Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 6 July 2011: hi congratulations on the preganancy hope everything goes smoothly good luck :D... (read in full...)
Will there be something wrong with my baby? Will I be able to keep it a secret that my cousin is the father?
Q. i am currently 7 weeks pregnant by my first cousin but please dont judge me i had no idea he was my cousin till i found out at a funeral but anyways i dont believe in abortion but i wanna no what are the chances of something wrong happening to my ...
A. 4 July 2011: you will manage on your own. i have a 2 and a half year old son. His dad left me when i was 6 weeks pregnant with him and has not seen him at all I have brought him up alone it isn't as hard as people say it is. It is the most rewarding thing ever w... (read in full...)
Did he lose interest? How do I make him want me again?
Q. My boyfriend left for camp Monday morning. I stayed the night at his house Sunday night after he asked me to. We didn't do anything sexual and haven't gone farther than touching and making out. I'm 16, he's 17, and we've been talking for about a ...
A. 2 July 2011: i wouldnt worry he probably can't get a signal or something he will probably text you when he gets back from camp with a good reason why you haven't heard from him... (read in full...)
He said not to call him, fine! But why does he keep calling me?
Q. I broke up we my boyfriend of a year. He's 36 I'm 19. We broke up because he didn't have time for me and he's not the into me no more. I pretty much annoyed him most of the time. I decided that I don't want to be with someone that would be mean to ...
A. 2 July 2011: i would move on. Sounds like you are wasting your time and if you keep telling him. You love him. He will think he can treat you however he wants and you will let him keep on doing it. Because you love him move on and forget about him, he aint wort... (read in full...)
Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 2 July 2011: i would tell your husband what she has done and tell him you don't want her coming round anymore if he wants to see her he will have to go to her house to see her. it is your home as well... (read in full...)
How can I advise my lecturer that he needs to stop seeing another student?
Q. Please cupid friends how will i advice this my lecturer that is very close to me that he should stop being in a relationship with his student because they don't respect him any more. Please any advice cos he take me like his daughter, so i want to ...
A. 1 July 2011: i would leave it up to him no wonder they have lost respect for him he shouldnt even be dating a student to begin with ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if he's actually into me, or even my gender for that matter, without coming right out and saying it?
Q. I met this guy about 2 weeks ago, and he is absolutely adorable in every way. The last time we hung out, we were extremely intoxicated, and things got a little intimate. We did not have any form of sex, but we kissed and touched. I was euphoric and ...
A. 1 July 2011: just say to him gently that you would like to talk to him and just ask him. Its the only way you will know... (read in full...)
Stay, make memories and then be heartbroken? Or break it off and avoid even more heartbreak later?
Q. Im 15, and ive been seeing an 18 year old for the last month, 'seeing' someone is basically seeing how it goes, not in a relationship. the only problem with this is, its been a month and he doesn't talk to me as much as i would like.. and he doenst ...
A. 1 July 2011: i personally would finish it now before you really start to fall for him then he has to go away... (read in full...)
What are the best ways to gently break the news to my Bf that I'm not having this baby?
Q. I need advice on how to break the news to my bf that i want a termination of our pregnancy:( We've been together 9 months, and despite being on the contraceptive pill, i've found out i'm 6 wks pregnant. My bf was initially stunned, but having had ...
A. 1 July 2011: i wouldnt rush into something like this it is a big decision you both need to sit down and talk things through properly i am i single mum to a 2 and a half year old little boy and it is the best thing i ever done. As for the money side of it you ... (read in full...)
We hardly spend anytime together and when we do we jump straight to sex..what can I do?
Q. I started messing around with a guy in April, we started dating in May. It's been almost 2 months goin out with him. But when it all started everything was PERFECT and it was amazing. 3 weeks after we started goin out things started changing...
A. 1 July 2011: this sounds to me that you are being used for sex and sex only it doesnt sound like he wants a relationship with you he's just in for the sex hope didn't upset you just giving you a honest answer you can do so much better you don't deserve to be ... (read in full...)
Why do people resort to lying?
Q. hello dear cupid, a quick question - why do people resort to lying? why are some people complusive liars? And even when you know the truth and they know you know the truth, they still lie and try wriggle their way out of it, even if it makes th...
A. 1 July 2011: people often lie because their lives are so dull they think nobody is interested in them so they lie to make themselves sound more interesting ... (read in full...)
Is my ex still upset about us breaking up?
Q. Do you think my ex is still upset about us breaking up ?. He sent me a message a couple of weeks ago out of the blue saying " well, i hope your life is better, and that you are happy, i really do " . We've spoken again a couple of times since then, ...
A. 1 July 2011: yes he is still upset about the break up sounds to me he is blaming himself for what happened between the two of you... (read in full...)
Can I kick start puberty?
Q. Well! I'm nearly 14 and I have had no signs of starting puberty and its getting embarresing! I have had no growth spurts or anything and I'm getting self councious about it now and I was wondereing if there was anyway to kick start puberty and what ...
A. 1 July 2011: no you cannot kickstart puberty this only happens when your body is ready try to relax and not worry about it. it will happen in time ... (read in full...)
Second chance..do I deserve it with this guy?
Q. When i was 14 i was really close with this guy, we were so close for about 1 and a half years, then he asked me out. He would have been my first ever boyfriend but because of that i freaked out and said no. After that for a while it was awkward ...
A. 1 July 2011: of course you still deserve him you just werent ready for a boyfriend then i would tell him how you,ve been feeling and see what he thinks of you,s giving it a go good luck... (read in full...)
Is she just wanting to take it slowly? Am I completely missing her signals? What's going on?
Q. Just been out on a 2nd date with a girl I'm interested in. We met online so this was literally the second time we've met. Much like the first date conversation was free and easy. We laughed and joked a lot and seemed to be enjoying each others ...
A. 1 July 2011: i wouldnt worry too much it is very early days yet it sounds to me she is wanting to take it slow maybe if you,s are walking together put your arm around her shoulders see how she reacts Good luck... (read in full...)
My f*** buddy is confusing me! Help!
Q. Ok so in December my co worker introduced me to a guy that she used to date a while ago. we hung out on a few dates but one night he invited me over his house and we ended up f***ing. he told me that he wasn't ready nor had time for a relationship ...
A. 1 July 2011: i would just come right out with him and ask him life is to short to mess about ... (read in full...)
Why wont he take his profile down from an online dating site?
Q. I just got back with my boyfriend and he is still on match.com. I know he is not active on there but his profile is posted and he is still a paying member. And women can contact him. You know last time we broke up he stayed posted on there too and ...
A. 1 July 2011: i would secretly delete it if you know his passwords and things he can,t say anything to you about it cos then you can say to him what are you bothered for your with me you don,t need to go on ther to meet a woman anymore just do not tell him it was ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by cutting him off?
Q. I'll just jump right into it. I dated this guy. I completely fell head-over-heels for him. In a few short weeks I was infatuated with him. We dated for about a month and a half before breaking up for complicated reasons. He said he wanted m...
A. 1 July 2011: i would stay away from him he sounds way too possesive and controlling "he wouldnt let you wear make up" no way you deserve so much better than this and possesive men only get worse they are very jealous people they will eventually try to stop you ... (read in full...)
Should I start dating?
Q. Ive been wondering for awhile if I should get into the dating world or not. Ive been mainly focused on college, work, and building my career and lately ive been thinking since im young and such what should I do? Iam 20 years old and iam a virgin so ...
A. 1 July 2011: so what if you are a virgin at 20 there is nothing wrong with that ... (read in full...)
I miss him but I can't forgive him!
Q. So I have been friends with this guys for a few years. Then we started flirting and it went far. We talked about the flirting and what we thought about it and what we thought about dating each other. Then we made a deal if I would go to this...
A. 1 July 2011: he must of hurt you what he said to you and if he says he was joking a few weeks or a few days later he obviously meant it i would tell him it hurt you and if he ever says anything like what he said you you will never speak to him again ... (read in full...)
He still hasn't kissed me! Should I carry on waiting or make the first move myself?
Q. okay so my bf and i have been dating for 2 months and we still havent kissed!! isnt that weird? anyway hes told me he wanted to many times but he knows im waiting for him to kiss me first and make the first move.. im just wondering if i should ...
A. 1 July 2011: i would kiss him if you wait for the man to do it you will wait forever sounds like he is shy i would wait till you are alone together somewhere stand in front of him while you are talking to him as you are talking look at his lips occasionally then ... (read in full...)
How do I get my teacher out of my head and make sure this doesn't happen again?
Q. so I've liked my teacher for about 2 1/2 years since grade 8 something like that. Anyways i'm done jr.high now and even though I've only been off for a day or two i miss him terribly,last day of school i gave him a hug and that felt like closer but ...
A. 1 July 2011: as much as you think you might like him do not act upon it you may get into serious trouble i would try keeping yourself busy go out with friends family etc ... (read in full...)
We were together 5 years and he never wanted to move in with me, but now he is living with a girl he hardly knows!
Q. ok so me and my ex broke up 2 yrs ago.. We were together for 5 yrs.. We had a good relationship, we hardly ever fought.. Family loved me..everything was good so I thought he lost my trust I couldn't trust him so why be with someone u can't trust ...
A. 1 July 2011: sounds to me he has grown up a lot since the two of you split up i would forget about him and move on like he has if you rush into a relationship it won,t work... (read in full...)
Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 1 July 2011: i would ignore his family. people are so judgemental tell them it is none of their bussiness and concentrate on your relationship with your husband if you start to argue back with his family it may cause problems between you and your husband the ... (read in full...)
Does he just want to be with me again for sex? What is going on in his head?
Q. How do I get over this guy? I've liked him since 6th grade and we just recently graduated from high school. He is also one of my best friends. We had dated for a month and a half this year. We even went to prom together. I was happy in the ...
A. 1 July 2011: this does sound like he just wants you for sex you may be ready to lose your virginty but wait till you are in a happy loving relationship and make him wait so he respects you don,t lose it to him as you will regret it i was in the same situation ... (read in full...)
Should I stay friends with my ex?
Q. My boyfriend of about a yr and 1/2 just broke up with me. I am 20. He made me grow. He was my first love. I felt so comfortable with him and I trust him. He said that he fell out of love with me but still loves me and wants the best for me. He ...
A. 1 July 2011: it is possible to stay friends with exes it is hard though as he may or you may get a new partner i would tell him that it wouldnt be possible to stay friends with him as you will only end up getting hurt and that is not fair on you as you would ... (read in full...)
What is more pleasurable?
Q. Just out of curiosity what is more pleasurable vaginal or anal sex for both the guy and the girl?...
A. 1 July 2011: i find vaginal sex much much more pleasurable than anal as this can be uncomfortable men usually like anal as it is more tight for them ... (read in full...)
She has let me back into her life a little, how do I get her back from here?
Q. advice required. ive previously asked for help with the situation with my x the woman i loved. basically over the course of last 6/7 years ive constantly flirted, emailed, texted other women and messed around, never once have i done anything...
A. 1 July 2011: she has probably thought that you werent happy with her otherwise you wouldnt have felt the need to have to do that i would try talking to her again explain to her you thought it was harmless and that you love her and you won,t do it again as for ... (read in full...)
Will there be something wrong with my baby? Will I be able to keep it a secret that my cousin is the father?
Q. i am currently 7 weeks pregnant by my first cousin but please dont judge me i had no idea he was my cousin till i found out at a funeral but anyways i dont believe in abortion but i wanna no what are the chances of something wrong happening to my ...
A. 1 July 2011: yes there is a chance they maybe something wrong with the baby i would go talk to your doctor and explain the situation they will probably tell you the chances also try not to worry to much as they can do screening tests and scans that pick things ... (read in full...)
Have I scared him away with my behaviour? What should I do now?
Q. Hello all I need some advice. I was seeing a man for 15 months when he ended it and told me that e cared for me but could not give me what I wanted. He told me that he wanted to stay friends. I have never stayed friends with and ex before and in...
A. 1 July 2011: it sounds to me he is the type of person that doesnt want you but doesnt want anyone else to have you either you don,t deserve to be treated like this you deserve much better i would also stop texting him see if you hear from him if not then leave ... (read in full...)
I have problems getting on with other women!
Q. I have a major issue which has been bothering me for a while and honest brutal answers would be much appreciated. I am a 30 year old woman. I am good looking, I take care of my body, eat well and believe in being the best that I can be. I am ...
A. 1 July 2011: i am in the same situation i don,t have any female friends and i asked one friend a while ago we don,t speak now and she said she was jealous of me and scared that her boyfriend would want me rather than her as like you do i take care of my body and ... (read in full...)
BF is lying to me and using my money!
Q. i became close friends with a guy 3 years ago and helped him loads, financially and wih work. hes always told white lies but thryve become black lies. for example 3 weeks ago he asked me to check his resume on his email and i did but also noticed ...
A. 1 July 2011: i would tell him you don,t want to speak to him ever again that you are not going to used and that you want your money back which he has conned you out of good luck... (read in full...)
Should I go to the cinema with my ex? I'm not sure I can do it again.....
Q. My ex boyfriend dumped me cos he said he didn't want a relationship. He asked to be friends but I told him I can't be his friend cos I love him to much. He said ok and I deleted him off my phone. After 5weeks he rang me saying he's sorry for ev...
A. 1 July 2011: personally i wouldnt go if you still love him and he says to you again he doesnt want a relationship you are going to be the one getting hurt again not him you will meet someone who wants exactly the same as you good luck... (read in full...)
My married lover now wants a threesome!
Q. I have been in a "relationship" with a married man for 7 years. We see each other every now and again and really enjoy each other physically, emotionally and psychologically. He was always honest with regards to his status and that was fine with me. ...
A. 1 July 2011: men are obssessed with threesomes purely for one reason they see double of everything if you are not comfortable with this tell him don,t let him push you into something you don,t want to do... (read in full...)
We both cheated on each other and now there are some serious trust issues!
Q. I recently got back together with my baby's mamma. we have two daughters together 3yr and 6yr..Also she more or less is stepmother to my oldest from another relashionship. So were together 6 or 7 yr when I lost our house and she was left to take ...
A. 1 July 2011: personally i would split up and stay split up for good this is no relationship a relationship is built on trust and if that is gone there is no point trying to regain it ... (read in full...)
FWB who has moved to another state, wants to take our relationship to the next level. Now he wants nude pics of mine. Thoughts?
Q. So here's my dilemma, I a 20yr old woman and last year I left a 4yr relationship and I knew I wanted to be single for a while but as we all know not everything goes as planned. A few months after my break up I met a 23yr old guy in November...
A. 1 July 2011: no i would never send nude pics anymore to anyone what if you,s split up and he put them or the internet or something like that he may also show his mates i had that happen to me once ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am sacrificing a lot and he is not having to sacrifice anything! Am I being selfish?
Q. In a long distance relationship for 2 years. When my fiancé and I got engaged we agreed that I would move to his city he has a son there from a previous relationship and I don’t have children. It would be reasonably easy for me to find a job there ...
A. 1 July 2011: i would talk to him tell him how you feel and tell him what changes you are making with your life to be with him and ask him what changes he is making i think this is very unfair of him... (read in full...)
Should I just leave it now and wait? He is driving me crazy!
Q. I met this guy Jake at the start of March this year. We got together on the night that we met and from then on he pretty much tried everything to get me. At first i was a bit standoffish because i had just been messed over by a previous guy. After a ...
A. 1 July 2011: i would tell him you don,t want anything to do with him as much as you like him you deserve so much more than this i am in exactly the same situation eventually you will meet a guy who will be so much better for you and who will be straight and ... (read in full...)
She has torn my family apart but will not speak to her family about our relationship!
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-left-my-wife-for-her-and-now.html this is my previous post.... now to update a little... i have received 3 phone calls this week from ELF and she has finally told me her reasons for ending it: She d...
A. 1 July 2011: i wouldnt of resigned from your job personally all i can say is ring her arrange to meet up and have a really good talk talk things through tell each other exactly how you feel good luck... (read in full...)
Girlfriend always thinks I'm going to repeat what I've done in the past!
Q. I need help me and my gf are going through a major fight she thinks I will never change when I already have she dwells in the past thinking I will lie to her and cheat on her when I won't I love her to death I would do anything for her I never want ...
A. 30 June 2011: tell all this to her explain how you feel about her and tell her the past is the past you want a future together with her and only her ... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work if both of you alienate your entire family?
Q. One question....Can a relationship survive/work if you alienate your entire family on both sides?? Anyone been in the situation where you have been in a relationship and your entire family are against you?...
A. 30 June 2011: ive been in the same situation i was with this man for 3 and a half year nobody in my family spoke to me and we split up and i had no one i think you should never alienate your family as they are the one,s that are always there for you even if they ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he likes me but is bothered by the age gap?
Q. I have an attractive, single friend (we worked together last summer and have kept in touch) who I get on with like a house on fire. I'm pretty smitten and I get the vibe that he's attracted to me too. Only problem is I'm 23 and he's 38, and we're ...
A. 30 June 2011: i would call him and ask him to come round talk to him say you have feelings for him and you were just wondering how he felt about you personally i wouldnt jump on him he may just think you want sex good luck ... (read in full...)
Should I let my baby's daddy back into our lives?
Q. hi everybody,please help!My boyfriend abandoned me since i was one month pregnant. Now my baby is 9 months and he does not know the baby. It's been two months since he is back in my life(not in my son's life),I have been trying to learn more from ...
A. 30 June 2011: he is no good for you and he will not have changed i have a 2 and a half year old son his dad left me when i was 6 weeks pregnant and it has been me and my son since he tried to get access to my son and said the same things to me your babys dad has ... (read in full...)
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