How to get to know him better?
Q. So there is this guy and I sort of have a crush on him. I want it to go further, I think he is interested in me because he looks at me and gives me glances, when I look back at him he would keep long eye contact. I’ve seen him around school and we ...
A. 20 July 2011: good luck hope things go well ... (read in full...)
Do you think he likes me? And do you think I like him, or I just like the attention he gives me?
Q. Last year, I met this guy, and pretty much straight away I liked him. I knew one of my friends liked him so I never said anything, and then they got together, so nothing happened between us. Then I went into my final year at school so just focused ...
A. 9 July 2011: he definetely likes you try hanging out with him more and if possible aline see what happens only you can tell if you like him or not good luck... (read in full...)
I'm 15, and this 21 year old guy who has a GF in a long distance relationship, wants to have sex with me
Q. I am 15, and the man I am having issues with is almost 21. First off, he has a girlfriend. He is having a long distance relationship with her and he is a bit 'deprived', as some might call it. We started talking about 3 months ago and he always t...
A. 9 July 2011: i would say no you are not going to have sex with this man he is using you you want your first time to be special with someone you trust and care about ... (read in full...)
Is there a subtle way to suggest trying bondage?
Q. This is going to sound strange, but I want to experiment with bondage. I love being controlled in the bedroom and I want to ask my boyfriend about it. What is the most subtle way I can suggest this to him? Is there a subtle way to do this?...
A. 9 July 2011: i would text or ring him tell him your really horny tell him to get round yours you want him wear sexy lingerie and tie yourself up with handcuffs for when he walks in no man will ever say no it works everytime trust me ... (read in full...)
I'm planning to send a friend to flirt with my bf and test his loyalty to me. Is this the right thing to do?
Q. Okay my boyfriend is acting kinda shady. There is this girl that just got a job as a salesperson and she's drop dead hott. She has a perfect body and she's engaged and she already slept with one of the workers he works with. And ever since she ...
A. 9 July 2011: he is accusing you of cheating men only really do that when they are the ones that are cheating yes you are doing the right thing what you could also do is get your friend to set up another facebook account and flirt with him on that and see what he ... (read in full...)
Is it really a bad idea to still have sex with my ex, if we are still great friends and care about each other?
Q. My boyfriend of almost a year and a half broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. We are very different people. We are great friends and will always support each other. We have different ideas about the future. I am actually considering still being ...
A. 9 July 2011: this is a personal preference no one can answer this for you if you,s are not with anyone else then you are not hurting anyone by still sleeping together but what happens if you or he meet anyone else i would never have sex with a ex because when ... (read in full...)
I seem to have no emotions. Nothing turns me on. Should I see a doctor? I want to feel more emotion
Q. I seem to have no emotions. This is something so weird and it has not gone away, I don't know how to deal with it. Around the time I was 19 I started to "not feel" much. I thought it was just a normal thing, you know, after the crazy hormonal ...
A. 9 July 2011: have you been hurt by men before because that can stop you feeling anything as you may feel numb if this is the case it will pass when you meet someone you really like or maybe you are suffering from depression which lowers your libido ... (read in full...)
Any possible ways that will help me get over my ex faster?
Q. Hello, It has been about 4-5 months since my ex and I were seperated. We broke up 2 months after being apart and I still have feelings for him, even with the great boyfriend I have now. I'm well aware I'll never see my ex again, so I would lik...
A. 9 July 2011: i would concentrate on the new relationship your in and spend time with friends family nights out things like that and you will soon find yourself not thinking about your ex at all ... (read in full...)
Any possible ways that will help me get over my ex faster?
Q. Hello, It has been about 4-5 months since my ex and I were seperated. We broke up 2 months after being apart and I still have feelings for him, even with the great boyfriend I have now. I'm well aware I'll never see my ex again, so I would lik...
A. 9 July 2011: i would concentrate on the new relationship your in and spend time with friends family nights out things like that and you will soon find yourself not thinking about your ex at all ... (read in full...)
Does it make me out of the ordinary that I prefer guys with a solid build? Even a touch chubby?
Q. Hi again my loves :) I was just wondering, if it's at all odd that I am attracted to chubby lads? Every one I know, apart from one creeper who makes it an embarrassment, likes fit, slim people. Me? I personally like chubby guys. Not like huge, bu...
A. 9 July 2011: everyone has a personal preference this is yours i wouldnt worry everyone is diffrent i personally go for toned muscly men but i have a friend who goes for chubby men perfectly normal... (read in full...)
My GF seems uninterested in the relationship,and I'm doing all that I can. Should I stay with it or call it quits?
Q. Im always doing what i can to make my girlfriend happy. I take time out of my day to do things for her when she asks me to, and im always loving, caring, and very romantic with her. I love this girl soo much i try not to give up on our relationship. ...
A. 9 July 2011: i would break up personally it sounds like you are making a lot of effort to keep the relationship going and she is not interested in doing the same for you this relationship sounds very one sided a relationship like this cannot go any further... (read in full...)
My married ex told me that he is still in love with me..
Q. My ex boyfriend and I have been apart for about 2 months. It was a 3 year relationship. There were a lot of events that happened shortly after that I learned to be okay with. He is now married to a girl who he's been friends with longer than I've ...
A. 9 July 2011: so he,s married a few months after you split up to another girl he has known longer than you i would not even consider getting back together with him was he cheating on ou when you were together? because that is really quick to meet someone fall in ... (read in full...)
How do I ask him (again) how he sees me without scaring him off?
Q. Okay so I met this really cute guy a few weeks ago while we were both working at a Trade show in L.A. I thought he was cute, but also didn't think he'd go for me. He ended up asking me out and our first date was super fun. He was constantly ...
A. 9 July 2011: i wouldnt ask him he has already said he doesnt want a relationship as such carry on being his friend and see if it develops into something more it does happen also he may just see you as a sex buddy i am in the same situation with a man i met 4 ... (read in full...)
Does he not introduce me to his friends or go out with me at night because he is embarrassed of me?
Q. Me and my bf are in a distance relationship and only see each other one month at a time... the thing is that, we go out everyday...but to parks,movies,malls and things like this, but never clubbin, out to drinks, or romantic dinners. Sure we go to ...
A. 9 July 2011: i think you are reading to much into this if you havent been together long maybe he just wants to spend time on his own with you to get to know each other properly then maybe he will introduce you to his friends or if it is relly getting to you next ... (read in full...)
I don't wan't to leave my wife, but I have very strong feelings for this other woman. Is it possible to love two women and not hurt anyone?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm new to this site, but appreciate everyone's candor and returns on their experience. I am and have been happily married for 20 years now with my french wife in Paris. I love my wife, we are close and loving and I am proud ...
A. 9 July 2011: no way should you act upon this imagine what it would do to the family if anyone found out you would hurt your wife and children and how do you know this other woman would actually want to be with you properly if she has never even mentioned it i ... (read in full...)
Beautiful woman extremely friendly to me at first meeting. Red flag?
Q. Right, so my mate and i were at a pub couple of nights go, and im sitting at a table, and i notice a drop dead gorgeous woman sitting with a friend. Friend goes up to go the ladies room, so gorgeous lady is sitting alone. I whisper to my mate to ...
A. 8 July 2011: why not just go for it what have you got to lose stop putting yourself down and call her sounds like she likes you good luck... (read in full...)
I wonder if he actually likes me...
Q. I dated this guy for about three months. We broke up about a year and a half ago. I came to realize after a while that the true reason he dumped me (I think) is because he wasn't over his ex-girlfriend who he dated for two years In high school. I ...
A. 8 July 2011: i would talk to him and ask him but it also sounds like you are second best which i would not put up with as you deserve better he only wants to hang out with you when he is single and you don,t see him when he has a girlfriend he is just using you ... (read in full...)
How to get to know him better?
Q. So there is this guy and I sort of have a crush on him. I want it to go further, I think he is interested in me because he looks at me and gives me glances, when I look back at him he would keep long eye contact. I’ve seen him around school and we ...
A. 8 July 2011: hi i would ask him something about school or something that you both do ... (read in full...)
Opinions on beards please!!
Q. Hiyaaaaa, Well this isn't really a problem more off a personal opinion and preference! I don't do art as a subject anymore but I recently bumped into my art teacher and saw him with a beard!!!!! So guys why would you guys grow a beard or ...
A. 8 July 2011: hi no way of i see a man with a beard i just think urgh how scruffy does that look got to be clean shaven for me ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart OR just settle?
Q. Ok, Agony Aunts, I'm completely torn. 4 years ago, when I was 18, I met a guy online. It was casual, we were just friends at the time, but there was an obvious mutual attraction. We are in a very complicated situation because he is in the Coastal ...
A. 8 July 2011: hi i would follow your heart and go with the one you really want to be with otherwise in years to come you will regret you stayed with the other one just because your comfortable with him and i the long run you will both end up getting hurt good ... (read in full...)
Is this pain from trying to get a finger in normal?
Q. right i'm 19 and still a virgin i have never been fingured ... i have been with this boy for almost a year now and i want to have sex with him so badly but i have tried to fingure my self but carnt as it gives me BAD pain it makes me feel like i ...
A. 8 July 2011: your friends don,t have to know what your going to the doctors for or that your even going, and the doctor will not laugh at you they are there to help you and everyhing you tell them is 100% confidential... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and he told me that he hopes somebody shoots me in the face!
Q. Dear Cupid, Me and my fiance have been together for at least 5 years. Okay, it is now 2011. I messed around only once and that was due to him stressing me out drastically, and he went out with another female in return. Okay, my question is: why ...
A. 7 July 2011: i would break up with him and get as far away from him as possible ... (read in full...)
Should I marry a guy I don't trust just to please my family???
Q. Dear cupid, Am I wrong for holding off on marrying my fiance? I am currenly 5 months pregnant with our 1st baby, and a week or two ago, my grandmother came up to visit us and insisted we go ahead and get married. But, my fiance has some growing ...
A. 7 July 2011: i would not marry this man especially if you are being pushed into it i would wait until you are ready no one else good luck... (read in full...)
Want to try S&M but not end up in the hospital - any suggestions?
Q. Hello people, me and my girlfriend want to try bondage sex or sm.. (I don't know if sm is also the word in english so maybe it's not really clear to all...?) She likes pain, well a bit not that she wants to get hurt badly, and I love it w...
A. 7 July 2011: handcuffs and a whip are actually the best way to start as long as your not to hard with the whip start off kissing cuddling etc when your both relaxed get the handcuffs out tie one of you up let the other do whatever you want to do do for each ... (read in full...)
Was abused in a relationship. I want to trust guys but am having trouble. Any advice?
Q. Hey all.. I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship of 14 months in March. And it's affecting my life now. My ex cheated 3 times (we broke up because of the third). He would laugh at my opinions and reject them, saying they were stupid, etc., ...
A. 7 July 2011: i understand why you feel like this it is a normal reaction when you have been hurt before but not every man is the same i wouldnt judge everybody there not all going to be like your ex trust me you we,re just unlucky next time you meet someone new ... (read in full...)
What is good for you when you're sore down there?
Q. If your vagina hurts will putting an icecube on it make it not feel sore any more? Thank you...
A. 7 July 2011: you could try it put that sounds quite painful why not try a cool bath instead also when you have sex use lube so its not painfull anymore you should be fine in a few days to a week... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my boyfriend to check out his sisters?
Q. I am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 22. We have been dating for four years he has younger sisters one is my age and the other is 17. Anyway when me and my boyfriend first started going out we would always go out with them and i would notice him ...
A. 7 July 2011: how do you know he doesnt stare at your butt he might do but you,ve got your back to him so you wouldnt see also i wouldnt worry maybe he likes big butts ... (read in full...)
If she's not over me, why is she still with her boyfriend?
Q. My ex and I have been broken up for over a year now. She has a boyfriend now. We cut off contact and I thought I was over her during that time. She ended up contacting me and we've been talking and meeting up for lunch every so often. Sometimes ...
A. 7 July 2011: being with her boyfriend is probably a rebound thing and they never work i would text her or call her and tell her how you feel its pretty obvious she likes you aswell... (read in full...)
I need to tell my parents that I'm pregnant, but I don't know how!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and we started having sex 2 yrs ago. im 16 and now im pregnant. ive told my partner he's going to do all he can my only problem is how do i tell my parents?...
A. 7 July 2011: there is no eay way to tell your parents this i would wait till they are both calm and just tell them i mean what can they do the babys there now... (read in full...)
I know we're young, but I want a baby! Is this a good idea?
Q. im 16 and i want to have a baby me and my partner been together some years now and im ready to have a bby i know a baby comes with alot of expenses but we both are working and he's a senior and im a junior. and we have a lot of money saved up ...
A. 7 July 2011: i wouldnt have a baby at 16 that is way to young and it comes with a lot of responsibility you wouldnt be able to go out with your friends anymore wouldnt be able to get yourself a career theres sleepless nights everything you need for a baby which ... (read in full...)
I'm writing her one last letter, closing off the whole relationship and saying goodbye. What should I write?
Q. I broke up with my ex fiance about a year ago to date and have cut communication for about 5 months now, but i recently found out she was asking about me. She was asking if i was dating and talked to my sister about how much she missed me, and ...
A. 7 July 2011: i wouldnt write a letter to her if you split up a while ago what is the point in going over it all again and just hurting youself and your ex again ... (read in full...)
Is it me or are they crazy?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 7yrs at the beginning it was horrible cuz he cheated and I forgave numerous times and I think the reason I did was because of low self-esteem issues which now I am in a different place in my life. He is always ...
A. 7 July 2011: i would not have a child with this man no way especially if he has a short fuse what if the baby was up all night crying how would he cope then as for him hitting you not been abuse of course it is i would break up with him and find somewhere to ... (read in full...)
Is this pain from trying to get a finger in normal?
Q. right i'm 19 and still a virgin i have never been fingured ... i have been with this boy for almost a year now and i want to have sex with him so badly but i have tried to fingure my self but carnt as it gives me BAD pain it makes me feel like i ...
A. 7 July 2011: only have sex when you are completely ready it will be a lot easier when a man does it as you should be really relaxed with him make sure you kiss and cuddle a lot before he attempts to finger you and once you are not a virgin anymore your body will ... (read in full...)
Is this accpetable behavior from a husband?
Q. On June 30th my husband recieved a text message from a number he didn't know. It was obviously a teenage girl stating she "loves Logan". So he wrote back, "You have the wrong number". She then wrote "No I do not". In which he stated he was just ...
A. 7 July 2011: i would call the number when your husband is out and ask who it is its the only way you will find out the truth good luck... (read in full...)
Boyfriend looks very friendly with girls he met on holiday. Its making me very uncomfortable. How do I handle this?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are going out two years. He recently went on hols with one of his mates. He told me he met afew people there and that they hung out with two girls and went for dinner etc. He added them on facebook and they put up photos of the ...
A. 7 July 2011: i would ask him to make an arrangment to meet them and go with him say you just want to get to know them seeing as they are your new friends and when you do watch out for any signs of flirting or uncomfortableness with any of them it could be ... (read in full...)
What are the chances of the baby not being my boyfriend's?
Q. My boyfriend and myself broke up around the 12 of may, in that time i slept with someone else, however my boyfriend and i were still on and off, got my periods on the 29th of may and it hurt more than usual and lots of lining? came out. Since then ...
A. 7 July 2011: there is a 50/50 chance if you has sex with someone else around the same time you split up with your boyfriend the only thing you can do is wait for the baby to be born and do a dna test... (read in full...)
My guy wont stop dirty talking online but I know he truely loves me
Q. ok i know my husband really truly loves me and after screwing up 3 times already by talking dirty to girls he dont know online says he dont know y he does it he doesnt deserve me and actually cried the last time and i never seen him cry. i know ...
A. 7 July 2011: it sounds to me that maybe he has some fantasies he would like to play out and he obviously hasnt told you i would ask him what they are and maybe play them out if you are comfortable with doing so and also start talking dirty to him in bed he,ll ... (read in full...)
Why does he let girls touch him and constantly go on about him?
Q. Okay, well I really don't know where to start with all of this. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 3 months, we've had our ups and downs with in our relationship but then who doesn't? He has a lot of girl mates, and I know all of them and...
A. 6 July 2011: it maybe that he is cheating on you only you will be able to answer that as you know him we don,t or it could possibly be that he is trying to make you jealous i would either split up with him or play him at his own game start talking about other ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble trying to figure out where I am with this girl!
Q. I'm chinese but immigrated overseas when I was a child. I grew up and have become assimilated. About a year and a half ago I went back to china for a family matter. There I was introduced by a family friend to a girl. It turned out that she ha...
A. 6 July 2011: i think she fancies you and by texting you to say she had met someone she was probably hoping you would tell her how you feel about her she was trying to make you jealous as for her being flakey she is trying to play it cool ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a guy for the first time, and I have no idea what to do or how to act!
Q. I just got my first boyfriend and i dont know wat to say arond him also i dont know if i ask him to go to the movies or will he ask me please help me...
A. 6 July 2011: aw when you meet someone you are bound to be a little nervous just relax and enjoy yourself ask him about himself family friends what he likes doing etc good luck... (read in full...)
Friend's prank went wrong
Q. hi this can be a bit long but i seriously need help i had a breakup with my bf 7mnths ago...it was very painful for my bf who couldnt move on.. he started to blackmail me, threatening me ,send msgs, abuse me n my parents, give blankcalls at my...
A. 6 July 2011: this is not a true friend true friends would be there for you to help you through it not play pranks on you that scare and upset you i would tell her that she has blown this friendship with you after what she has done and ignore all her msgs and ... (read in full...)
What am I trying to convince myself of?
Q. I need some advice really quick, because i am seeing this guy tomorrow and i think i made a drunken mistake last week! I want to sort out what to do, I don't know whether i should stop things before they go further! Basically he has liked me for...
A. 6 July 2011: i wouldnt start dating him if you are not sure whether you like him or not its pretty obvious you don,t it sounds like you are trying to force yourself to like him when you meet someone you like you know straight away you will only end up hurting ... (read in full...)
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