I want to have sex but I'm not sure how to prevent pregnancy
Q. I want to have sex but I am scared That I will get Pregnant Btu I really want to have sex so what should I do??...
A. 19 December 2007: Well if you're that scared of getting pregnant you probably shouldn't have sex.
While today's contraceptives are really effective at preventing pregnancy, NONE of them are 100% effective. Which means there are times when these products fail. M... (read in full...)
I'm worried that I won't find anyone to lose my virginity with
Q. I know I'm only 15, but I am really starting to worry that I will never lose my virginty. It's not that I don't want to, it's because I don't think that anyone would ever want to have sex with me! People at my school think I'm really wierd and don't ...
A. 19 December 2007: You know, sometimes being different makes you popular. I remember in my high school a guy who would only date girls that were 'fat'. He wasn't a big guy himself, but loved girls/women that were big. Our classmates would make jokes and laugh but ... (read in full...)
Am I too short for my age?
Q. Do you think 5 feet is too short for a 13 year old girl?...
A. 18 December 2007: I think you are right in the average for a 13 year old girl. Some will be taller than that and some shorter. But 5 feet seems right about average.
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's had over 100 lovers and I'm finding it hard to deal with
Q. I am having problems dealing with my girlfriends past. I have read other questions on this site where men say their girlfriends have had lots of partners but mine has had 136 and she is only 24, this is really eating away at me and I dont know what ...
A. 18 December 2007: You get passed it by realizing that many people have very checkered pasts and that's exactly where it should be left to, in the past.
You girlfriend led a completely different life before she met you. If she has calmed down and slowed her sexu... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after anal sex?
Q. when you have anal sex for the first time or any time is it natural to bleed and how long should you bleed for? plz help xxx...
A. 18 December 2007: While there are no membranes or skin to tear during anal sex (as there is a hymen/membrane that is torn for the girls who have hymens intact for first time vaginal intercourse), the anus chock full of tiny blood vessels that can be torn during anal ... (read in full...)
Can a man have blonde body hair?
Q. Hi, not a problem here, just a question, looking for input from all you guys/girls out there. One of my wife's friends mentioned the other day that she ran into Bob, a guy my wife dated before me. When my wife told me Bob was asking about her...
A. 18 December 2007: I guess genetically anything is possible. Redheads can have red pubes so I'm guessing that true blondes can have blonde pubes. I do think blonde pubic hair would be rare - even if the person is a true blonde. Albinos on the other hand are ... (read in full...)
I've been with my wife for 16 years now, but I have never seen her naked! Is there anything we can do so that she can feel comfortable being naked in front of me??
Q. i've been with my wife for 16 years now and we've been married for just over 7. Just when we were ounger she was very nervous and felt very insercure about being naked in front of me. Shes recently admitted that she still feels the same and gets all ...
A. 17 December 2007: It sounds like she is self conscience. You might have, but have you ever told her how beautiful she is? Have you ever told her that you think she's very beautiful naked (even though you may have only caught a glimpse or two)? Constantly ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want to do it?
Q. I asked my husband for anal sex. He does not want to do it. WHY?...
A. 17 December 2007: Because he doesn't want to. We won't know the answer to that question, only your husband - you should ask him why.
However, if it's more adventurous sex you want then there are plenty of other things that your husband might want to try. Try gett... (read in full...)
Do all men prefer anal sex and why? I do it to quench my husband's curiosity that drove him to an affair.
Q. please do all men prefer anal sex and why, i dont care for it my husband does....i am having a hard time because he was in an affair in trying this anal stuff out i think this is the curiousity that he proposed to some whore on the net and ended up ...
A. 17 December 2007: I like Uncle Phil's answer. The porn industry has infiltrated many marriage beds and tricked many couples into believing that "everyone is doing it". The reality is, not every man enjoys or even wants to have anal sex with his partner. This is a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends dad has just died. I don't know how to comfort him without crying. Please help!
Q. My boyfriends dad just died and i am about to cry and i don't know how to act or what to say no one close to me ever died what should i do?...
A. 17 December 2007: Cry with him. Crying with him shows that you care for him and are deeply saddened by the loss of his father. Cry with him. Hold him tight when he is sad. Cry with him. Don't say a word. Be there for him. That's all you can do is be there.
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How messy will a hand-job get?
Q. I'm super inexperienced, as in I've never done anything for a guy. My bf has done some things for me, but I haven't returned any favors because I dont know how to! I've been reading up on hand jobs, I think i have that pretty figured out. So my ...
A. 11 December 2007: Well, men are very different. Some men 'shoot' when they cum, sometimes shooting pretty far. Some dribble. Some cum a lot - some cum a little. I guess when you finally give him a hand job, you'll know how much he comes, that will give you a good ... (read in full...)
Will it always hurt if we have sex after a pause, as it's happening now?
Q. my b/f and i havent had sex in awhile.. then today we had it again... but it hurt this time.... why and will it always after we wait a while between?...
A. 11 December 2007: Maybe. It is very possible that your vajajay returned to its almost virgin-like state during the off-season. The wait between intercourse allows your vaginal muscles to contract and stay that way until a penis tries to make it's inside again, ... (read in full...)
Can there be bleeding from penis as the male loses his virginity?? Does excessive masturbation have implication upon holding an erection easily during the sexual act?
Q. I just wanted to ask for educational purpose that during sexual intercourse as male loose their virginity can there be bleeding from penis ? and how painful is sex for males and if someone has masturbated many a times before actual sex can we get an ...
A. 11 December 2007: Hello.
For education purposes - during sexual intercourse there should be no bleeding from the male. There is nothing on the male penis that should ever tear causing it to bleed during sex.
Sex for the male should never be painful. The on... (read in full...)
Why does he always go "limp" when I go on top?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over a year and we have never had any problems. Until now, he will get hard but as soon as I want to be on top he goes limp. Any advice as to what's wrong?...
A. 11 December 2007: Hmmm, maybe it's as simple as gravity.
I remember when having sex with the woman on top I would sometimes lose my erection. It wasn't that I was not aroused enough because I was. It wasn't because I was afraid something would happen to me becau... (read in full...)
Friends or Lovers or much more?
Q. hi well to start with one of my male friends his housemate (mr x) and he invited me out on a night out, the next night, so we went out and had fun and next thing you know were back at my house having sex for the full night and day and this hap...
A. 3 December 2007: bqagirl2692 is right, be careful with this guy. He's probably using you for his sexual flings. Oh, and men don't just have bite marks on necks and backs just because. It's not like acne or something - like it just appears. Those marks are "marks ... (read in full...)
Does the absence of noise mean the absence of satisfaction??
Q. I'm really not asking this because of my sex life,which has tremendously improved. Some of the questions posted today had me thinking. Though i came up with answers i need to hear what other people think. As a man,if your lover doesn't scream during ...
A. 3 December 2007: Well, women are very different when it comes to sex. Some women scream and holler and cry, some women moan and whimper and some women aren't much at being vocal at all. It doesn't mean that you aren't "hitting the mark", it just means that the ... (read in full...)
The Wedding Night...
Q. I am an indian girl. My family is talking about getting me married, but I am worried. I haven't really talked to anybody, but I wanted to know something. On the first night after the wedding takes place do we you know ... have sex? I mean I know we ...
A. 2 December 2007: I remember reading about some cultures around the world and came across a statement that some cultures place heavy emphasis on sex on the first night. In some theologies or societies, a marriage is not considered a binding contract until the couple ... (read in full...)
Condoms really hurt me, is this normal??
Q. My problem is that when me and my boyfriend use condoms, they really hurt me. Extra fine ones don't seem to, but I'm worried about them ripping or something. Please tell me: 1. If this is normal 2. If it's happened to you 3. The reason for it 4....
A. 2 December 2007: Hmmm....
Is it because of lack of lubrication or do you have an allergy to latex? Both could be possible.
You could try using condoms made of polyurethane and see if you get the same reaction or "hurt" when you use latex condoms. If it's the ... (read in full...)
We played truth or dare, what did my wife get up to?
Q. Hi. A bunch of us (about 12-14 people) were playing Truth or Dare a week ago at our house. My wife and I are happily married for a few years, and this is not the first time we have had 'semi-wild' parties (read, not swinger parties, just 'fun' ...
A. 1 December 2007: Glad to hear you're both moving on with your lives. Now you know what can come of these types of game play and how dangerous it could be. No more worrying about what might have been. She gave you her version and let it be. Great, and glad to ... (read in full...)
22 year old virgin. What can I do?
Q. I am 22 years old and still a virgin. My friends think it's very strange and laugh at me. Are there other women in the same situation? Even my bf was turned off when I told him? How do i get him back?...
A. 28 November 2007: Virginity is a wonderful thing. You've got something to give your husband on your wedding night. You've got your dignity. Not to say that having sex looses dignity or that you wouldn't have anything to give on your wedding night, but it means ... (read in full...)
Several times in our marriage we have gone multiple years without being intimate. I need to feel loved, wanted... How do I leave without hurting my children in the process?
Q. The Marriage Bed I “Lie” In About a year and a half ago, we bought a new bed. I think it was our third in 18 years of marriage. Our first king sized. If you were to look down on us sleeping in it, you would see two people on the outer edges and ...
A. 26 November 2007: There's not much left to say as the previous posts are really good. However, there are some things I wanted to point out...
Your daughter's (or at least your eldest daughter) is beginning to pick up on the fact that you two aren't happy. The sad... (read in full...)
Does my size say I'm ready?
Q. well i am 16 years old turning 17 in 2 months, and i was a late bloomer in puberty, and i had to take testosteron shots to actually get moveing in puberty, its been almost year since the shots started, and i feel im ready of sex with my girlfriend, ...
A. 26 November 2007: Sex, for the most part is mental. While the act itself is physical, you have to be emotionally ready for sex and the consequences of engaging in the act.
Not all consequences of sex are bad - since sex is very pleasurable. However, there ar... (read in full...)
Can pre-cum get you pregant??
Q. I want to really know.. can you get pregant by pre cum? ...
A. 25 November 2007: Thanks Troubled for posting the actual text of the link I posted.
All very GOOD points made Irish and and Uncle Phil. Doc, you stated more simply what I was trying to say. Thanks.
I think this thing might have spiraled a little out of co... (read in full...)
Can pre-cum get you pregant??
Q. I want to really know.. can you get pregant by pre cum? ...
A. 23 November 2007: Well Uncle Phil - as I'm always up for debate and ready to learn something, I did visit your website. However, you should visit the following website which was research study conducted in 2003 on this very issue. Of course, it was a very limited ... (read in full...)
Can pre-cum get you pregant??
Q. I want to really know.. can you get pregant by pre cum? ...
A. 23 November 2007: (Almost certain my rating score will drop after offering this answer, but oh well...)
Yes, and no. Precum does not, I repeat, does not contain sperm. Precum is the fluid released by the Cowper's Gland and travels up through urinary tract an... (read in full...)
My erection goes as fast as it arrives... help!
Q. I have a full hard on im fingering my girlfriend then i take my pants down and gone... what should i do it's killin me...
A. 22 November 2007: Well, the first thing is to not panic. The fact that you're actually obtaining an erection is good. I don't think you'll be needing Viagra or anything like that.
So, it might something as simple as you needing some touching and rubbing and kiss... (read in full...)
Should I embark on a sex-free marriage?
Q. I'm engaged to be married and have been with my fiancee over 5 years. The first 2 years we had lots of sex. After 2 years sex got less and less now we don't have sex at all and I havent had sex for about 2 years. Dispite this I still proposed a...
A. 20 November 2007: Well, sex (although some people will dispute this) is a big part of a marriage. It is the bond that is shared between husband and wife and should engaged in as often as the couple desires. Good sex can be had in a marriage, you just need to work ... (read in full...)
He blames me for him cumming too quick!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have going out with my BF for a long time each time are having sex he never last any longer and then blame it on me that am too wet what do we do...
A. 20 November 2007: Well, a "too wet" vagina should actually cause him NOT to orgasm too quickly because the increase in lubrication decreases the amount of friction felt on the penis.
Some men cum (orgasm) too quick because once they get inside of the woman th... (read in full...)
Has my boyfriend cheated and given me a sexually transmitted infection?
Q. My boyfriend of 1 year (we don't live together) left his email open on my computer recently. I couldn't help but look, and as it turns out he has a profile on AdultMatchMaker looking for someone special to share 'oral sex and one on one sex'. when ...
A. 18 November 2007: I think you're gonna have to go with your gut feelings on this one. What does your instincts tell you? Are they telling he is indeed cheating on you? If so, then I think you know what to do.
Hey may not have met with the women YET. He may n... (read in full...)
What are we doing wrong, or is it just me?
Q. Condom problems help! I have had sex with and without comdoms in my life and I have to admit that having sex with condoms really spoil it for me. It seems to dry me up during sex and sex becomes sore after a few thrusts. I put on extra lube when ...
A. 18 November 2007: Hmm. There may a allergy component to this although I must say my knowledge in latex allergies is minimal. However, try using condoms made of polyurethane. Since there is no latex this would give you the opportunity to find out if you truly have ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant if the hymen's not broken?
Q. is it possible to get pregnant if the skin is not broken?...
A. 16 November 2007: To answer your question - yes, it is possible.
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
I often get erections when I am with my gf, is this a problem, when we are in public?
Q. When I am with my girlfriend I often get erections and sometimes even ejaculate. When we make out I always do. How do i stop this? [Moderator note. It probably refers to the situation when they are in public, even in intimate areas if they have...
A. 16 November 2007: So I'm assuming (as the moderator note points out) that you're talking about obtaining erections and ejaculating when you're doing anything sexual. Sounds normal to me - especially for a boy your age.
Many boys - when they reach a certain ... (read in full...)
Did I break my own hymen with my self pleasuring?
Q. Hi I'm 24 years old. I'm doing self pleasuring since high school, and I clearly remember a time when right after I bled a little. Now I've almost had complete sex with my boyfriend, but all the three or four times we've tried I had to stop him ...
A. 15 November 2007: It's possible that your hymen may still be partially intact. The hymen should NOT be a complete barrier in the vagina as to allow for the flow of blood during your menstrual period. Masturbating probably is only allowing something as big as the ... (read in full...)
How do I go about becoming a doctor?
Q. I live in the UK and i am 16 years old I'd just like to know how i would go about becoming a doctor? Which courses would i need to take in College? Would i go to University or Med school? How much would it cost to send me to Med school...
A. 15 November 2007: Hey Joey!
First of all, good luck with your aspirations at wanting to become a doctor.
So, I'm guessing University means undergraduate school here in the US - so you will need to go to University and take mainly physical science course. ... (read in full...)
Can we restore our family unit or even our marriage or is it only a matter of time before he builds up the courage to leave me?
Q. I have recently caught my husband having an affair, we have been married 14 years and have 3 children. I told my husband I still love him and want him to stay, he said he would stay only to be with our children who he loves more than anything and ...
A. 15 November 2007: Well, as much as it might hurt to hear (or read), your marriage is pretty much over IF he isn't willing to work out the problems and be with the children AND you. But since he has decided or has felt that he doesn't love you and he loves this other ... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex a couple of days before my period, my period came; could I be pregnant?
Q. hey people, this might be stupid just need to ask whether i could be pregnant, i slept with my bf a couple of days b4 i came on my period, using no protection and he came in me, then when im on my period 3 days into it we did it again n he came ...
A. 14 November 2007: Are you trying to get pregnant? Because that's the behaviour of a person wanting to get pregnant.
You can pregnant ANYtime during your cycle. And, you can be pregnant and still get your period. So...
Next time use a condom - no matter what... (read in full...)
Does the colour of my vagina need looking at?
Q. I do not know when I noticed, but my vagina is a dark brownish color, when it's normal color should be white.. or pink because I am asian, my natural skin color is light. Should I be concerned? Should I have it checked?...
A. 13 November 2007: No, it's normal. The inner labia can vary from pink to brownish black depending on the woman's skin color. You say your skin is light, but the inner labia, like the nipples can change color as the woman matures. I think you're okay and have ... (read in full...)
Is this age gap important?
Q. is it ok to have a relationship,when the boy is 17years old and the girl is 21years old?age gap?...
A. 13 November 2007: I think it's okay. I'm not sure the age of sexual consent in the Philippines though. But either than that, I think that's a pretty okay age gap if they both love each other.
Hope this helps. ... (read in full...)
People comment my size in the shower.
Q. I play football and sometimes after practice or games we take showers and every time someone points out how big my penis is. is there such thing as having to big of a penis...
A. 12 November 2007: I don't think there is a thing as too big of a penis. The vagina can stretch in ways you wouldn't imagine. If they can push a baby through that thing, I'm sure a penis is no problem.
I guess the question to you is are you embarrassed about yo... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as overmasterbating.
Q. I'm a 13 year old male and i have a odd question...Is there such thing as over masterbating?I do it atleast once a day could this effect me in anyway? Thank you for your time and help...
A. 12 November 2007: Once a day seems to be fine. Stop masturbating for a couple of days if you feel penis pain or discomfort during or after masturbating. Until then, masturbating! :)
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
What is this lump I have in my groin?
Q. I'm a virgin, but i found a lump on my inner thigh which is sitting on the right side my vagina (the edge of the lip). Its not too hard but if i apply pressure to it, it does hurt a little bit. What is it ? Im really worried about it and i'm ...
A. 7 November 2007: Hmmm.
Sounds like (****PLEASE NOTE: I'm not a doctor so I can't diagnose what you actually have. I can only speculate from the information you have given.****) a Bartholin cyst. These usually tend to lie on one side of the vagina near the oute... (read in full...)
We played truth or dare, what did my wife get up to?
Q. Hi. A bunch of us (about 12-14 people) were playing Truth or Dare a week ago at our house. My wife and I are happily married for a few years, and this is not the first time we have had 'semi-wild' parties (read, not swinger parties, just 'fun' ...
A. 6 November 2007: I agree with Eddie (by the way Eddie, 5 stars!). It was a game. Like he said, any number of things could have happened behind those closed doors. But if you don't know how you would feel if you knew wife gave him oral sex or a handjob, then stop ... (read in full...)
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