first there is no excitement for them. So now you have to try to stop crushing on him. When he realize that you lost interest he might then wonder what happen and start coming your way. It ... (read in full...)
Can any one suggest a way to kill off unwanted emotions?
Q. Can any one suggest a way to kill off unwanted emotions? Long story made short, I'm married for 6 years with 3 gorgeous kids and a fabulous husband. We have a great life together, all except I seem to not fancy my husband any more, I love him ...
A. 17 February 2009: the grass is greener on the other side.
you are bored with your marraige and everyday life.
How about spicing up your marraige with date night and reconnecting again. Three kids can make tiresome. You can fall in love with your husband all over... (read in full...)
Professor Hottie
Q. I'm 19 and I'm in my second year of University. I've been taking a class since September, and recently in the second semester, I've developed this massive crush on my professor. It all started when I had to go to his office to get help with a...
A. 17 February 2009: I'm sure there is a policy where teachers can't date students.just remember he is your professor, and maybe one day when you graduate and not his student then maybe something more can develop. But by then, you might not like him anymore.
I thin... (read in full...)
Does he want sex or a relationship?
Q. i really need advice! does he just want sex? or a relationship? i have been seeing a guy for about 4weeks. im 19 and he is 26. and we live on the same street so i often pop round his in the evening and chill. i really, really like him. and he says...
A. 17 February 2009: Been there done that. Hate to be harsh but you are a booty call to him. Why would he shell out money for dinner when he's getting it for free.
He's hasn't introduce you to his friends cause you are not "The one". He wants to keep his options open... (read in full...)
Sleeping with a first date
Q. I went on a date with an incredable guy and we had amazing chemistry, the only trouble is that chemistry also led to us sleeping together. He admitted it had been a while for him (as it had been for myself) and that he didn't think any less of me ...
A. 17 February 2009: Unfortunately, they say they won't think of you any less but they do. In the back of their head they will think who else you slept with on the first date. Even if it was zero...they now won't think of you as girlfriend/marriage material, but someone ... (read in full...)
I'm new to the USA, recently married and my husband treats me like a kid
Q. hello every body. i don t know from where i start. i have just moved to usa and got married. i know nothing here. all the time i am bored. even my husband takes me from time to another for ride. i wanted to go gym he did not want to let me i want...
A. 17 February 2009: sounds like your husband doesn't want you to be independent so he can have control over you. It's your life, why do you need to ask him if you can work?
Just do it. Learn to drive, or take the bus. Or you can sign up for classes at your local comm... (read in full...)
Should I suggest moving in together?
Q. Should I suggest moving in together? I have been dating a very kind dependable guy for about a year. He and I get along very well. I love him but am not in love with him yet. I have no desire to marry him until I am sure that he is the one an...
A. 17 February 2009: Don't do it!!!! Always let the guy suggest it first.
You don't want to bring it up and then he say NO. Besides...you're not even in love with him. Why would you want to give up your space and freedom and live with someone you're not in love with... (read in full...)
How long did it take for you to be ready to talk to your ex again?
Q. So, my ex (who was also my best friend for four years) and I broke up almost four months ago (after six months as a couple), and I find myself missing her these days. She tried calling me a couple times last week after not having spoken to one ...
A. 16 February 2009: no it doesn't make you petty or immature. You have every right to move on with your life. The damage is done and the trust is gone. In time you will heal. That is what life is about. You are going to meet new ..more people and sometimes we have to ... (read in full...)
How long did it take for you to be ready to talk to your ex again?
Q. So, my ex (who was also my best friend for four years) and I broke up almost four months ago (after six months as a couple), and I find myself missing her these days. She tried calling me a couple times last week after not having spoken to one ...
A. 12 February 2009: It's funny you ask this question. My ex (first love) made contact again (thanks facebook) after not having contact for 13 years. We talked on the phone, and it turns out he was mad that our relationship ended and didn't want anything to do with me. ... (read in full...)
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