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Boyfriend says my sex drive is craven, not glutenous. What does that mean?

Q.   Dear all,your views please! I have a high sex drive,and have been seeing my bf for four months. We had tons of sex at the start with both of us initiating. However,it now seems to be me starting things. Over the last few weeks,he has made me feel ...

A.   26 June 2011: good luck x... (read in full...)

Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?

Q.   Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...

A.   26 June 2011: ok if you believe him maybe he is telling the truth you know him better than any of us do... (read in full...)

Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?

Q.   Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...

A.   25 June 2011: even so through a insurance company everything would of been cleared from the phone... (read in full...)

Scared by my ex!

Q.   i broke up with an ex-boyfriend like 6 months ago. we were one of those on again off again couples, so it wasnt our first break up. I ended the relationship around january due to some of his behaviour that i really really didn't like. But we chose ...

A.   25 June 2011: if i were you i would take your friends advice. people like this are dangerous. i would go to the police get a restraining order block him on facebook and change your phone number ... (read in full...)

Three weeks since the break up, is it too early to date a new guy?

Q.   Hmm so this is the situation. I recently broke up with my bf...we'd been together for nearly 2 years..(22 months to be precise). I was the one who called it off...it was going no where, we were making each other miserable... So its been abou...

A.   25 June 2011: if i was in your position i would do what feels right for you. if you are over your ex go hang out with this other guy see what happens. good luck... (read in full...)

Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?

Q.   Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...

A.   25 June 2011: sorry to upset you but yes sounds like he's lying ... (read in full...)

Every time I see a beautiful girl, my mind takes me to her and I always feel she is the best girl I have ever seen and is ideal for a girlfriend/wife!

Q.   Hi All, Hey guys and girls, please help me out. I am in a situation where I need your opinion/help. So here is my story I work in a organization for past 2 yrs . An year back I saw a girl who just sits at some distance from me . First time I ...

A.   25 June 2011: if when you make eye contact she looks away they may be a few reasons: 1 she likes you: 2 she is shy: 3 she may know you like her and is embarrassed. i would try talking to her while you still have chance before she moves away you have nothing to ... (read in full...)

What can I do to get my boyfriend to stay with me?

Q.   Please help, me and my Boyfriend of 5 months ( doesnt seem long,but 5 months being official, we loved each other long before we went out.) We are perfect together, he always speaks to me morning and day, always making sure im okay and random calls, ...

A.   25 June 2011: i would try get to the bottom of why he is acting like this you can.t just fall out of love with someone ask him what he truly wants a great girlfriend who he loves and has good times wih or being single and playing about this will most likely be ... (read in full...)

Why shouldn't I be embarrassed about being a virgin?

Q.   Hey, I just have a quick question. I asked everyone here a while back whether I should tell my girlfriend that I'm a virgin or not and people kept telling me I shouldn’t be embarrassed about it. Why? Why shouldn’t I? Most guys loose their the vcar...

A.   25 June 2011: hi i really wouldnt worry about it women don.t really bother about things like that explain to her before you have sex and have fun with it just dont worry... (read in full...)

How did I get myself into this? My dream girl on one side and my GF and kids on the other side!1

Q.   I'm currently in a 7 year long relationship w/ kids but here goes I met this girl on fb started to chat, she didnt look too good but was funny and was making lots of sexual innuendo and she caught my eye at some point. I invited her to the beach an...

A.   25 June 2011: i get the feeling your "dream girl" is just playing you your family need you would you really want to hurt your children and the mother of your children by some woman that is probably like this with every man she meets i think you must be mad even ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend says my sex drive is craven, not glutenous. What does that mean?

Q.   Dear all,your views please! I have a high sex drive,and have been seeing my bf for four months. We had tons of sex at the start with both of us initiating. However,it now seems to be me starting things. Over the last few weeks,he has made me feel ...

A.   25 June 2011: i would stop initiating just for a couple of weeks not for good and see if he comes onto you maybe it is something as simple as the fact that you have a higher sex drive than him and he doesnt need it as much ... (read in full...)

I like to know exactly what my plans are for the weekend and for the first time, he was busy!

Q.   what would you do in this situation, my partner and i of 3 years, have the routine of seeing eachother for a whole weekend, and have maybe one night (fri or sat) to hang with friends. EXCEPT this weekend he told me he was going out on friday an...

A.   25 June 2011: sorry to be blunt and i don.t want to upset you but he maybe cheating on you blokes don.t just suddenly not want to see you unless theres a reason i would watch for other signs of cheating to good luck ... (read in full...)

My husnband sucks my breasts in his sleep

Q.   hello i have a doubt, my husband and i used to sleep naked at night, every thing is perfect, but in sleep he use to suckle my boobs, like baby, i suddenly woke up and asked whats wrong, he tells i am sorry, after a while he again starts sucking,...

A.   25 June 2011: hi i would try sleeping with my back to him or on your boobs so that he cannot get near them good luck hope it helps... (read in full...)

He said I should text him and then gave me his number...what do I do?

Q.   So there's this really cute guy at my school. He's seriously perfect. The other day we were waiting for the bell to ring and he asked me if I wanted to take a walk with him and his friend. We walked for a while then we sat down. First he asked me if ...

A.   25 June 2011: i would play it cool text him maybe a day or 2 later say hey how ya doing x something like that keep it cool but also flirty by putting a x at the end when he replies take it from there good luck... (read in full...)

What can I do about this unbearable pain in my vagina during sex?

Q.   Whenever my fiance and I are having sex I have unbearable pain inside my vagina. It's feels like cuts inside and also hot. What can I do to stop this pain because it's really interfering wit my sex life. Please help. ...

A.   25 June 2011: maybe you are lacking the natural lubrication that your body makes due to not being relaxed enough i would try a hour of kissing and touching before penetration see if that helps if not i would go to the doctors and get help... (read in full...)

Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?

Q.   Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...

A.   25 June 2011: a refurbished phone would have been cleared of all the history and stuff maybe he was on the sites but he was embarassed and realised he had been caught so he denied it i would see if it happens again then if it does you know he has been on them ... (read in full...)

He says I don't make out like a girl?

Q.   While making out (not sex..we havent yet..) my boyfriend says I dont seem like a girl..and I dont have that kinda feelings...what does that mean?? What should I do to be like a girl??...

A.   25 June 2011: i would ask him what he meant also next time try kissing him very soft and sensual and play with his hair at the back while you are kissing him this drives men crazy good luck... (read in full...)

What is wrong with me? Two months now. Will I ever get over my ex?

Q.   What is wrong with me? when will I get better? I loved my ex boyfriend so much. He was so nice and sweet. I was so happy with him. But he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. Two months later he rang me saying he wants us to be f...

A.   25 June 2011: aw i really feel it for you i have been through the same in time you will forget about him and you will meet someone who will treat you right just go out have fun and concentrate on enjoying life ... (read in full...)

How would you know your boyfriend is cheating?

Q.   How would you know that your boyfriend is cheating on you??? What strong signs that he is doing it???...

A.   25 June 2011: he will become very secretive and distant like for instance if you come onto him for sex and he pulls away it will probably because he is getting it else where he may also lie about where he has been and who he has been with if you suspect him of ... (read in full...)

Genital warts and sex

Q.   if you have gential warts and you have sex with your partner with a condom. will he catch the std to even if the warts are gone ?...

A.   25 June 2011: if you use a condom properly you should be ok talk to your doctor just to be sure... (read in full...)

How can my girlfriend not feel anything?

Q.   my girlfriend says she does not "feel" anything when i touch her vagina...what does that mean???!! um so much worried...what should i do??? ...

A.   25 June 2011: pay close attention to her clitoris rub gently in a slow circular motion then as she gets more turned on get faster the vagina does not have nerves itself so that will be why she cannot feel anything hope this helps... (read in full...)

Going crazy for a friend......

Q.   i dont know what to do. i just met this guy 2 weeks ago. i honestly feel im calling him to much and feel that he is getting annoyed by me. because i call him every day he does answer my calls but he talks to me like if im bothering him.. i dont know ...

A.   25 June 2011: i would play it cool with him don.t ring him for a couple of days see if he gets in touch with you and if you find yourself going to ring him tell yourself no men need space to do what they want to do and if he doesnt hear from you for a while he ... (read in full...)

Is he just a friend or something more?

Q.   I have a guy friend who lives in a diffrent country.we met 2 years ago through mutual friends.one day,he asked me to go on holiday with him and i did.we had sex n a pretty good holiday.we're apart again now, and he texts me every few days and he's ...

A.   25 June 2011: maybe he is shy or he is unsure how you feel about him i would wait till he moves nearer to you ask him if he wants to do something then go out somewhere and tell him how you feel good luck... (read in full...)

What did my female friend's hints mean?

Q.   Used to be really close to a couple of female friends, so close we could play spin the bottle and stuff like that. One night after a family party me and these girls had to share a double bed, and all felt dead comfortable doing so. I'd heard that ...

A.   25 June 2011: sounds to me like this kate likes you but maybe she doesnt want to hurt her friend if her friend likes you to thats why she waited till her friend had gone downstairs i would get kate on her own sometime and ask her out see how she reacts good luck... (read in full...)

I need advise, are we just friends or can I hope for more from him?

Q.   2 years ago I met this guy online we became friends straight away It seemed we connected really well we had almost everything in common He asked me to meet in real life and I accepted. He didn't try anything bad with me and we had a great time In ...

A.   25 June 2011: i think think guy is not interested in her she seems very clingy if he is deleting her msgs all the time that shows he is not interested it sounds as though he is interested in you i would try talking to him just be very honest with him about how ... (read in full...)

Please help! She's stopped sending me signals!

Q.   During last semester a girl of my class started gazing at me which I noticed two or three times but I just turned my attention to some other work because initially I wasn't interested. Then I and my friend were talking about our group assignme...

A.   25 June 2011: this sounds to me she initially liked you but you didnt take any notice of her so she probably thought you werent interested so now she is making fun of you so that you notice her again the best thing to do would be to ask her outright if she likes ... (read in full...)

Does it look like she's started having feelings for me or is it part of our flirting?

Q.   ok i like my friend's girlfriend so much and they're going through a rough patch and there close to breaking up no question. but i thought that she is with my friend and i should respect that. so i have decided to move on and just see what ha...

A.   25 June 2011: hi it sounds to me that she has started to develop feelings for you no woman would say to a man can.t wait to see you in person if she didnt fancy you try to ffigure out her body language towards you and you will see if she likes you good luck hope ... (read in full...)

How do I prepare for this family life after my wedding?

Q.   Please i really need advice most especially frm the married ones. Am planning for my marriage soon, but wat is giving me sleepless nite is that afta marriage we will be staying in a family house, were all his sisters nd brothers are stayin and the ...

A.   24 June 2011: i would maybe suggest to your husband maybe after the wedding how you are feeling very uncomfortable with the situation and maybe suggest getting a place of your own as it is very important after marriage to have quality time alone hope this helps... (read in full...)

I just don't understand, what does he want?

Q.   Ok, so the guy I been talking about the whole time is back up again. We may text one another occasionally and say hi or what not. I just seem to not be able to get over him, or even let anyone else in. I feel like is the only one that has my heart. ...

A.   24 June 2011: maybe he is embarrassed by what he has said i would bring the conversation up to him and see how he acts if he seems like he wants to talk about it then tell him how you feel or if he just changes the subject i would just forgot what you heard cos ... (read in full...)

My blood boils when he talks to his girl mates!

Q.   hello, I've been with my boyfriend now for 8 months and i love him to death, but i have a huge problem which flashes warning signs, and i'm terrified to lose him. I hate him talking to girls, normally i don't show it but sometimes i get so so mad ...

A.   24 June 2011: he sounds like he loves you very much i would just try to relax and trust him because if you dont you are seriously going to lose him just dont think negatively everytime you see them talking just think he loves me not her and eventually you will ... (read in full...)

Ex has a girlfriend but wants to see me and...

Q.   Hey, I dated my ex for 3 years. About half of our relationship was long distance. I left for college (6 months after we started dating) and I was thousands of miles away. So, we got to see each other on the long breaks: christmas break, spring b...

A.   24 June 2011: hi personally i think he just wants you for the sex and to see what effect he still has on you this is totally unfair to your boyfriend and his girlfriend you deserve so much better than just been used for sex good luck hope things work out ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my boyfriend feel the same way I do about living together?

Q.   My mother hasn't spoken to me in four months and last night, started laying into me, saying she wanted an apology. The fight went like this: she insulted me.. I was hurt.. I told her to back off and leave me alone.. she wants an apology for the ...

A.   24 June 2011: the first thing i would do is find somewhere to live on your own that way no one can tell you what to do and you can whatever you want to do whenever you want to do it as for your boyfriend i wouldnt worry men are creatures of habit and are scared ... (read in full...)

I don't like the way my friend acts now that she has a BF. It's like they're bullying me, Any advice?

Q.   Me and my friend have known each other for around 6 years, she always used to joke around and was always up for a laugh. Recently though I have noticed that now she has a boyfriend she is acting differently to what she used to be like. I am not ...

A.   24 June 2011: this situaton to me sounds like your so called friend is just trying to show off in front of her boyfriend to get him to like her more i would have a word with this girl just explain to her how you feel when she treats you this way and also say that ... (read in full...)

I want to reveal my feelings but I don't know what to say. Also, he has a GF.

Q.   I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but to make it a bit clear: in November 2010 i fell headlessly in love with this boy, i am sure it is love because i felt the butterflies ...

A.   24 June 2011: hi i understand how hard this must be for you but i would not tell him how you are feeling it could go horribly wrong maybe you are just looking for signs to see if he is interested even if they are not there if you tell him how you feel he might ... (read in full...)

How do I get the girl I love to give me another chance?

Q.   I want her back! I was with this girl for 2.5 years. Asked her to marry me and planned on moving in together. Then one night we got into an argument. After that she Erased all my pics on her Facebook her parents un-friended me, and then the next ...

A.   24 June 2011: this must of been some argument if she reacted so strong to it i would send her a sweet text saying how sorry you are you hurt her and you did not mean whatever it was you did wrong if this does not work im afraid you will have to get over her... (read in full...)

I really want to get pregnant -- should I?

Q.   I want to get pregnant but I know I'm young... I'll be 17 in two months and I've been in this relationship for almost three years. My boyfriend is in the Navy and I love him very very much. We've had a miscariage and it hurt both of us very badly...

A.   24 June 2011: hi i really would not advise this you are way to young to be a mum i am 25 and a single mum and it has not been easy also what if your boyfriend does not come home you would be 17 bringing up a baby on your own this is something you really need to ... (read in full...)

Dating advice?

Q.   Hey everyone. I'm 17 and I have a question about dating. I've only ever been in one real relationship and that lasted for almost 3 years. With that said, I've never actually dated - like gone out to dinner or something with a guy that I'm not in a ...

A.   24 June 2011: i would play it cool send him a simple text like hi how ya doing x if he replys keep the conversation going and if he mentions it suggest something but if he doesnt just dont mention it ... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend but I think I am only attracted to girls, what should I do?

Q.   I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years. The problem is, however, that I'm attracted to girls. Originally I simply assumed that I was bi, but I'm realizing that I'm no longer attracted to my boyfriend. I love him and care about him, but I'm not ...

A.   24 June 2011: i would tell him the truth it is not fair on either of you ... (read in full...)

He has been cheating the entire time with a girl online! Should I break up with him? Or forgive him and trust that he wants me, not her?

Q.   Totally shattered. Please read - I have been with my boyfriend since one year. All the relationships I've been in before, the guys cheated on me. I was emotionally vulnerable when I met my present boyfriend, we had common friends. Both of us a...

A.   24 June 2011: get rid if he is cheating on you he will lower your self esteem and confidence you will never be able to trust him if he doesnt reply to your texts or calls for a while you will find yourself wondering what he is up to and if he goes out with his ... (read in full...)

I think I will be keeping my baby, does anyone have any advice for a young mum to be?

Q.   I've recently discovered I'm pregnant - and I'm not really sure what to do. I've been to the doctor and gotten an appointment for the termination clinic, as the doctor has said I could be 7-9 weeks and if I'm at the upper end of that, there's not ...

A.   24 June 2011: hi there all i can say is really have a good think about what you want to do i have just recently had a abortion at 17 weeks not through choice because i had to the baby would of been severely disabled and i would not have carried full term it was ... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend is obsessed with me! Help

Q.   My ex girlfriend is obsessed with me and won't stop calling and texting me. I've blocked her from facebook and msn but I can't block her number from my phone and I don't know how to stop her. Everyone keeps telling me to ignore her because she'll ...

A.   24 June 2011: i have had the same problem witha ex boyfriend text her just one simple text something like i am not interested in you stop stalking me. and if she does not stop you will have only one option go to the police and tell them your ex girlfriend is ... (read in full...)

How can I forget my ex?

Q.   how can i forget my past relationship?...even if i love him so much?..can you give me some ways?...

A.   24 June 2011: hi i know how you must be feeling they say time is a healer and it is the most true saying ever said the best thing to do is keep yourself busy go out with friends shopping work anything that keeps you from thinking of him and you will gradually see ... (read in full...)

How do I get over knowing he doesn't care that the relationship is over?

Q.   Hellllo, Yesterday i decided to break up with my boyfriend of 4 years,because he was lying and cheating and i finally got fed up and i was to hurt this time to try anymore. So i dont really know what to do anymore,im really confused and my ...

A.   24 June 2011: hi i have a feeling by reading this that he probably in his own strange way care about you but it also sounds like he is taking you for granted and he probably is going off doing his own thing to try to show that he his not bothered that you have ... (read in full...)

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