What am I trying to convince myself of?
Q. I need some advice really quick, because i am seeing this guy tomorrow and i think i made a drunken mistake last week! I want to sort out what to do, I don't know whether i should stop things before they go further! Basically he has liked me for...
A. 6 July 2011: i wouldnt start dating him if you are not sure whether you like him or not its pretty obvious you don,t it sounds like you are trying to force yourself to like him when you meet someone you like you know straight away you will only end up hurting ... (read in full...)
He asked me to marry him....do you really think he could've changed?
Q. So my boyfriend and I( 15 and 17) have been on and off for about 6 months. I never thought me and him could be together when i first saw him because he's all like handsome with blue eyes, and a super athletic body; he plays football and runs ...
A. 6 July 2011: he is just stringing you along i would break up with him as for the marriage thing you are way to young to be thinking about that and especially when you have only known each other 6 months... (read in full...)
My partner is a virgin....what if I try and he doesn't want to do it?
Q. So i've been dating this guy for a couple of months. I am 23 and he is 21. But he's a virgin. I knew it even before we started dating, but i didn't think it was important. I'm not a very sexual person but still, eventually i'm gonna want to do it...
A. 6 July 2011: i would hold off for a couple more month if he gets uncomfortable talking about it he will be just as uncomfortable with actually having sex sex is not a main part of a relationship i would spend some time together and get comfortable with each ... (read in full...)
We are supposed to be having our first date tonight...but now she is acting real odd!
Q. I have been friends with this girl for a few years now. we've not been close but always shared a strange attraction. Anyway, we both are recently single, but she's still living with her physically and emotionally abusive ex for about another week ...
A. 6 July 2011: i would say she is being fair she has been totally honest with you i bet when she moves out from her ex she will be a lot happier and you will probably go on the date just be there for her be a friend for now as this sounds like it is what she needs ... (read in full...)
Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 6 July 2011: hi congratulations on the preganancy hope everything goes smoothly good luck :D... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's family wont let her make her own decisions and she cant come to see me with my child!
Q. Hi everyone its been so long since ive post to you wonderful people. This now me and my girlfriend have a 1 month old daughter we stay about 15 minutes from each other. The problem is i want her to come and visit me sometimes now and her mom is ...
A. 4 July 2011: i would suggest you go to your girlfriends to see your daughter as a 1 month old baby needs routine also why don,t you ask your girlfriend too get a house together that way you can be a proper family and you can see your daughter as much as you want ... (read in full...)
She has my shoulder to cry on but I'm afraid she'll go back to her ex
Q. i met this girl and is in love with her but we're just friends, we have been friends for quite some time. she had a bf when i met her and now they broke up few weeks ago. we talk a lot and lent her my shoulder to cry on. problem is, i really want to ...
A. 4 July 2011: i would give her time if you tell her how you feel now she may say yes but it may also be a rebound with her because you have been there for her just carry on being her friend and being there for her and in time when you think she is over her ex ... (read in full...)
Does deleted message from my wife phone mean anything?
Q. A year ago there was this guy whom my wife befriended. She said he told he he love her but she declined his broposal. I told her to cut her cuntact with him to help him to deal with it and she agreed. But they kept texting since then. Yesterday ...
A. 4 July 2011: i agree i would tell your wife to cut contact with him. Also i would ask her what them deleted messages, where tell her you want to know what they said, has your wife been acting any diffrent towards you? if so i would try doing a little detectiv... (read in full...)
Will there be something wrong with my baby? Will I be able to keep it a secret that my cousin is the father?
Q. i am currently 7 weeks pregnant by my first cousin but please dont judge me i had no idea he was my cousin till i found out at a funeral but anyways i dont believe in abortion but i wanna no what are the chances of something wrong happening to my ...
A. 4 July 2011: you will manage on your own. i have a 2 and a half year old son. His dad left me when i was 6 weeks pregnant with him and has not seen him at all I have brought him up alone it isn't as hard as people say it is. It is the most rewarding thing ever w... (read in full...)
How do I get over my ex?
Q. So I'm having a really hard time getting over my ex after she dumped me, and its not helping that we're still friends. what should i do?...
A. 4 July 2011: as hard as it may be i would tell her you canot be friends anymore that it is making it to hard to get over her still being friends it will be hard but you will get over it ... (read in full...)
Does my ex still kind of have feelings for me?
Q. A couple days ago my boyfriend of about a month broke up with me because of personal issues going on in his life and because he'll be too busy to be able to balance a relationship. Today I had to meet up with him for the first time since we sp...
A. 3 July 2011: yes this does sound like he still has feelings for you i would try hang out with him a bit more if you still like him that is and see what happens i think if he feels that way about you in time he will tell you... (read in full...)
Feeling withdrawn, depressed and fearful after a break-up. Is this normal?
Q. After breaking up for good with a girl I have been seeing and communicatin constantly with for the last 2 years or so I don't want to do anything but sleep or stay at home. i am ignorin calls from friends and really dont want to do anything at all. ...
A. 3 July 2011: i know how you feel i think everybody has been through this at some point in their lives i would suggest go out with your friends have fun and try to take your mind off it as sitting about on your own will only make it worse because it is all you ... (read in full...)
We spent a night in a hotel and now no contact...please help!
Q. Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, i have a bit of a confusing situation in my mind. Recently ive been talking to a guy who i became very close to, he always text me 'good morning beautiful' every day and we stayed up til at least 2am most days just ...
A. 3 July 2011: why don,t you send him a simple text msg like hi how are you just keep in casual and see if he replies if not he was just after sex maybe he was dissapointed at only doing oral sex maybe he wanted full intercourse either way sorry to say this sounds ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I could survive an LDR...should I just dump him although it would break my heart??
Q. From what I understand MOST LDRs don't work out in the end. I understand there are some, and it all depends on the relationship, and the circumstances, but for the most part, I don't have faith I could survive one. The problem is I'm just entering...
A. 3 July 2011: a lot of long distance relationships can work out if you make regular visits to see each other and keep in contact phone calls texts email that sorta thing amd as for you wanting to go out all the time and him wanting to stay in work something out ... (read in full...)
My best friend is rebelling against the guys that hurt her and now I'm worried she is self-destructing herself!
Q. I really need to understand what my best friend is going through. She is self destructing herself, with constant jump from guy to guy and what she calls meaningless things with them. She has always been a happy well respected girl, she never ...
A. 3 July 2011: i can relate to exactly what she is going through and how she is feeling and it is not nice she probably feels hurt and worthless by the way men have treated her so she is going out kissing men and not getting involved with them because she doesn't ... (read in full...)
Do you think we could get married someday?
Q. so what if im only 15...i have been dating this guy for over a year ALMOST 2 years. he is my third boyfriend. i love him so much. none of my other boyfriend were like him. he is original. he loves me. he proved it to me so many times. we're not like ...
A. 3 July 2011: i wouldnt start thinking about marriage yet, you are way too young. you hear of loads of couples that have been together many years and get married just for the sake of it because it is familliar to each of you. i would wait at least another 10 y... (read in full...)
We have an open relationship. Does that mean he doesn't love me?
Q. hi ok i have been in an open relationship for a year now.i know pple may critisize but it works for us we r both not ready to propaly settle down i am not jealouse if he goes and sleeps with other girls cause i know that to him its just for fun for ...
A. 3 July 2011: i don't mean to upset you but no he probably doesn't love you. he is just in it for the sex and you happily give him it. he can't love you if he is going around sleeping with other women when a boyfriend truly loves you he wouldn't look at another ... (read in full...)
Does a relationship work if 2 cheaters get together?
Q. Can a relationship work if both people have cheated to be together? Will it have a happy ending or not and how long roughly do cheaters stay together before things start to go wrong? ...
A. 3 July 2011: no way will 2 cheaters stay together it won,t be long before one of you cheats on the other one... (read in full...)
Do I ask her out after she dumped me?
Q. Okay so there's this girl who i really like, she's my ex infact and her friends keep bugging me to ask her out but im unsure and also i do not know how/what to say, she asked me out when we dated and also she dumped me so im lost. How do I ask her ...
A. 3 July 2011: i wouldnt ask her out again you have been there before and it didnt work out whats to say it would work out again this time?... (read in full...)
Can I avoid running from love?
Q. I got back together with an old flame last month (20yrs ago old flame!), we have spoken loads on phone/ by text and have agreed to take things slowly. I've met his family and friends, he has no kids/ ex wives etc. and is an absolute darling. We ...
A. 3 July 2011: i would ignore your feelings and listen to your heart do what feels right he is obviously in love with you and sounds like you are him just go with the flow see what happens don,t be afraid of how you are feeling... (read in full...)
He's very shy, how do I get his attention or make him like me??
Q. ok so i like this guy im not much of a player or too much of a flurt, but anywayz i like this guy hez a sorta shy guy and idk if he even likes me anymore and i wanna ask him out later later or him ask me out he alwayz looks at me at church so tht ...
A. 3 July 2011: he may already like you but with him being shy he may not know how to approach you smile at him be friendly see if he reacts back also unfortunately you cannot make someone have feelings for you good luck... (read in full...)
I fell for a teacher, he kissed me, sent me roses daily, I got sick, he moved on, what do I do now??
Q. My name is Alex (I'm a girl). I'm a freshman at highschool. When I started school I saw a very cute guy (he must be about 26) who was a teacher at the school (he isn't really my teacher, he doesn't teach at my classroom). We kinda liked each other, ...
A. 3 July 2011: i would forget about him he isnt worth it anyway student teacher relationships are illegal i would not go anywhere near him as if anyone at the school found out you could be in serious trouble both of you ... (read in full...)
Date during the break? Or sit in my room alone all the time?
Q. My girlfriend and I after having been going on / off about ten times have decided to take a three month NC break to see if the issues that were facing us around both our sets of kids, her insecurities with family and friends knowing how we met ( we ...
A. 3 July 2011: if you are going to get back together with the person you are having a break from i wouldnt suggest meeting anyone else especially as you both have issues with each other and if she finds out you met with somebody else she will probably think you ... (read in full...)
Why is Divorce Ok? I am put off if I find a person is divorced.
Q. Im asking the question: Why isnt it shameful to be divorced? Why would anyone admit it? to me it makes the person look selfish and non commital really.. I have to admit it puts me off a person quite a lot. What does everyone else think? ...
A. 3 July 2011: people will have diffrent views on this personally i think it is fine to meet someone who has been divorced it doesnt mean they are non comittal there could be hundreds of reasons why the marriage did not work out partner cheating lying to each ... (read in full...)
I want to ask her for a date, but feel there is a far distance between us. What should I do?
Q. It all started when I saw a girl in the university about a year ago .. From the first moment I felt it was a different girl .. We did not talk a lot just to say hello as colleagues. She had a lot of friends and was very popular within the univ...
A. 3 July 2011: long distance relationships can work it is hard but if you both work on it and make time reguarly to see each other it should be fine you must have made a good impression on her for her to change the things she has done that you have suggested have ... (read in full...)
I know I can get very controlling, I don't want to yet I don't know how to stop!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years now, and I know its about time that I should stop feeling so obsessed and passionate. I am so controlling in our relationship and I don't know how to fix this problem, there were things that hap...
A. 3 July 2011: sorry to say if you carry on like this you are going to lose him try trusting him more and stop guilt tripping him into it you want him to come and see you because he wants to see you not because you pushed him into it try trusting him more for ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband take his penis out and squeeze it?
Q. My husband often takes his penis out to squeeze it himself, right when he is cuming... could that mean that my vagina is not tight enough to give him a pleasurable enough orgasm, and he is getting it with his hands? We are both able to orgasm from ...
A. 2 July 2011: i would ask him it,s the only way you will find out... (read in full...)
How do I explain to my boyfriend I need to have my friends but they will never replace him?
Q. Hello... Its been 1 year and 4 months that me and my boyfriend have been dating, we try to keep the relationship in low lights because he 1 and a half younger then me , and our society is very judgemental and we had our trust problems but we fixed...
A. 2 July 2011: why don,t you ask him to join in in some of the things you do with your friends not all the time just now and again cos everybody needs some time alone with friends but also make sure you spend time with your boyfriend as he may be feeling left out ... (read in full...)
Does width really matter?
Q. I've been generally comfortable with my equipment most of my life. It's a good size and I enjoy using it. :-) Lately I've learned a few things that have caused some insecurity, so I'm doing some research to get at the truth. I'm dating women in...
A. 2 July 2011: width does not make any diffrence. as for not making a woman orgasm with your penis through penetration is normal most women need there clitoris stimulated to orgasm. a lot of women will say they do not orgasm through penetration alone ... (read in full...)
I accidentally kicked a ball in my GF's face while playing football! Now she won't talk to me!
Q. Two weeks back while playing soccer, my shot on goal hit my girlfriend on face, she was standing close to goalpost, which left her in extreme pain and swelling. It was an incident and I made apology but she made issue of it and dumped saying that I ...
A. 2 July 2011: don,t mean to upset you but sounds like she has been looking for a excuse to break up with you and she thought that was the perfect excuse. i personally wouldnt of reacted this way and split up with someone if i was truly happy with that person i ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him until I leave or leave him now?
Q. I'm leaving my boyfriend of about 10 months to go to school in October. I decided that it was too painful to be with him knowing I was leaving and I wanted to break up. It's not the only reason, but it's the main one. I also found out that he slept ...
A. 2 July 2011: i would break up with him whats to say he won,t go cheat on you again and hurt you he obviously didnt think he was doing anything wrong by cheating on you for 4 months you desreve much better than that... (read in full...)
Shall I give him the silent treatment after him not replying to my text?
Q. I've been seeing this guy pretty regularly for the past 6 months now. We normally go out 2-4 times a week and text every day or so. Anyway, we last met on Mon and he said' we'd meet on Fri, late afternoon. Cool. So, I organized my chores and duties ...
A. 2 July 2011: i would tell him no you are busy on monday and you will let him know when you are free you are not making a big deal of it it only takes a few seconds to reply back to a text i hate it when they don,t reply to make yourself unavaliable to him ... (read in full...)
Should I set my heart on this one girl if I am doing 'bad guy stuff'?
Q. Hi everyone, basically i need some moral advice on how to act to women. I'm 18 and so far have been lucky enough to be in love twice. I was with my first girlfriend for 18 months, i was head over heels, wanted to have a future and all that..th...
A. 2 July 2011: no your not a bad guy i would tell kari ann how you feel about her you have nothing to lose maybe she is feeling the same but is waiting for you to tell her good luck... (read in full...)
My best friend since kindergarten now says he likes me, and I see him as a brother...AND I have a bf! What to do??
Q. Hey i just need advice on to how to deal with this situation. Me and my best friend who is male have been best friends since kindergarden and we have been together through high school but lately he has been saying his feelings for me are getti...
A. 2 July 2011: no i wouldnt tell your boyfriend he doesnt have to know because nothing ig going on as for your friend explain to him you are flattered but you have a boyfriend and you like him but only as a friend explain to him with you being so close friends how ... (read in full...)
My best friend is sleeping with my older brother, and they don't know I know. How am I supposed to react??
Q. Okay so me and my female best friend have been friends for years and we are incredibly close. Lately she has been distant with me as if she is hiding something from me. Then the other day i caught her and my 24 year old brother making out outside ...
A. 2 July 2011: i would tell them you know what is going on if you don,t say anything you will get more and more annoyed tell them what you saw and tell them your not happy about it maybe they are in a relationship but arent saying anythig as there probably ... (read in full...)
Is my bf being overprotective or just very caring? And should I stay with him even though my family & friends hate him?
Q. My relationship with my boyfriend has been great. He is such a great guy and he is my first love. We have recently moved in together but since the move he has started becoming weird like becoming over protective and making excuses for me to stop in ...
A. 2 July 2011: he sounds very controlling this is what controlling men do they try to take away everything you have such as college job family friends so you are totally dependant on them so you are with them all the time and they will probably want to know who ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my shy husband that I want to experiment with sex?
Q. My husband and I have been together for about 5 years. We were both virgins when we got together. How do I explain to him that I want to explore sex further? We both come off as shy in the bedroom, so how do I explain to him that I want to watch ...
A. 2 July 2011: he may be feeling the same way he may be wondering if you want to experiment to i would try talking to him away from the bedroom or surprise him before he is due home put a porn dvd on lay on the bed in a sexy pose in just lingerie he,ll soon take ... (read in full...)
Pregnant by abusive BF who drinks every night and tried to get me to strip for his friends... but I love him and want to help him change
Q. me and my boyfriend have been living together for 2 months now after 6 months of being together. The 6 months where incredible best 6 months of my life and he really and truly did treat me like a princess but ever since we started living together...
A. 2 July 2011: i would leave him people like this do not change leave him and bring this baby up on your own it is not as hard as you may think ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend crossing the line with her guy friends?
Q. I realize many people have this similar problem with a girlfriend having several guy friends, and I believe each answer is based on circumstance so that is why I'm asking about my personal situation. For the record, I've dated people in the pa...
A. 2 July 2011: i wouldn't worry to much she is being honest with you about everything she must really like you i agree exchanging numbers is wrong when you are with someone she sounds like a very trusting person which in some situations can be wrong... (read in full...)
Why can't I find a date?
Q. Hi all, I am a 30 year old that have trouble finding a date or even attracting women. I hate to sound conceited but I am described as good looking, I have a good job, dress well, have my own car and place. 1, I have no idea where to look or even ...
A. 2 July 2011: i would relax smile be friendly and chatty when you meet people don,t talk about yourself to much or you will come off as being arrogant ask about her what interests she has etc ... (read in full...)
Did he lose interest? How do I make him want me again?
Q. My boyfriend left for camp Monday morning. I stayed the night at his house Sunday night after he asked me to. We didn't do anything sexual and haven't gone farther than touching and making out. I'm 16, he's 17, and we've been talking for about a ...
A. 2 July 2011: i wouldnt worry he probably can't get a signal or something he will probably text you when he gets back from camp with a good reason why you haven't heard from him... (read in full...)
Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 2 July 2011: i would tell your husband what she has done and tell him you don't want her coming round anymore if he wants to see her he will have to go to her house to see her. it is your home as well... (read in full...)
Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 1 July 2011: i would ignore his family. people are so judgemental tell them it is none of their bussiness and concentrate on your relationship with your husband if you start to argue back with his family it may cause problems between you and your husband the ... (read in full...)
Will there be something wrong with my baby? Will I be able to keep it a secret that my cousin is the father?
Q. i am currently 7 weeks pregnant by my first cousin but please dont judge me i had no idea he was my cousin till i found out at a funeral but anyways i dont believe in abortion but i wanna no what are the chances of something wrong happening to my ...
A. 1 July 2011: yes there is a chance they maybe something wrong with the baby i would go talk to your doctor and explain the situation they will probably tell you the chances also try not to worry to much as they can do screening tests and scans that pick things ... (read in full...)
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