His partner died 9 years ago, is it still healthy that he's grieving over him?
Q. Hi I am in a relationship with a guy for the last two years and we live together for the last 6 months, my partner had a partner who died 9 years ago and they were together for 18 years and were very happy My partner is very close with his partner...
A. 16 August 2011: i would just try be there for him as he sounds like he really needs you maybe you could suggest ti him that he talks to someone about this grief affects people in all diffrent ways some can get over it in a few months others it can take years like ... (read in full...)
I feel so ugly and gross! My only boyfriend just broke up with me...
Q. I feel so ugly and gross... I recently broke up with my only boyfriend. Granted, I'm only 22 and I met him when I was 17. It was a long, serious and intense relationship. We had a lot of issues but we always thought love could help us make it. ...
A. 16 August 2011: this ex obviously wasnt worth your time by saying them things to you as he knew how you felt about them i would go to the hairdresses and ask them what you can do about your hair they may be able to suggest something like extentions or something as ... (read in full...)
She ended it saying she wasn't ready; should I wait or move on?
Q. Hey :) I'm in a bit of a pickle here and not reaching any decent conclusion on the matter, wondered if you had any advice. The story is this: I'm almost 18 and have been semi-courting a girl called (for the sake of using a name) Daisy for 5 months. ...
A. 16 August 2011: hi i can see daisys point you are both far to young to even be thinking of marriage it is a lot of responsibility and hard work enjoy yourself while you are only young think of all that stuff later on when your older and more mature and have met ... (read in full...)
How could I find out if my best friend is bi?
Q. I am 18, bisexual, and... meh... I kind of half-fancy my best friend. He is tall, blonde, has a gorgeous smile and has a soft, cuddly build. He has had a girlfriend but I always wonder if he could be bi. How on earth would I bring it up or find out? ...
A. 15 August 2011: i would just bring it up jokingly say maybe so i was talking to someone the other day and they asked me if ive ever fancied a man before and see what he says to that... (read in full...)
What signals is this girl sending me?
Q. I am now seperated from my wife of 15 years and trying to learn how to date and read the signals again. I am in my mid forties. There is a girl i know at the gym (mid thirties) who I get on very well with. We have had kisses and cuddles in the p...
A. 15 August 2011: she probably thinks you are going to cheat on her you.ve tried it on with her friend and while you were still married you were texting her and cuddling her on nights out she probably can,t trust you it sounds like she likes you but she.s scared your ... (read in full...)
I feel like I've messed up my chances with her... how long do I wait until she can like me again?
Q. Ok, this story/question is long and convoluted... Here goes. I have two friends, one is my best friend ever, she is the most amazing person I know. The other is a friend who lives a while away from me, and we get on really well. Now the part where I ...
A. 15 August 2011: you obviously really hurt this girl by taking the other one it maybe a good idea to stop talking to the one you took to the prom so the other one can see how serious you are about her and that way you can show her you want to be with her as for ... (read in full...)
Why do creeps ask girls if they are virgins?
Q. Why do creepy guys and perverts ask teenage girls "Are you a virgin"?...
A. 15 August 2011: they ask because they want to have sex with a virgin as it is probably tighter or whatever reasons men think... (read in full...)
Open eyed when kissing???
Q. This is a silly question but I keep opening my eyes when i start to kiss fellas is this right/normal or what?...
A. 14 August 2011: i can relate to this problem im exactly the same its completely normal do what feels right for you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has erectile dysfunction
Q. I've been dating a guy now for almost two years who is 10 yrs. my senior. I will be 50 next month, and he will be 60 in October. I was separated from my ex-husband for almost 7 yrs. before I divorced him. I had been celibate during the whole time ...
A. 14 August 2011: i would urge him to go to the doctors they maybe something they can do to help him... (read in full...)
Ex b/f is upset because I broke up with him after finding out he was cheating
Q. I was with my bf for a year and a half he betrayed my trust decieved me emotionally abusive when he got injured I moved in with him and found reciepts he was at the motel repeatly with some woman he told me his cousin was livin with him come to find ...
A. 14 August 2011: he may possibly try to win you back but what i would do is ignore his calls texts or any other way he tries to contact you cut contact all together ... (read in full...)
Kicked BF out of my apartment for online cheating - did I over-react?
Q. I kicked my boyfriend of 9 months out of my apartment after I found evidence he had been flirting with a girl online and even gone as far as to give her his phone number. He also invited her to come visit our town and he'd be a "tour guide". When ...
A. 13 August 2011: i would forget all about him if you had stayed with him he would of no doubt cheated on you you had a lucky escape ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my girlfriend in regards to her behavior after an accident?
Q. My apologizes for the long story. I am 26. My gf is 25. We are both Asian. My gf’s younger sister and brother were also there and a friend of her. We sat together at a table. The tables were arranged in rows with chairs facing back-to-back wit...
A. 13 August 2011: your girlfriend totally over reacted that poor woman apologised and she got more annoyed i would tell your girlfriend how embarassed and ashamed she should be... (read in full...)
Ex b/f is upset because I broke up with him after finding out he was cheating
Q. I was with my bf for a year and a half he betrayed my trust decieved me emotionally abusive when he got injured I moved in with him and found reciepts he was at the motel repeatly with some woman he told me his cousin was livin with him come to find ...
A. 13 August 2011: he will probably not tell you the truth because he knows if he did you wouldnt speak to him again i would forget all about him hes not worth the hassle the trust will of gone now if you got back with him you would be worrying about him cheating on ... (read in full...)
He hasn't texted me back yet. Am I overreacting?
Q. A week ago I met a guy when i went to the pub with my mate. Since I met him we have practically spent every night together (watching films in bed, not like that) and I really really like him, he is such a sweet guy from what I know. Anyways, last ...
A. 13 August 2011: hi it sounds to me like he is dissapointed as he really wanted you say yes you would go. i would maybe text him say maybe when hes been out for his birthday with his friends then you and him should do something together like go for a meal or summat ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher like me in a friendly way, or is it something else?
Q. Hi. I've been having weird feelings about my English teacher for about two years. We're great friends and also a friend of my father. He's a very sweet person and very humorous. Basically, everyone adores him. He's a favorite of practically e...
A. 13 August 2011: it doesnt matter what way he likes you he,s your teacher nothing can ever happen you may be reading to much into this he may smile at you and give you more attention because he is a friend of the family... (read in full...)
What's this fleshy thing on my vagina?
Q. This is not REALLY a sex question but I guess it's a sexual health question... and I really wanted to see if anyone has the same problem as me... I am a 21 year old female who's been sexually active since I was 17. I have no significant medi...
A. 13 August 2011: go see a doctor there the only ones who can diagnose what it is... (read in full...)
Does this girl like me romantically or just being friendly?
Q. My question is does this girl like me in a slightly romantic way? BACKGROUND: So I work for a library, and this lady who frequents the library is always looking at me smiling and finding something to chit chat about. I'm oblivious to flirtation so ...
A. 13 August 2011: of course she likes you she asked for your number and asked what your plans were ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl and I thought the feeling was mutual...but she's cold and distant now
Q. Hey guys, I've posted about this before, and it's been a long and really confusing past few months. There's this girl, who I met at a party, then we ended up becoming friends. She's kind of different to other girls, and she's kind of unpred...
A. 13 August 2011: you said it yourself she.s unpredictabable maybe she does like you but is worried about the distance between you,s i would text her find out what is up with her or maybe sorry to say this she met someone else overseas... (read in full...)
I'd really like him to try oral
Q. I don't know if I am wrong to ask this but I am dieing to have my boyfriend eat me out but he is not to sure about doing it but I really want him to try it. I want him to be comfortable and just try a new thing with me how can I help ease him into ...
A. 13 August 2011: i would tell him how its making you feel also if he doesnt like looking at genitals then tell him to close his eyes while he does it if he,s worried about he smell or taste then have a shower together before he does it or tell him you would like to ... (read in full...)
I tried being less available hoping he'd propose ...
Q. Hey everyone, seen a few similar posts, so thought I'd ask for help too! I have been trying this new 'technique' where I've stopped being so readily available and have started taking a renewed interest in my own life - work, hobbies, friends and the ...
A. 13 August 2011: i don,t believe in game playing as you,ve found out it only backfires on you he is probably feeling like you are losing interest in him i would talk to him tell him how you are feeling or if you want him to propose to you but its not happening why ... (read in full...)
He wanted to spend so much time with his friends. We were missing out on more intimate moments. Was I out of line in this ?
Q. Hi all, Ok so my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me suddenly on Wednesday night over the phone and I have not heard from him since. The situation is as follows: Things were always really good when we spent time alone, although we also spe...
A. 13 August 2011: i would move on personally you don't want to be with someone who puts you second best i was with someone for 3 year who did that and it's not nice it doesn't get any better. if anything it gets worse. you deserve so much better. in time you will... (read in full...)
What can I do? Sometimes I think he likes me, sometimes I think he doesnt.
Q. Hi all, I have this crush on a guy and starting from last year, we started being in the same class. We dont talk a lot, but sometimes he would initiate a convo with me on msn, sometimes about school work and other stuffs. I am really shy and i do...
A. 13 August 2011: he definately likes you, no doubt about it. They always compliment you and if you catch them looking turn away i would try talking to him more and smile at him when you see him looking at you make general conversation like how was his weekend hows... (read in full...)
Do guys mean it if they say they love you back?
Q. If you tell a guy you love him amd he says back' I love you too' does he mean it? or do some guys just say it for the sake of it? I told my BF this, and he said he loves me to, but I;m not sure how to take it. Do I take it he means it? or else he ...
A. 13 August 2011: i would suggest you start doing the same. Make yourself unavaliable, because if you don't he will walk all over you cos he will just expect to see you when he feels like it if he calls or texts you to say he wants to see you that weekend tell him ... (read in full...)
Mum, I'm dating a 21 year old
Q. i started dating this guy he is 21 and i am 18 my mum has met him but doesnt know that i am dating him. he took me back to his house and we had anal sex on our first date, we kissed and snogged and i given himm a blowjob. i have 2 questions: ...
A. 12 August 2011: you are 18 you are a adult now its only 3 year of course its ok... (read in full...)
What body type do ladies find attractive?
Q. Everyone will have a different answer, I know, but... what type of body do you girls like in an 18 year old lad? As in skinny, slim and toned, bulky or lots of softness? I'm doing a bit of weight training to get biger and just wondered what people ...
A. 12 August 2011: hi i prefer a man with nice abs and a nice toned body but everyone is diffrent... (read in full...)
Should I wait or let b/f know I'm ready for sex
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been exploring each others bodies and unrolling condoms.We are now ready to start having full intercourse for the 1st time.I really want to please him so I was wondering if I should go vocal regardless-or wait and see how ...
A. 12 August 2011: things happen when there ready don,t rush into sex to soon when it happens i will happen naturally... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had sex with a girl when we broke up for only 2 days!
Q. I just found out that my boyfriend went and had sex with a girl once when we broke up for only 2 days. Technically he didn't cheat but it feels like it. He never told me, I had to find out from another person months later. He told me he regretted it ...
A. 12 August 2011: i understand how hurt you must be feeling but if you stay with him this is how you are going to be feeling throughout the relationship he has made you lose all the trust you once had for him and without trust a relationship cannot go anywhere you ... (read in full...)
I want my wife to get her mojo back
Q. I have been married for 21yrs and sex is a touchy subject now. My wife has lost her mojo and I want her to get it back. How can i go about this. I am so depressed and thinking of looking outside the box, but know this will lead to trouble but Im so ...
A. 12 August 2011: i would have a talk with her explain to her how you feel and tell her everything you have just wrote on here it may give her the push she needs to realise how she has been with you sh emay not have realised how you are feeling ... (read in full...)
He was coming on really strong sexually, why would he do that? Is he really sorry?
Q. Why would he do that? is he really sorry? should I give him a chance? I really like this guy at my work place. He always stares at me when am not looking and looks away when I catch him staring. Anyways I gave him my number and we were text...
A. 12 August 2011: i would give him another chance it seems he,s realised his mistake and has apologised for it ... (read in full...)
Should I have kicked out my boyfriend for yelling at my son?
Q. Should I have kicked my boyfriend out for shouting at my son? I'm torn by what's recently happened and don't know whether to defend my son and throw my boyfriend out or dissipline my son? He's 6 years old and a bit boystrous at times. Yesterday...
A. 12 August 2011: this is a difficult situation i know what you mean when you say you don,t know how to disipline your son with being a single parent im in the same situation as you are i can understand totally why you got annoyed with your boyfriend any mum would do ... (read in full...)
My inexperienced boyfriend has a small penis. How do I improve our sex life? HELP
Q. Hello, aunts and uncles. Any advice or suggestions is well appreciated. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months. We have been becoming increasingly more intimate over the past few weeks. He is 21 and was, until tonight, a virgi...
A. 12 August 2011: this was probably down to nerves but it it probably a good thing that he was a virgin when you met him as you can get him to do anything you want with him only being small i would try either him on top of you for the time being when you have had sex ... (read in full...)
Feeling lost now I am single.....
Q. If anyone has anything that night help me please read :) Im finding it really hard being single/on my own. For the past 7 years I have been in 3 long relationships with only small amounts of time in between. I have just recently broken up with ...
A. 12 August 2011: i would stay single for a few months get your head together without jumping into relationship after relationship when you are happy with yourself then you can be happy with a man or if you still like the man you have just broke up with try talking ... (read in full...)
We cant go anywhere because he used to go to these places with his ex!
Q. My bf and I live in a small town, so there is only one cinema, one shopping cnetre etc. Now his ex also lives in the same small town (whereas I am from another city). Because him and his ex used to go to the cinema, shopping centre, coffee s...
A. 12 August 2011: i would talk to him you can,t carry on like this ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to come home earlier and actually notice that I exist?
Q. My husband works late every night (like 10pm ish-he is supposed to finish at 7pm). We have a 1 year old and I have been on maternity leave then made redundant so I am now a full time mum. My problem is the fact that I get no help from my husband ...
A. 12 August 2011: do you know what he is going till 10pm if he is supposed to finish at 7 i would ask him about that if you do not know why don,t you get a babysitter for the night do a nice meal call him at 7 when he finishes work and tell him to come home you,ve ... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend to be with him, but now he doesn't want a relationship!
Q. I kind of have feelings for this guy, we have been through a lot together, I broke up with my boyfriend to be with him and now even though he still likes me he doesn't want a relationship as it is 'too much effort' I lost my ex, who I still kind of ...
A. 12 August 2011: if he really wanted to be with you nothing would be to much effort personally i would forget about your ex and this other guy you deserve to be treated with respect by guys not how he is treating you in time you will meet someone that wants to be ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be in a relationship when I know he's having sex with other women as his job?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 1 year and we love each other. i tried to hook up with him then because friends told me he was trying to get into the porn business so i thought he would be big. he is, trust me. he did not get an offer from ...
A. 12 August 2011: i personally would break up with him could you honestly settle when he goes off to work having sex with other women while you are in a relationship with him believe me i couldnt do it thats my personal opinion only you can really answer this could ... (read in full...)
Do guys mean it if they say they love you back?
Q. If you tell a guy you love him amd he says back' I love you too' does he mean it? or do some guys just say it for the sake of it? I told my BF this, and he said he loves me to, but I;m not sure how to take it. Do I take it he means it? or else he ...
A. 12 August 2011: i would look at how he said it back to you if he was smiling when he said it then he probably meant it some men do just say it back so they don,t hurt you ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me to sort out my feelings?
Q. I broke up with my ex a year and half ago. He didnt take it well and so I gave him another chance and we end up seeing each other again for a short whileafter eight months into being apart. We were just hanging out, not official though. Totally ...
A. 12 August 2011: he has probably known that if you found out what he was like before you to got together he would of had no chance with you thats probably why he didnt tell you it sounds like you have had a lucky escape i would forget all about your ex and the past ... (read in full...)
Every time I have sex with my new boyfriend, I can't help but cry because I still think of my ex...
Q. I've been going out with a classmate of mine for about 2 months now, and we've been sexually active lately. Now, a couple months ago I had a terrible breakup with my ex for 2 years. I've known my ex longer than that because we were originally best ...
A. 11 August 2011: i wouldnt do anything sexual for a while i would rty get your head together first it sounds like you are not over your ex boyfriend yet it takes more than a couple of month to get over someone i would try explaining to your new boyfriend that you ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is not giving me straight answers about how many guys she's slept with or cheated on
Q. My girlfriend and i have only been offiecially together for two months but had a thing for about 4 - 5 months now. she asked me how many people i'd slept with, i told her honestly then asked her the same question, the first answer i got back was ...
A. 11 August 2011: she probably didnt want to tell you in case it put you off her why do you really need to know anyway as long as you trust her and know she wont cheat on you then just forget about it she is with you now the past is the past you to may have a future ... (read in full...)
Trust issues, lies and now my ex isn't speaking to me
Q. I'll try to keep this as short as I possibly can, because I need advice ASAP.. My boyfriend and I broke up about five days ago. Before that, we were on a three day break. And I'll save you the trouble.. It was all my fault, and I'm truly, truly so...
A. 11 August 2011: a relationship cannot work without trust you have made him lose that trust for you because of your lies and clinginess i know how much it hurts when you want someone back so now you have got to show him that you trust him and that he can trust you ... (read in full...)
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