Should I let my baby's daddy back into our lives?
Q. hi everybody,please help!My boyfriend abandoned me since i was one month pregnant. Now my baby is 9 months and he does not know the baby. It's been two months since he is back in my life(not in my son's life),I have been trying to learn more from ...
A. 30 June 2011: he is no good for you and he will not have changed i have a 2 and a half year old son his dad left me when i was 6 weeks pregnant and it has been me and my son since he tried to get access to my son and said the same things to me your babys dad has ... (read in full...)
How can I trust me feelings for the guy that left me and our child high and dry?
Q. My boyfiend can not do anything to help my son and I. I love him for no reason,but he always tell me that he is not a jerk because he left me for 18 months and come back to me now. I do not take it as worthy just for coming back to me,but he think ...
A. 30 June 2011: tou are worth so much more he thinks you are supposed to be gratefull for him coming back to you it should be the other way around he should be grateful for you taking him back. i don.t think men like this ever change if you don,t love him i would ... (read in full...)
Is it time to break up with my girl?
Q. Ok so i have been with my girlfriend for a year and 5 months and she lives with me. The thing is I'm not sure if im still in love with her or I'm just used to her. I don't know what to do. It seems like were always arguing about little things ...
A. 30 June 2011: i would arrange a weekend away or a night out together just the 2 of you and see how things go if you have fun and a good time then you are possibly still in love with her if not and you argue and don.t enjoy yourselves then maybe its time to break ... (read in full...)
I broke up with him but he still wants me to provide him with emotional support, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I just broke up we were together for almost three years. Although both of us know it was for the best it still hurts a lot. He was very cold about it which doesn't make me feel better about anything and even brought up points that I ...
A. 30 June 2011: i have been in exactly the same situation with my ex who i was with for 3 years the best thing to do is break off communication completely my ex used to say the exact same things to me too i think they just say it so that you stay with them to make ... (read in full...)
8 months, when do I take it to the next level?
Q. I've been in a wonderful relationship for 8 months and I'm wondering when to take it to the next level? We're young, I'm 19 and he's 20 but he recently suggested the idea of us moving in together. I would love to and told him so. I wouldn't move in ...
A. 30 June 2011: your a adult now your parents can,t stop you from moving in with your boyfriend tell him that maybe a year from now you can get somewhere together ... (read in full...)
My ex told my sister she misses me but she has never called
Q. I have broken up with my ex fiance about a year ago to date, it was a tough break up for me i moved to Los Angeles from Chicago to be with her and being here alone has been hard. Basically the reason she broke up with me was because of my immaturity ...
A. 30 June 2011: this must of been hard on both of you she probably hasnt called maybe because of a few reasons she doesnt know how your going to react she probably thinks you have moved on i would call her ... (read in full...)
Can two shy people date?
Q. Hello, I met a great guy last summer and then I went off to college. I had feelings for him but never mentioned a thing. This summer, we've been hanging out but never one on one..his friend is always around. He is mostly reserved, not shy. He talks ...
A. 30 June 2011: just relax around him a bit more i know thats easier said than done try getting some time alone together and see what happens ... (read in full...)
Ex and I slept together, but I feel insecure because she's blonder, and smarter than I am
Q. my ex boyfriend and I broke up about eight months ago and I still can't get over it, we dated for two years, I was twenty and he was thirty-two, first my family was against it because of the age difference, they said he was just using me but that ...
A. 30 June 2011: i don.t think you should change for a man no way i would forget about him you will meet someone that loves you for you and doesnt put you down and cheat on you ... (read in full...)
Crush or boyfriend? They are both best friends.
Q. Ok so I need some help. I was dating this guy for almost two months then i broke up with him because i kinda have trust issues, since I was really young. Well we broke up for like three days then I went back to him because I really liked him still. ...
A. 28 June 2011: this sounds to me that you feel you shoiuld stay with your boyfriend because he.s been their for you you are staying with him out of guilt i would break it to him gently that toy want to be with your crush good luck... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I'm bisexual, if I were my family would disown me.
Q. I am straight, or so I thought I was. But lately I have been attracted to one of my female friends. I have never felt sexually attracted to a girl before, but all of a sudden I am noticing other girls to be attractive, especially one in particula...
A. 28 June 2011: i think this is perfectly normal to feel like this especially if you are in your teens everyone in their lifetime will get curious im sure that this will pass just keep it to yourself for a while see how you feel ni a few months time... (read in full...)
It seems she is looser, could she be cheating?
Q. i have this curious question about a vagina fart,I know that its caused by air being pushed from the penis,but is it mostly cause by a bigger penis,for example-I've been with the mother of my kids for 18yrs. And I don't know if because she gave ...
A. 28 June 2011: i don.t think you would be able to tell if she was cheating by this maybe she seems looser and the noises are louder because of diffrent positions maybe?... (read in full...)
I was a wild child, so he begged me to change and I did....now he thinks I'm boring!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. When we first started dating i was a wild child. I partied drank an smoked weed like every other day. I always tried to get him to go to the club with me or get his friends together for a night of ...
A. 27 June 2011: congratulations no you are not wrong sounds to me he doesnt know what he wants no wonder you don.t want sex being pregnant is a hard thing to go through all your hormones are mixed up tell him he needs to grow up and start treating you properly ... (read in full...)
How to make a move ?
Q. So I'm nearly 16, and a few days ago, I got my first boyfriend! My bf has never had a girlfriend either (he's the same age as me) so we're both new to the whole relationship thing :P Okay, basically, we're both really shy. So far, we haven't ...
A. 27 June 2011: i think the holding hands thing is always easier than hugging when you are alone or walking somewhere walk close by his side and grab his hand gently and hold it look at him and smile works everytime plus this will put him at ease and help get over ... (read in full...)
He brought his ex but not me !
Q. Hiya, I have a problem that I'm not sure if it is a real problem or not!! My Fiancée and I have been dating for two years, living together for one year and getting married next year. He has just dropped it on me that he wants to go camping with...
A. 27 June 2011: no you are not wrong i would also try to stop him going if you don.t trust him there is no future between you.s as for the not spending any time with you that sounds to me like you are being used i have been in the same situation and once i broke up ... (read in full...)
How can I help her get over him?
Q. How can I help my friend? Lets call her A. All last summer, she was in a relationship with a horrible guy. Lets call him J. J treated her like crap around other people, cheated on her, stared blatantly at other girls, wouldn't even pay for their ...
A. 27 June 2011: i would try turn your friends attention to someone else once someone cheats on you that trust has gone and it will always be there cheats do not change ... (read in full...)
Is Oral, sex ?
Q. Here it goes.. I was saving myself until I got married for the right man. I was making out with my boyfriend and I ended up giving him oral sex. Does that make me a non virgin anymore?...
A. 27 June 2011: oral is still sex but you are still a virgin as your hymen will still be in tact this will break through penetration ... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex of my mind?
Q. well I break up with my boyfriend, I realized that I did not love him anymore so....we both did agree to break up and think it was for the best because it was not working out but I still always thinking of him and I do miss him and the times we had ...
A. 27 June 2011: personally the only way i find to get over someone is to keep yourself busy work friends nights out etc and gradually without realising it you won,t think of him and you will feel so muck better keep yourself surrounded by good friends they always ... (read in full...)
He is my FWB and now he tells me that he cares for me and likes my company, what's that about?
Q. Hey Cupids, I've been having this friend with benefits for nearly 6 months now. We meet twice a week, watch a movie, have dinner or lunch, we talk a lot and basically have a good time- with some sex involved. I'm a little confused though because t...
A. 27 June 2011: hi this sounds to me he is developing feelings for you if he says he would like to see you with no sex involved he likes you if you like him the same way tell him if not just pretend you hadn.t heard him good luck... (read in full...)
I just found out my ex cheated, but I'm still in love!
Q. me and my girlfriend were dating for 3 years. i found out that she liked and was talking to this kid she was going to college with. i freaked out and we broke up. 3 weeks later she started dating him. now were talking again after 8 months and ...
A. 26 June 2011: i always say once a cheat always a cheat if you got back together again whats to say she wouldnt cheat again i would tell her you just wants to be friends... (read in full...)
She tells me she was seeing another guy for the week we were broken up!
Q. my girlfriend keep breaking up with me and saying she cant do this anymore but then a week later she come back to me and then tells me she was seeing another guy for that week we were broken up i dont know what to do i lover but i dont think she ...
A. 26 June 2011: this situation sound to me that she is seeing the 2 of you and can.t make up her mind who she wants to be with personally next tim you break up tell her its for good that you are done with her messing you about you don.t deserve that... (read in full...)
He packed up and moved out without an explanation!
Q. my boyfriend of almost 3 years packed up all his stuff and moved out while i was at work, then called me after he had already moved out, supposidly he is living with a guy from his work but he didn't really tell me much except that he loved me but ...
A. 26 June 2011: i really feel sorry for you he has took the cowards way out rather than telling you face to face how he was feeling personally i think he has probably met someone else i don,t mean to upset you but men don,t always think with there brains and at ... (read in full...)
Calling while he's traveling? Just being a guy, or not into me?
Q. He's away on business - he doesn't call unless asked. Does that mean he's not into me? We've been dating exclusively 7 months. He rarely emails or texts me. Communication really isn't his thing. But when we're together he's wonderful! Should I be ...
A. 26 June 2011: guys are known for lack of communication maybe tell him you would like to keep in touch more see how he reacts i personally wouldnt worry though my boyfriend lives 30 seconds away and we hardly ever text email call or see each other i think its a ... (read in full...)
He doesn't trust me and I don't know what to do about it?
Q. Ok, so I feel like I have a little dilemma here. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We have known who each other was for over 10 years now, but ran into each other again last year and started dating. We are both divorced, ...
A. 26 June 2011: i would talk to him tell him how you feel about him that you are not going to cheat on him and try work through the trust issues together also try get the closeness back maybe try going for a weekend away if you can just to spend some time together ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex (who is now just my friend) that I still have feelings for him?
Q. Should I tell my ex (who is now my friend) that I still have feelings for him? So my long distance ( a few hours drive) boyfriend of 7 months, broke up with me about 2 months ago. He really had no reason, except that “he’s not ready for a girl...
A. 26 June 2011: to be honest if a man of 31 yrs old is not ready for a relationship he is never going to be he is only interested in sleeping around i would forget him and move on you can do so much more and you have also got to think of your sexual health if he ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my drunken mistake?
Q. Okay, so I don't really know how to explain this, so I'll just jump right in. About a week ago, I met the guy one of my friends is talking to. We all hung out with some of our other friends one night. Since me and the guy(let's call him Dave) w...
A. 26 June 2011: i would not say anything you were both drunk and it was a mistake just make sure it doesnt happen again also you can get the morning after pill up to 72 hours later... (read in full...)
Husband cheated on me with 2 girls and has babies with both, but refuses to leave me. What should I do?
Q. Hello, I have a question. I have been with my husband 11 years. We have 2 kids. I just found out at the end of the year he has cheated on me twice and has two kids with two different girls. I feel betrayed and don't know what to do. I don't know if ...
A. 26 June 2011: you.ve got to get tough with him now tell him you want him to go and if he won.t you will go see a soliciter about it how can you possibly trust him again after cheating on you twice and having kids with these women you deserve so much better good ... (read in full...)
I try rationalizing it in my head but her horrified response really messed with my head. Opinions? Anything?
Q. Alright, I don't know what to think here. I'll make it short, but I dated this guy and things just did not work out for several reasons, but we're still attracted to each other and have remained great friends since our break up. He calls me his ...
A. 26 June 2011: i would do what feels right for you if your happy with the arrangment then carry on but if not deep down stop doing it every woman deserves better than this you are being used i have been in the same situation goodluck... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my boyfriend will meet another girl at university. How can I be more confident, and overcome the unease/trust issues that distance brings?
Q. Hi, I'm in an LDR and my boyfriend is going into first year university next year at a specialized school for people who share his talents and interests. We are very different, the whole "opposites attract" idea. I am worried he will find a girl...
A. 26 June 2011: it is very important that you learn to trust him because without trust a relationship can,t go anywhere has he ever given you any reasons not to trust him? the whole distance thing is going to be hard for both of you but in time you will adjust to ... (read in full...)
Bored with my relationship but worried that if we split its going to make things complicated with the baby...
Q. I'm 20 years old and been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. She moved in my place in october when our daughter was born which she is 8 months old now. I'm so bored with the relationship, the sex ect. I acually fantasize about the last gir...
A. 26 June 2011: it sounds to me that you only love her as you said cos you are used to her just explain to her that you will always be there for her and the baby if they need you and also that you want regular contact with the baby it sounds like you already know ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says my sex drive is craven, not glutenous. What does that mean?
Q. Dear all,your views please! I have a high sex drive,and have been seeing my bf for four months. We had tons of sex at the start with both of us initiating. However,it now seems to be me starting things. Over the last few weeks,he has made me feel ...
A. 26 June 2011: good luck x... (read in full...)
Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?
Q. Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...
A. 26 June 2011: ok if you believe him maybe he is telling the truth you know him better than any of us do... (read in full...)
Does he still want to be involved with his ex?
Q. What if your boyfriend keeps liking the facebook status of his ex-girlfriend knowing that the status is for him? Does it mean he isnt over his ex and still likes her??...
A. 25 June 2011: thats not good. yes i think he still likes her sorry. ... (read in full...)
Can a promiscuous man change?
Q. In your opinion, can a man who has a history of random sex with random women in excess, ever actually grow up and fall in love, and stay satisified with one woman? I'm dating a man who is 37 and recently discovered he was extremely promiscuous in ...
A. 25 June 2011: yes they can change but what you really need to ask yourself is - do you think he has changed or do you think he will end up hurting you?... (read in full...)
Do men or women have more one night stands?
Q. Has anyone done research about whether men or women are more likely to have one-night stands, flings, or other meaningless relationships? I am a man and I have never had a one night stand. None of the men I know well enough to ask about th...
A. 25 June 2011: i think men are more likely to have more one stands than women because women get to emotionally attached more easily than men.... (read in full...)
Parasite Girlfriend is running me dry. What can I do?
Q. HELP!!!!! I am in a relationship with a girl I live with and have been dating for 2 years. Ever since I met her I have been paying all her bills. You name it I pay for everything...cell phone, car payment, rent, clothing, food, child support ...
A. 25 June 2011: she is using you for a easy life. get rid of her and find someone who will treat you right.... (read in full...)
Somebody is 'planting' panties
Q. My wife recently discovered a pair of panties which were obviously planted by (we suspect) during a recent visit by an envious/jealous guests (younger adult neice). Luckily, my wife knows I had nothing to do with the matter. Any suggestions on how ...
A. 25 June 2011: i would get a security camera and try to see who it is ... (read in full...)
I just found out the guy my wife lost her viginity to had a bigger penis
Q. hi just found out the guy my wife lost her virginty to was my 2nd cousin after 22 years of married life when she blurted out his name by mistake i asked her his name and found out he had a bigger penis and said she was sorry had i known this i would ...
A. 25 June 2011: she,s not with him is she she is with you. stop worrying over something pointless. is it really worth it after 22 yrs of marriage?... (read in full...)
My BF doesn't want to go for my niece's christening and doesn't want me to go either. If I do, he would break up with me. What should I do?
Q. What would you do if you were me? Hello. Some advice please. I come from a very close family and we are not religious at all. My sister however has decided to get my niece christened. When my boyfriend found out about this he was totally against ...
A. 25 June 2011: i would go. personally its your family. talk to your boyfriend and try make him see why you are going because its your family and you care.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my neighbor that her husband is probably cheating on her?
Q. Hi Goodpeople, I need some advices here... The couple and my family used to live in same neighborhood. We go to the same church, but we are not that close. They are at middle of 50s and have several grown up children, and grandchildren. Ab...
A. 25 June 2011: i would really stay out of this it could backfire on you. maybe his wife knows but turns a blind eye to it. maybe its a open relationship and she does the same. ... (read in full...)
Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?
Q. Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...
A. 25 June 2011: even so through a insurance company everything would of been cleared from the phone... (read in full...)
Scared by my ex!
Q. i broke up with an ex-boyfriend like 6 months ago. we were one of those on again off again couples, so it wasnt our first break up. I ended the relationship around january due to some of his behaviour that i really really didn't like. But we chose ...
A. 25 June 2011: if i were you i would take your friends advice. people like this are dangerous. i would go to the police get a restraining order block him on facebook and change your phone number ... (read in full...)
Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?
Q. Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...
A. 25 June 2011: sorry to upset you but yes sounds like he's lying ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says my sex drive is craven, not glutenous. What does that mean?
Q. Dear all,your views please! I have a high sex drive,and have been seeing my bf for four months. We had tons of sex at the start with both of us initiating. However,it now seems to be me starting things. Over the last few weeks,he has made me feel ...
A. 25 June 2011: i would stop initiating just for a couple of weeks not for good and see if he comes onto you maybe it is something as simple as the fact that you have a higher sex drive than him and he doesnt need it as much ... (read in full...)
Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?
Q. Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...
A. 25 June 2011: a refurbished phone would have been cleared of all the history and stuff maybe he was on the sites but he was embarassed and realised he had been caught so he denied it i would see if it happens again then if it does you know he has been on them ... (read in full...)
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