Can long term friends become lovers?
Q. Dear cupid, do you think long term friends can become lovers? ...
A. 25 September 2007: It's very possible for friends to become lovers. But like stina said, it depends on so much; the situation, current relationships and the like.
The old adage says that friends make the best lovers. Probably because you've spent so much time get... (read in full...)
He loves to give me Oral, but I worried I'll squirt on him!!
Q. hi when i have sex with my boyfriend, he always wants to lick me and kiss me on my vagina. but i get so wet i get embarrased that i will cum on him as sometimes it squirts out. Any advice?...
A. 24 September 2007: Well, as a male who loves a squirter, let me tell you that you've probably got nothing to worry about. Next time he's going down on you, and you're getting ready to squirt - tell him "i'm cumming, i'm gonna squirt!". See what he does. If keeps ... (read in full...)
My wife and I have become incredibly attached to each other! We don't want this to cause us problems - what can we do?
Q. Right some of you may say this isn't all that bigger problem but its getting in the way of things. Well me and my wife have been together since we were 16,known each other all throughout school and been married 7 years. Just recently though we have ...
A. 24 September 2007: Wow. First of all, I'm not sure how to respond. It seems that your marriage is what others WISH their marriage was like. A deep, personal connection to your spouse SO MUCH that you can't imagine spending a second without them! THAT'S DEEP!
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I'm 18 and no longer attend my old school. Can I approach the teacher I had a crush on?
Q. ok so i'm an 18 year old girl and i have the hugest crush or whatever you'd call it thing for what used to be my 10th grade science teacher who's about 15 years older than me. I know it sounds so typical but it's not, i get so excited when i run ...
A. 24 September 2007: I guess since you're no longer a student at the school, and you're of legal age - it SEEMS that all legal aspects are out of the way. Now you just need to figure out if he feels the same things for you.
Hope this helps.
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She let other guys do things she hasn't ever let me. I'm confused?
Q. Please help.... I've been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years and Ive mentioned here and there about either cumming in her mouth or swallowing. She said its gross and she cant do it so I understood. Last night we were talking and it came out that...
A. 24 September 2007: You know, allowing a man to come in your mouth is a big step for some women. Some women, like your woman, find it terribly gross. Other women can't get enough of it. If she were high when she did it, it's possible the drugs were the factor in ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and have very little pubic hair, should I be concerned?
Q. i am fourteen and i have very little pubic hair should i be concerned?...
A. 24 September 2007: No. You may be a late bloomer and your pubic hair will begin to grow once you really settle in to puberty. OR... ...genetically you will just have a little amount of pubic. This can also be the case. But again, nothing to worry about. ... (read in full...)
When I have an orgasm it seems like I am urinating. Is this normal?
Q. when i have sex, when i have an orgasm it seems like i am urinating liquid flows from me is this normal ?...
A. 24 September 2007: Yep. You're squirting - or so VERY wet that your "cum" is seeping from your vagina when you have an orgasm. Some women say they can do this, other's can't. It's normal that YOU can do it. So have fun with it. Just lay down some towels on t... (read in full...)
How do you show a man you love them without sex?
Q. how do you show a man you love them with out sex ?? and how do you get over the ex - factor when it wont go away ?? ...
A. 24 September 2007: Tell him. Spend time with him. Tell him how special he is to you. Listen to him. Laugh with him. Cry with him. Sit and look at the stars. Sit and listen to your favorite slow music. Hold him close. Hug him. Prepare his favorite meal. Meet ... (read in full...)
Pleasure or annoyance? Testicles touched in the middle of a handjob?
Q. i basically just want to know is it normal for a guy not to feel good when a woman is playing with his balls, in the middle of a handjob. I just dont get anything from it other than mild annoyance. I seem to be the only one out of my friends. Anyone ...
A. 23 September 2007: Well, i hate for the lady to go for the nads when I'm not thoroughly aroused - then it's just an annoyance for me too. But after we've been at it for a while, it's heaven for me :) My soon-to-be-ex wife tried it one night while making love and she ... (read in full...)
Pleasure or annoyance? Testicles touched in the middle of a handjob?
Q. i basically just want to know is it normal for a guy not to feel good when a woman is playing with his balls, in the middle of a handjob. I just dont get anything from it other than mild annoyance. I seem to be the only one out of my friends. Anyone ...
A. 23 September 2007: Well, i hate for the lady to go for the nads when I'm not thoroughly aroused - then it's just an annoyance for me too. But after we've been at it for a while, it's heaven for me :) My soon-to-be-ex wife tried it one night while making love and she ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a guy to "babe watch" even being committed?
Q. Is it normal for the guys to go out and " babe watch" even if the guy is in a committed relationship? also, why does it upset so much when he looks at other women? should I tell him how I feel? of should I just let him look and say nothing?...
A. 22 September 2007: Guys are visual creatures - we like to look at things that are pleasing to the eye.
That being said, there's also a respectful way of "babe watching". Let your guy know that you notice when he's checking out other women and you don't particul... (read in full...)
I don't feel the same love for my wife that I once did and I feel like I want to have sex with more women. What can I do?
Q. I've been with my wife for nearly 3 years now. We have a 9 month old baby girl who i love to pieces. However i'm just not happy with my life. I don't find my wife attractive, we get on ok but i don't feel the same love for her that i once did....
A. 21 September 2007: Well, here I go with my answer that will ultimately get me a poor rating...
What exactly DID you feel for your wife when you first got together? DId you even love her at all? We sometimes mistake a deep liking or deep lust for love when we never... (read in full...)
Would girls go out with someone thats ugly but has a good personality?
Q. would girls go out with someone who is ugly but has a good personality? I'm bein honest here, i'm not very good lookin (and i'm not sayin it so people feel sorry and say i'm negative, its the truth) but i have a good personality. So would popul...
A. 21 September 2007: Hey buddy! To answer your question - consider this. When I was your age, I dated some very, VERY beautiful women (those girls were freakin gorgeous!) and I'm no sight to look at either! I mean, I was ugly (or at least I thought) and hor... (read in full...)
I'm wondering why men like sex so much more when the woman has stockings and heels on? Opinions please..
Q. I have a question for the guys out there. Ladies feel free to give your input too. I am just wondering why my husband like sex so much more when I am wearing stockings and heels during sex? Sometimes I feel like a whore because of wearing them dur...
A. 21 September 2007: You feel like a whore - and you probably look like one too when you're wearing that outfit - which is probably why it turns him on. I'M NOT CALLING YOU A WHORE! I'm saying it's the taboo. You looking like someone or something else he might fi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend always wakes me up when he is horny. Is this normal?
Q. my bf always wakes me up when he is horny is this normal ?? ...
A. 21 September 2007: It's normal if you want it to be. I've been awakened to find my wife riding me a couple of times. A couple of times giving me oral too. It became normal to me! Rather her do me than someone else (although she would later DO someone else). Hope... (read in full...)
He suffers from prem ej and has now joined a site looking for sex. He doesn't know I know. Should I confront him?
Q. I am married for 14 years to a man 16 years my senior. We have got into a vicious circle, where he comes too quick if we haven't had sex for a while which puts me off having sex with him for a while. When I want to have sex with him again he comes ...
A. 21 September 2007: Personally, I'd be disgusted - but that's just me. At any rate, you're his wife. So any issues he has, he should be coming to you! If he needs to have sex more often to get over the PE, then that's YOUR job to help him out, not some woman he me... (read in full...)
What do people think about dogging?
Q. ok how does people think about dogging my husband of 20 yrs wants us to go he thinks it might spice up our sex life his fantasy is to see me with other men. sound weird my fantasy is to see him with another women. trouble is he has recently been ...
A. 21 September 2007: Sex with anyone that isn't your spouse is always wrong in my book. Plus, you run the very possible risk of, like leanne.od said, finding someone who gives it to you better than your husband. Do you continue dogging to find that man who makes yo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is dead set against using spermicide. Why?
Q. Hey guys im a frequent user of this site and i absolutely love the feedback i get on my questions. So i was just wondering if anyone can help me with this one. My boyfriend (whom i absolutely LOVE)and i are thinking on having sex. PROBLEM IS i cant ...
A. 21 September 2007: Not really sure I know what the problem is. You could buy the condoms yourself and make sure you get the ones with spermicide. Take em out the box and put them in your 'secret' place so that when the time comes (pun intended) you can just pull one ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain the reasoning behind what people talk about as "stains" in a males' underwear and how that relates to possible cheating?
Q. I feel a bit uneducated in this matter and want someone to explain the reasoning behind what people talk about as "stains" in a males underwear and how that relates to possible cheating? Could someone enlighten me on what this is all about please...
A. 21 September 2007: Again, semen can be emitted if the male has been extremely excited about something - winning the lottery or seeing a very beautiful naked woman. Although rare, it CAN happen. Not sure this is the case of your man though.
Masturbation at work wit... (read in full...)
My mum found my vibrator and seems to be shocked! I'm so embarrassed!
Q. Yesterday i came home from work and my mum was really weird with me - very quiet and acting like she was mad and didnt want to speak to me but i didnt know why. So i went up to my room and saw that she had been tidying it up because she had a day ...
A. 20 September 2007: you have nothing to be embarrased about and she needs to know that. You're a sexual human being with needs. At least you don't have every Tom, Dick and Harry running through the house (or in this case, every Tom's Hairy Dick)!
Yes, as others h... (read in full...)
Our 16 yr old son wants to become a male stripper when he leaves school. How can I get him to aspire to something else?
Q. Recently I got a phone call off my 16-year-old son's teacher saying that "your son is showing very little interest in his work at school and the only thing he's interested in is becoming a male stripper. The careers advisor told me this. We've also ...
A. 20 September 2007: Hmm. Although I'm not a parent, I can understand why a parent would NOT want their child to become a stripper - male or female. That's not how we raise our children - or what we raise them to become.
First of all, if case you were wonderin... (read in full...)
How come some guys semen is whiter than others?
Q. how come some boys seaman is whiter than other boys?...
A. 20 September 2007: Just because. Just like one penis is small than another one. Like one girls breasts are larger than her friends. Like one girl gets wetter than another. Just because. That's all.
Genetics MIGHT have a play in it. Diet MAY also be a contri... (read in full...)
Can someone explain the reasoning behind what people talk about as "stains" in a males' underwear and how that relates to possible cheating?
Q. I feel a bit uneducated in this matter and want someone to explain the reasoning behind what people talk about as "stains" in a males underwear and how that relates to possible cheating? Could someone enlighten me on what this is all about please...
A. 20 September 2007: I'm not quite sure what stains you're talking about, but I think I may know what's being discussed.
I think the stains that you are referring to are the yellow stains that appear in white underwear of men from time to time. The yellow stains c... (read in full...)
He cheated and while we made love and I climaxed, he told me the graphic details! We're sick about it, but it's a turn on! What's up with that?!
Q. my husband of 10 years had sex with our next door neighbour. he had told me he was attracted to her. neither of us could understand why because she really is not at all attractvive in any way. on my birthday he came home and told me they had just...
A. 19 September 2007: Simply put, you too are turned on with the the "taboo" of the experience. It's so wrong, it's so not what's supposed to happen between husband and wife - but the raunchiness of it gets you turned on. That's what I'm coming up with.
Howev... (read in full...)
Guys: About breasts, do you like them small or large, real or fake?
Q. hello, i notice that my boyfriend eyes other girls clevage.i feel that my breast is small but he says mine is just the right size. so i was wondering if guys prefer large breasts or dont mind small ones.how about fake ones?...
A. 19 September 2007: When it comes to loving the woman you're with, it doesn't matter how large or small her breasts are, she's perfect just the way she is.
However, just like women look at men with big bulging muscles and ripped abs - when clearly most men look NOT... (read in full...)
Have I ruined it already?
Q. I am just ending an abusive relationship of almost three years and I've spend some time with a coworker of mine. We ended up having sex after only hanging out a couple times, which is isn't like me but I am wondering what he thinks of me for giving ...
A. 19 September 2007: I wouldn't say it's ruined. You can always get your dignity back. Just stop having sex with him. Simple, right?
You are the one in control of your actions. If you feel like your actions are sketchy, then change them. Let him know that you... (read in full...)
Divorced Guys! If your divorce was terrible and she put you through hell...would you remarry?
Q. Divorced Men! If your divorce was terrible and she put you through hell... would you remarry? I am dating a guy who says he would not remarry because of all he went through- but....?!?...
A. 19 September 2007: Well, my divorce (or soon to be divorced) isn't nasty per se, but it is leaving a nasty taste in my mouth.
I'm finding out that she cheated on me. She's made comments like she hates/can't stand being around me. Very hurtful comments. She move... (read in full...)
Is it normal for your finace to masturbate when you are not with him?
Q. Is it normal for your fiance' to masterbate when you are not with him?...
A. 19 September 2007: Sure it's normal. Some men have masturbated two, three, four (sometimes more) times a day. Now you're getting married and he's just continuing with his regimen. Think about it, if you tried to quench all his sexual desires - your vagina might get ... (read in full...)
My wife is 4 months pregant. Is sex safe during the pregnancy?
Q. Hi , My wife is pregnant now, she is now 4 months. Is sex is safe during in this period. Or give me a suggestion....
A. 16 September 2007: Congrats on the baby!
Yes, sex during pregnancy is perfectly safe. Sex doesn't harm the baby or mother in any way.
However, sex while pregnant can be a bit uncomfortable for the mother in missionary (you on top) position. So, try these out:
... (read in full...)
Can a guy tell a if a girl is a virgin or not?
Q. i was just wondering can a guy tell a girls a virgin or not..when they do it?...
A. 16 September 2007: Not really.
Not unless she has a VERY thick hymen that you have to break through causing you to have to exert a lot of pressure. Other than that, guess you'll just have to take her word for it.
Or, well.... hmmm
Come to think of it, ... (read in full...)
I have a discharge...
Q. do guys like it while they are fingereing a girl if they have alot of discharge? and idk whether to shave or trim my pubes...
A. 16 September 2007: I personally LOVE a woman who can squirt or cums in gallons! It's a turn on for me, personally. Only been with one woman who could do it. Fabulous.
Trim/shave? I personally like it both ways. I love a full bush - it's kinda a fetish of mine.... (read in full...)
He asked me if I wanted to get pregnant and helped me to, now when there are chances that I am he is nervous and doesn't want to anymore.
Q. so this morning my boyfriend and i had sex and he asked me if i wanted to get pregnant or try getting pregnant and i said yes so we came at the same time because i was told it's better if you both cum at the same time then afterwards he was all ...
A. 15 September 2007: Oh sweetheart, wait unti you're in the convent relationship of marriage before having children. It makes things so much easier.
Boyfriends will say anything to cum inside you. I'm a man - and it feels TONS better when I cum inside a woman ve... (read in full...)
If the partner cheats does it mean he doesn't love you or plainly doesn't respect you?
Q. quick question can you love and be in love with some one that doesnt love you back ? if your partner cheats on you does that mean they dont love you ???? or do they just not respect you !!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 15 September 2007: Hmmmm....
Well, you can definitely love or be in love with someone who doesn't love you back. But be very careful when using the term "love" when describing feels for someone. Love is (or at least should be) a very powerful word that describe... (read in full...)
I was with my boyfriend and he had a see through substance on the tip of his you know what...
Q. I was with my boyfriend and he had a see through substance on the tip of his you know what and I just wanted to know if it contains sperm or if it's a lubricant, also, why does this happen, we weren't even doing anything, I was just sitting on his ...
A. 15 September 2007: Well, on the streets it's called "precum". It's fluid that is secreted in preparation for semen to follow behind (urine kills sperm so it is believed that this fluid acts as a washer to rid the urine from the urethra so that sperm can pass thru ... (read in full...)
After giving birth 2 months ago, every time I go near her breast she leaks milk...
Q. My wife gave birth to our baby daughter 2 months ago, she was our first but whenever me and my wife are having sex or being intimate and I go down to caress her breast etc(sorry to be graphic) or when I put my mouth near them she starts to leak if ...
A. 15 September 2007: Well, right now she's a feeding machine (sorry, just the way it is). I believe that hormones is what drives her to lactate. Whenever something gets near them, they begin to secrete milk (in preparation for feeding the baby). There is light... (read in full...)
Why am I not falling pregnant?
Q. I've been trying to get pregnant and when i do it with my husband he comes inside of me so i would get pregnant, but he says that when he comes inside of me i come too and i come too much that it all comes out, it that a reason of why i cant get ...
A. 12 September 2007: Well, if you think that your orgasm has that big of a difference, then try this.
After your husband cums, (and you have too), tell him to keep his penis inside you. His penis albeit flaccid and soft will act as a type of plug and keep all the ... (read in full...)
It's been 10 months and I'm still not pregnant! Any advice?
Q. i have been trying for a baby for 10 months and nothin.ive been on the internet and worked out wen i am ovulating and done it on the dates and still nothin. my mates have told me not to think about it and that im mayb trying to hard but how can i ...
A. 7 September 2007: For some couples, it just takes a while before they actually get pregnant. Having said that... It sounds like you are having a bit of difficulty. Some tips may include: --Make sure you're not on top when having sex (trying to get pregnant). When... (read in full...)
How can I get over his affair?
Q. Hi, I sent you email months ago when I was told my husband was having an affair, I got a lot of help from your answers, but I'm still in doubt... we have decided to try and build our marriage, my husband told me everything, he is not seeing her ...
A. 7 September 2007: It's a process. Sometimes a long one, but still a process. But you've already been given two wonderful answers already so I'm not gonna beat a dead horse... If you truly love your husband and BELIEVE that he truly loves you, then you're on your ... (read in full...)
I can no longer satisfy my wife... Will THIS help?...
Q. my wife no longer enjoys intercourse with me because i can no longer satisfy her.i am getting older and started taking medication.my penis is no longer big enough to satisfy her .we both like other forms of sex but she still needs intercourse once ...
A. 7 September 2007: NOTHING can (or should) take the place of actual intercourse between a man and his wife. There are other things happening when having sex like the emotional connection felt between the two when making love. Looking into each others eyes when ... (read in full...)
Does watching Porn affect a man's future sex urge?
Q. does my watching porn affect a man's future sex urge in anyway? and if it does in which way does it?...
A. 7 September 2007: Well, porn is mostly about fanatasy. And porn is the vehicle by which many people come to desire to act out many fantasies. Because of this, you begin to desire the thing you see in porn a lot more - and the normal things that used to get you ... (read in full...)
If a man is exposed to attractive females, will he value his girlfriend less? Answers from men please..
Q. If a man is exposed to a lot of attractive females or is exposed to the constant media of actresses, lingerie models, porn stars, etc, will he see his girlfriend as less attractive and/or value her less? The article below seems to say that this is ...
A. 7 September 2007: I don't need to read the article to know that for me this isn't true. Of course there will be women who are more attractive (physically) than my woman, but that won't make ME value my woman any less.
For me, it's not just the physical beauty. ... (read in full...)
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