If a man is exposed to attractive females, will he value his girlfriend less? Answers from men please..
Q. If a man is exposed to a lot of attractive females or is exposed to the constant media of actresses, lingerie models, porn stars, etc, will he see his girlfriend as less attractive and/or value her less? The article below seems to say that this is ...
A. 7 September 2007: I don't need to read the article to know that for me this isn't true. Of course there will be women who are more attractive (physically) than my woman, but that won't make ME value my woman any less.
For me, it's not just the physical beauty. ... (read in full...)
I'm a 15 yr old guy and I cant stop masterbating???
Q. how do i get myself to stop masterbating? im 15 years old and im a guy i have problem. ive been masterbating for a long time. i mean a real long time about 3 years and some months. i cant stop idk know y i jus cant help like when i try to control ...
A. 3 September 2007: It sounds to me like you have religious convictions against masturbating. Not entirely sure, but that's what it sounds like since you stated "...feel like god hates me for it..."
Let's talk about some of the things going on with you right no... (read in full...)
Can cheaters really change??
Q. hi, I have a boyfriend that i really love, can't imegine a life without him. He loves me too but he has been cheating on me but like in our country its normal for boys/girls to cheat on each other. All i want to know is we talked about it and he ...
A. 3 September 2007: I think before we talk about whether or not cheaters can change, I think it's important to decide whether or not you will give him the CHANCE to show you he has changed. Many times people do things they later regret - are truly sorry and want to ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend or Education? Please help me decide.
Q. I am a 19 year boy. I don't want to have a girlfriend because I think I should finish my education first. What do you think?...
A. 2 September 2007: Hmmmm. Get your education now. Set a goal and don't stop. Once you reach it, then you've got all the time to devote to a loving and caring relationship. Not to say that you can't do that while in school - but because most (if not all) relatio... (read in full...)
Do guys care as much about weight as girls imagine them to?
Q. Do guys care as much about weight as girls imagine them to? Or do girls simply create this belief that most guys like slim girls? I'm in a fairly new relationship and i'm really happy with my boyfriend but i'm extremely insecure and am completel...
A. 2 September 2007: Well, the reality is that a guy likes what he likes - just like a girl likes what she likes. You're playing yourself short by believing most (or even all) men like girls to be slim. So what you're "not skinny" - he might like that! Furthermore, ... (read in full...)
Are ultra thin condoms more likely to break?
Q. how effective are ultra thin condoms with spermicide. Because they are ultra thin are they more likely to break??...
A. 31 August 2007: Hmmm
I don't think so. But being they are thinner than regular, I'd probably guess that means there is some slightly greater chance of breakage than regular condoms.
Making sure you put it on correctly, not having sharp fingernails when... (read in full...)
A girl I like said I was 'nice' What does 'nice' actually mean?
Q. There is this girl that i have met, she is very pretty and has a great personallity. After a couple days of knowing her i asked her what she thought of me, and all she could say was that i was "nice". my question is what does she mean by "nice"?...
A. 31 August 2007: Well, you asked. Nice could mean "nice" since you asked her what she thought of you. Now, had you attempted to ask her out or somehow asked her to go steady and all she said was you're "nice", then you'd have a problem. I was "nice" to many w... (read in full...)
I would never have sex with someone under 16, but is it ok, (or legal) for me to go out with her, or do some of the things she is talking about.
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and have been mates with this girl who is 14 (nearly 15) for a while now. She has just revealed that she likes me, and has been giving me some vivid messages about what she wants me to do to her. I do like her, but am worried about th...
A. 30 August 2007: You'd have to check to age regulations on sexual relationships in your country. Or maybe someone on this site will know. In the US, the age limit across the board starts at 16 (some states start at 16, some at 18). So 14 or 15 in the US would be ... (read in full...)
Any advice as to how I can arouse him without touching his male members would be greatly appreciated.
Q. Hi all. I am having problems. I am in a fairly new relationship and he knows just what to do to arouse me sexually, but I don't know how to arouse him. He is a little inexperienced and doesn't know what he likes. Any advice as to how I can arouse ...
A. 29 August 2007: Some men enjoy their nipples being licked or lightly kissed. The neck is a good place to kiss. The inner thigh - just below the "package" might be a good spot to stroke, lightly. And for some reason, I found my knee to be a source of some weird ... (read in full...)
Do you believe that "single" people are more inclined to mastubate on a frequent level or vice versa with those in relationships?
Q. Ok, so earlier today a friend and I got together at my place for our routine coffee talk. We discuss everything and anything, today's topic somehow became masturbation. At this point in time we are both currently single. My friend (let's call him ...
A. 29 August 2007: For some, there is no such thing as too much. However, there is a such thing as pain - for men especially. I once did the deed for three hours straight and my penis was sore (to say the least). I've never done it more than twice per day, single ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if let's say I touched my vagina right after wiping my hands off my boyfriend's cum with tissue and wash my hands with water only??
Q. Can I get pregnant if let's say I touched my vagina right after wiping my hands off my boyfriend's cum with tissue and wash my hands with water only?? I'm getting paranoid lol help me thanks! =)...
A. 29 August 2007: You should have nothing to worry about.... (read in full...)
I have been with a married man for 6 years, am I wasting my time?
Q. Hi I have been in a relationship with a married man for six years now. He and his wife were having probs when we met. Eventually he told her about us and she moved out of the house. After a year though she has now moved back in as the kids live...
A. 28 August 2007: WELL said duce00! Well said. 5 stars.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for the condoms to be looser or am I just lacking girth?
Q. OK so I got regular sized condoms and I'm wondering if they are supposed to be skin tight. Because they are a bit loose on me and I was always under the impression they were supposed to be really tight, is it normal for them to be loose or am I ju...
A. 28 August 2007: Well, the condom isn't supposed to be "skin tight" but it IS supposed to "fit". Loose isn't good, you run the risk of slippage.
Try finding condoms with branding like "snugger fit" or something like that, which usually means slightly smaller ... (read in full...)
What is it called when a girl uses a sex toy on a guy??
Q. what is it called when a girl uses a dildo on a guy to shag them? me and my gf saw it during a porn vid we watched together and are extremely interested in trying it. If any1 has any experiences of this please can you give us sum tips to prep...
A. 28 August 2007: Yeah, no term for it. Just use lots of lube and have fun.
And it doesn't mean you're bisexual or gay if you're experimenting with anal sex. The prostate is found to be a very high source of sexual pleasure in men which more and more straight... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not be able to orgasm with penetration only?
Q. I have been married a month but have known my husband for 2 years. I cant orgasm with penetration on when he fingers me, is this normal? I have always assumed it is but then he gets upset with me and says its because all i want him to do is finger ...
A. 28 August 2007: Many women don't orgasm with penile penetration. However, I do believe it is something that can happen if you give it some time.
Although you're not orgasming with penile penetration, you can orgasm when he fingers you. That's probably because ... (read in full...)
Do men really enjoy the way a women tastes and smell down there?
Q. Do men really enjoy the way a women tastes and smell when they go down on her. My boyfriend begged me for months. I finally felt comfortable enough and shaved real good and he said it wasn't the right time. Now I feel like if I let him do it I'd be ...
A. 25 August 2007: I can say that I enjoyed it immensely with my soon-to-be ex wife (and others before her). Also, I noticed that when I'm not really in the mood and just trying to get her "ready" - I get myself in the mood. Not sure the physiology behind it. Maybe ... (read in full...)
What's with the sudden anal sex craze?
Q. I'm 45 and over the course of the last 4 years I have dated 3 guys and each one of them requested to have anal sex. My boyfriend of 7 years before never asked for this........what's up with the anal sex craze and why is it so much better than ...
A. 23 August 2007: I don't think it's a matter of it being "so much better" than regular sex, but it IS taboo and all things taboo seems to spark interest in some people. Add to the fact that the anus/rectum is tighter than the vagina (relatively speaking) which ... (read in full...)
Is a boy ejaculating and orgasming the same thing?
Q. How do you know if a boy have simply came, (ejaculated) or if he has orgasmed? Is it the same thing? ...
A. 22 August 2007: They are not one in the same. Most of the time men ejaculate while having an orgasm, but some men are able to orgasm without actually ejacuating. It's hard to do though, something you've got to learn. But it can be done.
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
I cheat on my fiancee all the time, but its his fault cause he got me into computers
Q. I am engaged to a wonderful man who i love,but i am addicted to cheating.It seems so easy,they are all available on the internet. He has almost caught me twice,but luckily i turned it around on him and now he has to prove to me that he`s not a ...
A. 21 August 2007: Yes that makes you a bad person! What is wrong with you? And how dare you blame him for your infidelity! Just because he introduced you to computers does NOT give you the right to blame him for your cheating. That is wrong on all fronts. If he ... (read in full...)
He wants to stop the sex, why?
Q. I have a very good male friend who is going through a divorce. We talk on the phone all the time, and one evening he asked me over to his "new place". I went and we wound up having sex. A couple nights later we had sex again. It was fantastic!! He ...
A. 21 August 2007: As a man who is also going through a divorce, I can kind of relate to what may be going on. I too have met new women but just hanging out and things like that. We as men have to be very careful of our actions when dealing with the courts on the ... (read in full...)
Do dildo's hurt?
Q. Hiya I really need your help I get orgasmic when i rub my pussy but i am too scared to use a dildo up me does it hurt and and how can i masterbate so i can orgasm good Thanks Lou...
A. 20 August 2007: Sure a dildo can hurt if you use one you're not prepared for - like the Fat Man Mega Dong Dildo which is 8" long and whopping 10" round! Or even the Homo Gigantus Giant Dildo which is 15" long and 11.5" round - WOW! I can imagine that trying to ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my hymen is broken?
Q. how do I know if my haymen is broken or not? I do lots of horse back ridibg and sports but how do I really know?...
A. 20 August 2007: If you're worried about what your boyfriend thinks - and concerned that he might be upset if there is no hymen to tear, then perhaps he isn't as understanding and loving as you think - and should reconsider who you will lose your virginity to. Many ... (read in full...)
I want to feel loved and when we just get right to the sex I dont, so I end up crying
Q. Ok here it goes. For the last few months now, I notice that if I go to my boyfriend's place and he just tells me to get naked and lay down because he wants to play with me, I end up crying during sex. If we make out and work into touching, f...
A. 19 August 2007: Well, you're welcome. glad to have been able to help.... (read in full...)
Could he go to jail for getting me pregnant?
Q. I am 15 almost 16 and I'm pregnant but will be 16 before the babies born and my boyfriend is 21 will he go to jail even though I'll be 16 before the babies born? And say I didnt put his name on the birth certificate and later on I do, can they still ...
A. 19 August 2007: They can still place him in jail - and if not in jail they can seek some sort of legal action which may only involve him registering as a sex offender. And IF he has to register as an offender, there is a good chance you two will not be able to see ... (read in full...)
Been sleeping with, and in love with a guy who has a girlfriend!
Q. I'm in love with this guy who has a girlfriend. We have been sleeping together for 8 months now. Almost two weeks ago he said he was going to leave her and be with me. He said just give him two weeks to end things with her. Well the two weeks is ...
A. 17 August 2007: Good one bubbloo. And what makes you think that after leaving her for you that he won't cheat on you!? I mean, he's cheating on her, right? So when things get boring for him again, he'll find another woman to be with and start cheating on you.... (read in full...)
How do I give a wonderful BJ?
Q. guys in the world out there tell me how to give a wonderful blow job when i've never done it before....
A. 16 August 2007: Yeah, passion is the key. Doing it like you WANT to do it is a real turn on.
Here's a website with some good info on fellatio. There are others but we'd be all day trying to list them all!
http://www.se... (read in full...)
I want to feel loved and when we just get right to the sex I dont, so I end up crying
Q. Ok here it goes. For the last few months now, I notice that if I go to my boyfriend's place and he just tells me to get naked and lay down because he wants to play with me, I end up crying during sex. If we make out and work into touching, f...
A. 16 August 2007: Althought I cannot relate, it seems like you're wanting more than the sex. It seems like you want the kissing, the caressing, the fondling, looking deeply in his eyes, smelling his scent, etc...Sex is more than putting his penis into you - it's all ... (read in full...)
I love him, but I'm not willing to lose it until we're married, now he's having physical problems
Q. Hi, im 21 and im in a big relationship problem, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 years and we are in love with eachother. the problem is that im a virgin and hes not and im not willing to lose it until i get married. He has ...
A. 16 August 2007: Okay. First of all I wanted to say that I'm so happy to read that you are deciding to abstain from sex until you are married. I applaud your efforts and pray you continue your journey until the day your HUSBAND will make love to you for the first ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is very rough on me regarding sex, it hurts!
Q. Hi, I have decided I'm sticking with my boyfriend, the only thing that I need help with is when me and my boyfriend have sex he is really rough and he hurts and he wants to do it all the time and I'm being serious, he wants it every day but if we do ...
A. 15 August 2007: Hmmm. Well, sex was designed to be pleasurable, not painful.
There are some people who wish to be hurt during sex as it turns them on even more (masochists) and there are some people who enjoy inflicting pain or discomfort on others as it turns... (read in full...)
How can women want to touch someone with a small penis?
Q. Is it wierd to go from wee-man to Andre the Giant I have a serious problem, Im not a virgin but See i fear sleeping with women alot cause i have a terrible fear of being seen....well... soft. I have a very tiny thingthang when im soft ...
A. 15 August 2007: You're a "grower". Some men are "show-ers". Men who are growers have penises that look noticably small (2 inches). But when they get hard - turns out they're not so small at all! Show(ers) have penises that 'seem" large when soft. Hanging maybe ... (read in full...)
Her rectum seems easier to get into and her vagina seems more loose. Could she be cheating on me?
Q. My girlfriend goes on business trips every week to two weeks. For overnights no big deal, until little things like bruises on her arms neck mouth and between her legs even. She tries to cover them up but I'm not doing them. Also her rectum seems ...
A. 15 August 2007: I'm gonna play devil's advocate on this one...
Maybe her rectum is more loose because she's preparing it for you. Maybe she's using a buttplug or some other device to stretch her rectum before you get in there and do your thing. It make it less ... (read in full...)
My brother spends his money on coke and pills... and my mom ends up bailing him out!
Q. Hi This is a question for my mum really. Its about my brother. He is 25. And drinks every night and uses coke or pills, whatever he can afford at the time. The thing is, any money he does get, he spends on partying and once its gone he is strai...
A. 15 August 2007: No prob Hlskitten. Hope everything works out for your and your family. Take care.
Sandman... (read in full...)
I cum after I get into the girl and do about 4-5 pumps. It sucks. How can I last forever?
Q. I cum after I get into the girl and do about 4-5 pumps. It sucks. How can I last forever?...
A. 15 August 2007: Whoa there sparky. Lasting forever? How about just more than 4-5 pumps.
First off, relax. You've probably gotten yourself worked up about it over time. Try not thinking about the issue and focus on the sexual act itself. If this has happened... (read in full...)
My brother spends his money on coke and pills... and my mom ends up bailing him out!
Q. Hi This is a question for my mum really. Its about my brother. He is 25. And drinks every night and uses coke or pills, whatever he can afford at the time. The thing is, any money he does get, he spends on partying and once its gone he is strai...
A. 13 August 2007: I don't have youngsters on drugs (I don't have any youngsters) but I do have an opinion...
Let it go. I know, I know. It's your mom and you don't want to see her stressed and your brother taking advantage of her - but like she said, it's her... (read in full...)
For the first time at 28 I gave it up, I had sex with him , lost my virginity to him and now he not talking to me at all!
Q. I have been dating this guy for a whole year, within that year we went through some rough times where he cheated a couple of times and then he stopped and silly me I remained in the relationship because all along I thought I was the problem because ...
A. 9 August 2007: Wow. Your indicator to needing to leave him alone a long time ago was him cheating on you. I'm not attacking you - but the theory that some women believe giving us sex will keep a man. This is sooooo not the case. If all that is wanted is sex... (read in full...)
She has got looser, is she cheating?
Q. i suspect that my wife is cheating on me.her vagina has become looser suddenly.it was tighter for more than one year after the birth of our one and only child.is my suspicion right?...
A. 9 August 2007: Has she really gotten looser - or have you JUST now noticed that she's more loose now than before? I'm thinking this might be the case - although I'm not sure. If she's the same age as you - it could be that her vagina is just losing its ... (read in full...)
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