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If I don't message her we don't talk at all! What should I do?

Q.   Hi just a basic question. I was in the romantic love stage with a girl and the tension was unreal between us she was even glowing so i knew i was in romantic love but i also knew that it was temporary and so I thought i'd speak to her over facebook ...

A.   14 July 2011: the only thing you can really do here is ask her if she likes you and ask how she would feel about you,s being in a relationship see what she says or you could always just not msg her see if she msgs you at all... (read in full...)

After I told him I was a virgin he doesn't talk to me anymore! What is going on?

Q.   I met this guy at a basketball court he seemed nice meaning as he introduce himself to my mom,so any ways we decided to kik it the next day with his friends in the night on a hill,it seemed to go okay and wed write eachother on facebook but after he ...

A.   14 July 2011: men are strange like that he was probably hoping you wouldnt be a virgin and you,d be very experienced so you,d do anything he wants sounds like he only wanted sex anyway don,t worry that your a virgin though there is nothing wrong with that you ... (read in full...)

I am attracted to my cousin, she hasn't given me an answer but she hasn't said no either....where do I take it from here?

Q.   I have been attracted to my cousin for years now and have actually talked to her about it. She says i am a good looking guy and would date me in a heartbeat but since we are cousins we cant. She said she would think about sex but has never given me ...

A.   14 July 2011: yes i would stay away from her this is incest you are still family still related this is illegal i wouldnt do anything about this at all ... (read in full...)

Did he ever really love me seeing as he could go into a new relationship so quickly after our break up? Did he not need time to heal?

Q.   Ending a 3+ year relationship with a man who you truly loved and thought would spend the rest of your days with (he said he felt the same way about me throughout), he's in a new relationship after 3 months of the breakup. It hurts knowing he could ...

A.   14 July 2011: i don't think he will of moved on that quickly because he didnt care about or love you it will probably be a rebound relationship that won't last they never do they say the average time that a man moves on after a relationship is 5 weeks i just ... (read in full...)

I don't trust my boyfriend even though he has never done anything wrong! What is wrong with me? How do I fix it?

Q.   My boyfriend is so sweet. We've been together for over a year now and for some reason I don't trust him. He trusts me completely. It never used to bother me, we used to be fine before but now I get upset all the time when we watch movies with girls ...

A.   14 July 2011: if he has given you no reason not to trust him then if you carry on like this you are going to lose him as it sounds like he really loves you and remember he is with you not them he is with you because he loves you just try get them thoughts out of ... (read in full...)

BF broke up with me, then apologized and said I don't need to move out, but I read his FB conversation with a friend where he said he just wanted me gone!

Q.   I just recently broke up with my BF of a year. I came home late one night and he said I dont love you anymore, Im not atracted to you and its over. This was really hurtful but I sort of knew it had been comeing for a while. Anyway I went away for...

A.   14 July 2011: that must of been terrible for you to read it sounds like he is confused and doesnt know what he wants i would make the decision for him i would move into your new place change your number and have no contact with him again good luck... (read in full...)

I haven't had a period in over 2 months, but I'm a virgin! Help!

Q.   Alright so let's start off by saying, I'm 16 and I've had a semi-regular period since I was 11 years old. So here's Problem #1. . . Well, like any girl, I dont enjoy my period, but it's reassuring to get it every month. I havent had my period si...

A.   11 July 2011: i wouldnt worry this is normal how long have you had them for because thats sometimes affects them some month you get one the next you dont they do regulate themselves though... (read in full...)

I think I'm a great catch, yet I'm single! What am I doing wrong?

Q.   i am 24, college educated (have a bachelors degree and starting my masters in a couple of months), I get a lot of compliments from guys so I think that I am good looking, I am athletic so i keep myself in shape and always dress nice, I am very clean ...

A.   11 July 2011: sound like men are intimidated by you that why they probably darent approach you i would try dating someone a little older than you maybe about late twentys early 30,s... (read in full...)

I need to stand my ground this time and not take her walking all over me, but I still love her! What should I do?

Q.   First off my name is James, yesterday me and my girlfriend and her daughter went out to go eat. To celebrate our anniversary. We've been together for about 16 months. Lately i've been feeling unappreciated. I feel like i do everything in this ...

A.   11 July 2011: sorry to say this but you have been together 16 month now and she,s always been the same? i would move on people like this do not change she is probably sat at home waiting for you to call her even though it was her fault i mean throwing water over ... (read in full...)

We have a child together and another on the way, but he's always looking at other girls and hanging out with his friends. But then he insists he loves me! Do I just need to get over this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for going on 4 years now. We have a 2 year old and another baby on the way, so it's safe to say we have a pretty serious relationship. I am 22 and he is 27 so there are a few years between us. I have problem...

A.   11 July 2011: if he hangs out with his friends 5-6 days a week does that mean he is only with you and your child 1 day a week if so i would be having serious talk with him about it he is getting all the fun out of the relationship by going to his friends and ... (read in full...)

Wouldn't it be lovely if an STD/STI protocol operated? How does one confirm if a new partner does not have an STD or a STI?

Q.   So,I just got out a long term relationship. So long that we were both virgins before we met and never had to worry about stds/stis. My question is, when I'm ready to get back into the dating world, how does sex work, in terms of, do most couples get ...

A.   11 July 2011: wear condoms then go the clinic get yourself checked out and when you get a new partner i would get him to go to the clinic to get checked out to... (read in full...)

What can I do? He has expressed increased feelings of love, but a decreased need for sex? Help!

Q.   okay...so I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and we have had a very successful and healthy relationship. We are both in college and have spoken about the seriousness of our relationship,moving in together, and possibly even ...

A.   11 July 2011: this is completely normal this usually happens when the honeymoon period is over you never have sex as often as you do when you first meet when you first meet you can,t get enough of each other but it doesnt stay like that... (read in full...)

We want a baby. How can we when our sex life is kind of difficult?

Q.   My fiance and I are trying to conceive a baby. however we are both little over weight and well...he is kind of small down there. I'm not very comfortable being on top, but everytime we have sex, his penis doesnt stay in. We both very much want...

A.   11 July 2011: first off bt you both being over weight it will make it harder for you to conceive a baby before you start trying i would suggest that both of you lose some weight first try eating plenty of fruit and vegetables and rather than snacking on crisp and ... (read in full...)

Should I just let it drop and text him tonight and pretend this silly argument never happened?

Q.   Heya :) So basically, I want to know if I'm in the wrong with my boyfriend. We're both 16 and have been together 10months. Things are good between us. I don't really have any girly friends to hang around with because I can't stand the bitchi...

A.   10 July 2011: i would let him have some time alone with his mates to breathe as for that text you sent him it did sound like you were being sarcastic with him when you worded it "lovey dovey" i would text him tell him your sorry as it did sound like you were to ... (read in full...)

How can I get my fiance to relax during oral sex?

Q.   how can i help my fiance relax and cum while im giving him felatio (head) oral sex. He won't do it.dont know why and he cant cum unless im on my stomach laying flat and melicking his hand as if i was eating a pussy please advise and also i get ...

A.   10 July 2011: this does sound a bit strange i would tell him you need foreplay first he is being selfish by not giving you it i would try using a vibrator or something on yurself while you shower in front of him that should get a reaction out of him good luck... (read in full...)

Is it strange to walk in town when no one else does?

Q.   i have a tendency to walk through town. many people that know me find this strange because no one else does this activity. also i can not drive simply for the reason that i am not very good at it and would most likely be dead if i atemtet to do so. ...

A.   10 July 2011: no there is nothing strange about that i wouldn,t listen to what people say if you want to walk then walk its not srange thats what legs where made for lol i walk most places myself its easier... (read in full...)

Why did my g/f chose her friends over me on her birthday?

Q.   Hello, I just turned 25. My gf (been dating for about a month or so).....didn't hang out with me on her birthday. I think she hung out with her friends. I feel kinda down......I hung out with my cousins instead. I really don't have that many f...

A.   10 July 2011: i wouldnt worry about it i mean you,ve only been together a month you are still getting to know each other maybe she didnt realise that you wanted to see her on her birthday... (read in full...)

I need to leave my b/f I just don't know how to do it!

Q.   i have decided to leave my boyfriend justt dont know how to end i cant deal with the getting back at each other or his cheating an talkin to other girls i know its going to be difficult and hard to deal with but its what i need to go ahead and do, ...

A.   10 July 2011: i would just tell him you need to talk to him and explain how you are feeling and tell him the reasons why your splitting up with him good luck... (read in full...)

Is it normal to have sex 4 times a day?

Q.   This is the second man I've ever slept with. My husband and I had sex four times a week tops during our whole marriage. This man and I have sex more than four times a DAY if we can. I just want to know if it's normal or if it means he only wa...

A.   10 July 2011: this is completely normal when you first start having sex with someone new you can,t get enough of each other when i met my boyfriend he stayed with me for a full week all we done was have sex lol so don,t worry its completely normal ... (read in full...)

Successful anal sex tips?

Q.   hey, so my bf of a yr and i tried anal sex for the 1st time as both of us had never tried it b4 and were curious, and it didn't fit! He put a finger there 1st (never experienced that before) which felt ok, but when he tried putting his penis there ...

A.   10 July 2011: hi usually find that the lube made naturally by your body works best i would try vaginal sex first then before he comes try anal also try lying on the bed flat on your stomach its much easier and less painful :)... (read in full...)

I'm battling cancer and boyfriend is on the internet looking at other women!

Q.   Hi everyone. Im in a big problem, and I need so advice. I got with my bf around 1 year and one month ago. We loved eachother very much, to such an extent we'd never talk to another guy or girl even as friends. We were VERY possessive of one another, ...

A.   10 July 2011: hi i wouldn,t get back with him you already have so much going on and especially if he didnt seem to care you don,t need him he will only bring more stress to your life if you are constantly worrying what he is going to be doing behind your back :)... (read in full...)

He said he loved me, wanted a family...now he says he does not want anything serious, what gives?

Q.   Hi everyone, I decided to come on here and write my feeling/thoughts because I needed someone to talk to and perhaps some encouraging words to get me through my heartbreak. My story: I've been seeing a guy for almost 2 years now. I knew...

A.   10 July 2011: sounds to me he is scared of commitment and by asking him that he has realised you want more i would talk to him properly and tell him how you really feel or if you feel he is worth sticking by stay with him and see what happens personally i wouldnt ... (read in full...)

I am confused by all of his actions, can anyone help me??

Q.   So... this guy i'm dating. He's perfect.. in theory... but then he does stuff that confuse me big time. He wants to go out with me but he wants to go home 10 p.m... (and why? i don't know since school is off for the summer and he doesn't have a ...

A.   10 July 2011: he sounds very immature he won,t talk to you in front of his mates come on if a man really liked you he wouldnt care what his mates thought as for not going on dates with you do you think he has told his mates you arent together anymore or something ... (read in full...)

Did he just break up with me? His Mother is against us. But I thought we had something

Q.   Heyy .. My boyfriend of 5 months and I had some trouble, due to his mother over our whole relationship. he always fought with her to tell her to back off and leave me and him alone. Before we started dating me, both he and I and his mother were grea...

A.   10 July 2011: sorry to say but yes this sounds like he has broke up with you sounds like his mam has got to him that much he,s broke up with you to keep her happy also you went to the shop with your neighbour was your neighbour a lad? if so maybe he has gotten ... (read in full...)

I love the girl but I'm just not sure that she is sincere and honest with me.

Q.   Hi All, I've been dating a girl for 7 months now, she's two-and-a-half years older than me, and the time with her so far has been great.. except one thing. I am jealous quite often. Jealousy started when she by accident mentioned a guy she was...

A.   10 July 2011: i would split up with her she,s just playing you along and she is playing on that jealousy she is doing everything she can to wind you up if she truely loved and cared about you she would be doing everything she could to try make you feel better ... (read in full...)

I don't want an open relationship anymore but my partner has a problem with commitment.

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half years. We've seen eachother through really rough times and we do love eachother, but we decided to have an open relationship. I don't want an open relationship anymore though but he has a ...

A.   10 July 2011: if you don,t want a open relationship anymore i would tell him so if you don,t tell him he will think you are happy with the relationship and clearly your not just tell him you want to talk to him and explain to him how you feel... (read in full...)

I don't want to get with my friend in case it ruins our friendship, but part of me is thinking "try it". What should I do?

Q.   I've started having feelings towards a really close friend of mine, we've been friends for almost 8 years. He's told me he loves me, like more than friends and we both like eachother but i dont know what to do. I dont want to get with him incase i...

A.   10 July 2011: just be honest with him its the only thing you can do but yoy never know maybe you will be good together... (read in full...)

Why marry someone when it seems sure you'll get a divorce?

Q.   I can't trust my fiance. He constantly lies to me, breaks promises, and walks away from arguments and the relationship. We were planning on going through an LDR, but I'm not so sure anymore. Only a week or so ago, we went through a huge falling out, ...

A.   10 July 2011: i would get rid of him you obviously can,t trust him and he,s not mature enough to stay and talk through your problems after a argument he sounds very arrogant to me ... (read in full...)

What's with the mixed signals?

Q.   well I work with this girl and just recently started talking to her and so i finaly asked for her number and she gave it to me, from there we would txt back and fourth sometimes and she would usually always answer in a decent amount of time. So one ...

A.   10 July 2011: sounds to me like she likes you and was waiting for you to make a move on her because you didnt she probably feels rejected and thinks you don,t like her i would text her see if she replies explain to her how you feel about her she,s probably just ... (read in full...)

I don't know if I should just ask him if he's into me, wait for him to come around or just move on?

Q.   So I have been seeing this guy now for just over two months...i know it may still be too early to tell but i have no clue if he is interested in me. We have only seen each other 3 times in 2 months. He texts me all the time but never actually calls. ...

A.   10 July 2011: first off i would find out if he is actually single twice in 3 month is not a lot to see someone if they like ya i would just ask him out right if he is into you or if he,s seeing someone else its the best way to find out... (read in full...)

No sex in 2 years, will I be tight?

Q.   so im due to get marrid the end of this year ,whice i realy realy love him so but the problem is i have to be a virgin when i marry but i told the man im marrying that i ant a virgin i told him i had sex twice with an exboyfriend and that was too...

A.   9 July 2011: you will probably still be tight but i would do my pelvic floor exercises the muscles that you use to stop your self from weeing halfway through that will make you feel a bit tighter ... (read in full...)

Is it too much to want sex twice a week?

Q.   My same sex partner and I have been together for about 4 years and we recently fight a lot over sex. The problem is I have a high sex drive and she doesnt. We have sat down and talked about it but she always gets so angry we never get anywhere. She ...

A.   9 July 2011: i would sit down and tell her you need to talk because you don,t know what to do anymore this anger doesnt sound like its just about sex i would try find out what is bothering her as for sex only twice a week that is nothing really i need sex twice ... (read in full...)

G/f suddenly giving me cold shoulder and saing it would be easier to date someone of her own race

Q.   dear cupid, my girlfriend spent the summer in colorado for an internship where she is having the time of her life which is awesome, but i never here from her anymore and any time i ask her what she did i get one word answers and just talks about...

A.   9 July 2011: maybe she has met someone else she likes i personally i would break up with her it sounds like she has lost all interest in you... (read in full...)

I'm bored but want to move on without hurting my girlfriend

Q.   Ive been dating this girl for little over a year and ive been getting bored of her lately because we do same thing in school just be together at break but we hardly ever hang out and NEVER do any affection, we used to but she stopped giving me ...

A.   9 July 2011: it sounds like she is losing interest too she is probably feeling the same and wondering how to break up with you without hurting you i would have a serious talk to each other and tell each other how you are feeling good luck... (read in full...)

Why did my ex suddenly block me?

Q.   My ex boyfriend broke up with me a year ago we dated for a month b4 we broke up. Then a few weeks later he would call me and beg for me back but i was upset. then i started talking to my best friend adam. i started dating adam a month after my break ...

A.   9 July 2011: your ex has probably got a new girlfriend and she is probably jealous maybe she realizes that her boyfriend still likes you so maybe she has asked him to block you so he cannot have any contact with you again ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to stop seeing someone when they put pressure on me?

Q.   I've never dated nor had any real relationship before. Is it ok to stop seeing someone when they insist on trying to put pressure on me to let them touch me?...

A.   9 July 2011: of course its ok do not be pushed into doing something you don.t want to do ... (read in full...)

After I realize I love her she says she got tired of waiting for me!

Q.   Here's my story. A year ago, I met a girl that was a few years younger than me. Well I didn't really like her as a love interest then, but she was crazy in love with me. We hung out everyday and most people thought we were dating. Well that was ...

A.   9 July 2011: i would suggest you,s go on a date and see what happens the best thing to do is spend time together and see what develops good luck... (read in full...)

I'm scared to hold hands or kiss with my boyfriend

Q.   Okay , so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a month now and we've already kissed and made out. He's 15 and I'm 13. And we don't see each other all the time, we see each other about every other week. And every time we hang out i get ...

A.   9 July 2011: you are propbably needing to spend more time around him so you feel comfortable with him just relax when you do see him and just have fun try not to worry about it just hold his hand and you will see there is nothing to be scared of its what ... (read in full...)

B/f lied about porn plus he watches really violent pornography!

Q.   why would a man randomly need skype? When I asked him about it he did not really give me an answer as to why he needs it. Also I just had a talk with my man about how I don't feel comfortable being with a man who watches or is addicted to porn and ...

A.   9 July 2011: i would have a serious talk to him about his porn watching and especially of what it involved i personally would tell him to stop watching it or you are over ... (read in full...)

How I control my premature ejaculation?

Q.   When my partner and I start to engage in sexual activity, mainly sex, I ejaculate shortly after entering her. Then I lose my erection, leaving both of us feeling unsatisfied. Help!...

A.   9 July 2011: i would take your time with foreplay don,t stress over it as this will make the situation worse just relax kiss cuddle go down on her get her to do the same for you do the 69er then when you are both ready enter her and when you feel you are about ... (read in full...)

Do you think he likes me? And do you think I like him, or I just like the attention he gives me?

Q.   Last year, I met this guy, and pretty much straight away I liked him. I knew one of my friends liked him so I never said anything, and then they got together, so nothing happened between us. Then I went into my final year at school so just focused ...

A.   9 July 2011: he definetely likes you try hanging out with him more and if possible aline see what happens only you can tell if you like him or not good luck... (read in full...)

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