Is Sarah Palin a suitable candidate for VP?
Q. [Part of a DearCupid series on the forthcoming Nov 08 presidential election] Sarah Palin, John McCain's choice for vice-president, is a strict anti-abortionist, pro-guns and against sex-education. Her 17 year old daughter is now pregnant. ...
A. 2 September 2008: Hmmm...
I don't think she makes a good candidate simply because she doesn't know what her potential will entail. She's already said (before being nominated) that she would consider the job of VP (paraphrasing) "...if someone could tell me what ... (read in full...)
How do I know for sure that it meant more than just sex?
Q. When you have sex with a man that's married, how do you know if it meant more then sex? I asked him, and he said it meant more than just sex, but how do i know for sure?...
A. 26 August 2008: Well, you won't know unless you ask. And you did ask - and in my opinion (JUST my opinion) he gave you answer you needed to give him more. He's married. So while it might feel like it meant more, it could have been just what it was, sex.
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Is it difficult to shave or hair-remove down there? I've always thought it would be near impossible.
Q. Hi, I think most guys like girls to have no hair down there, is it difficult to shave or hair remove down there? I've always thought it would be near impossible. I am a guy btw, I'm not even sure if i like it, but I might....
A. 26 August 2008: Having done it before, I can tell you that it is not impossible. But it is a daunting task.
It takes no time to remove the hair around the penis, that's nothing. It's getting the hair off the testicles and chode (perineum - the space between ... (read in full...)
Everyone thinks I'm gay because I got an erection while changing in the locker room.
Q. alright well i have a gf and have never thought about sex with men before but i was changing out in the locker room and got an erection so now every1 thinks im gay what do i do?...
A. 24 August 2008: Unfortunately, nothing really.
Boy will be boys. They will talk and snicker and make jokes about you getting an erection in the locker room but that's just boys being boys.
As a part of growing up, young boys/men will get spontaneous erec... (read in full...)
She has herpes I need advice and reassurance please.
Q. The woman I love has herpes. She takes zyrtec or whatever those pills are called. She tells me with the pills its virtually not there, just outbreaks occur then she takes the pills and it goes away, she was honest and told me at the start of the ...
A. 10 August 2008: What if? What if you do catch it? Well, if you are having (or have had) unprotected sex with her, then your chances of contracting the disease is much higher than if you used a condom.
Even if she doesn't have symptoms, you can still contract... (read in full...)
He didn't break my hymen. Am I still a virgin?
Q. juss wanted 2 kno if im still a virgin cuz i let my boyfriend enter me but he didnt break my hymen or pop my cherry ? ...
A. 10 August 2008: If your boyfriend entered you with this penis, then no, you are not still a virgin.
Hymen's are notoriously popular in our culture to signify purity and virginity - being untouched by the man. However, it is well known that a small percenta... (read in full...)
We want children although we are teen children ourselves, is this wrong?
Q. is it wrong that me and my fiance are happy that she is almost definitely pregnant when she is 17 and i just turned 18? We are all the other has and are teen children ourselves. we have been together for a year now and were very close friends ...
A. 10 August 2008: It is absolutely not wrong to desire to have children. Wanting (and having) children is one of the fundamental properties of being human - survival of the species.
The issue that older adults have with young adults having children is the lack of ... (read in full...)
Pain while urinating since I first slept with my boyfriend (I wasn't a virgin) - what to do?
Q. I slept with my boyfriend of 2 years on friday 1st august. It wasnt my first time. But since then when i go to the toilet it hurts a bit whilst i pee, is this normal? i dont no what to do, and i dont want to tell my mum about it. I dont want to go ...
A. 5 August 2008: Could be a urinary tract infection.
UTI's are considered common, caused by many different things. However, in your case it is most likely caused by sexual intercourse.
UTI's are easily treated. Some oral antibiotics are prescribed and t... (read in full...)
Out of nowhere... a liking for anal sex. Is it normal?
Q. How do you all of a sudden start liking anal sex? out of now where My husband and i both have helped each other do this and we like it. is this a normal step in a marriage after 5 years? and, i have to stay sometimes its ok and sometimes I'm not ...
A. 4 August 2008: Experimenting when in a trusting, monogomous, loving, and caring relationship such as yours (marriage) is always a good thing.
Liking something that is still considered in some circles "taboo" doesn't make it wrong or bad. It means that you like... (read in full...)
Are we safe using pull-out for birth control? Is it normal to have several orgasms in a row?
Q. I have a couple of questions. First and foremost, my fiance and I have only been having sex for a couple of weeks now. We were originally waiting to be married but it randomly kind of happened one night. That aside, he finds it less romantic an...
A. 29 July 2008: http://http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12762415?dopt=Abstract
Please read the information in the link provided above. This is all I'm going to say. The last time I said something my rates dropped 33 points in one day.
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
My penis bends a little to the left. Do girls care about this?
Q. Well, this is a bit embarrassing and I hate to ask it but it's always been something in the back of my mind. I am fairly happy with my penis, it's nothing special but it's at a comfortable size and what not. The only problem is is that it curves ...
A. 29 July 2008: Most men have slight bends in their penis. Some to the right, to the left, some up, some down.
Most women won't care about the bend. Actually, it gives it a little character.
Some women (and men) swear by the slight penile bend stating tha... (read in full...)
I've been bleeding, hungry, tired, and throwing up since having sex. What could be wrong?
Q. So i had sex with my boyfriend about 11 days ago and i have been bleeding ever since. Then today, i threw up twice and my appetite has increased as well. And in addition, i am constantly tired even though ive had plenty of sleep. I told my boyfriend ...
A. 28 July 2008: I'm not going to be able to diagnose your problem, but it definitely sounds like you need to see your doctor.
If you've been bleeding for 11 days straight, you will more than likely have some issues (tiredness or fatigue is often a side effect o... (read in full...)
My sister-n-law lost her baby at 5 months and won't talk to anyone! How can I help?
Q. My sister-in-law just got married in January and she got pregnant in February. She was so excited and 3 weeks ago she lost the baby. She was 5 months along and her water broke and the baby had tumors on his brain. They had to induce her, but the ...
A. 27 July 2008: Well, we could speculate as to what she's feeling - but the truth is, we have no earthly clue how she feels. Even other women who have had this happen to him really won't know how she feels. Every woman is different.
There's nothing really t... (read in full...)
Do women 'cum' like men?
Q. Do women cum? I know that men do alot but i'm confused.I know that women get moist down there I have made out with guys and my underware gets wet is that a female version on cum? I have never had sex so sorry is I sound like a retard. Thanxs for ...
A. 25 July 2008: What you are referring to is the female response to arousal. When you are making out with your boyfriend, or just thinking about sex, your body begins its journey to preparation for penile penetration.
The vagina widens and lengthens, and lubr... (read in full...)
What is so appealing about the women in porn? And how can I feel better about myself?
Q. I know this is probably asked around a lot, but I just can't help but feel awful. I've checked out porn, and while yeah, some porn starts have downright UGLY faces, make squirrel like sounds (how can you guys get off to that pitch?) and most...
A. 22 July 2008: Well, you hit the nail on the head when you said these women are selling a fantasy. That's it. A fantasy. These women are nothing more than imaginary people. Let me explain...
Men, like women, sometimes daydream about their perfect partner,... (read in full...)
Can a guy fake an orgasm? How does it work for men?
Q. Hi there! How many times does a guy has to cum during sex? let say if we're doing it for an hour! Can they force it to cum just to plz u, to show dat they r happy or is it natural (a must kind of thing?)Thanks...
A. 21 July 2008: The title is a little misleading.....
Men, on average, barring any psychological or physical issues, will achieve orgasm with most sexual encounters.
Answering your questions - men (like women) don't HAVE to cum during sex. Some men can eng... (read in full...)
Is a female getting wet equivalent to a male getting hard?
Q. Just slightly curious here as to whether or not a female getting wet is the equivelant to a male getting hard. IE: Are they pretty much the same thing?...
A. 17 July 2008: Yes and no.
The female vagina prepares itself for sexual intercourse by secreting lubrication. The vagina also enlongates in preparation for penile entry.
The male gets erect in preparation for sexual intercourse. Men also get "wet", we se... (read in full...)
Are there ANY relationships that work out?
Q. I stumbled across this site looking for some advice...and came out quite discouraged =[ Does anyone know of a functional relationship? Of a healthy marriage in which mistakes are made but forgiveness is extended and the love is still strong? D...
A. 14 July 2008: Be not discouraged by the things you see - for the things you see are only a part of the whole.
Of course there are many relationships in which neither party cheats, lies, or disrespects each other but instead loves and adores one another.... (read in full...)
We did everything except have intercourse, she is married, but in a troubled relationship, if and when she is free, I want to marry her, don't know if I screwed up with her, what do I do now?
Q. i am divorced. recently had a woman visiting me who is married to someone i know. they are going thru some tough times in their marriage, she also told me that they had not slept in like 7 months. It got hot and heavy and she literally threw herself ...
A. 12 July 2008: A wonderful man would not have intercourse with a wonderful woman who is married - whether she's happy or not.
Being her friend is one thing. Being her friend that makes her come because she and her husband are going through a rough patch is... (read in full...)
Tight or flappy down there - what do guys prefer?
Q. Ok got a question. I know all women are different "down there", but what do you guys generally think of labia or flaps or whatever you want to call them. I've seen girls who have really short labias, and then girls with really puffy labias and ...
A. 11 July 2008: I haven't seen a vag in over a year. So right now it really doesn't matter to me what the darned things look like - so long as I'm able to look!
But if I had a choice, I like puffy lips.
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
Don't men enjoy going down on their ladies?
Q. I need a little advice about oral sex. I always thought that men loved to give oral sex to their ladies, but recently discovered that my husband of 8 years may not like to give it. We are both 28 years old. I make sure I always shower first and ...
A. 18 June 2008: When I was married, there was nothing I enjoyed more than giving my wife oral sex. Not sure why, since when I was younger the thought of oral sex repulsed me. Once I got my face down there and tasted it for the first time, I was hooked. So here's ... (read in full...)
Is marriage worth it?
Q. Really stupid uestion.. But I read a lot of uestions in here, married people having affairs and asking for advice about extra marital affairs.. Why have that extra marital affair.. Is marriage worth it.. My parents separated after 26 years o...
A. 16 June 2008: Not a stupid question. It does deserve discussion.
Interesting observation. Yes, people cheat on their wives and husbands and feel as though it's okay - or try to justify why they're doing it (my wife doesn't want sex with me or my husband ... (read in full...)
Can a guy and a girl really be just friends?
Q. Can a guy and a girl really be just friends? And by friends, I mean more then just talk and hang out in the same group. I mean have a proper friendship. Can they be best friends? So far in my life, at age of 19, I havent been able to have that. An...
A. 15 June 2008: You can definitely be friends with the opposite sex without worry about sex.
I've been really good friends with my current best friend for about 6 years. We cheer each other along when we enter into new and exciting relationships and hold eac... (read in full...)
Can an 18 y.o. get in trouble for getting a 15 y.o. pregnant?
Q. can an 18 year old only get in trouble for getting a 15 year old pregnant if somone reports him? ...
A. 13 June 2008: Yes.
I believe the minimal age of sexual consent in the USA is 16 in most (34) states. South Carolina's law is 14 for females and 16 for males. It is 18 in some states. So unless the female lives in South Carolina, the male COULD get in troub... (read in full...)
My girl friend is pregnant!
Q. I am 13 year old boy and i have a really big problem. i am dating a 15 year old girl and several weeks ago we staying at my house. its a long story but at the end we drank a bit and i was drunk and really horny so i had sex with her, i didnt use a ...
A. 5 June 2008: DiovanLestat - that was WELL said. 5 stars!!!
This is the consequences of your actions. What's done is done.
If she decides to keep the baby, you will no longer be a normal 13 year old. You will be a father, with responsibilities... (read in full...)
Should I cut my ex out of our kids lives?
Q. Hey, just wondering if anybody had any advice for me. I split with my ex last year and now she's starting playing silly games. She arranged to take the kids out on Sunday (I look after them) and I'd made 100% sure with her that it was fine for her ...
A. 5 June 2008: Cutting the ex out of the kids lives while they're young could pose potentially hazardous later on when the kids grow up. The mom could start saying things like "I wanted to see you but your father wouldn't let me.." - and then you become the bad ... (read in full...)
Going by the expiry date, when might this condom have been bought?
Q. Im in a relationship of 3 years, and i found a condom wrapper in the room and im trying to figure out when it might have been bought. The exp. Date on it is october of 2009. It was by some of my boyfriends thing from when he was married. But i cant ...
A. 3 June 2008: The expiration date on the condom is NOT going to tell you whether or not he's cheating on you. The condom (with that date) seems a bit old though as I the exp date on condoms are like 5 years or so. But keep in mind, condoms might not be a best ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to have a MFM threesome, but I do not want to...
Q. my wife of 10 months wants to have mfm threesome but i dont think i want to. what should i do?...
A. 3 June 2008: I think phiatiger is spot on with what they said. Just let her know that you are not interested in this sort of thing and try to communicate to her why not. There are many reasons why someone would not want to do this - for me, it's simply the ... (read in full...)
Is there prejudice against bisexuals?
Q. If it is okay to be bisexual then why do bisexual people have to hide it? Why do our parents scream at us about it?...
A. 1 June 2008: What may be okay for you might not be okay with others. So while you believe you're perfectly okay and everyone should except you for who you are, others might not believe the same things. That's when prejudice steps in. Because you're not like ... (read in full...)
He loves "woman on top" position but I never feel comfortable in this way, please give me some tips! How to make him climax in this situation?
Q. Hi all My husband loves me to be on top of him while having sex but I never get comfortable in this position.I am not good to make him come to climax in this either.Please tell me how to have sex on top of him. I would be thankful Soni...
A. 31 May 2008: Well, there's some things you've said that leads me to following conclusions...
You stated that "My husband loves me to be on top of him while having sex..."
Although you might not feel comfortable, your husband is enjoying himself. So... (read in full...)
Job interview: what to wear and what to say
Q. Hi, I know this isnt a relationship question but i really need some advice! I have a job interview on Wednesday and its my first ever interview so i want to know what would be good things to say and what kind of clothes to wear? I really want this ...
A. 22 May 2008: Congratulations! Welcome to the work force.
Let this be your stepping stone towards greatness. Be confident, and others will be confident in you!
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
I know I'm going to be criticised for this, but please! I'm VERY concerned about this pregnancy because of the family history of VERY large babies! I'm terrified!
Q. I know people are prob going to criticise me for this post but here goes. I am pregnant with my first ever child but I am terrified and am even considering if to go through with the whole pregnancy. My husband family have a history of havin...
A. 20 May 2008: You've gotten some good info - but there's something else that could explain why your husband's family produces large babies...
Gestational diabetes.
While a small amount (or none) may have been formally diagnosed with Gestational diab... (read in full...)
Job interview: what to wear and what to say
Q. Hi, I know this isnt a relationship question but i really need some advice! I have a job interview on Wednesday and its my first ever interview so i want to know what would be good things to say and what kind of clothes to wear? I really want this ...
A. 18 May 2008: Welcome to the working world!
Well, not sure what type of job this is - so without any info on that, I would say to wear a business suit. If you don't have a business suit, wear something that is conservative and non-revealing (not showing ... (read in full...)
Shaven or Hairy?
Q. I have been trimming my pubic hair regularly. But am not sure its what guys like. The guy I was planning to have sex with likes it shaven. Should I continue shaving or do guys prefer hairy?...
A. 17 May 2008: Well, I can't speak for all men but I like a really thick bush.
You should do what you want to do - whatever makes you comfortable. Shave it or keep it - just be happy and confident with your decision.
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
Shaven or Hairy?
Q. I have been trimming my pubic hair regularly. But am not sure its what guys like. The guy I was planning to have sex with likes it shaven. Should I continue shaving or do guys prefer hairy?...
A. 17 May 2008: Well, I can't speak for all men but I like a really thick bush.
You should do what you want to do - whatever makes you comfortable. Shave it or keep it - just be happy and confident with your decision.
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
My ejaculate doesn't seem to spurt very far is this normal?
Q. Hi My wife and I have been married for many years, we have always enjoyed sex. one of the things we both enjoy is mutual masterbation and talking dirty to each other. she has always liked me cumming on her body but resently i cannot spray as f...
A. 16 May 2008: Well, ejaculatory force has a lot to do with a lot of things...
First off, being well hydrated before sexual activity will definitely help. Some people state drink a few glasses of water. I'm not sure about the correct number, but maybe just one... (read in full...)
Is having no sex unhealthy?
Q. Would it be unhealthy to remain a virgin for my whole life?...
A. 26 April 2008: To answer your question, no, it would not be unhealthy to remain a virgin all your life. The body is pretty much self sufficient in maintaining itself sometimes.
As a Christian, I've got my views on premarital sex - but that isn't the topic of... (read in full...)
My wife does not get pleasure with lovemaking. Any tips or advice?
Q. I got married 1.5 yr back.My height is 5.8 Ft and my wife is 5.5 Ft and having a 5.5month old baby.My penis size is 5 inches and slightly bent towards left.I experienced that my wife didnot get pleasure at the time of lovemaking. Only she get litl...
A. 26 April 2008: Uncle Phil is on the right track I think...
Have her to tell you - or better yet guide you to what feels good to her during sex. Switch positions often to find the best one that is comfortable and provides pleasure for both of you.
Hope th... (read in full...)
I am SO scared to have sex, I was raised to believe it is bad!!! My boyfriend has been waiting for me for years to express our love in that way, help!
Q. I am 24 years old and I am a virgin. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him with all of my heart and want to marry him but I am so scared to have sex. I was raised in the church and to think that sex is bad. I am scared that I ...
A. 25 April 2008: First of all, if you don't feel ready yet - then don't do it. Period.
Secondly, congrats on holding out this long. That is very commendable.
Thirdly, I'm sorry to hear that you have be taught to believe that sex is bad. Sex in no way is... (read in full...)
She was dry with me but wet when she came back from work-is she cheating on me?
Q. My wife and i have past 2days we had sex she dry before start and then she went to work when she come back when I feel her she was wet as she just finished having sex or may be cheatin...
A. 25 April 2008: A few things:
-She might not be in the mood when you're ready for sex - which is why she might be dry when you touch her. Remember, if you want sex and she isn't in the mood but is willing to have sex with you, you need to GET her in the mood thr... (read in full...)
Is it me, or does he have a secret? He only wants anal sex!
Q. My husband only wants anal sex. We'll start out making love vaginally, but then it seems he can't come unless he's inside my anus, or masturbating on my anus. He also prefers to be behind me, So i'm kinda starting to wonder if it's me, or if he's ...
A. 24 April 2008: I think the first thing is to talk to your husband and ask him directly what or why is it? There could be many reasons for him seeming to only want to make love anally. A couple of them being:
-It's a fetish. He could have watched one too many... (read in full...)
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